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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
Leaving aside the morals of meeting a married woman have you never heard the expression " never shit on your own doorstep"
Why would you leave yourself open to what would happen if a local man knew you were shagging his wife |
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By *P_80Man
over a year ago
Waterford |
I've stopped answering posts looking for advice as people will do as they wish and are usually looking for justification for doing something they know is wrong. Otherwise they wouldn't need to ask the question.
Anyhow, all I'll say OP is you know yourself what's right for you so good luck with it whatever you decide. |
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By *oo32Man
over a year ago
tipperary |
There are loads of married people on fab,is it a bit harsh to be judgemental when he only asked a question....
Moral high ground and all that...
My advice,your own best judgement is best,but take all the consequences aswell if it goes pear shaped |
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Local is risky IMO. Kinky but risky. But then it could be exactly what’s she’s after... if she can separate sex and personal life it could be great!
The married thing is up to you... do bear in mind that what people say on here v what they do is vastly VASTLY different. Morals on here are fluid, especially in the forums.
I was ripped apart for saying I’d meet with a married man by a woman who only days later was verified by a man I know is very open about the fact that he is married. So assume your own moral stance.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Local is risky IMO. Kinky but risky. But then it could be exactly what’s she’s after... if she can separate sex and personal life it could be great!
The married thing is up to you... do bear in mind that what people say on here v what they do is vastly VASTLY different. Morals on here are fluid, especially in the forums.
I was ripped apart for saying I’d meet with a married man by a woman who only days later was verified by a man I know is very open about the fact that he is married. So assume your own moral stance. "
Best advice you can get right here, says it all good luck op |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I'm texting a women outside of fab, a married women. Only married a couple of years. And she wants to meet for fun. Good or bad idea? She is local so I'll see both of them around."
If she's local, it'll come out at some point. Someone always sees something or someone coming or going by chance. Then again it sounds like if it's not you it'll be someone else as far as she's concerned. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Local is risky IMO. Kinky but risky. But then it could be exactly what’s she’s after... if she can separate sex and personal life it could be great!
The married thing is up to you... do bear in mind that what people say on here v what they do is vastly VASTLY different. Morals on here are fluid, especially in the forums.
I was ripped apart for saying I’d meet with a married man by a woman who only days later was verified by a man I know is very open about the fact that he is married. So assume your own moral stance. "
Intresting.. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
"Local is risky IMO. Kinky but risky. But then it could be exactly what’s she’s after... if she can separate sex and personal life it could be great!
The married thing is up to you... do bear in mind that what people say on here v what they do is vastly VASTLY different. Morals on here are fluid, especially in the forums.
I was ripped apart for saying I’d meet with a married man by a woman who only days later was verified by a man I know is very open about the fact that he is married. So assume your own moral stance. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Advice well taken. We have stopped texting, "
You are better off.
Morals aside, I know it's easy to think that you'll get the ride and that'll be that - he'll never find out and you had your fun.
In reality tho...
(Problem 1) is you don't know what's what until what's what.
She wouldn't be the first married individual who flirted and flirted until the moment came and nothing. All talk. You put yourself out there for nothing. A repercussion still can happen.
(Problem 2) if it's not all talk and it goes ahead - the truth has a way of coming out even if not immediately. You said you see them around so it's on your door step.
Some guys might just walk away from her and your involvement.
Other guys might just walk away from her but get you back as you come in from a night out, half pissed and you get a whack in the back of the head and wake up in the hospital. You wouldn't be the first to in this world.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Will it meet with covid regulations and guidelines in your area? Id be more afraid of contracting covid than a beating from her husband.
Is it worth ruining your name in the area if caught or word gets out?
Me personally id probably chance it as the risk of it would make the sexual experience all the more erotic but thats just me. If she wants it you want it and no one ever finds out why not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Will it meet with covid regulations and guidelines in your area? Id be more afraid of contracting covid than a beating from her husband.
Is it worth ruining your name in the area if caught or word gets out?
Me personally id probably chance it as the risk of it would make the sexual experience all the more erotic but thats just me. If she wants it you want it and no one ever finds out why not. "
The problem is at this current moment in time, and if we think with our dicks lol, we all think nah it won't come out.
But it does sometimes... Not every time. But it does. |
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(Problem 1) is you don't know what's what until what's what.
She wouldn't be the first married individual who flirted and flirted until the moment came and nothing. All talk. You put yourself out there for nothing. A repercussion still can happen.
(Problem 2) if it's not all talk and it goes ahead - the truth has a way of coming out even if not immediately. You said you see them around so it's on your door step.
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That’s such bullshit. Single people and couples are just as likely to cancel a meet without notice as a married person. In fact, it’s commonly discussed (Obvs not on forums) that couples are notoriously fickle and shallow. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been there, done that, not wise, pay any money for a flux capacitor now and a DeLorean "
Which do you perfere, backwards are forwards for advice?
Are ask dr who. |
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By *iiboyMan
over a year ago
Tankardstown |
"Local is risky IMO. Kinky but risky. But then it could be exactly what’s she’s after... if she can separate sex and personal life it could be great!
The married thing is up to you... do bear in mind that what people say on here v what they do is vastly VASTLY different. Morals on here are fluid, especially in the forums.
I was ripped apart for saying I’d meet with a married man by a woman who only days later was verified by a man I know is very open about the fact that he is married. So assume your own moral stance. "
This is spot on , each and everyone has their own reasons for being here and are free to choose who they meet , each meet/situation has its unique ups and downs, you make your choices on that basis |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've done this. Married lady across the Rd from me.
Was actually fine was a wee bit ackward seeing him about.
Just make sure her hubby never catchs you, which I'm sure you don't plan to be caught.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So I'm texting a women outside of fab, a married women. Only married a couple of years. And she wants to meet for fun. Good or bad idea? She is local so I'll see both of them around."
Fill your boots big lad.
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