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Morning fabbers, what is your thinking on the art of kissing?
Does the standard of a kiss determine what direction a meet might go?
Would you
A. Run for thw Hills
B. Run for the Bedroom
For me a bad kiss is a right turn off???? so im on me bike!! |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"So if your meet is a sheit kisser how do you get out of the situation? Do you test kiss your meets? 
Who is the question directed to?"
To all those who say that say the kiss is a deal breaker (bad kiss = no sex) |
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over a year ago
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Its not really a question of test kissing but If you aren't feeling it you aren't feeling it and can stop at any stage. thats what consent is all about, its an ongoing thing. |
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If there is no chemistry - then nothing even kiss will happen.
And for me bad kiss is when the breathe is not fresh 
That's why I've decided to meet only non smokers.
One of my friends did not have a choice but from the time perspective she is happy as smoking-free person |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Its not really a question of test kissing but If you aren't feeling it you aren't feeling it and can stop at any stage. thats what consent is all about, its an ongoing thing."
I made that experience of 'not feeling' it once but not because of the kissing. It was super embarrassing, akward and horrible to disappoint and flee my opposite, not even to mention what he must have felt like. Anyhow never want to go back there and I've learnt my lesson.
Yes consent goes all the way but best is not to get into such situation in the first place. Hence my question. |
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I’ve met men who have failed the kiss test... gorgeous rides, lovely blokes who I really liked but then the kiss was shit... it’s not happening. Then I’ve met guys who I wasn’t sure about but kissed like heaven on earth... changed everything...
Kissing is EVERYTHING. My first meet off fab, the kiss in the lift after our coffee meet was so unreal that my knees went from under me. Absolutely essential. |
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"I’ve met men who have failed the kiss test... gorgeous rides, lovely blokes who I really liked but then the kiss was shit... it’s not happening. Then I’ve met guys who I wasn’t sure about but kissed like heaven on earth... changed everything...
Kissing is EVERYTHING. My first meet off fab, the kiss in the lift after our coffee meet was so unreal that my knees went from under me. Absolutely essential. "
I know what you mean. It happened to me a few weeks ago. She kissed me when we were finished jogging. Unreal!  |
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"Its not really a question of test kissing but If you aren't feeling it you aren't feeling it and can stop at any stage. thats what consent is all about, its an ongoing thing."
Completely 100%. But it’s not always the kissing that can give you the “oops no” feeling. It took me a while to work it out but someone’s smell can flip me on the spot. Everything else is fine but their body smell (I don’t mean BO!!) isnt “right”... I’ve yet to feel I had to leave because of that but I’ve worked it out after and not gone back there... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its not really a question of test kissing but If you aren't feeling it you aren't feeling it and can stop at any stage. thats what consent is all about, its an ongoing thing.
I made that experience of 'not feeling' it once but not because of the kissing. It was super embarrassing, akward and horrible to disappoint and flee my opposite, not even to mention what he must have felt like. Anyhow never want to go back there and I've learnt my lesson.
Yes consent goes all the way but best is not to get into such situation in the first place. Hence my question. "
only once! so how do you avoid getting into the situation in the first place. #newbieneedstipsobviously |
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"I’ve met men who have failed the kiss test... gorgeous rides, lovely blokes who I really liked but then the kiss was shit... it’s not happening. Then I’ve met guys who I wasn’t sure about but kissed like heaven on earth... changed everything...
Kissing is EVERYTHING. My first meet off fab, the kiss in the lift after our coffee meet was so unreal that my knees went from under me. Absolutely essential. "
Totally agree Just Red. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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"So if your meet is a sheit kisser how do you get out of the situation? Do you test kiss your meets?
Who is the question directed to?
To all those who say that say the kiss is a deal breaker (bad kiss = no sex) "
I meet for a social first and if we get in then we usually would have had a kiss at the end. It's then I'd know for sure if we will meet again. If it's a bad kiss I would just say that it was nice meeting them but it won't be going any farther. We are all grown adults in fairness. And usually if it doesn't work for one it hasn't worked for the other. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I always have a social meet first but in useless and would never make the first move for a kiss. So many a social meet I've left not knowing whether they good kisser or not. Thankfully anyone I have met a 2nd time the kissing was good so fun has always been had.
I love kissing it ignites my fire and thankfully have met one or two guys who literally have made me weak at the knees from just kissing.
I miss kissing  |
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Kissing is an important part of it all. A good kiss certainly makes me look forward to more.
It's possible that someone might be a bad kisser but good at sex, but I've usually found their skills at the two to be linked!
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Some people take sex way too seriously and everything becomes a box ticking exercise and can often feel forced.
There's an old saying that if you don't laugh during sex you're not doing it right and the same goes for kissing.
If it feels forced or hard work it usually is so it's all about relaxing into the moment and not overthinking it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I am an absolute nightmare for making a move in that regard on a meet
Undoubtedly cost myself a second one a fair few times, especially knowing some people use it as a barometer of sorts! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am an absolute nightmare for making a move in that regard on a meet
Undoubtedly cost myself a second one a fair few times, especially knowing some people use it as a barometer of sorts! "
Ive no shame in making a move if im feeling it lol! but id actually say it, id really love to kiss you now  |
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"Some people take sex way too seriously and everything becomes a box ticking exercise and can often feel forced.
There's an old saying that if you don't laugh during sex you're not doing it right and the same goes for kissing.
If it feels forced or hard work it usually is so it's all about relaxing into the moment and not overthinking it. "
I think this is so important , sex and kissing is for me sharing a mutual attraction, wanting to get to know the person and having a giggle or enjoying each others company during kissing and sex is so important as it makes the experience more fun. Getting to know the other persons weakness or what turns them on makes the whole experience more enjoyable |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So if your meet is a sheit kisser how do you get out of the situation? Do you test kiss your meets?
Who is the question directed to?
To all those who say that say the kiss is a deal breaker (bad kiss = no sex)
I meet for a social first and if we get in then we usually would have had a kiss at the end. It's then I'd know for sure if we will meet again. If it's a bad kiss I would just say that it was nice meeting them but it won't be going any farther. We are all grown adults in fairness. And usually if it doesn't work for one it hasn't worked for the other. "
This is what I do too and it usually works, although there was one disastrous meet after a good kiss so I know not to trust it 100% |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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I kissed a woman last June for the first time in 8 yrs
I can still remember everything about it from the smell of her perfume/Shampoo/body lotion to the softness of her lips and taste of her mouth
So yes I'd say kisses are important |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some people take sex way too seriously and everything becomes a box ticking exercise and can often feel forced.
There's an old saying that if you don't laugh during sex you're not doing it right and the same goes for kissing.
If it feels forced or hard work it usually is so it's all about relaxing into the moment and not overthinking it.
I think this is so important , sex and kissing is for me sharing a mutual attraction, wanting to get to know the person and having a giggle or enjoying each others company during kissing and sex is so important as it makes the experience more fun. Getting to know the other persons weakness or what turns them on makes the whole experience more enjoyable"
hear hear!! cant wait for more of this loveliness.. |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"So if your meet is a sheit kisser how do you get out of the situation? Do you test kiss your meets?
Who is the question directed to?
To all those who say that say the kiss is a deal breaker (bad kiss = no sex)
I meet for a social first and if we get in then we usually would have had a kiss at the end. It's then I'd know for sure if we will meet again. If it's a bad kiss I would just say that it was nice meeting them but it won't be going any farther. We are all grown adults in fairness. And usually if it doesn't work for one it hasn't worked for the other. "
So everything could be perfect but the kiss isn't and game over. A couple of seconds decide in the end. Wow  that's quite tough.
Here's my time saving tip, kiss first and then decide to have a chat over coffee. |
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By *ustBoWoman
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"So if your meet is a sheit kisser how do you get out of the situation? Do you test kiss your meets?
Who is the question directed to?
To all those who say that say the kiss is a deal breaker (bad kiss = no sex)
I meet for a social first and if we get in then we usually would have had a kiss at the end. It's then I'd know for sure if we will meet again. If it's a bad kiss I would just say that it was nice meeting them but it won't be going any farther. We are all grown adults in fairness. And usually if it doesn't work for one it hasn't worked for the other.
So everything could be perfect but the kiss isn't and game over. A couple of seconds decide in the end. Wow that's quite tough.
Here's my time saving tip, kiss first and then decide to have a chat over coffee. "
Well I ignored the fact it didn't work before and the sex was meh.  So decided now it's about the kiss and the chemistry. Doesn't mean I don't like the person just means I don't want to have meh sex with them.
Ah I'd not kiss before coffee we both would have travelled so might as well have a coffee at least |
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By (user no longer on site)
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As I have always said a kiss can tell a lot.
As one fabber said earlier I’m very slow on making the first move. Maybe don’t want the push back but if I’m feeling it and the other person make any kind of gesture I go for it.
It hard to read ladies sometimes lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So if your meet is a sheit kisser how do you get out of the situation? Do you test kiss your meets?
Who is the question directed to?
To all those who say that say the kiss is a deal breaker (bad kiss = no sex)
I meet for a social first and if we get in then we usually would have had a kiss at the end. It's then I'd know for sure if we will meet again. If it's a bad kiss I would just say that it was nice meeting them but it won't be going any farther. We are all grown adults in fairness. And usually if it doesn't work for one it hasn't worked for the other.
So everything could be perfect but the kiss isn't and game over. A couple of seconds decide in the end. Wow that's quite tough.
Here's my time saving tip, kiss first and then decide to have a chat over coffee. "
Only one guy I met that we kissed before coffee. Im useless reading signals so wouldn't know if a guy wanted to kiss me |
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Kiss is just a kiss as time goes by...
But it's not. The kiss is the first sign of whether the person is going to be a compatible lover.
Love soft and gentle kisses and a good use of his tongue.
I've had washing machines and aggressive kisses before, yuck.
A bite of my lip can be sexy too, but some lads take it too far nearly drawing blood.
Kisses are so personal and kiss at the end of a meet are definetly key to whether I'm meeting them again or not. Tina xx
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Kiss is just a kiss as time goes by...
But it's not. The kiss is the first sign of whether the person is going to be a compatible lover.
Love soft and gentle kisses and a good use of his tongue.
I've had washing machines and aggressive kisses before, yuck.
A bite of my lip can be sexy too, but some lads take it too far nearly drawing blood.
Kisses are so personal and kiss at the end of a meet are definetly key to whether I'm meeting them again or not. Tina xx
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Shiver me goddam timberinos
She's nailed it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Like everyone has said a good kiss can be the most amazing experience...
It should be passionate for a start... slow/fast/ lingering.... they’re all good... but definitely if your not feeling it in the first kiss... it’s probably a mistake... |
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"I usually try to squeeze in a fart towards the end of a first meet
Just to get them fired up and wanting a second meet
Sorry couldn’t resist 
That may be closer to the truth Geralt  "
I won’t say tell a soul |
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"Its not really a question of test kissing but If you aren't feeling it you aren't feeling it and can stop at any stage. thats what consent is all about, its an ongoing thing.
Completely 100%. But it’s not always the kissing that can give you the “oops no” feeling. It took me a while to work it out but someone’s smell can flip me on the spot. Everything else is fine but their body smell (I don’t mean BO!!) isnt “right”... I’ve yet to feel I had to leave because of that but I’ve worked it out after and not gone back there..."
Agree, coffee breath smells like shit. Big turn off. And garlic breath, can't have that either. |
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"Its not really a question of test kissing but If you aren't feeling it you aren't feeling it and can stop at any stage. thats what consent is all about, its an ongoing thing.
Completely 100%. But it’s not always the kissing that can give you the “oops no” feeling. It took me a while to work it out but someone’s smell can flip me on the spot. Everything else is fine but their body smell (I don’t mean BO!!) isnt “right”... I’ve yet to feel I had to leave because of that but I’ve worked it out after and not gone back there...
Agree, coffee breath smells like shit. Big turn off. And garlic breath, can't have that either."
Tayto crisps bleugh  |
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"Its not really a question of test kissing but If you aren't feeling it you aren't feeling it and can stop at any stage. thats what consent is all about, its an ongoing thing.
Completely 100%. But it’s not always the kissing that can give you the “oops no” feeling. It took me a while to work it out but someone’s smell can flip me on the spot. Everything else is fine but their body smell (I don’t mean BO!!) isnt “right”... I’ve yet to feel I had to leave because of that but I’ve worked it out after and not gone back there...
Agree, coffee breath smells like shit. Big turn off. And garlic breath, can't have that either.
Tayto crisps bleugh "
Aye the cheese and onion!! |
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"Its not really a question of test kissing but If you aren't feeling it you aren't feeling it and can stop at any stage. thats what consent is all about, its an ongoing thing.
Completely 100%. But it’s not always the kissing that can give you the “oops no” feeling. It took me a while to work it out but someone’s smell can flip me on the spot. Everything else is fine but their body smell (I don’t mean BO!!) isnt “right”... I’ve yet to feel I had to leave because of that but I’ve worked it out after and not gone back there...
Agree, coffee breath smells like shit. Big turn off. And garlic breath, can't have that either.
Tayto crisps bleugh "
That makes me go and get a packet too, then you don’t notice it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Kissing is an absolute must
Its the foundation of everything
YESSSSSSSSSSS it most certainly is Kaizer
Those lips are quite amazing Madam
Awh thanks Kaizer xx"
Yes Kaiser talks sense... Those lips are amazing |
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