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By *s Lolly OP   Woman  over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Do you find it cringy or does it grab your attention?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Cringe central

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By *ustBoWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Cringe normally.

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By *rmrs1234Couple  over a year ago

Waterford

im gonna change ours now and name you lolly

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By *ealitybitesMan  over a year ago

Belfast

It grabs me by the block button

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By *rmrs1234Couple  over a year ago

Waterford


"It grabs me by the block button"

please dont block me

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By *ustBoWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"im gonna change ours now and name you lolly "

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By *rmrs1234Couple  over a year ago

Waterford


"im gonna change ours now and name you lolly

"

just changed it again to include you. Im nice like that

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By *ustBoWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"im gonna change ours now and name you lolly

just changed it again to include you. Im nice like that "

I hate you

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By *rmrs1234Couple  over a year ago

Waterford


"im gonna change ours now and name you lolly

just changed it again to include you. Im nice like that

I hate you "

nahhhhh you dont. loves me really

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By *ealitybitesMan  over a year ago

Belfast


"It grabs me by the block button

please dont block me"

You didn't mention my arse so I don't know whether to be upset or relieved

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By *rmrs1234Couple  over a year ago

Waterford


"It grabs me by the block button

please dont block me

You didn't mention my arse so I don't know whether to be upset or relieved "

Ill do you next. I dont want people feeling left out

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By *ustBoWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"im gonna change ours now and name you lolly

just changed it again to include you. Im nice like that

I hate you

nahhhhh you dont. loves me really "

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By *rmrs1234Couple  over a year ago

Waterford

oohhhh i have to do casey as well. Dont want them missing out on cringe central

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By *og-ManMan  over a year ago

somewhere


"It grabs me by the block button

please dont block me

You didn't mention my arse so I don't know whether to be upset or relieved

Ill do you next. I dont want people feeling left out"

Sure ive a fine arse too...just saying

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By *rmrs1234Couple  over a year ago

Waterford


"It grabs me by the block button

please dont block me

You didn't mention my arse so I don't know whether to be upset or relieved

Ill do you next. I dont want people feeling left out

Sure ive a fine arse too...just saying "

fuck i have to start making a list

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By *ocktailsdreamsMan  over a year ago

Edinburgh


"It grabs me by the block button

please dont block me

You didn't mention my arse so I don't know whether to be upset or relieved

Ill do you next. I dont want people feeling left out

Sure ive a fine arse too...just saying

fuck i have to start making a list "

You're going in mine.

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By *ealitybitesMan  over a year ago

Belfast

Seen a few that use it as an option when they aren't able to message someone. They seem to forget though that if they are blocked the person named will never see it.

Same when it's someone not in the same catchment area so they are never going to appear in your local updates and you'll never see it.

Its cringy though when it's someone they've just met and are verifying by status.

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By *rmrs1234Couple  over a year ago

Waterford


"It grabs me by the block button

please dont block me

You didn't mention my arse so I don't know whether to be upset or relieved

Ill do you next. I dont want people feeling left out

Sure ive a fine arse too...just saying

fuck i have to start making a list

You're going in mine."

but but i didnt do anything occifer. I thought u was the stripper

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Find some people do it if their outside someone's age range to see if they can get attention from the person.

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By *og-ManMan  over a year ago

somewhere


"Seen a few that use it as an option when they aren't able to message someone. They seem to forget though that if they are blocked the person named will never see it.

Same when it's someone not in the same catchment area so they are never going to appear in your local updates and you'll never see it.

Its cringy though when it's someone they've just met and are verifying by status. "

I was wondering about that..I've seen a few that say a name asking for them to message them

Could never figure out why

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By *s Lolly OP   Woman  over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Seen one today and can actually say I went red with cringe reading it and it wasn't even about me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Very Cringe!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I cringe too but not in the least bit surprised

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By *ealitybitesMan  over a year ago

Belfast


"Seen a few that use it as an option when they aren't able to message someone. They seem to forget though that if they are blocked the person named will never see it.

Same when it's someone not in the same catchment area so they are never going to appear in your local updates and you'll never see it.

Its cringy though when it's someone they've just met and are verifying by status.

I was wondering about that..I've seen a few that say a name asking for them to message them

Could never figure out why "

I've had it done by someone I did chat to for a while and after I said I no longer wished to chat she put up a few status updates commenting on my pics and even making suggestions for new pics so I had to prevent her from seeing them any longer.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Just say...."you know who are"

Much better

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just say...."you know who are"

Much better "

This is so cringe. Makes me want to reply

" who cares "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Who's gonna be the first to make up a profile name and talk them up in theirs

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes - you know who you are

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By *s Lolly OP   Woman  over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Think I should ask for the cringest one and post it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Cringe. Or when they try to get you to message name because they can't bypass filters

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By *iscuits8Man  over a year ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

*Takes note of names from this thread for an upcoming status update*

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Cringe. Or when they try to get you to message name because they can't bypass filters"

Yup

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Do you find it cringy or does it grab your attention?"

Both

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"*Takes note of names from this thread for an upcoming status update*"

You can name me in yours anytime

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By *iscuits8Man  over a year ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

"Inbox is taking a battering from DevineDestiny pestering me for the ride"

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By *ainted SlutTV/TS  over a year ago

Longford Town Area


"Do you find it cringy or does it grab your attention?"

CRINGY in caps

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

"Inbox is taking a battering from DevineDestiny pestering me for the ride""

Go for it

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By *iscuits8Man  over a year ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham


"

"Inbox is taking a battering from DevineDestiny pestering me for the ride"

Go for it "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

"Inbox is taking a battering from DevineDestiny pestering me for the ride"

Go for it

"

Just updated mine for ya

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By *iscuits8Man  over a year ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

Hahahahaha

Excellent

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Good it see people have found fun from the thread. Might be an idea for another one. Create a status for the person above and display for 24 hrs -D

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By *edVelveteenCouple  over a year ago

Heaven in the Midlands

Cringey. Even the mutual self-promotion ones and particularly the 'you know who you are' ones.

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By *iablo soloWoman  over a year ago

southside

I totally cringe for them...also another one is when people try associated themselves with the people in the hot pics

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Good it see people have found fun from the thread. Might be an idea for another one. Create a status for the person above and display for 24 hrs -D "

Good idea but you would have a different person ever two minutes in the whole thread, it may work if you choose one from the whole thread.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Do you find it cringy or does it grab your attention?

Both "

I have to go with same as kazier on this, both.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Good it see people have found fun from the thread. Might be an idea for another one. Create a status for the person above and display for 24 hrs -D

Good idea but you would have a different person ever two minutes in the whole thread, it may work if you choose one from the whole thread."

Myself and biscuits swapped ours earlier

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By *owdyboy 890Man  over a year ago

Country West

Cringe altogether I don't think the people named want to see their names in status updates..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Good it see people have found fun from the thread. Might be an idea for another one. Create a status for the person above and display for 24 hrs -D

Good idea but you would have a different person ever two minutes in the whole thread, it may work if you choose one from the whole thread."

. Yes sorry meant choose just one person from thread

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Good it see people have found fun from the thread. Might be an idea for another one. Create a status for the person above and display for 24 hrs -D

Good idea but you would have a different person ever two minutes in the whole thread, it may work if you choose one from the whole thread.

Myself and biscuits swapped ours earlier "

yes DD ur always great to do these things.. Its only a bit of fun.. Would start a different thread don't want to be crashing this current one

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Good it see people have found fun from the thread. Might be an idea for another one. Create a status for the person above and display for 24 hrs -D

Good idea but you would have a different person ever two minutes in the whole thread, it may work if you choose one from the whole thread.

Myself and biscuits swapped ours earlier yes DD ur always great to do these things.. Its only a bit of fun.. Would start a different thread don't want to be crashing this current one "

Its been done before and I normally don't take part but was up for a laugh.

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By *ofusplusCouple  over a year ago

Limerick

Depends on the context really. Sometimes I'll do a search out of pure noseyness if I don't recognise the name, other times I might be envious if I fancy the pants off the poster and then more times I feel as though I've missed out on something big. At times i'm relieved we're not the subject of said status. So mixed emotions really - Mrs

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By *sexyoneWoman  over a year ago

Northside

Name and shame the fakes only way to stop them

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I totally cringe for them...also another one is when people try associated themselves with the people in the hot pics "

Now that is deserving of a cringe award haha

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Terrible....embarrassing....cheap......

Saying that if anyone wants to give me a shout put do it.....

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By *B 4099Man  over a year ago

North West, Outer Letterkenny area

Very cringe.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

One I hate mostly is when people publicly put “day off today or tomorrow what to do?” Ie come message me in other words

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"One I hate mostly is when people publicly put “day off today or tomorrow what to do?” Ie come message me in other words "

I often post I've a few days off and it's definitely not a look at me or message me request

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I tend to wonder how many people saying it’s cringe haven’t done it themselves at least once.

There’s a certain “I’m too cool to do that pathetic shit” off this thread

I agree with the_ofusplus. It depends on context and people tend to join the band wagon really often when there’s a tidal wave of opinion agreement

I know I’ve previously commented in this thread so I’m not giving out to people for commenting at all. I just find it interesting for people to completely blanket every single person who does this in a status update.

Can all the cool people stand over all their status updates and interactions in threads and say they haven’t cringely interacted with someone for a bit of attention? I tend to doubt so

Food for thought...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

"People to completely blanket every single person"

Happens quite a bit here. Way I see it we all use fab and our profiles our own way, might not be right but also isn't wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I totally cringe for them...also another one is when people try associated themselves with the people in the hot pics

Now that is deserving of a cringe award haha "

I honestly see nothing wrong with it whatsoever... I often give a shout out to someone I admire in a status. I normally ask for their permission to do so first.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I totally cringe for them...also another one is when people try associated themselves with the people in the hot pics

Now that is deserving of a cringe award haha

I honestly see nothing wrong with it whatsoever... I often give a shout out to someone I admire in a status. I normally ask for their permission to do so first."

See you’re perfectly entitled to and maybe my comment needs rethinking so fair play

That’s kinda why I added my extended answer. And of course as it’s a forum everyone is perfectly entitled to their opinion

I guess I’m only trying to raise a self awareness and general awareness on how easy it is for group think to take hold

So good for you for picking me up on my previous comment

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Cringe. Or when they try to get you to message name because they can't bypass filters"

You see I’ve used my status for this before. Why? Because a nice looking couple was constantly viewing my profile but their profile was with on private or they had me filtered out. I don’t see how that’s cringe at all. Like I say, it’s easy to make general statements when the context isn’t known

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By *ublinGirl92Woman  over a year ago

Hell

I only get named in statuses that are slagging me off so I definitely think it's cringy

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don't like it myself. Mostly it's a bit attention seeking if you have something nice to say to someone send em a message direct.....however, I do get people doing it if someone is looking at your profile the whole time and can't message you cause of their filters BUT they know their filters and will message you if they want to or remove their filters so you can message them...if they're too shy to make the first move. The most I see is people (mostly women) warning of other profiles (mostly guys) that's understandble....ALTHOUGH that can be sliiiightly redundant when women who are just looking to meet men and guys would more than likely not see those warnings like that on women's profiles, so not all women would get to see this warning, YET the irony is that if they put a warning up like that in the forum they'd probably get punished for it, diriculous

Anyways not for me, ha

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By *ealitybitesMan  over a year ago

Belfast


"I tend to wonder how many people saying it’s cringe haven’t done it themselves at least once.

There’s a certain “I’m too cool to do that pathetic shit” off this thread

I agree with the_ofusplus. It depends on context and people tend to join the band wagon really often when there’s a tidal wave of opinion agreement

I know I’ve previously commented in this thread so I’m not giving out to people for commenting at all. I just find it interesting for people to completely blanket every single person who does this in a status update.

Can all the cool people stand over all their status updates and interactions in threads and say they haven’t cringely interacted with someone for a bit of attention? I tend to doubt so

Food for thought... "

As you say everyone is entitled to their opinion so when I say I've never named anyone for any reason in a status update that's because I never have and never will.

It has nothing to do with being "cool" or seeking attention because it should be pretty obvious by now that I don't let my dick talk for me on here.

I actually have an opinion and a voice and am not afraid to go against the grain on many threads.

Any status update that names another fabber warrants a roll of the eyes at least.

If it's in a "complimentary" way it's definitely cringeworthy because that is obviously smoke blowing and attention seeking.

If it names someone who is allegedly abusive it's completely pointless because as has already been said most of your target audience won't even see it and all you succeed in doing is playing the victim card.

I have seen updates where certain fabbers use this tactic at least a couple of times a week and have named and shamed "abusers".

Once or twice is bad enough but when it becomes a habit it's your own reputation that comes into question.

If you are getting constant verbal abuse from numerous people maybe it's time you started looking at your filters and who you are chatting to and stop making the same mistakes over and over.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Cringe central"

I searched for that profile, couldn't find it surprisingly!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I tend to wonder how many people saying it’s cringe haven’t done it themselves at least once.

There’s a certain “I’m too cool to do that pathetic shit” off this thread

I agree with the_ofusplus. It depends on context and people tend to join the band wagon really often when there’s a tidal wave of opinion agreement

I know I’ve previously commented in this thread so I’m not giving out to people for commenting at all. I just find it interesting for people to completely blanket every single person who does this in a status update.

Can all the cool people stand over all their status updates and interactions in threads and say they haven’t cringely interacted with someone for a bit of attention? I tend to doubt so

Food for thought...

As you say everyone is entitled to their opinion so when I say I've never named anyone for any reason in a status update that's because I never have and never will.

It has nothing to do with being "cool" or seeking attention because it should be pretty obvious by now that I don't let my dick talk for me on here.

I actually have an opinion and a voice and am not afraid to go against the grain on many threads.

Any status update that names another fabber warrants a roll of the eyes at least.

If it's in a "complimentary" way it's definitely cringeworthy because that is obviously smoke blowing and attention seeking.

If it names someone who is allegedly abusive it's completely pointless because as has already been said most of your target audience won't even see it and all you succeed in doing is playing the victim card.

I have seen updates where certain fabbers use this tactic at least a couple of times a week and have named and shamed "abusers".

Once or twice is bad enough but when it becomes a habit it's your own reputation that comes into question.

If you are getting constant verbal abuse from numerous people maybe it's time you started looking at your filters and who you are chatting to and stop making the same mistakes over and over."

I agree you don’t look for attention. I see most your comment ya on here and really quite enjoy your attitude in general

I guess all I’m saying is that we can never say for sure what a persons motives are - in this case having a status update like this.

Like I’ve said, I’ve done it before where I’ve sought the attention of a couple of profiles who were checking me out quite a bit and I couldn’t contact. In at least one of the scenarios, they didn’t realise/had forgotten I couldn’t so why not right? I knew they’d see my status as they keep looking at my profile. Is my action in that case cringe?

Anyway I do enjoy your posts as you don’t seem to just go with the general opinion for the sake of it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Total cringe. Especially the ones that say I can't send any more messages today please can so and so message me. Makes them sound crazy and desperate. But not as bad as the ones that go I wonder is the hot girl I stood next in the cheese aisle at tescos on here because she was so hot.

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By *og-ManMan  over a year ago

somewhere


"Total cringe. Especially the ones that say I can't send any more messages today please can so and so message me. Makes them sound crazy and desperate. But not as bad as the ones that go I wonder is the hot girl I stood next in the cheese aisle at tescos on here because she was so hot."

If you can't send anymore messages for the day I wonder what the actual limit is

It also means that they are copying and pasting that many messages

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Actually good question. What is the limit on sending messages?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Actually good question. What is the limit on sending messages? "

I think it's unlimited for members, so what they're really saying is "too stingy to pay membership"

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By *ealitybitesMan  over a year ago

Belfast


"Total cringe. Especially the ones that say I can't send any more messages today please can so and so message me. Makes them sound crazy and desperate. But not as bad as the ones that go I wonder is the hot girl I stood next in the cheese aisle at tescos on here because she was so hot.

If you can't send anymore messages for the day I wonder what the actual limit is

It also means that they are copying and pasting that many messages "

It's not just men who do that. I can only see women's updates and at least twice a week I see one saying they've no messages left and for a particular guy to get in touch or sometimes just anyone in general get in touch.

I always assume that's another attention seeking option as there's no point in anyone getting in touch if they can't reply for to having no messages left.

And lots asking if the taxi driver or Iceland delivery man or the guy they saw delivering oil to the neighbour are on here?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Actually good question. What is the limit on sending messages?

I think it's unlimited for members, so what they're really saying is "too stingy to pay membership" "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't like it myself. Mostly it's a bit attention seeking if you have something nice to say to someone send em a message direct.....however, I do get people doing it if someone is looking at your profile the whole time and can't message you cause of their filters BUT they know their filters and will message you if they want to or remove their filters so you can message them...if they're too shy to make the first move. The most I see is people (mostly women) warning of other profiles (mostly guys) that's understandble....ALTHOUGH that can be sliiiightly redundant when women who are just looking to meet men and guys would more than likely not see those warnings like that on women's profiles, so not all women would get to see this warning, YET the irony is that if they put a warning up like that in the forum they'd probably get punished for it, diriculous

Anyways not for me, ha"

I defo don't do it for attention

Complimenting someone in a status........ I believe there's other ways to do that...which I'll never do...

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By *ealitybitesMan  over a year ago

Belfast

Naming someone you've just met and thanking them for the amazing night is just another form of lamppost pissing.

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman  over a year ago

Magical Forrest

For those who have a limit on their messages I get it... I also get paying compliment... personally I dont do it... but its like everywhere else nowadays... your status you do what you want...

If you dont like it,don't look,or block ...

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By *ofusplusCouple  over a year ago

Limerick


"Naming someone you've just met and thanking them for the amazing night is just another form of lamppost pissing. "

It's like when people post a lovey-dovey message for their partner on Facebook, you know the relationship is in trouble!

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By *ofusplusCouple  over a year ago

Limerick


"Actually good question. What is the limit on sending messages?

I think it's unlimited for members, so what they're really saying is "too stingy to pay membership" "

Too stingy to pay for membership and/or herself would see it in the bank statement

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Naming someone you've just met and thanking them for the amazing night is just another form of lamppost pissing.

It's like when people post a lovey-dovey message for their partner on Facebook, you know the relationship is in trouble!"

Bahahahaha I've seen it many times on FB & never looked at it that way...but it adds up...

Once again I'll say it...I see no harm whatsoever giving someone a compliment in a status. I normally ask their permission 1st to do so and it's defo not attention seeking on my behalf. I'm more or less saying...in not the exact words...``Hey check such & such out, they're Super Sexy Hot``

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Naming someone you've just met and thanking them for the amazing night is just another form of lamppost pissing.

It's like when people post a lovey-dovey message for their partner on Facebook, you know the relationship is in trouble!"

This...

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By *Belfast_FellaMan  over a year ago

belfast

Really depends. I've seen people name and shame fakes and, so long as the named people really are fakes and not just someone they've argued with, I'm fine with that.

I've also seen people do it in an effort to contact someone whose filters mean that they can't message them. I've never done this myself but I can understand why someone takes a punt at it. Having said that, if you're excluded from their message filters, the odds are you probably don't show up on their newsfeed either.

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By *ealitybitesMan  over a year ago

Belfast

I've been named in someone's status when I said I no longer wanted to chat as we had nothing in common.

She respected that but for a few weeks after put up comments about my pics or suggestions for new ones so I had to block her.

Months later when looking at my block list I noticed that she was doing exactly the same to another male fabber.

It was creepy and cringeworthy.

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By *og-ManMan  over a year ago

somewhere

Going to be honest i did name someone once in my staus when I was only on a couple of weeks

It was an admiration piece rather than a meet me piece and I got blocked....total cringe now when I look back on it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

In all honesty it's not for attention. I have over 1,600 unread msgs at min. I'll screen shot if wanted. So I don't require any more attention on here... If I did... there's other ways to get that attention other than complimenting another Fabber. I don't get it how so many think and believe it's attention seeking...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Cringe city!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Cringe city! "

Laughing My Ass Off Now...

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By *ealitybitesMan  over a year ago

Belfast


"In all honesty it's not for attention. I have over 1,600 unread msgs at min. I'll screen shot if wanted. So I don't require any more attention on here... If I did... there's other ways to get that attention other than complimenting another Fabber. I don't get it how so many think and believe it's attention seeking... "

Because every status update is attention seeking. That's the whole point of them .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"In all honesty it's not for attention. I have over 1,600 unread msgs at min. I'll screen shot if wanted. So I don't require any more attention on here... If I did... there's other ways to get that attention other than complimenting another Fabber. I don't get it how so many think and believe it's attention seeking...

Because every status update is attention seeking. That's the whole point of them ."

And don't you think every forum post or comment could be viewed in the same light... attention seeking. Anyway for me personally it's defo not attention seeking... Possibly lockdown boredom but that's about it

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By *kcoupleCouple  over a year ago

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By *kcoupleCouple  over a year ago

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"In all honesty it's not for attention. I have over 1,600 unread msgs at min. I'll screen shot if wanted. So I don't require any more attention on here... If I did... there's other ways to get that attention other than complimenting another Fabber. I don't get it how so many think and believe it's attention seeking...

Because every status update is attention seeking. That's the whole point of them ."

But if you post negative comments about the behaviour of others that you deem cringe worthy isn't that the same thing, attention seeking while looking for others to agree ? This is a swinging site and not one to bemoan the harmless behaviour of others .

Just us but I don't seem the harm in it and seeing as I named checked Paul McGrath here a few days ago in a status and I'd say he would be over the moon if he knew dispite the restraining order . To be honest though I can't see why people get in the slightest bit annoyed by it. All it does is stop people posting and it might be the only bit of attention some get, why be so judgemental

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By *ealitybitesMan  over a year ago

Belfast


"In all honesty it's not for attention. I have over 1,600 unread msgs at min. I'll screen shot if wanted. So I don't require any more attention on here... If I did... there's other ways to get that attention other than complimenting another Fabber. I don't get it how so many think and believe it's attention seeking...

Because every status update is attention seeking. That's the whole point of them .

And don't you think every forum post or comment could be viewed in the same light... attention seeking. Anyway for me personally it's defo not attention seeking... Possibly lockdown boredom but that's about it"

Of course it is. If we didn't want attention or people to look we wouldn't post pics or comment in the forums at all.

Public recommendations are cringy though because you are announcing who you've met. Public adulation is cringy for those you are putting on the pedestal and is usually seen by others as staking a claim.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I've been named in someone's status when I said I no longer wanted to chat as we had nothing in common.

She respected that but for a few weeks after put up comments about my pics or suggestions for new ones so I had to block her.

Months later when looking at my block list I noticed that she was doing exactly the same to another male fabber.

It was creepy and cringeworthy. "

I don’t think it’s along the definition of cringe but it’s fucked up, immature, cuntish and incredibly bitter and totally unfair

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"In all honesty it's not for attention. I have over 1,600 unread msgs at min. I'll screen shot if wanted. So I don't require any more attention on here... If I did... there's other ways to get that attention other than complimenting another Fabber. I don't get it how so many think and believe it's attention seeking...

Because every status update is attention seeking. That's the whole point of them .

And don't you think every forum post or comment could be viewed in the same light... attention seeking. Anyway for me personally it's defo not attention seeking... Possibly lockdown boredom but that's about it"

I agree here that let’s be honest if none of us wanted any attention here we’d simply delete the profile and pack up shop

After that, it’s all just degrees of attention seeking

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By *ealitybitesMan  over a year ago

Belfast


"In all honesty it's not for attention. I have over 1,600 unread msgs at min. I'll screen shot if wanted. So I don't require any more attention on here... If I did... there's other ways to get that attention other than complimenting another Fabber. I don't get it how so many think and believe it's attention seeking...

Because every status update is attention seeking. That's the whole point of them .

But if you post negative comments about the behaviour of others that you deem cringe worthy isn't that the same thing, attention seeking while looking for others to agree ? This is a swinging site and not one to bemoan the harmless behaviour of others .

Just us but I don't seem the harm in it and seeing as I named checked Paul McGrath here a few days ago in a status and I'd say he would be over the moon if he knew dispite the restraining order . To be honest though I can't see why people get in the slightest bit annoyed by it. All it does is stop people posting and it might be the only bit of attention some get, why be so judgemental"

I'm long passed expecting anyone to agree with anything I say on here.

I'm quite happy to have an opinion and to voice it. If others see that as me seeking attention that's their opinion. Just don't expect me to agree with it.

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By *kcoupleCouple  over a year ago

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"In all honesty it's not for attention. I have over 1,600 unread msgs at min. I'll screen shot if wanted. So I don't require any more attention on here... If I did... there's other ways to get that attention other than complimenting another Fabber. I don't get it how so many think and believe it's attention seeking...

Because every status update is attention seeking. That's the whole point of them .

But if you post negative comments about the behaviour of others that you deem cringe worthy isn't that the same thing, attention seeking while looking for others to agree ? This is a swinging site and not one to bemoan the harmless behaviour of others .

Just us but I don't seem the harm in it and seeing as I named checked Paul McGrath here a few days ago in a status and I'd say he would be over the moon if he knew dispite the restraining order . To be honest though I can't see why people get in the slightest bit annoyed by it. All it does is stop people posting and it might be the only bit of attention some get, why be so judgemental

I'm long passed expecting anyone to agree with anything I say on here.

I'm quite happy to have an opinion and to voice it. If others see that as me seeking attention that's their opinion. Just don't expect me to agree with it. "

See that's my point. Some are here just to disagree with others and very little else

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By *ealitybitesMan  over a year ago

Belfast


"In all honesty it's not for attention. I have over 1,600 unread msgs at min. I'll screen shot if wanted. So I don't require any more attention on here... If I did... there's other ways to get that attention other than complimenting another Fabber. I don't get it how so many think and believe it's attention seeking...

Because every status update is attention seeking. That's the whole point of them .

But if you post negative comments about the behaviour of others that you deem cringe worthy isn't that the same thing, attention seeking while looking for others to agree ? This is a swinging site and not one to bemoan the harmless behaviour of others .

Just us but I don't seem the harm in it and seeing as I named checked Paul McGrath here a few days ago in a status and I'd say he would be over the moon if he knew dispite the restraining order . To be honest though I can't see why people get in the slightest bit annoyed by it. All it does is stop people posting and it might be the only bit of attention some get, why be so judgemental

I'm long passed expecting anyone to agree with anything I say on here.

I'm quite happy to have an opinion and to voice it. If others see that as me seeking attention that's their opinion. Just don't expect me to agree with it.

See that's my point. Some are here just to disagree with others and very little else"

And that's not my style either. I don't disagree with you in that and there are lots who fall into that category.

I don't jump on every thread just for the sake of it but if I do give an opinion and someone questions me on that or tells me I'm wrong then I'm quite happy to debate it.

Wouldn't be much fun if everyone had the same opinion would it?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I totally cringe for them...also another one is when people try associated themselves with the people in the hot pics

Now that is deserving of a cringe award haha

I honestly see nothing wrong with it whatsoever... I often give a shout out to someone I admire in a status. I normally ask for their permission to do so first."

Totally agree with you. Im the exact same as you that way. It's always nice to ask their permission 1st x good comment

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By *he English OneMan  over a year ago

west

It depends what the status is about I guess

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It depends what the status is about I guess"

1000% Agree ^^^^^^^

If my status updates were to seek attention I'd just admit it...I really would. They're always harmless and I honestly don't know what the big deal is about admiring someone in a status update. #Cringe City etc...

It's actually no different to just tagging someone that you're already friends with...

Anyway enjoy the Cringes all... Ye know where the block button is

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It depends what the status is about I guess

1000% Agree ^^^^^^^

If my status updates were to seek attention I'd just admit it...I really would. They're always harmless and I honestly don't know what the big deal is about admiring someone in a status update. #Cringe City etc...

It's actually no different to just tagging someone that you're already friends with...

Anyway enjoy the Cringes all... Ye know where the block button is "

Good for you this place is about getting laid (eventually) by whatever means possible

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By *he English OneMan  over a year ago

west


"It depends what the status is about I guess

1000% Agree ^^^^^^^

If my status updates were to seek attention I'd just admit it...I really would. They're always harmless and I honestly don't know what the big deal is about admiring someone in a status update. #Cringe City etc...

It's actually no different to just tagging someone that you're already friends with...

Anyway enjoy the Cringes all... Ye know where the block button is "

It's the same as if say you and me was to meet and afterwards I was letting the world know about it I don't think you will be too impressed

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By *he English OneMan  over a year ago

west


"It depends what the status is about I guess

1000% Agree ^^^^^^^

If my status updates were to seek attention I'd just admit it...I really would. They're always harmless and I honestly don't know what the big deal is about admiring someone in a status update. #Cringe City etc...

It's actually no different to just tagging someone that you're already friends with...

Anyway enjoy the Cringes all... Ye know where the block button is

Good for you this place is about getting laid (eventually) by whatever means possible "

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