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Just not the same anymore
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This site has gone to the dogs all it is now is people giving out about other people or fishing for fabs I thought insta or fb was the place people looked for likes not here what's worse is the poeple you see saying fab my photo and we mite meet like are people really that desperate to get themselves to the top of the fab photos |
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It’s gone to shit alright. The “look at me” brigade is always tiresome but the whingey “I’m horny, sort me out” crew are particularly annoying at the moment. I think everyone is fed up with everything. C’mon the vaccine!!! |
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over a year ago
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I don't think it's that bad on here maybe I'm just lucky an have my usual friends I talk too. Saying that I haven't bin online that much last week but I just think everyone is getting fed up even outside of here. Jaysus even the Garda are getting fed up doing checkpoints well in my experience with them in the last month. So it's not just here where people are losing it  |
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over a year ago
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I was saying this the other night, after being on and off 10+ years it most definitely has changed and definitely gotten worse this year with the pandemic  |
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You're right. I've had more abuse in the last week or two than I've had the entire time I've been here. Nasty messages I can handle but there's been humiliating status updates about me too and I don't have the mental fortitude right now to deal with it.
So I decided to hide my profile and close my inbox. I'm literally only here for the forum now but I expect I'll leave fab sooner rather than later.
I think people are probably just fed up, bored, and frustrated and it's leading to an increase of shit behaviour. |
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"You're right. I've had more abuse in the last week or two than I've had the entire time I've been here. Nasty messages I can handle but there's been humiliating status updates about me too and I don't have the mental fortitude right now to deal with it.
So I decided to hide my profile and close my inbox. I'm literally only here for the forum now but I expect I'll leave fab sooner rather than later.
I think people are probably just fed up, bored, and frustrated and it's leading to an increase of shit behaviour. "
Jaysus, there's no excuse for that sort of behaviour.  |
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I get it! I have been nothing but nice and had a friendly approach when messaging girls or couples that claim to be looking for what my profile is. I either get the messages deleted immediately or some smart arsed answer! To which I am sure some smart arse will post a reply on this forum to enhance my point haha |
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"I get it! I have been nothing but nice and had a friendly approach when messaging girls or couples that claim to be looking for what my profile is. I either get the messages deleted immediately or some smart arsed answer! To which I am sure some smart arse will post a reply on this forum to enhance my point haha"
Top be fair now, having your message deleted isn't problematic. |
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"Everyone just needs a big hug 
I need a ride. 
Who ya telling but I’d probably cum from a hug at this stage
Is that not the norm? "
I hear ya brother!
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over a year ago
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From our point of view, herself just loves sex and himself likes showing off, now in the old days this was done at clubs and party's but since that's not an option at the moment then we turned to pictures and lately videos, now we never say we would meet anyone for a like or anything like that, the content we put up is just a way to fill a missing part for us and the more like the more that watch it the more hot we find it |
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"You're right. I've had more abuse in the last week or two than I've had the entire time I've been here. Nasty messages I can handle but there's been humiliating status updates about me too and I don't have the mental fortitude right now to deal with it.
So I decided to hide my profile and close my inbox. I'm literally only here for the forum now but I expect I'll leave fab sooner rather than later.
I think people are probably just fed up, bored, and frustrated and it's leading to an increase of shit behaviour. "
Yeah the abuse is coming thick and fast recently. Sorry you got targeted. Very unfair. Hope yer ok and have moved to the f*ck them stage” |
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"I just took a scroll through the 44 new messages in our inbox and not 1 single abusive one. No idea why we just dont tend to get it. "
I've just had a look through the 2 new ones I've had so far this year and only 2 of them were abusive so that's good  |
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"You're right. I've had more abuse in the last week or two than I've had the entire time I've been here. Nasty messages I can handle but there's been humiliating status updates about me too and I don't have the mental fortitude right now to deal with it.
So I decided to hide my profile and close my inbox. I'm literally only here for the forum now but I expect I'll leave fab sooner rather than later.
I think people are probably just fed up, bored, and frustrated and it's leading to an increase of shit behaviour. "
I hear you girl, I've done the same. Nasty and disrespectful. Never experienced this bad before  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had my profile hidden for a few weeks, unhid it recently and up until last night any messages I got were pleasant. Last nights not so nice.
The mood in here changes like the tides and I guess this year has seen a lot of peoples live turned upside down, at beginning of first lockdown it was a novelty working from home, nowhere to go etc but nearly 9 months in people are struggling, frustrated, annoyed etc
I just think leave the haters to it and if I can make one person smile each day I've done my bit. I've tried to be extra nice when I'm out , pay for an extra coffee in the shop for someone else, gave my parking ticket that may have half hour left on it.
Doesn't seem that long ago when everyone was at out sharing #bekind posts. How about actually trying to put it into action. |
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This use to be my happy place after a long day's work come on here have chat and a bit of banter with people but now I'm at the point I'd be afraid to post anything just incase I got attacked way to many triggered people on it now I understand the pandemic has people going off the rails but still gives no one the right to be nasty to anyone |
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"I wonder do they see single female profiles as easy targets "
This seems to be the case. I could count on one hand how many times we received something nasty on this profile.
My single missus profile on other hand used to get abuse all the time.
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Sorry to hear that this seems to be the trend now for single women on fab.
I've been getting abusive messages pretty consistently through my time here but nothing too awful.
But in the last few days I've been told almost every day how fat and disgusting I am. Yesterday I uploaded a picture and tbh I was nervous about it but I felt brave and confident, until some guy took it upon himself to make a status about how I was such a disappointment, my picture was disgusting, so disgusting that he couldn't even eat anymore for risk of vomiting. And then the abuse started rolling into my inbox.
If that had of been in a message I'd have probably just deleted it and moved on.
But it was the fact that I felt shamed and humiliated in a public forum that made it hit so hard.
Thank god I have friends here and there was some lovely women who had my back so he was reported fairly quickly.
But I just found myself feeling so ashamed, embarrassed, and ugly. And I don't think that's something I can handle at this moment in time.
It's hard for all of us right now. But some bullies seem to just want to make it even harder.
I hate letting people like that win but I can't risk my mental health or my self esteem. Fab just isn't worth it. |
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over a year ago
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So sorry to hear about the abuse you ladies get and DublinGirl...that’s so horrible. Have a hug
Only really got abuse off men before I blocked them and the odd smart answer from a lady.
And then that couple who likes to belittle and bully single men  |
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"You're right. I've had more abuse in the last week or two than I've had the entire time I've been here. Nasty messages I can handle but there's been humiliating status updates about me too and I don't have the mental fortitude right now to deal with it.
So I decided to hide my profile and close my inbox. I'm literally only here for the forum now but I expect I'll leave fab sooner rather than later.
I think people are probably just fed up, bored, and frustrated and it's leading to an increase of shit behaviour. "
Always shit to read comments like that and in this case from someone who's been a part of this forum for longer than I can remember and now thinking about leaving.
As far as I remember few of your pictures made the 1st page of hot pics DubliGirl (including that cute smile), so that's a middle finger big enough for all haters
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"So sorry to hear about the abuse you ladies get and DublinGirl...that’s so horrible. Have a hug
Only really got abuse off men before I blocked them and the odd smart answer from a lady.
And then that couple who likes to belittle and bully single men "
Thank you. I appreciate that. Sorry to hear you've had your own experiences. But you can keep your hug. I know what you're up to!
" Who ya telling but I’d probably cum from a hug at this stage "
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Was only discussing this a couple of days ago with some others. Yep I think its gone to shit. Some days are more toxic than others. I come on to the forums for a bit of craic and banter instead threads that were started as light hearted turn into a shit show and people making comments on simple subjects just to try provoke a reaction then feign innocence on it. Its getting to the point where literally ive had enough of the bullshit. I get it lockdown and the current state of things have a lot of people up in a heap but its no excuse for the behaviour of some people on here |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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Only looking at this from a mans point of view but why would a man sent an abusive message to a woman
Is it because they think they have the right to
Is it because no one ever says no to them in real life and the can't cope
Do strong women intimate them
Do they have a tiny penis
Is it because anonymity makes them brave
Is the site to blame ..could they do more to stop it
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"So sorry to hear about the abuse you ladies get and DublinGirl...that’s so horrible. Have a hug
Only really got abuse off men before I blocked them and the odd smart answer from a lady.
And then that couple who likes to belittle and bully single men
Thank you. I appreciate that. Sorry to hear you've had your own experiences. But you can keep your hug. I know what you're up to!
Who ya telling but I’d probably cum from a hug at this stage "
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"Only looking at this from a mans point of view but why would a man sent an abusive message to a woman
Is it because they think they have the right to
Is it because no one ever says no to them in real life and the can't cope
Do strong women intimate them
Do they have a tiny penis
Is it because anonymity makes them brave
Is the site to blame ..could they do more to stop it
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In fairness to the site, they've sanitised it to an unbelievable extent. I'm always amused at the number of timeouts I've had, and I don't think I've ever abused anyone.
There has always, and will always, be abuse in private mails. The world is full of angry, jealous people who want to get a reaction.
It's never pleasant but there's bugger all can be done to stop someone sending an abusive message in private. In theory, if people either report them or just simply block them that will be the end of that. Abuse in chatrooms and on the forum is a different matter. The forum is easy enough to deal with but chat less so.
If people could learn to just ignore them the problem would be solved fairly quickly once you haven't given them personal information. |
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"I still think, despite how bad it might be, that it's a heel of a lot tamer than it was six or seven years ago. Mother of God, there was skin and hair flying every day here back then. "
the good days. |
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"I still think, despite how bad it might be, that it's a heel of a lot tamer than it was six or seven years ago. Mother of God, there was skin and hair flying every day here back then. the good days. "
Jaysus, I used to put a galvanised bucket on my head before logging in. |
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"Only looking at this from a mans point of view but why would a man sent an abusive message to a woman
Is it because they think they have the right to
Is it because no one ever says no to them in real life and the can't cope
Do strong women intimate them
Do they have a tiny penis
Is it because anonymity makes them brave
Is the site to blame ..could they do more to stop it
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trying to look at it from an overall male perspective, I'd say its frustration not with covid but sending mail after mail after mail, effort after effort and getting nowhere. that's just my 2cents worths guess. |
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"I still think, despite how bad it might be, that it's a heel of a lot tamer than it was six or seven years ago. Mother of God, there was skin and hair flying every day here back then. the good days.
Jaysus, I used to put a galvanised bucket on my head before logging in. "
ah skin and hair flying on the forum would give you a great time during boredom time. |
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"I still think, despite how bad it might be, that it's a heel of a lot tamer than it was six or seven years ago. Mother of God, there was skin and hair flying every day here back then. the good days.
Jaysus, I used to put a galvanised bucket on my head before logging in. ah skin and hair flying on the forum would give you a great time during boredom time."
I miss those days, it was always so entertaining, you were always getting into trouble |
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"I still think, despite how bad it might be, that it's a heel of a lot tamer than it was six or seven years ago. Mother of God, there was skin and hair flying every day here back then. the good days.
Jaysus, I used to put a galvanised bucket on my head before logging in. ah skin and hair flying on the forum would give you a great time during boredom time.
I miss those days, it was always so entertaining, you were always getting into trouble "
little ole me? |
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"I still think, despite how bad it might be, that it's a heel of a lot tamer than it was six or seven years ago. Mother of God, there was skin and hair flying every day here back then. the good days.
Jaysus, I used to put a galvanised bucket on my head before logging in. ah skin and hair flying on the forum would give you a great time during boredom time.
I miss those days, it was always so entertaining, you were always getting into trouble little ole me? "
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Not making excuses but Covid has pushed people to their limits. We're on our second lockdown and numbers are going up again. Still no guarantee of a vaccine, people out of work, no social life, no human contact and many disagree with the approach of the Government to the 'living with Covid' approach. Something has to change soon, we (I) can't go on like this indefinitely. Mrs |
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"Not making excuses but Covid has pushed people to their limits. We're on our second lockdown and numbers are going up again. Still no guarantee of a vaccine, people out of work, no social life, no human contact and many disagree with the approach of the Government to the 'living with Covid' approach. Something has to change soon, we (I) can't go on like this indefinitely. Mrs "
I'd say it's related but I suspect it's just because more people have time to be online, either not working or working from home. |
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"There was a couple of ladies in particular who were completely mental. You could have a thread about care bears and it'd end up in world war three. It was horrendous but it was unmissable stuff! "
Them care bears evil in disguise  |
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"There was a couple of ladies in particular who were completely mental. You could have a thread about care bears and it'd end up in world war three. It was horrendous but it was unmissable stuff!
Them care bears evil in disguise "
Sure they'd start a row with their own shadows... Cute, cuddly psychopathic bastards! |
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"There was a couple of ladies in particular who were completely mental. You could have a thread about care bears and it'd end up in world war three. It was horrendous but it was unmissable stuff!
Them care bears evil in disguise
Sure they'd start a row with their own shadows... Cute, cuddly psychopathic bastards! "
Them and my litte pony's used to give me nightmares |
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"There was a couple of ladies in particular who were completely mental. You could have a thread about care bears and it'd end up in world war three. It was horrendous but it was unmissable stuff!
Them care bears evil in disguise
Sure they'd start a row with their own shadows... Cute, cuddly psychopathic bastards!
Them and my litte pony's used to give me nightmares "
Jaysus... My little ponies... Worse than the black and tans! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nobody is supposed to be meeting,so I guess folk are getting their kicks anyway they can without physical contact
If fabbing pics isn't for you,don't join in.
It's not compulsory |
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"You're right. I've had more abuse in the last week or two than I've had the entire time I've been here. Nasty messages I can handle but there's been humiliating status updates about me too and I don't have the mental fortitude right now to deal with it.
So I decided to hide my profile and close my inbox. I'm literally only here for the forum now but I expect I'll leave fab sooner rather than later.
I think people are probably just fed up, bored, and frustrated and it's leading to an increase of shit behaviour. "
There’s NO excuse for that behaviour.! I hope you are ok. Look after yourself. There’s obviously something deeply wrong with people like that. |
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"There was a couple of ladies in particular who were completely mental. You could have a thread about care bears and it'd end up in world war three. It was horrendous but it was unmissable stuff! "
They were ace |
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"You're right. I've had more abuse in the last week or two than I've had the entire time I've been here. Nasty messages I can handle but there's been humiliating status updates about me too and I don't have the mental fortitude right now to deal with it.
So I decided to hide my profile and close my inbox. I'm literally only here for the forum now but I expect I'll leave fab sooner rather than later.
I think people are probably just fed up, bored, and frustrated and it's leading to an increase of shit behaviour.
There’s NO excuse for that behaviour.! I hope you are ok. Look after yourself. There’s obviously something deeply wrong with people like that. "
Well said
People's tolerance levels are at an all time low at the moment.
It's far easier to lash out and be negative that to take time, contemplate and be positive.
People are jumping on everything in a negative manner, especially on the forum.
Also there's one or two bad eggs that like to get their kicks by brandishing insults and digs....
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I've only been on and off for about 4 years but had no interest in the forums until about 18 months ago.
People come and go all the time but the forums are just a small part of the site.
Yes there is a nasty streak running through here but equally there are some very upbeat and positive posters who's patience is being severely tested at times.
The same element who pounce on single men for daring to voice an opinion are complete chicken shits when a woman or couple say exactly the same thing because they don't want to damage their credibility among their target audience.
That's before even mentioning the increase in fake and/or double profiles and trolls.
The obvious trolling profiles set up by forum regulars which allow them to say whatever they want to wind people up and then even comment through their normal profile. We all know they are doing it but so many continue to feed the trolls
And those who take everything personally and are always pulling the gloves on.
Apart from that I can't say I've noticed any difference but then again what would I know? |
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The obvious trolling profiles set up by forum regulars which allow them to say whatever they want to wind people up and then even comment through their normal profile. We all know they are doing it but so many continue to feed the trolls
Yes I was messaged by one of these fake profile last week . Then on their real profile made reference to it on the forums having a right laugh about the profile photo they had seen used. Pretty childish to me and they need to get a life. |
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The obvious trolling profiles set up by forum regulars which allow them to say whatever they want to wind people up and then even comment through their normal profile. We all know they are doing it but so many continue to feed the trolls
Yes I was messaged by one of these fake profile last week . Then on their real profile made reference to it on the forums having a right laugh about the profile photo they had seen used. Pretty childish to me and they need to get a life. "
Dont get the point of hiding behind a fake profile and a second one, sad individual and hate to think what they are like in real life |
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The obvious trolling profiles set up by forum regulars which allow them to say whatever they want to wind people up and then even comment through their normal profile. We all know they are doing it but so many continue to feed the trolls
Yes I was messaged by one of these fake profile last week . Then on their real profile made reference to it on the forums having a right laugh about the profile photo they had seen used. Pretty childish to me and they need to get a life. "
Mmmmmm, I  boobies
Sorry, what was that you said? |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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The obvious trolling profiles set up by forum regulars which allow them to say whatever they want to wind people up and then even comment through their normal profile. We all know they are doing it but so many continue to feed the trolls
Yes I was messaged by one of these fake profile last week . Then on their real profile made reference to it on the forums having a right laugh about the profile photo they had seen used. Pretty childish to me and they need to get a life. "
I've heard of this happening but never heard anything so blatant.... unreal
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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The obvious trolling profiles set up by forum regulars which allow them to say whatever they want to wind people up and then even comment through their normal profile. We all know they are doing it but so many continue to feed the trolls
Yes I was messaged by one of these fake profile last week . Then on their real profile made reference to it on the forums having a right laugh about the profile photo they had seen used. Pretty childish to me and they need to get a life.
Dont get the point of hiding behind a fake profile and a second one, sad individual and hate to think what they are like in real life"
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The obvious trolling profiles set up by forum regulars which allow them to say whatever they want to wind people up and then even comment through their normal profile. We all know they are doing it but so many continue to feed the trolls
Yes I was messaged by one of these fake profile last week . Then on their real profile made reference to it on the forums having a right laugh about the profile photo they had seen used. Pretty childish to me and they need to get a life. "
That's exactly it. They aren't shrinking violets and are very in your face in their real profiles and they think it's hilarious to openly mock people but they aren't doing this just for themselves.
They are egged on by those pulling the strings behind who are happy to let them make a fool of themselves.
Sounds like a great big conspiracy theory doesn't it except for the fact these people have openly admitted to others what they are doing and drop hints in their forum posts like a nod and a wink.
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The obvious trolling profiles set up by forum regulars which allow them to say whatever they want to wind people up and then even comment through their normal profile. We all know they are doing it but so many continue to feed the trolls
Yes I was messaged by one of these fake profile last week . Then on their real profile made reference to it on the forums having a right laugh about the profile photo they had seen used. Pretty childish to me and they need to get a life. "
Wow. It's like they arent even trying to be convincing. |
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The obvious trolling profiles set up by forum regulars which allow them to say whatever they want to wind people up and then even comment through their normal profile. We all know they are doing it but so many continue to feed the trolls
Yes I was messaged by one of these fake profile last week . Then on their real profile made reference to it on the forums having a right laugh about the profile photo they had seen used. Pretty childish to me and they need to get a life.
Wow. It's like they arent even trying to be convincing."
Its pathetic really |
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The obvious trolling profiles set up by forum regulars which allow them to say whatever they want to wind people up and then even comment through their normal profile. We all know they are doing it but so many continue to feed the trolls
Yes I was messaged by one of these fake profile last week . Then on their real profile made reference to it on the forums having a right laugh about the profile photo they had seen used. Pretty childish to me and they need to get a life.
That's exactly it. They aren't shrinking violets and are very in your face in their real profiles and they think it's hilarious to openly mock people but they aren't doing this just for themselves.
They are egged on by those pulling the strings behind who are happy to let them make a fool of themselves.
Sounds like a great big conspiracy theory doesn't it except for the fact these people have openly admitted to others what they are doing and drop hints in their forum posts like a nod and a wink.
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Its all a game to them. I feel sorry for those that get sucked in and fooled by them . |
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The obvious trolling profiles set up by forum regulars which allow them to say whatever they want to wind people up and then even comment through their normal profile. We all know they are doing it but so many continue to feed the trolls
Yes I was messaged by one of these fake profile last week . Then on their real profile made reference to it on the forums having a right laugh about the profile photo they had seen used. Pretty childish to me and they need to get a life.
That's exactly it. They aren't shrinking violets and are very in your face in their real profiles and they think it's hilarious to openly mock people but they aren't doing this just for themselves.
They are egged on by those pulling the strings behind who are happy to let them make a fool of themselves.
Sounds like a great big conspiracy theory doesn't it except for the fact these people have openly admitted to others what they are doing and drop hints in their forum posts like a nod and a wink.
Its all a game to them. I feel sorry for those that get sucked in and fooled by them . "
A large percentage of the forum trolls are extremely well known forumites playing games.
They have been here years and are well verified and are normally very vocal in the forums so it's all become a game for them and they don't care what damage they do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's hard for all of us right now. But some bullies seem to just want to make it even harder.
I hate letting people like that win but I can't risk my mental health or my self esteem. Fab just isn't worth it. "
No, it isn't. It's despicable that you have had to put up with that awful stuff in your inbox. That should be an instant ban and a blacklisted IP.
Remember, this site is only a cartoon version of the real world. The chickenshit haters who hide behind their anonymity are desperate for you to experience the pain, shame and self-disgust that they are made from. Only desperate and sick losers send messages like that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Worse site ever !! Full of posers time wasters ignorant people who are full of themselves and don’t even reply back to a nice message etc and the forums arent much better |
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The obvious trolling profiles set up by forum regulars which allow them to say whatever they want to wind people up and then even comment through their normal profile. We all know they are doing it but so many continue to feed the trolls
Yes I was messaged by one of these fake profile last week . Then on their real profile made reference to it on the forums having a right laugh about the profile photo they had seen used. Pretty childish to me and they need to get a life.
That's exactly it. They aren't shrinking violets and are very in your face in their real profiles and they think it's hilarious to openly mock people but they aren't doing this just for themselves.
They are egged on by those pulling the strings behind who are happy to let them make a fool of themselves.
Sounds like a great big conspiracy theory doesn't it except for the fact these people have openly admitted to others what they are doing and drop hints in their forum posts like a nod and a wink.
Its all a game to them. I feel sorry for those that get sucked in and fooled by them .
A large percentage of the forum trolls are extremely well known forumites playing games.
They have been here years and are well verified and are normally very vocal in the forums so it's all become a game for them and they don't care what damage they do. "
I'm kinda gobsmacked by this. I am well aware of the main troll who comes and goes in various guises who I cant seem to stop reacting to... but I was honestly completely unaware that other forum members had other profiles that they use to troll. I'm curious to know how you could know this? Did they admit it? Or is this just something you suspect? It SOUNDS a bit conspiracy-ish is all. |
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"Worse site ever !! Full of posers time wasters ignorant people who are full of themselves and don’t even reply back to a nice message etc and the forums arent much better "
Why are you bothering with the "worst site ever"? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It has it's good points but there's an awful lot of people looking for attention. The status feature should be done away with. People posting statuses mentioning other people is pointless. Just message them rather than telling the world. Between that and people organising parties, what would poor Tony Holohan say It's also surprising how many people are into the aul sniff sniff |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"It has it's good points but there's an awful lot of people looking for attention. The status feature should be done away with. People posting statuses mentioning other people is pointless. Just message them rather than telling the world. Between that and people organising parties, what would poor Tony Holohan say It's also surprising how many people are into the aul sniff sniff "
You'd be amazed how many people are into it in real life also to be honest ....feckin everywhere |
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The obvious trolling profiles set up by forum regulars which allow them to say whatever they want to wind people up and then even comment through their normal profile. We all know they are doing it but so many continue to feed the trolls
Yes I was messaged by one of these fake profile last week . Then on their real profile made reference to it on the forums having a right laugh about the profile photo they had seen used. Pretty childish to me and they need to get a life.
That's exactly it. They aren't shrinking violets and are very in your face in their real profiles and they think it's hilarious to openly mock people but they aren't doing this just for themselves.
They are egged on by those pulling the strings behind who are happy to let them make a fool of themselves.
Sounds like a great big conspiracy theory doesn't it except for the fact these people have openly admitted to others what they are doing and drop hints in their forum posts like a nod and a wink.
Its all a game to them. I feel sorry for those that get sucked in and fooled by them .
A large percentage of the forum trolls are extremely well known forumites playing games.
They have been here years and are well verified and are normally very vocal in the forums so it's all become a game for them and they don't care what damage they do.
I'm kinda gobsmacked by this. I am well aware of the main troll who comes and goes in various guises who I cant seem to stop reacting to... but I was honestly completely unaware that other forum members had other profiles that they use to troll. I'm curious to know how you could know this? Did they admit it? Or is this just something you suspect? It SOUNDS a bit conspiracy-ish is all."
Yes I agree it sounds crazy but that's just it. I don't have to suspect it because it's actually very easy to put together when you link various posts in different threads with status updates. There is no attempt to hide because that's all part of the game. It's giving people the middle finger while they hide in plain site laughing at the reaction.
There are other well known posters who have received forum bans for getting into rows with the trolling profiles while at the same time the person or persons behind the troll are on the same thread encouraging the chaos.
How do I know that others are involved? I only have to read the veris on said persons profile to see the in joke comments and name dropping.
Maybe I need to get a life?
It's honestly not difficult to see if you know what to look for so I'm not spending hours trawling through profiles.
And just to clarify they aren't all men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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COVID has (for nearly everyone involved) turned swinging into a near-impossibility. Since there are few or no opportunities to have nice meets and experiences, there's less joy and enthusiasm for those to enjoy what the site has to offer. People are disillusioned and rightly so.
But this can't -and won't go on forever. Whatever happens down the line in the next few months, people must be willing to fight of necessary to exercise their inalienable human rights to meet people on THEIR OWN terms and in their own time. It would be awful to see the swinging community just fizzle out or get banned out of existence by constant restrictions. There's too much to lose. |
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"I just took a scroll through the 44 new messages in our inbox and not 1 single abusive one. No idea why we just dont tend to get it.
I've just had a look through the 2 new ones I've had so far this year and only 2 of them were abusive so that's good "
Both from men wanting your 12" penis?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It has it's good points but there's an awful lot of people looking for attention. The status feature should be done away with. People posting statuses mentioning other people is pointless. Just message them rather than telling the world. Between that and people organising parties, what would poor Tony Holohan say It's also surprising how many people are into the aul sniff sniff "
Not surprised at all by that last part. Have seen it from personal experience in the last few years how many are into it. The ones who keep it quiet are the ones to worry about however |
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The obvious trolling profiles set up by forum regulars which allow them to say whatever they want to wind people up and then even comment through their normal profile. We all know they are doing it but so many continue to feed the trolls
Yes I was messaged by one of these fake profile last week . Then on their real profile made reference to it on the forums having a right laugh about the profile photo they had seen used. Pretty childish to me and they need to get a life.
That's exactly it. They aren't shrinking violets and are very in your face in their real profiles and they think it's hilarious to openly mock people but they aren't doing this just for themselves.
They are egged on by those pulling the strings behind who are happy to let them make a fool of themselves.
Sounds like a great big conspiracy theory doesn't it except for the fact these people have openly admitted to others what they are doing and drop hints in their forum posts like a nod and a wink.
Its all a game to them. I feel sorry for those that get sucked in and fooled by them .
A large percentage of the forum trolls are extremely well known forumites playing games.
They have been here years and are well verified and are normally very vocal in the forums so it's all become a game for them and they don't care what damage they do.
I'm kinda gobsmacked by this. I am well aware of the main troll who comes and goes in various guises who I cant seem to stop reacting to... but I was honestly completely unaware that other forum members had other profiles that they use to troll. I'm curious to know how you could know this? Did they admit it? Or is this just something you suspect? It SOUNDS a bit conspiracy-ish is all.
Yes I agree it sounds crazy but that's just it. I don't have to suspect it because it's actually very easy to put together when you link various posts in different threads with status updates. There is no attempt to hide because that's all part of the game. It's giving people the middle finger while they hide in plain site laughing at the reaction.
There are other well known posters who have received forum bans for getting into rows with the trolling profiles while at the same time the person or persons behind the troll are on the same thread encouraging the chaos.
How do I know that others are involved? I only have to read the veris on said persons profile to see the in joke comments and name dropping.
Maybe I need to get a life?
It's honestly not difficult to see if you know what to look for so I'm not spending hours trawling through profiles.
And just to clarify they aren't all men. "
Thankyou for your considered response. I'm going to have to retune my spidey-senses to pick up on this stuff. |
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"I wonder do they see single female profiles as easy targets "
I have to say in the near 4 yrs I've been here I can count on one hand the abusive messages I have received. I must be one of the lucky ones
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The obvious trolling profiles set up by forum regulars which allow them to say whatever they want to wind people up and then even comment through their normal profile. We all know they are doing it but so many continue to feed the trolls
Yes I was messaged by one of these fake profile last week . Then on their real profile made reference to it on the forums having a right laugh about the profile photo they had seen used. Pretty childish to me and they need to get a life.
That's exactly it. They aren't shrinking violets and are very in your face in their real profiles and they think it's hilarious to openly mock people but they aren't doing this just for themselves.
They are egged on by those pulling the strings behind who are happy to let them make a fool of themselves.
Sounds like a great big conspiracy theory doesn't it except for the fact these people have openly admitted to others what they are doing and drop hints in their forum posts like a nod and a wink.
Its all a game to them. I feel sorry for those that get sucked in and fooled by them .
A large percentage of the forum trolls are extremely well known forumites playing games.
They have been here years and are well verified and are normally very vocal in the forums so it's all become a game for them and they don't care what damage they do.
I'm kinda gobsmacked by this. I am well aware of the main troll who comes and goes in various guises who I cant seem to stop reacting to... but I was honestly completely unaware that other forum members had other profiles that they use to troll. I'm curious to know how you could know this? Did they admit it? Or is this just something you suspect? It SOUNDS a bit conspiracy-ish is all."
When someone new sends you a private message and maybe mentions something in particular that no one else could know as its supposed to be a private conversation. You then happen to see a new profile chatting very familiar with another forum member and then a reference is made to something that makes you think Hang on a minute, so it makes you observe and then you realise hey they are both the same profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The obvious trolling profiles set up by forum regulars which allow them to say whatever they want to wind people up and then even comment through their normal profile. We all know they are doing it but so many continue to feed the trolls
Yes I was messaged by one of these fake profile last week . Then on their real profile made reference to it on the forums having a right laugh about the profile photo they had seen used. Pretty childish to me and they need to get a life.
That's exactly it. They aren't shrinking violets and are very in your face in their real profiles and they think it's hilarious to openly mock people but they aren't doing this just for themselves.
They are egged on by those pulling the strings behind who are happy to let them make a fool of themselves.
Sounds like a great big conspiracy theory doesn't it except for the fact these people have openly admitted to others what they are doing and drop hints in their forum posts like a nod and a wink.
Its all a game to them. I feel sorry for those that get sucked in and fooled by them .
A large percentage of the forum trolls are extremely well known forumites playing games.
They have been here years and are well verified and are normally very vocal in the forums so it's all become a game for them and they don't care what damage they do.
I'm kinda gobsmacked by this. I am well aware of the main troll who comes and goes in various guises who I cant seem to stop reacting to... but I was honestly completely unaware that other forum members had other profiles that they use to troll. I'm curious to know how you could know this? Did they admit it? Or is this just something you suspect? It SOUNDS a bit conspiracy-ish is all.
Yes I agree it sounds crazy but that's just it. I don't have to suspect it because it's actually very easy to put together when you link various posts in different threads with status updates. There is no attempt to hide because that's all part of the game. It's giving people the middle finger while they hide in plain site laughing at the reaction.
There are other well known posters who have received forum bans for getting into rows with the trolling profiles while at the same time the person or persons behind the troll are on the same thread encouraging the chaos.
How do I know that others are involved? I only have to read the veris on said persons profile to see the in joke comments and name dropping.
Maybe I need to get a life?
It's honestly not difficult to see if you know what to look for so I'm not spending hours trawling through profiles.
And just to clarify they aren't all men.
Thankyou for your considered response. I'm going to have to retune my spidey-senses to pick up on this stuff. "
Crikey I'm obviously oblivious to all this, never copped any of this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No seriously there are some complete " head da balls " floating around in these waters ..people who just dont give a fuck how they delibertly verbally hurt and abuse others...just reading the personal posts and replies to this thread is totally scandelous...anyone that logs on here should be for their fun and enjoyment and NOT to be make little of or be belittled or abused by unknown fuckheads.. |
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"I just took a scroll through the 44 new messages in our inbox and not 1 single abusive one. No idea why we just dont tend to get it.
I've just had a look through the 2 new ones I've had so far this year and only 2 of them were abusive so that's good
Both from men wanting your 12" penis?? "
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The site has always been like this, there are nice people, ok people, shitty people and cunts and they have always been here. Blaming covid on the shit behaviour is ridiculous though, it is the cunts that do it and that isn't ever going to stop on this site or any other. That's why I always aim for ok, that nice is just too out of reach. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The obvious trolling profiles set up by forum regulars which allow them to say whatever they want to wind people up and then even comment through their normal profile. We all know they are doing it but so many continue to feed the trolls
Yes I was messaged by one of these fake profile last week . Then on their real profile made reference to it on the forums having a right laugh about the profile photo they had seen used. Pretty childish to me and they need to get a life.
That's exactly it. They aren't shrinking violets and are very in your face in their real profiles and they think it's hilarious to openly mock people but they aren't doing this just for themselves.
They are egged on by those pulling the strings behind who are happy to let them make a fool of themselves.
Sounds like a great big conspiracy theory doesn't it except for the fact these people have openly admitted to others what they are doing and drop hints in their forum posts like a nod and a wink.
Its all a game to them. I feel sorry for those that get sucked in and fooled by them .
A large percentage of the forum trolls are extremely well known forumites playing games.
They have been here years and are well verified and are normally very vocal in the forums so it's all become a game for them and they don't care what damage they do.
I'm kinda gobsmacked by this. I am well aware of the main troll who comes and goes in various guises who I cant seem to stop reacting to... but I was honestly completely unaware that other forum members had other profiles that they use to troll. I'm curious to know how you could know this? Did they admit it? Or is this just something you suspect? It SOUNDS a bit conspiracy-ish is all.
Yes I agree it sounds crazy but that's just it. I don't have to suspect it because it's actually very easy to put together when you link various posts in different threads with status updates. There is no attempt to hide because that's all part of the game. It's giving people the middle finger while they hide in plain site laughing at the reaction.
There are other well known posters who have received forum bans for getting into rows with the trolling profiles while at the same time the person or persons behind the troll are on the same thread encouraging the chaos.
How do I know that others are involved? I only have to read the veris on said persons profile to see the in joke comments and name dropping.
Maybe I need to get a life?
It's honestly not difficult to see if you know what to look for so I'm not spending hours trawling through profiles.
And just to clarify they aren't all men.
Thankyou for your considered response. I'm going to have to retune my spidey-senses to pick up on this stuff.
Crikey I'm obviously oblivious to all this, never copped any of this "
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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Sounds like people have too much time on their hands, on both sides. I've to say I'm rather happy in my with obliviousness filled fab bubble. I slipped into that bubble few years ago when fab drama was at least ten fold. Mind you it could be still the same, how would I know.... |
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The obvious trolling profiles set up by forum regulars which allow them to say whatever they want to wind people up and then even comment through their normal profile. We all know they are doing it but so many continue to feed the trolls
Yes I was messaged by one of these fake profile last week . Then on their real profile made reference to it on the forums having a right laugh about the profile photo they had seen used. Pretty childish to me and they need to get a life.
That's exactly it. They aren't shrinking violets and are very in your face in their real profiles and they think it's hilarious to openly mock people but they aren't doing this just for themselves.
They are egged on by those pulling the strings behind who are happy to let them make a fool of themselves.
Sounds like a great big conspiracy theory doesn't it except for the fact these people have openly admitted to others what they are doing and drop hints in their forum posts like a nod and a wink.
Its all a game to them. I feel sorry for those that get sucked in and fooled by them .
A large percentage of the forum trolls are extremely well known forumites playing games.
They have been here years and are well verified and are normally very vocal in the forums so it's all become a game for them and they don't care what damage they do.
I'm kinda gobsmacked by this. I am well aware of the main troll who comes and goes in various guises who I cant seem to stop reacting to... but I was honestly completely unaware that other forum members had other profiles that they use to troll. I'm curious to know how you could know this? Did they admit it? Or is this just something you suspect? It SOUNDS a bit conspiracy-ish is all.
When someone new sends you a private message and maybe mentions something in particular that no one else could know as its supposed to be a private conversation. You then happen to see a new profile chatting very familiar with another forum member and then a reference is made to something that makes you think Hang on a minute, so it makes you observe and then you realise hey they are both the same profile. "
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To me, there are three distinct scenarios:
1) Healthy debate - get stuck in
2) Trolling - don't feed them
3) Bullying - it's always men who get bullied on the forums and they should be defended
There can be a fine line between them.
Now if I could just follow my own advice .... Mrs |
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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago
Dublin |
This site like all social media sites has it's share of good, bad and ugly personalities. Take what you need and that makes you happy from it and ignore the rest. I've been on here 10yrs give or take and for the most part I've met lovely people and made some life long friends along the way. As someone above posted. I made a happy fab bubble and very rarely get any nasty messages. But I block ignor and go on with my life. Sorry for those that have been hurt by the nasty few. |
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"It’s gone to shit alright. The “look at me” brigade is always tiresome but the whingey “I’m horny, sort me out” crew are particularly annoying at the moment. I think everyone is fed up with everything. C’mon the vaccine!!! "
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It has changed a lot maybe down to fact of covid and all the lock downs but it saying that this site is what you make of it take everything with a pinch of salt and don’t take things personally keep talking to all the decent fabbers have a laugh and hopefully have some fun along the way...half glass half full in all that jazz |
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