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"At the rate everyone above is taking it there's gonna be fuck all chemistry left. I'll have the body "Which part? Asking because for me everything starts from the smiley face and beautiful eyes, then chemistry or not  | |||
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"There has to be some form of initial attraction which generally is purely physical. But after that chemistry is important and will determine what happens next. " This | |||
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"Has to be an attraction of some sort and than the chemistry adds to it. Sorry but have to laugh at all saying chemistry before body. Im calling bullshit on that. " Lol call it what you want but chemistry comes before body for me. If I meet someone then of courses I have liked them enough to meet them but if we don't have chemistry it will go no farther than a social meet. No matter how hot their body or looks are. So for me yes chemistry far out weighs body for me. Sex without chemistry is crap and not worth the bother. | |||
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"Has to be an attraction of some sort and than the chemistry adds to it. Sorry but have to laugh at all saying chemistry before body. Im calling bullshit on that. Lol call it what you want but chemistry comes before body for me. If I meet someone then of courses I have liked them enough to meet them but if we don't have chemistry it will go no farther than a social meet. No matter how hot their body or looks are. So for me yes chemistry far out weighs body for me. Sex without chemistry is crap and not worth the bother. "I'm the same but than again I think its more a female thing, I'm sure some guys do too but the majority of guys go fir looks not just here but in vanilla life too. | |||
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"Has to be an attraction of some sort and than the chemistry adds to it. Sorry but have to laugh at all saying chemistry before body. Im calling bullshit on that. " Yeah like come on | |||
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"Has to be an attraction of some sort and than the chemistry adds to it. Sorry but have to laugh at all saying chemistry before body. Im calling bullshit on that. Lol call it what you want but chemistry comes before body for me. If I meet someone then of courses I have liked them enough to meet them but if we don't have chemistry it will go no farther than a social meet. No matter how hot their body or looks are. So for me yes chemistry far out weighs body for me. Sex without chemistry is crap and not worth the bother. "Would you agree to meet someone if you didn’t like there pics? | |||
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"Has to be an attraction of some sort and than the chemistry adds to it. Sorry but have to laugh at all saying chemistry before body. Im calling bullshit on that. Lol call it what you want but chemistry comes before body for me. If I meet someone then of courses I have liked them enough to meet them but if we don't have chemistry it will go no farther than a social meet. No matter how hot their body or looks are. So for me yes chemistry far out weighs body for me. Sex without chemistry is crap and not worth the bother.
Would you agree to meet someone if you didn’t like there pics?"Well considering I have met people with no pics up then yes. And yes I've met people whose pics I didn't find particularly great but when we chatted we got on well so we met .What happened after all came down to how we got on when we met for a coffee. | |||
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"Has to be an attraction of some sort and than the chemistry adds to it. Sorry but have to laugh at all saying chemistry before body. Im calling bullshit on that. Lol call it what you want but chemistry comes before body for me. If I meet someone then of courses I have liked them enough to meet them but if we don't have chemistry it will go no farther than a social meet. No matter how hot their body or looks are. So for me yes chemistry far out weighs body for me. Sex without chemistry is crap and not worth the bother.
Would you agree to meet someone if you didn’t like there pics?
Well considering I have met people with no pics up then yes. And yes I've met people whose pics I didn't find particularly great but when we chatted we got on well so we met .What happened after all came down to how we got on when we met for a coffee. "Love the honesty. It’s refreshing | |||
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"Has to be an attraction of some sort and than the chemistry adds to it. Sorry but have to laugh at all saying chemistry before body. Im calling bullshit on that. " You are right to some degree I think. Looks draw you in chemistry needed after that. As someone once said to me... "you can't photoshop an ugly personality" | |||
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"Has to be an attraction of some sort and than the chemistry adds to it. Sorry but have to laugh at all saying chemistry before body. Im calling bullshit on that. You are right to some degree I think. Looks draw you in chemistry needed after that. As someone once said to me... "you can't photoshop an ugly personality" "100% | |||
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"Hot pics UK 16/21 slim body Irish 13/21 slim body Maybe I just am sceptical And I do agree as the chemistry ignites it definitely gets better and I have met guys and within 5 mins thinking wow" I don't look much at the English ones much but do the Irish top fabbed photos. One thing I have noticed is that more often than not that the number 1 ladies have the most voluminous figures that would be the envy of anyone. They have fabulous photos . i could easily name 3 or 4 ladies. | |||
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"Hot pics UK 16/21 slim body Irish 13/21 slim body Maybe I just am sceptical And I do agree as the chemistry ignites it definitely gets better and I have met guys and within 5 mins thinking wow I don't look much at the English ones much but do the Irish top fabbed photos. One thing I have noticed is that more often than not that the number 1 ladies have the most voluminous figures that would be the envy of anyone. They have fabulous photos . i could easily name 3 or 4 ladies." Theres a regular 3/4 that are always pg 1 of Irish pics and they are not plus size, very rarely see plus size ladies on it. You have a slim figure to me and a great figure. The point I was making majority of guys are attracted to a certain body type. | |||
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"Hot pics UK 16/21 slim body Irish 13/21 slim body Maybe I just am sceptical And I do agree as the chemistry ignites it definitely gets better and I have met guys and within 5 mins thinking wow I don't look much at the English ones much but do the Irish top fabbed photos. One thing I have noticed is that more often than not that the number 1 ladies have the most voluminous figures that would be the envy of anyone. They have fabulous photos . i could easily name 3 or 4 ladies. Theres a regular 3/4 that are always pg 1 of Irish pics and they are not plus size, very rarely see plus size ladies on it. You have a slim figure to me and a great figure. The point I was making majority of guys are attracted to a certain body type. " You also see a lot of TVs on the that page lol | |||
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"Hot pics UK 16/21 slim body Irish 13/21 slim body Maybe I just am sceptical And I do agree as the chemistry ignites it definitely gets better and I have met guys and within 5 mins thinking wow I don't look much at the English ones much but do the Irish top fabbed photos. One thing I have noticed is that more often than not that the number 1 ladies have the most voluminous figures that would be the envy of anyone. They have fabulous photos . i could easily name 3 or 4 ladies. Theres a regular 3/4 that are always pg 1 of Irish pics and they are not plus size, very rarely see plus size ladies on it. You have a slim figure to me and a great figure. The point I was making majority of guys are attracted to a certain body type. You also see a lot of TVs on the that page lol" With great figures too. Some of them have legs that go on forever | |||
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"Hot pics UK 16/21 slim body Irish 13/21 slim body Maybe I just am sceptical And I do agree as the chemistry ignites it definitely gets better and I have met guys and within 5 mins thinking wow I don't look much at the English ones much but do the Irish top fabbed photos. One thing I have noticed is that more often than not that the number 1 ladies have the most voluminous figures that would be the envy of anyone. They have fabulous photos . i could easily name 3 or 4 ladies. Theres a regular 3/4 that are always pg 1 of Irish pics and they are not plus size, very rarely see plus size ladies on it. You have a slim figure to me and a great figure. The point I was making majority of guys are attracted to a certain body type. " Everyone has a type that they are attracted to but at the end of the day its personality that keeps the interest alive and not body shape. | |||
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"Hot pics UK 16/21 slim body Irish 13/21 slim body Maybe I just am sceptical And I do agree as the chemistry ignites it definitely gets better and I have met guys and within 5 mins thinking wow I don't look much at the English ones much but do the Irish top fabbed photos. One thing I have noticed is that more often than not that the number 1 ladies have the most voluminous figures that would be the envy of anyone. They have fabulous photos . i could easily name 3 or 4 ladies. Theres a regular 3/4 that are always pg 1 of Irish pics and they are not plus size, very rarely see plus size ladies on it. You have a slim figure to me and a great figure. The point I was making majority of guys are attracted to a certain body type. Everyone has a type that they are attracted to but at the end of the day its personality that keeps the interest alive and not body shape. " Totally agree but I think on here it's more body than chemistry. But every now and than someone knocks u over with their spark | |||
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"Both. There's plenty to choose from so why should I go just for one of them? "Best answer. Now wheres tom Hardy body with the chemistry of.... | |||
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"Has to be an attraction of some sort and than the chemistry adds to it. Sorry but have to laugh at all saying chemistry before body. Im calling bullshit on that. " You can call bullshit all you want,but in my case it's most definitely chemistry first! I found out at a young age that looks mean fuck all if you've no personality to go with it! I was out one night in my early 20s and met the most amazing looking woman I've ever seen, absolutely stunning! Asked her out and she said yes,went on a date and all she wanted to know was what I worked at,what I drove and what I earned! She had zero interest in having a laugh so that date ended early! And I've never based potential girlfriends on looks since that! Chemistry is no. 1 and if you've looks too,it's a bonus! And that's not bullshit!! | |||
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"Has to be an attraction of some sort and than the chemistry adds to it. Sorry but have to laugh at all saying chemistry before body. Im calling bullshit on that. You can call bullshit all you want,but in my case it's most definitely chemistry first! I found out at a young age that looks mean fuck all if you've no personality to go with it! I was out one night in my early 20s and met the most amazing looking woman I've ever seen, absolutely stunning! Asked her out and she said yes,went on a date and all she wanted to know was what I worked at,what I drove and what I earned! She had zero interest in having a laugh so that date ended early! And I've never based potential girlfriends on looks since that! Chemistry is no. 1 and if you've looks too,it's a bonus! And that's not bullshit!! "Well your 1 in a ?????. And yes I get the whole stunning looking women only interested in money etc I've seen people i know like that but I've also been out plenty of nights where the attractive looking women get chatted up and its even been pointed out to me by guys on a night out. | |||
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"Has to be an attraction of some sort and than the chemistry adds to it. Sorry but have to laugh at all saying chemistry before body. Im calling bullshit on that. You can call bullshit all you want,but in my case it's most definitely chemistry first! I found out at a young age that looks mean fuck all if you've no personality to go with it! I was out one night in my early 20s and met the most amazing looking woman I've ever seen, absolutely stunning! Asked her out and she said yes,went on a date and all she wanted to know was what I worked at,what I drove and what I earned! She had zero interest in having a laugh so that date ended early! And I've never based potential girlfriends on looks since that! Chemistry is no. 1 and if you've looks too,it's a bonus! And that's not bullshit!!
Well your 1 in a ?????. And yes I get the whole stunning looking women only interested in money etc I've seen people i know like that but I've also been out plenty of nights where the attractive looking women get chatted up and its even been pointed out to me by guys on a night out. "Gosh that is offensive to all women saying they you get that they are only interested in money. You being a woman saying it too really surprises me . If a guy actually came out and said those exact words you would be one of the first with a reply of indignation. | |||
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"Has to be an attraction of some sort and than the chemistry adds to it. Sorry but have to laugh at all saying chemistry before body. Im calling bullshit on that. You can call bullshit all you want,but in my case it's most definitely chemistry first! I found out at a young age that looks mean fuck all if you've no personality to go with it! I was out one night in my early 20s and met the most amazing looking woman I've ever seen, absolutely stunning! Asked her out and she said yes,went on a date and all she wanted to know was what I worked at,what I drove and what I earned! She had zero interest in having a laugh so that date ended early! And I've never based potential girlfriends on looks since that! Chemistry is no. 1 and if you've looks too,it's a bonus! And that's not bullshit!!
Well your 1 in a ?????. And yes I get the whole stunning looking women only interested in money etc I've seen people i know like that but I've also been out plenty of nights where the attractive looking women get chatted up and its even been pointed out to me by guys on a night out.
Gosh that is offensive to all women saying they you get that they are only interested in money. You being a woman saying it too really surprises me . If a guy actually came out and said those exact words you would be one of the first with a reply of indignation. "Tbf I dont think she said all women... she said she knows some... Not sure why the would be offensive to all women | |||
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"Has to be an attraction of some sort and than the chemistry adds to it. Sorry but have to laugh at all saying chemistry before body. Im calling bullshit on that. You can call bullshit all you want,but in my case it's most definitely chemistry first! I found out at a young age that looks mean fuck all if you've no personality to go with it! I was out one night in my early 20s and met the most amazing looking woman I've ever seen, absolutely stunning! Asked her out and she said yes,went on a date and all she wanted to know was what I worked at,what I drove and what I earned! She had zero interest in having a laugh so that date ended early! And I've never based potential girlfriends on looks since that! Chemistry is no. 1 and if you've looks too,it's a bonus! And that's not bullshit!! "So you asked her out cause she was good looking. If you were in a nightclub now with a room full of ladies how would you pick which one you wanted to asked out? | |||
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"Has to be an attraction of some sort and than the chemistry adds to it. Sorry but have to laugh at all saying chemistry before body. Im calling bullshit on that. You can call bullshit all you want,but in my case it's most definitely chemistry first! I found out at a young age that looks mean fuck all if you've no personality to go with it! I was out one night in my early 20s and met the most amazing looking woman I've ever seen, absolutely stunning! Asked her out and she said yes,went on a date and all she wanted to know was what I worked at,what I drove and what I earned! She had zero interest in having a laugh so that date ended early! And I've never based potential girlfriends on looks since that! Chemistry is no. 1 and if you've looks too,it's a bonus! And that's not bullshit!!
So you asked her out cause she was good looking.
If you were in a nightclub now with a room full of ladies how would you pick which one you wanted to asked out?"Ya but the original question isn't which come first its which you would choose given a choice. Obviously both is the ideal ( everyone's idea of beautiful body being different anyway) | |||
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"Has to be an attraction of some sort and than the chemistry adds to it. Sorry but have to laugh at all saying chemistry before body. Im calling bullshit on that. You can call bullshit all you want,but in my case it's most definitely chemistry first! I found out at a young age that looks mean fuck all if you've no personality to go with it! I was out one night in my early 20s and met the most amazing looking woman I've ever seen, absolutely stunning! Asked her out and she said yes,went on a date and all she wanted to know was what I worked at,what I drove and what I earned! She had zero interest in having a laugh so that date ended early! And I've never based potential girlfriends on looks since that! Chemistry is no. 1 and if you've looks too,it's a bonus! And that's not bullshit!!
Well your 1 in a ?????. And yes I get the whole stunning looking women only interested in money etc I've seen people i know like that but I've also been out plenty of nights where the attractive looking women get chatted up and its even been pointed out to me by guys on a night out.
Gosh that is offensive to all women saying they you get that they are only interested in money. You being a woman saying it too really surprises me . If a guy actually came out and said those exact words you would be one of the first with a reply of indignation. "I didn't mean all women and if you knew me you would know that. Joys of 2 hrs sleep. And no i wouldn't be the first to reply with indignation but I have seen some women you are the ideal picture and been in their company when the conversation was what they worked at what car they drove etc just as I've seen some women on here abuse guys and I have always said that both men and women are guilty of this and going for attraction over chemistry. | |||
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"It's the implied link between "stunning looking women" and "only looking for money" that is offensive. As if that attitude is unique to women and/or women of a particular size or shape." Well thats how you took it up. Im sorry if you are offended. And its definitely not unique to women of a particular size or shape. It wasn't meant to be offensive I was just making a point. | |||
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"It's the implied link between "stunning looking women" and "only looking for money" that is offensive. As if that attitude is unique to women and/or women of a particular size or shape. Well thats how you took it up. Im sorry if you are offended. And its definitely not unique to women of a particular size or shape. It wasn't meant to be offensive I was just making a point." I just based my responses on the posts you made on this thread | |||
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"It's the implied link between "stunning looking women" and "only looking for money" that is offensive. As if that attitude is unique to women and/or women of a particular size or shape. Well thats how you took it up. Im sorry if you are offended. And its definitely not unique to women of a particular size or shape. It wasn't meant to be offensive I was just making a point. I just based my responses on the posts you made on this thread " Well as I said 2 hours sleep didn't help. | |||
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"Has to be an attraction of some sort and than the chemistry adds to it. Sorry but have to laugh at all saying chemistry before body. Im calling bullshit on that. You can call bullshit all you want,but in my case it's most definitely chemistry first! I found out at a young age that looks mean fuck all if you've no personality to go with it! I was out one night in my early 20s and met the most amazing looking woman I've ever seen, absolutely stunning! Asked her out and she said yes,went on a date and all she wanted to know was what I worked at,what I drove and what I earned! She had zero interest in having a laugh so that date ended early! And I've never based potential girlfriends on looks since that! Chemistry is no. 1 and if you've looks too,it's a bonus! And that's not bullshit!!
So you asked her out cause she was good looking.
If you were in a nightclub now with a room full of ladies how would you pick which one you wanted to asked out?"I did indeed ask her out because of her looks. As I said,I was in my early 20s. I learned after that looks are not everything. And to be honest if I was in a room full of ladies I'd ask out the one I had most craic with! | |||
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"Has to be an attraction of some sort and than the chemistry adds to it. Sorry but have to laugh at all saying chemistry before body. Im calling bullshit on that. You can call bullshit all you want,but in my case it's most definitely chemistry first! I found out at a young age that looks mean fuck all if you've no personality to go with it! I was out one night in my early 20s and met the most amazing looking woman I've ever seen, absolutely stunning! Asked her out and she said yes,went on a date and all she wanted to know was what I worked at,what I drove and what I earned! She had zero interest in having a laugh so that date ended early! And I've never based potential girlfriends on looks since that! Chemistry is no. 1 and if you've looks too,it's a bonus! And that's not bullshit!!
Well your 1 in a ?????. And yes I get the whole stunning looking women only interested in money etc I've seen people i know like that but I've also been out plenty of nights where the attractive looking women get chatted up and its even been pointed out to me by guys on a night out. "I'd like to add too that not every stunning looking woman is only interested in money,just like not all "average" girls have a great personality! Aaaaaand not all men are only into looks!! | |||
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"Has to be an attraction of some sort and than the chemistry adds to it. Sorry but have to laugh at all saying chemistry before body. Im calling bullshit on that. You can call bullshit all you want,but in my case it's most definitely chemistry first! I found out at a young age that looks mean fuck all if you've no personality to go with it! I was out one night in my early 20s and met the most amazing looking woman I've ever seen, absolutely stunning! Asked her out and she said yes,went on a date and all she wanted to know was what I worked at,what I drove and what I earned! She had zero interest in having a laugh so that date ended early! And I've never based potential girlfriends on looks since that! Chemistry is no. 1 and if you've looks too,it's a bonus! And that's not bullshit!!
Well your 1 in a ?????. And yes I get the whole stunning looking women only interested in money etc I've seen people i know like that but I've also been out plenty of nights where the attractive looking women get chatted up and its even been pointed out to me by guys on a night out.
I'd like to add too that not every stunning looking woman is only interested in money,just like not all "average" girls have a great personality! Aaaaaand not all men are only into looks!! "And I've already pointed out i didn't mean all women and the rest. ( this is why I've stopped commenting on threads before as people take the comment wrong and even when I've said I didn't mean it like that it still goes on) sure I'm below average with a shite personality | |||
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"Both to be honest but chemistry is probably more important really, this is why i have on my profile not looking for NSA. I like some emotion not a robot or snowman/snow woman lol. "With you 100% - totally agree | |||
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"Both to be honest but chemistry is probably more important really, this is why i have on my profile not looking for NSA. I like some emotion not a robot or snowman/snow woman lol. "Them pesky snowman/snowwoman. Agree with ur comment though there has to be both | |||
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"Has to be an attraction of some sort and than the chemistry adds to it. Sorry but have to laugh at all saying chemistry before body. Im calling bullshit on that. " Yes but you can’t repeatedly fuck someone with a hot body it they have the personality of a dead fish. Well maybe you can.. I couldn’t. Their initial looks will rule them in or out. But the click and chemistry matter everything after that. | |||
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" Yes but you can’t repeatedly fuck someone with a hot body it they have the personality of a dead fish. Well maybe you can.. I" Challenge accepted! | |||
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"Has to be an attraction of some sort and than the chemistry adds to it. Sorry but have to laugh at all saying chemistry before body. Im calling bullshit on that. Yes but you can’t repeatedly fuck someone with a hot body it they have the personality of a dead fish. Well maybe you can.. I couldn’t. Their initial looks will rule them in or out. But the click and chemistry matter everything after that. " 100% I agree. | |||
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"Has to be an attraction of some sort and than the chemistry adds to it. Sorry but have to laugh at all saying chemistry before body. Im calling bullshit on that. Yes but you can’t repeatedly fuck someone with a hot body it they have the personality of a dead fish. Well maybe you can.. I couldn’t. Their initial looks will rule them in or out. But the click and chemistry matter everything after that. " I agree that's why I picked chemistry without that it's pointless. | |||
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"Funny reading some of the comments... can see through the bs from some... at the end of the day we each go for someone for whatever reason... and noone is going to say what those real reasons are ... so as to not offend anyone... and anyone who actually says their real opinion gets called names... "Where was the name calling no one has called anyone names. If people think the shoe fits then surely that's their own issues. People have given several different opinions on here. Some have even been completely dismissive of what others thoughts especially because a lot said chemistry. Personally I stand by my chemistry comment. Ye you can initially meet because you Like the look but as I've said previously I've met people who don't have great pics and pics from years ago or no pics. It will only ever go farther if there is chemistry regardless of what anyone else thinks. | |||
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"Funny reading some of the comments... can see through the bs from some... at the end of the day we each go for someone for whatever reason... and noone is going to say what those real reasons are ... so as to not offend anyone... and anyone who actually says their real opinion gets called names...
Where was the name calling no one has called anyone names. If people think the shoe fits then surely that's their own issues. People have given several different opinions on here. Some have even been completely dismissive of what others thoughts especially because a lot said chemistry. Personally I stand by my chemistry comment. Ye you can initially meet because you Like the look but as I've said previously I've met people who don't have great pics and pics from years ago or no pics. It will only ever go farther if there is chemistry regardless of what anyone else thinks. "I hope I haven't come across as being dismissive because a lot said chemistry. I said it myself there has to be chemistry for me 100% but on a sex site a lot go for looks before chemistry. | |||
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"Has to be an attraction of some sort and than the chemistry adds to it. Sorry but have to laugh at all saying chemistry before body. Im calling bullshit on that. Yes but you can’t repeatedly fuck someone with a hot body it they have the personality of a dead fish. Well maybe you can.. I couldn’t. Their initial looks will rule them in or out. But the click and chemistry matter everything after that. " Most people don’t care about numerous repeats. I’d doubt most people meet here more than a few times so chemistry/personality much less important than looks and physical attraction. It’s the elephant in this discussion. Lots of people saying chemistry to sound better | |||
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"Has to be an attraction of some sort and than the chemistry adds to it. Sorry but have to laugh at all saying chemistry before body. Im calling bullshit on that. Yes but you can’t repeatedly fuck someone with a hot body it they have the personality of a dead fish. Well maybe you can.. I couldn’t. Their initial looks will rule them in or out. But the click and chemistry matter everything after that. Most people don’t care about numerous repeats. I’d doubt most people meet here more than a few times so chemistry/personality much less important than looks and physical attraction. It’s the elephant in this discussion. Lots of people saying chemistry to sound better " No lots of people actually having an opinion which is consistent with their profile. Women and couples have commented on this thread and all agreed that chemistry is more important. If you are looking for NSA then go with what suits you. If someone is looking to explore with a FWB they can't do that if they don't have a connection with the other person. | |||
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" I hope I haven't come across as being dismissive because a lot said chemistry. I said it myself there has to be chemistry for me 100% but on a sex site a lot go for looks before chemistry. " Everyone is entitled to their own opinion. I don't see why anyone has an issue with anyone elses opinion on it.You gave yours and that's what the forums are all about. Personally I haven't found it on here. Some find me attractive and have met me some haven't and that's fine. Some people I met and we didn't click and others well that's where the chemistry came in
If people do want to meet and they don't have that spark and carry on and have sex that's fine too. But for me I need that spark I have made that mistake before and nah I won't again.
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"For me its Je ne sais pas. It could be how they speak, maybe how their confidence carrys them or even just a look or smile but damn when that chemistry is strong nothing will top that feeling. Its something for me that can't be defined by someone's looks or body but the hidden unknowns that cause sparks. " This exactly is it. | |||
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Or a horrible personality as well. "Don't worry, I don't think you'll be left behind. Sure I'll give you one anyway, even if nobody else will | |||
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"All the chemistry in the world doesn't compensate for a face like a smashed pumpkin!
Or a horrible personality as well. "Well a personality of one's own is a good start. | |||
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"All the chemistry in the world doesn't compensate for a face like a smashed pumpkin!
Or a horrible personality as well.
Don't worry, I don't think you'll be left behind. Sure I'll give you one anyway, even if nobody else will "Ah thanks Mick sure a sympathy shag will do...... As long as there's chemistry | |||
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"Has to be an attraction of some sort and than the chemistry adds to it. Sorry but have to laugh at all saying chemistry before body. Im calling bullshit on that. You are right to some degree I think. Looks draw you in chemistry needed after that. As someone once said to me... "you can't photoshop an ugly personality" "Correct but you can hide it for a long time. | |||
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"Has to be an attraction of some sort and than the chemistry adds to it. Sorry but have to laugh at all saying chemistry before body. Im calling bullshit on that. Yes but you can’t repeatedly fuck someone with a hot body it they have the personality of a dead fish. Well maybe you can.. I couldn’t. Their initial looks will rule them in or out. But the click and chemistry matter everything after that. Most people don’t care about numerous repeats. I’d doubt most people meet here more than a few times so chemistry/personality much less important than looks and physical attraction. It’s the elephant in this discussion. Lots of people saying chemistry to sound better No lots of people actually having an opinion which is consistent with their profile. Women and couples have commented on this thread and all agreed that chemistry is more important. If you are looking for NSA then go with what suits you. If someone is looking to explore with a FWB they can't do that if they don't have a connection with the other person. " I wasn’t really talking about my preferences at all. Ideally I’m going to be physically attracted to them first and also get on with them after. Do we need to have as much of a match of personalities here as we do for a relationship? I don’t think most people would say we do. That’s my simple point. Of course there will be people who say it is needed as much as it it for an ongoing relationship, but in my opinion for the majority, less chemistry will be needed as it’s not going to be as much of an ongoing or committed thing where you’re even in that persons company as much. This isn’t to cause an offence to anyone. It’s just something I suspect to be true. Nowhere have I said that there ain’t expected to be any chemistry. Just that o think most people will accept less of it on a sex/swingers site than they would while looking for a deeper connection/relationship | |||
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"Why is it so hard for people to understand that not everyone thinks the same....." I know its baffling isnt it. Also just because 2 people have different views they dont have to be rude to each other. Imagine..its mad ted | |||
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"Why is it so hard for people to understand that not everyone thinks the same..... I know its baffling isnt it. Also just because 2 people have different views they dont have to be rude to each other. Imagine..its mad ted "Stop agreeing with me you ass | |||
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"Funny reading some of the comments... can see through the bs from some... at the end of the day we each go for someone for whatever reason... and noone is going to say what those real reasons are ... so as to not offend anyone... and anyone who actually says their real opinion gets called names... "Sorry but that’s rubbish. Absolutely. It’s the one subject that I’ve never seen anyone really row about. Why would anyone be offended?? | |||
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" Most people don’t care about numerous repeats. I’d doubt most people meet here more than a few times so chemistry/personality much less important than looks and physical attraction. " You are absolutely speaking for yourself there. Most people I know on here look specifically for repeat meets. All my long term FBs are from here, I’m talking 15-20 meets each SO FAR. I’ve a FB who is on here who I’ve been shagging on and off for 25 years. Many can confirm that before you accuse me of lying. If you don’t have repeat meets, maybe that’s something you need to look at. It’s not an issue for most. And that’s where personality and chemistry enriches physical attraction. Your lack of repeat meets might explain your blinkered attitude to that. | |||
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"Funny reading some of the comments... can see through the bs from some... at the end of the day we each go for someone for whatever reason... and noone is going to say what those real reasons are ... so as to not offend anyone... and anyone who actually says their real opinion gets called names...
Sorry but that’s rubbish. Absolutely. It’s the one subject that I’ve never seen anyone really row about. Why would anyone be offended?? "In your opinion its rubbish... in my opinion some of the things said in this thread are not true... but thats my opinion... which like you I am entitled to... or is that rubbish too?? | |||
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"Why is it so hard for people to understand that not everyone thinks the same....." Dont know ... must be the lockdown... getting to them... or I dont know they just want everyone else to think like them... I dont care,do you?? | |||
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"All the chemistry in the world doesn't compensate for a face like a smashed pumpkin!
Or a horrible personality as well.
Don't worry, I don't think you'll be left behind. Sure I'll give you one anyway, even if nobody else will
Ah thanks Mick sure a sympathy shag will do......
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"All the chemistry in the world doesn't compensate for a face like a smashed pumpkin!
Or a horrible personality as well.
Don't worry, I don't think you'll be left behind. Sure I'll give you one anyway, even if nobody else will
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" Most people don’t care about numerous repeats. I’d doubt most people meet here more than a few times so chemistry/personality much less important than looks and physical attraction. You are absolutely speaking for yourself there. Most people I know on here look specifically for repeat meets. All my long term FBs are from here, I’m talking 15-20 meets each SO FAR. I’ve a FB who is on here who I’ve been shagging on and off for 25 years. Many can confirm that before you accuse me of lying. If you don’t have repeat meets, maybe that’s something you need to look at. It’s not an issue for most. And that’s where personality and chemistry enriches physical attraction. Your lack of repeat meets might explain your blinkered attitude to that. " Please tell me where I said I didn’t care about repeat meets. Maybe if you’re going to paraphrase me then you might read what I wrote properly before twisting what I say. Thanks
In my opinion I’ve said I think that most people aren’t bothered about NUMEROUS repeat meets. And nope I’m not going to accuse you of anything. Why would I, try not to be so dramatic and defensive maybe?
That’s fine if that’s your experience. You do recognise that I’m allowed my opinion as are you and if you don’t like it then that fine too. Try not get so offended as I wasn’t even talking or thinking about you.
And like I said, it’s my belief that lots and probably most here wouldn’t have much more than a few meets. There are thousands of people who use this site and the vast majority don’t use the forums and are only here for a short period of time. I’m sure you realise that. I would not be surprised either if you are more in a possible minority here in terms of being on here for 25 years or what it is you describe.
Finally please point to me where I said I do t want repeat meets?? I said I suspect that most don’t want NUMEROUS meets. And nowhere did I even refer to myself. Well done for making up stuff for me in your own mind Ann you deciding to tell me. Bravo. Nice personal attack though and personal presumptions. In terms of my meets or lack thereof, let’s just say I’ve been on this 3 months and last time I looked, we’re on a lockdown in a pandemic.
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"Funny reading some of the comments... can see through the bs from some... at the end of the day we each go for someone for whatever reason... and noone is going to say what those real reasons are ... so as to not offend anyone... and anyone who actually says their real opinion gets called names...
Sorry but that’s rubbish. Absolutely. It’s the one subject that I’ve never seen anyone really row about. Why would anyone be offended?? "Miaow... seems you don’t like others being forthright but it’s ok for you to be as insulting as you wish. You might try toning down the aggression. Angry much? | |||
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"All the chemistry in the world doesn't compensate for a face like a smashed pumpkin!
Or a horrible personality as well.
Don't worry, I don't think you'll be left behind. Sure I'll give you one anyway, even if nobody else will
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" Most people don’t care about numerous repeats. I’d doubt most people meet here more than a few times so chemistry/personality much less important than looks and physical attraction. You are absolutely speaking for yourself there. Most people I know on here look specifically for repeat meets. All my long term FBs are from here, I’m talking 15-20 meets each SO FAR. I’ve a FB who is on here who I’ve been shagging on and off for 25 years. Many can confirm that before you accuse me of lying. If you don’t have repeat meets, maybe that’s something you need to look at. It’s not an issue for most. And that’s where personality and chemistry enriches physical attraction. Your lack of repeat meets might explain your blinkered attitude to that. Please tell me where I said I didn’t care about repeat meets. Maybe if you’re going to paraphrase me then you might read what I wrote properly before twisting what I say. Thanks
In my opinion I’ve said I think that most people aren’t bothered about NUMEROUS repeat meets. And nope I’m not going to accuse you of anything. Why would I, try not to be so dramatic and defensive maybe?
That’s fine if that’s your experience. You do recognise that I’m allowed my opinion as are you and if you don’t like it then that fine too. Try not get so offended as I wasn’t even talking or thinking about you.
And like I said, it’s my belief that lots and probably most here wouldn’t have much more than a few meets. There are thousands of people who use this site and the vast majority don’t use the forums and are only here for a short period of time. I’m sure you realise that. I would not be surprised either if you are more in a possible minority here in terms of being on here for 25 years or what it is you describe.
Finally please point to me where I said I do t want repeat meets?? I said I suspect that most don’t want NUMEROUS meets. And nowhere did I even refer to myself. Well done for making up stuff for me in your own mind Ann you deciding to tell me. Bravo. Nice personal attack though and personal presumptions. In terms of my meets or lack thereof, let’s just say I’ve been on this 3 months and last time I looked, we’re on a lockdown in a pandemic.
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" Most people don’t care about numerous repeats. I’d doubt most people meet here more than a few times so chemistry/personality much less important than looks and physical attraction. You are absolutely speaking for yourself there. Most people I know on here look specifically for repeat meets. All my long term FBs are from here, I’m talking 15-20 meets each SO FAR. I’ve a FB who is on here who I’ve been shagging on and off for 25 years. Many can confirm that before you accuse me of lying. If you don’t have repeat meets, maybe that’s something you need to look at. It’s not an issue for most. And that’s where personality and chemistry enriches physical attraction. Your lack of repeat meets might explain your blinkered attitude to that. Please tell me where I said I didn’t care about repeat meets. Maybe if you’re going to paraphrase me then you might read what I wrote properly before twisting what I say. Thanks
In my opinion I’ve said I think that most people aren’t bothered about NUMEROUS repeat meets. And nope I’m not going to accuse you of anything. Why would I, try not to be so dramatic and defensive maybe?
That’s fine if that’s your experience. You do recognise that I’m allowed my opinion as are you and if you don’t like it then that fine too. Try not get so offended as I wasn’t even talking or thinking about you.
And like I said, it’s my belief that lots and probably most here wouldn’t have much more than a few meets. There are thousands of people who use this site and the vast majority don’t use the forums and are only here for a short period of time. I’m sure you realise that. I would not be surprised either if you are more in a possible minority here in terms of being on here for 25 years or what it is you describe.
Finally please point to me where I said I do t want repeat meets?? I said I suspect that most don’t want NUMEROUS meets. And nowhere did I even refer to myself. Well done for making up stuff for me in your own mind Ann you deciding to tell me. Bravo. Nice personal attack though and personal presumptions. In terms of my meets or lack thereof, let’s just say I’ve been on this 3 months and last time I looked, we’re on a lockdown in a pandemic.
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" Most people don’t care about numerous repeats. I’d doubt most people meet here more than a few times so chemistry/personality much less important than looks and physical attraction. You are absolutely speaking for yourself there. Most people I know on here look specifically for repeat meets. All my long term FBs are from here, I’m talking 15-20 meets each SO FAR. I’ve a FB who is on here who I’ve been shagging on and off for 25 years. Many can confirm that before you accuse me of lying. If you don’t have repeat meets, maybe that’s something you need to look at. It’s not an issue for most. And that’s where personality and chemistry enriches physical attraction. Your lack of repeat meets might explain your blinkered attitude to that. Please tell me where I said I didn’t care about repeat meets. Maybe if you’re going to paraphrase me then you might read what I wrote properly before twisting what I say. Thanks
In my opinion I’ve said I think that most people aren’t bothered about NUMEROUS repeat meets. And nope I’m not going to accuse you of anything. Why would I, try not to be so dramatic and defensive maybe?
That’s fine if that’s your experience. You do recognise that I’m allowed my opinion as are you and if you don’t like it then that fine too. Try not get so offended as I wasn’t even talking or thinking about you.
And like I said, it’s my belief that lots and probably most here wouldn’t have much more than a few meets. There are thousands of people who use this site and the vast majority don’t use the forums and are only here for a short period of time. I’m sure you realise that. I would not be surprised either if you are more in a possible minority here in terms of being on here for 25 years or what it is you describe.
Finally please point to me where I said I do t want repeat meets?? I said I suspect that most don’t want NUMEROUS meets. And nowhere did I even refer to myself. Well done for making up stuff for me in your own mind Ann you deciding to tell me. Bravo. Nice personal attack though and personal presumptions. In terms of my meets or lack thereof, let’s just say I’ve been on this 3 months and last time I looked, we’re on a lockdown in a pandemic.
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Now that you’ve mentioned it then, yep I’ve met one person bar my housemate in 2021. How about you? Half your county?
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