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Getting pleasure from giving pleasure
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By *og-Man OP Man
over a year ago
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Some thoughts running through my head this week that I'd like help in understanding and opinions on
Some people seem to get pleasure from giving pleasure
On the oral sex thread a few women said they prefered giving oral to recieving oral as that's what gave them pleasure and I presume thats only the starter with the main course to follow
So I was always of the view that sex should be 50 / 50 except on steak and bj day obviously but what if your partner only wants to give you pleasure and gets her pleasure from that
Should you feel guily
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When it's so good 50/50 doesn't even enter your head, you're just lost in the moments of pleasure ensuring you both have a great time.  "
This, it shouldn't be thinking oh I'm not giving enough etc when having sex even though I have thought it at times. I've learnt since joining fab that it's okay to enjoy it and exploring what each other likes, this is why I think getting to know someone and regular fun makes the sex even better, I'm researching tantric massage and lingam massage to make mine and hopefully the guy I'm with an even better experience.
I also like the idea of pleasuring a guy completely which will obviously lead to my pleasure  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Any pre-conceived notions of how it 'should' be annoy me! Rule book - fuckin' chuck it. Every dynamic is different, you just have to communicate to find your flow, or not! Listen, feel, check in connect and enjoy. The more you get to know each other the easier it gets but repeat meets arent for everyone i know |
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By (user no longer on site)
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For me it all depends of the kind of meet i am having sometimes i just like to just give. Sometimes i like to give and take and sometimes just take, all depends on a few different things really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Giving and knowing I'm being watched while looking up to see how much theyre enjoying it makes me even more turned on, it's definitely a big thing for me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would be the same as in I prefer to give pleasure and I’m not a huge fan of having a guy go down on me, it gives me immense pleasure to bring a guy to orgasm and let him shoot his load whenever we both decide.
Hope that makes sense?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Giving and knowing I'm being watched while looking up to see how much theyre enjoying it makes me even more turned on, it's definitely a big thing for me "
Exactly |
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By (user no longer on site)
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As in life each person is different. I have enjoyed receiving pleasure but foremost in my mind has always been giving. I have a FWB who I absolutely love giving pleasure to and our dynamic works very well for us. For me there is nothing better than watching a lady enjoying herself |
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I think you can both come away from a meet feeling like you got the lions share of attention... it’s not just oral giving and receiving but your favourite positions and kisses and orgasms and fulfilling of fantasies. Bear in mind that sometimes FBs have similar desires and particular things they love that are the same.
So all your boxes are ticked as are your partners. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Giving pleasure is definitely a key way to get me more turned on, love using my fingers & watching the girl climax even better when I start all over again |
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