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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you think pf a profile as a cv ask yourself what sets you apart from the others in a positive light.
It is a numbers game and there are far more men on here than women,tv,ts, couples. It requires a lot more effort for a man to stand out than anyone in the other demographics .
As you've asked for advice..nyour profile picture does nothing for you. It looks like you've been captured as a hostage and forced to take a selfie whilst squatting over a starving alligator . Your shirt is all wrinkled and it basically looks as if you have made zero effort.
Maybe you were having a bad day and that's fair enough we all have them but if I'm trying to sell a car for instance I don't put pictures up on donedeal where the car is manky dirty etc. There has to be an enticement for people to buy into what you are selling.
"Hi" as a profile description is literally as boring as could be and compounds the other issues already laid out. Lack of effort comes across as someone who couldn't be bothered in general and if not bothered in general people will probably assume that attitude resembles other aspects of your personality and it will reflect laziness with regard to a meet/in the bedroom etc.
The more effort a profile has put into it the better chance of success.
Little tip.
Filter for profiles looking for the same as you.
Go through and look at the accounts with the most/best verifications and ask yourself objectively the difference between their profile and your own.
Hope fab works out for you.
Kind regards
Kate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s not great because You only have two photos up and no interests added
Remove the HI with a small bio about you and what you’re looking for on here
Be respectful and be prepared for a long wait . This is not dial a ride . The amount of messages women get is insane so you really need to stand out from the rest .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's empty
Two pictures,one of a cock,the other a very unhappy looking man.
And to top that,as if that was possible,your sole effort into introducing yourself,is the word "hi"
Minimal effort equates to minimal results
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It isn’t the strongest male profile on the site. Pictures are low quality and not creative. Bio merely says ‘Hi’ which is a red flag to us because if you can’t take 10 minutes to position yourself in the best possible light in the fab market place, then it suggests you are either lazy or inexperienced.
Take some time to write and decent bio that shows personality and take some better pictures, and hopefully you start to improve your chances  |
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As much as I admire everyone's advice.. I'll take an advice of a few very intelligent and kind ladies - if a man can't be arsed with putting effort into his own profile - trying to help him is pointless as he most likely doesn't care and will discard all advice.
Also it's a great personality giveaway so less likely to end up being a catfish |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In fairness he did say he was new and unfamiliar with the do's and don't of fab. Id give him the benefit of the doubt and say he approached it and as you would an NCT test. Bring it in first and let them tell you what you need fixing and hope they don't scald ya.
Go for it fella you'll be part of the furniture in no time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its a work in progress OP.
Cock picture + can of lynx is not a good idea. It's a Fab cliche at this stage and not a good one.
Photo verified is good
If you are confident to add a public face picture life you have then good. Consider taking some with good lighting, nice smile etc. as you want to make a good starting impression.
Fill out your profile. 4 weeks on Fabs now and only 'Hi' is added. Give details about your self, what you are looking for, the things you like etc. For example, I love kissing so I have added that.
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Posts like this one, should be ignored. Op needs more than help if he thinks that is an acceptable profile. Only thing missing from pic of you is the height level behind you, as in a line up at the police station. |
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over a year ago
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Imagine putting up this thread and totally ignoring the advice people have given . Vast majority of the time these threads are attention seeking timewasters and once again this is the same. |
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"Imagine putting up this thread and totally ignoring the advice people have given . Vast majority of the time these threads are attention seeking timewasters and once again this is the same."
Ah sure as per usual with these threads they ignore the advice and start the exact same thread in two weeks time lamenting the fact they aren't knee deep in fanny  |
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"Imagine putting up this thread and totally ignoring the advice people have given . Vast majority of the time these threads are attention seeking timewasters and once again this is the same.
Ah sure as per usual with these threads they ignore the advice and start the exact same thread in two weeks time lamenting the fact they aren't knee deep in fanny "
So true !! |
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"What could I change on mine? "
I would suggest, dump the white socks, track suits and leggings. Less pics (of the same thing), better quality ones in place of, dress smart, especially if you want to meet older people. Certain generations despise the urban, athletic looking clothes, that your generation wears, just saying. |
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I joined fab a few years ago and have mainly talked to people I met at the clubs. I did become an active participant about 2 months ago and wish to update my profile. I am not an expert on the swinging site and am not big on quantity but quality...I do have a lot of interest..and have tried to make it clear what I am looking for...Is it necessary to have lots of verifications as I have never insisted....would love to get some feedback on my profile...from both a male a female perspective...just want to make it a bit more interesting without attracting too many time wasters...help! |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"I joined fab a few years ago and have mainly talked to people I met at the clubs. I did become an active participant about 2 months ago and wish to update my profile. I am not an expert on the swinging site and am not big on quantity but quality...I do have a lot of interest..and have tried to make it clear what I am looking for...Is it necessary to have lots of verifications as I have never insisted....would love to get some feedback on my profile...from both a male a female perspective...just want to make it a bit more interesting without attracting too many time wasters...help!"
You've one photo of a lovely smile but could do with a few more photo's to be honest.
Get rid of the Sydney University crap....it's nonsense anyway.
You've written a very long bio but even if we matched with anything I wouldn't be arsed reading it as it's just too long
Knock off all the stuff about what you're not interested in ,use your filters to reject them and concentrate on what you do want |
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"I joined fab a few years ago and have mainly talked to people I met at the clubs. I did become an active participant about 2 months ago and wish to update my profile. I am not an expert on the swinging site and am not big on quantity but quality...I do have a lot of interest..and have tried to make it clear what I am looking for...Is it necessary to have lots of verifications as I have never insisted....would love to get some feedback on my profile...from both a male a female perspective...just want to make it a bit more interesting without attracting too many time wasters...help!"
I hope you don't mind a bit of a critic! More pics, less of the "Gettysburg address" length of bio. Although your bio in places is excellent and may I say arousing, just too long. X |
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