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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Are you thinking of having one  "
Yeah, that's the plan. We're both up for it but we reckon some friends might find it awkward being there. We've missed so many celebrations this last year so it'll be kinda like a final blow out. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I appreciate the replies from everyone. We're very amicable over everything and it's being a tough year for all so it would be good to let the hair down and finish with a bang  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ive seen congratulations on your divorce cards so presume parties are also a thing "
I reckon its more of an American thing, but I'm sure an odd few has held them here too.
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By *indenMan
over a year ago
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"Are you thinking of having one Yeah, that's the plan. We're both up for it but we reckon some friends might find it awkward being there. We've missed so many celebrations this last year so it'll be kinda like a final blow out. "
Ah, you mean a party together.... 
Then noooo, I definitely couldn’t do that.... 
I’d have to have solicitors, barristers and judges present I’d say.... 
But fair play to you both, and to anyone else who could manage to be able to do something like that....  |
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I went to one this time last year actually. It was great fun. Especially cos I set them up in the first place. Aam so impressed that they made such an effort to be amicable and with two kids, it’s made everything easier. He actually moved back in to a granny flat over lockdown so they could share childcare. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I went to one this time last year actually. It was great fun. Especially cos I set them up in the first place. Aam so impressed that they made such an effort to be amicable and with two kids, it’s made everything easier. He actually moved back in to a granny flat over lockdown so they could share childcare. "
It does make things so much easier for everybody. It hasn't being plain sailing all the time but got to do what's best for the kids. Also we're dealing with the divorce by ourselves without solicitors so save a bit of money that way.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I got divorced in the morning and by the afternoon we were in east Cork for three days,had a nice relaxing time and got a few new cheeky photos
S x"
as in you and your ex Wife? Fair play to you lad |
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By *DSGCouple
over a year ago
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"I got divorced in the morning and by the afternoon we were in east Cork for three days,had a nice relaxing time and got a few new cheeky photos
S x as in you and your ex Wife? Fair play to you lad "
Sorry should of been more clearer I went with my partner not the ex husband 
We were friends with benefits back then but now a couple met on fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Suppose the context of the party depends. Some divorce celebrations are about congratulations you are finally free from that witch let's celebrate and laugh at about it vs perhaps more of a your single again embrace it the world is your oyster type celebration. I like divorce parties. Ive been to one. |
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Guy here and fellow American.
I was at a breakup party, with a couple.
It was in Cali, friends were invited, then when people left, a couple of swingers and myself stayed on, to have fun and consumate the amicable breakup. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has anyone held a divorce party or would it be a good idea? When places open up of course and people can travel. "
At least one less person than the wedding party ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Guy here and fellow American.
I was at a breakup party, with a couple.
It was in Cali, friends were invited, then when people left, a couple of swingers and myself stayed on, to have fun and consumate the amicable breakup."
Sounds like the perfect party |
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