Hi guys just wondering if anybody has experienced jealousy as a couple while having a meet ,such as seeing your partner enjoying themselves to much and feel left out ,thankfully we haven’t experienced it but have spoken to a few people at socials who were at a meet and the couple they were meeting got jealous ,does this all make sense have we said that right |
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By *murphMan
over a year ago
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Was meeting a couple one time we had a few drinks went back to hotel room while we were chatting I got the feeling things were not comfortable so I left sometimes things just don’t go right chatted them a few times later and they didn’t meet anyone again it just wasn’t for them but that is life being honest is the important thing |
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One couple I had at one of my parties.
We were chatting before the party as you do through kik,my partner at the time was very keen on the lady,and the lady was keen on me.
Anyways all seemed well,sparks were flying at the party,long story short she snatched my partner,started playing with him,I front of her husband.
The look on the husbands face,well I tried to get my partners attention,but no luck,I tried to get the husband to play but he was in absolute state of shock,nothing I could do,so I walked away.
It was like watching a train wreck.
When my partner came to find me I told him it was horrific to see the husbands reaction watching his wife with someone else.
Needless to say they left fab shortly,and things weren't great between them when they left.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've seen some erratic behaviour, thankfully not at an actual play meet, which is why we like to feel out a couple figuratively first. If we want drama, we've got Netflix.  |
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We have seen jealousy within couples while at parties...it’s never pretty and it’s so obvious that they shouldn’t be swinging. Always wonder how one half of the couple can’t see the jealousy...or maybe they do and don’t care   |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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"We have seen jealousy within couples while at parties...it’s never pretty and it’s so obvious that they shouldn’t be swinging. Always wonder how one half of the couple can’t see the jealousy...or maybe they do and don’t care "
I've seen it 100s of times. |
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It's not surprising that there is jealousy. So many couples just do not seem to be on the same page.
They don't communicate, set out rules and boundaries. Its like the fantasy takes over and the reality doesn't matter, until it does.
We constantly talk about where we are in the lifestyle and have a refresher on our rules.
Keeps everything going nice and smoothly. |
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"It's not surprising that there is jealousy. So many couples just do not seem to be on the same page.
They don't communicate, set out rules and boundaries. Its like the fantasy takes over and the reality doesn't matter, until it does.
We constantly talk about where we are in the lifestyle and have a refresher on our rules.
Keeps everything going nice and smoothly. "
100% agree with this post , you can't be thinking once we get into she will be fine / he will be fine
You have to be upfront from the start and keep talking and knowing boundaries and be aware even during the meet how they feel and having the confidence to stop it.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have seen jealousy within couples while at parties...it’s never pretty and it’s so obvious that they shouldn’t be swinging. Always wonder how one half of the couple can’t see the jealousy...or maybe they do and don’t care "
I love and admire the dynamic you two have as a couple. You both love seeing the other having a good time. They coined a word for the opposite of jealousy in the swinging and poly world. The word compersion is loosely defined as the opposite of jealousy. Instead of feeling upset or threatened when your partner romantically or sexually interacts with another person, you feel a sense of happiness for them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's not surprising that there is jealousy. So many couples just do not seem to be on the same page.
They don't communicate, set out rules and boundaries. Its like the fantasy takes over and the reality doesn't matter, until it does.
We constantly talk about where we are in the lifestyle and have a refresher on our rules.
Keeps everything going nice and smoothly.
100% agree with this post , you can't be thinking once we get into she will be fine / he will be fine
You have to be upfront from the start and keep talking and knowing boundaries and be aware even during the meet how they feel and having the confidence to stop it.
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 and discuss afterwards too. |
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"It's not surprising that there is jealousy. So many couples just do not seem to be on the same page.
They don't communicate, set out rules and boundaries. Its like the fantasy takes over and the reality doesn't matter, until it does.
We constantly talk about where we are in the lifestyle and have a refresher on our rules.
Keeps everything going nice and smoothly.
100% agree with this post , you can't be thinking once we get into she will be fine / he will be fine
You have to be upfront from the start and keep talking and knowing boundaries and be aware even during the meet how they feel and having the confidence to stop it.
and discuss afterwards too. "
Absolutely, whether its together or a rare solo meet we love discussing everything and it helps play into our own sex life bringing an experience into the play time.
We love seeing each other get and give pleasure. Knowing what our partner is making the other person feel is an amazing feeling. |
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"It's not surprising that there is jealousy. So many couples just do not seem to be on the same page.
They don't communicate, set out rules and boundaries. Its like the fantasy takes over and the reality doesn't matter, until it does.
We constantly talk about where we are in the lifestyle and have a refresher on our rules.
Keeps everything going nice and smoothly.
100% agree with this post , you can't be thinking once we get into she will be fine / he will be fine
You have to be upfront from the start and keep talking and knowing boundaries and be aware even during the meet how they feel and having the confidence to stop it.
and discuss afterwards too.
Absolutely, whether its together or a rare solo meet we love discussing everything and it helps play into our own sex life bringing an experience into the play time.
We love seeing each other get and give pleasure. Knowing what our partner is making the other person feel is an amazing feeling."
Yup same as, a meet has three things , the excitement of before , the meet and discussing it afterwards
Sometimes the after can be as fun |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"We've seen some erratic behaviour, thankfully not at an actual play meet, which is why we like to feel out a couple figuratively first. If we want drama, we've got Netflix. "
Netflix has nothing on some of the dramas here  |
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By *ateniteCouple
over a year ago
Youghal |
"It's not surprising that there is jealousy. So many couples just do not seem to be on the same page.
They don't communicate, set out rules and boundaries. Its like the fantasy takes over and the reality doesn't matter, until it does.
We constantly talk about where we are in the lifestyle and have a refresher on our rules.
Keeps everything going nice and smoothly.
100% agree with this post , you can't be thinking once we get into she will be fine / he will be fine
You have to be upfront from the start and keep talking and knowing boundaries and be aware even during the meet how they feel and having the confidence to stop it.
and discuss afterwards too.
Absolutely, whether its together or a rare solo meet we love discussing everything and it helps play into our own sex life bringing an experience into the play time.
We love seeing each other get and give pleasure. Knowing what our partner is making the other person feel is an amazing feeling.
Yup same as, a meet has three things , the excitement of before , the meet and discussing it afterwards
Sometimes the after can be as fun "
Agreed, it's one of the best parts of a meet for us. Yes the actual meet part is fantastic but our sex the next morning when discussing it is so hot. |
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"It's not surprising that there is jealousy. So many couples just do not seem to be on the same page.
They don't communicate, set out rules and boundaries. Its like the fantasy takes over and the reality doesn't matter, until it does.
We constantly talk about where we are in the lifestyle and have a refresher on our rules.
Keeps everything going nice and smoothly.
100% agree with this post , you can't be thinking once we get into she will be fine / he will be fine
You have to be upfront from the start and keep talking and knowing boundaries and be aware even during the meet how they feel and having the confidence to stop it.
and discuss afterwards too.
Absolutely, whether its together or a rare solo meet we love discussing everything and it helps play into our own sex life bringing an experience into the play time.
We love seeing each other get and give pleasure. Knowing what our partner is making the other person feel is an amazing feeling.
Yup same as, a meet has three things , the excitement of before , the meet and discussing it afterwards
Sometimes the after can be as fun
Agreed, it's one of the best parts of a meet for us. Yes the actual meet part is fantastic but our sex the next morning when discussing it is so hot."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's not surprising that there is jealousy. So many couples just do not seem to be on the same page.
They don't communicate, set out rules and boundaries. Its like the fantasy takes over and the reality doesn't matter, until it does.
We constantly talk about where we are in the lifestyle and have a refresher on our rules.
Keeps everything going nice and smoothly.
100% agree with this post , you can't be thinking once we get into she will be fine / he will be fine
You have to be upfront from the start and keep talking and knowing boundaries and be aware even during the meet how they feel and having the confidence to stop it.
and discuss afterwards too.
Absolutely, whether its together or a rare solo meet we love discussing everything and it helps play into our own sex life bringing an experience into the play time.
We love seeing each other get and give pleasure. Knowing what our partner is making the other person feel is an amazing feeling.
Yup same as, a meet has three things , the excitement of before , the meet and discussing it afterwards
Sometimes the after can be as fun
Agreed, it's one of the best parts of a meet for us. Yes the actual meet part is fantastic but our sex the next morning when discussing it is so hot."
You can't beat reclaim sex... oh I would love some... Ana |
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