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guys would you verify u met me or would that put other potential meets off u??
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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met a guy to say hi n see how it went , like i do with all guys.. i asked him to verify me and he sed he couldnt because other meets of his and potential meets of his wouldnt like that he met me .. i feel awful though know shouldnt be bothered by a guy like that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't take it personally,the majority of people on this site are full of excuses and so far up there own rear ends that they will never see day light,the truth is most people on here get a ego boost by hurting and belittling the decent honest folk on here.my advice to you.you deserve better than to be treated like that,forget him |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Don't take it personally,the majority of people on this site are full of excuses and so far up there own rear ends that they will never see day light,the truth is most people on here get a ego boost by hurting and belittling the decent honest folk on here.my advice to you.you deserve better than to be treated like that,forget him"
thanx babe i know wat ur saying xx just not nice hearing it from someoene u thought u were getting on with and met |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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that's not a very nice thing to say! Why did he even meet you if he thinks it would 'ruin' his reputation? Idiot.
I'm just curious though, why do you need a verification from a quick social meet? It looks like you have been verified before. I'm just wondering. I don't ask for them anymore, as I have some hidden and can show them when needed. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"that's not a very nice thing to say! Why did he even meet you if he thinks it would 'ruin' his reputation? Idiot.
I'm just curious though, why do you need a verification from a quick social meet? It looks like you have been verified before. I'm just wondering. I don't ask for them anymore, as I have some hidden and can show them when needed. "
well wont be getting one of him anyways , and think its polite to verify ..just my thing i guess |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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he wasnt worth meeting and there shouldnt be a problem veryfiying here if the meet was genuine and there are some that are just plain old nast and why should peeps be pissed off about othere meeting?
Sharing the love is what its all about and he is a dip stick lol and u will meet much nicer people so just block him lol xx  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"he wasnt worth meeting and there shouldnt be a problem veryfiying here if the meet was genuine and there are some that are just plain old nast and why should peeps be pissed off about othere meeting?
Sharing the love is what its all about and he is a dip stick lol and u will meet much nicer people so just block him lol xx "
yeah thanx babe i agree completely  |
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er, may i ask, whats wrong with you, exactly?
do you have 2 heads? to me that would just mean two blow jobs, kerching!!!
think some people have an inflated sense of thier own self worth.
people that are narrow minded enough to just go by loks alone arent worth my time anyway.
personality is where its at more than anything, hence we always have a drink before doing anything.
anyway, you can just be laughing at him in a few years, when he is sitting on his own, with pictures of his good looking self when he were younger, but not able to get anything because he has no personality, while you are cougaring it away with all the young lads that like an older woman.
dont sweat it chick. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"er, may i ask, whats wrong with you, exactly?
do you have 2 heads? to me that would just mean two blow jobs, kerching!!!
think some people have an inflated sense of thier own self worth.
people that are narrow minded enough to just go by loks alone arent worth my time anyway.
personality is where its at more than anything, hence we always have a drink before doing anything.
anyway, you can just be laughing at him in a few years, when he is sitting on his own, with pictures of his good looking self when he were younger, but not able to get anything because he has no personality, while you are cougaring it away with all the young lads that like an older woman.
dont sweat it chick."
thanx hun was more his meets dont like that ive met a few more than them  |
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That wasnt the nicest thing he could have said was it..How rude..
I think the verification thing is a bit overated really.
I have actually met 4 people on this site and only one has bothered to verify me.. Even though I said nice things about them. |
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"did u leave him a verification, catwoman?
i did baby he didnt put it up "
i dont understand why he wouldnt verify you, though.
surely you arent the ONLY person he has met, no?
what do people expect really?
if someone wants a person to be the only one they meet, i would suggest marriage NOT a swinging site lol |
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"did u leave him a verification, catwoman?
i did baby he didnt put it up
i dont understand why he wouldnt verify you, though.
surely you arent the ONLY person he has met, no?
what do people expect really?
if someone wants a person to be the only one they meet, i would suggest marriage NOT a swinging site lol"
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i sorry but he is obviously so far up his own ass, he is pleasuring himself, people can be hurtful and we are all able to be hurt, but we met you, as did many others and know your genuine, so dont worry about someone that isnt worth you time or thoughts xx  |
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"did u leave him a verification, catwoman?
i did baby he didnt put it up
i dont understand why he wouldnt verify you, though.
surely you arent the ONLY person he has met, no?
what do people expect really?
if someone wants a person to be the only one they meet, i would suggest marriage NOT a swinging site lol"
Couldn't of said it better myself.... Not here for a wife!!!... Anyway, what a fecking TxxT he is... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"did u leave him a verification, catwoman?
i did baby he didnt put it up
i dont understand why he wouldnt verify you, though.
surely you arent the ONLY person he has met, no?
what do people expect really?
if someone wants a person to be the only one they meet, i would suggest marriage NOT a swinging site lol"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i sorry but he is obviously so far up his own ass, he is pleasuring himself, people can be hurtful and we are all able to be hurt, but we met you, as did many others and know your genuine, so dont worry about someone that isnt worth you time or thoughts xx "
thanx babe  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"did u leave him a verification, catwoman?
i did baby he didnt put it up
i dont understand why he wouldnt verify you, though.
surely you arent the ONLY person he has met, no?
what do people expect really?
if someone wants a person to be the only one they meet, i would suggest marriage NOT a swinging site lol"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would always verify as I think it's polite, and would expect one in return, if I had no desire to meet someone again I would still verify, but obviously would have a much stronger vitrification for someone where we got on really well and wanted to meet again. Frankly he's attitude horrifies me, and is extremely bad form..
Block and move on, as a woman on this site you have ALL the power, don't forget that xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would always verify as I think it's polite, and would expect one in return, if I had no desire to meet someone again I would still verify, but obviously would have a much stronger vitrification for someone where we got on really well and wanted to meet again. Frankly he's attitude horrifies me, and is extremely bad form..
Block and move on, as a woman on this site you have ALL the power, don't forget that xx"
thanx glad others feel the same as me , thought i was just whinging x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Name and shame him sure. Don't go running after no one.
I've waisted days now chatting with women, still haven't got my green thick so what the hell. "
wont name him but deffo moving on thanx babe xx |
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"met a guy to say hi n see how it went , like i do with all guys.. i asked him to verify me and he sed he couldnt because other meets of his and potential meets of his wouldnt like that he met me .. i feel awful though know shouldnt be bothered by a guy like that "
WHY ?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"met a guy to say hi n see how it went , like i do with all guys.. i asked him to verify me and he sed he couldnt because other meets of his and potential meets of his wouldnt like that he met me .. i feel awful though know shouldnt be bothered by a guy like that
WHY ? "
cause ive met to many guys apparently and in his words ive no values and not very selective ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"met a guy to say hi n see how it went , like i do with all guys.. i asked him to verify me and he sed he couldnt because other meets of his and potential meets of his wouldnt like that he met me .. i feel awful though know shouldnt be bothered by a guy like that "
I tell ya some people are so f**king rude and really don't give a second thought about others , name and shame I think |
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"met a guy to say hi n see how it went , like i do with all guys.. i asked him to verify me and he sed he couldnt because other meets of his and potential meets of his wouldnt like that he met me .. i feel awful though know shouldnt be bothered by a guy like that
WHY ?
cause ive met to many guys apparently and in his words ive no values and not very selective ... "
Oh dear He seems not a nice person at all. hope you blocked him |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"met a guy to say hi n see how it went , like i do with all guys.. i asked him to verify me and he sed he couldnt because other meets of his and potential meets of his wouldnt like that he met me .. i feel awful though know shouldnt be bothered by a guy like that
WHY ?
cause ive met to many guys apparently and in his words ive no values and not very selective ... "
so that's what he thinks, but he's still happy to meet and shag you? Charming. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"met a guy to say hi n see how it went , like i do with all guys.. i asked him to verify me and he sed he couldnt because other meets of his and potential meets of his wouldnt like that he met me .. i feel awful though know shouldnt be bothered by a guy like that
WHY ?
cause ive met to many guys apparently and in his words ive no values and not very selective ...
so that's what he thinks, but he's still happy to meet and shag you? Charming. "
didnt evan shag him was a socila meet first would u believe lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't always verify for a social meet "
neither do I. to be honest, I'm bored with verifications and they're not that important to me. I may offer it to someone who doesn't have one yet but don't really see the point in adding one more 'met socially' to someone who's been here for a good while and has plenty of veris. I think some collect them like facebook friends lol
But I'm very happy to write one if they ask.
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By *araMan
over a year ago
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Verifications, well I think its polite to veri and up to the individual wether to display or not but fuck me see all this shite about who meets who!
Its a swing site FFS.
I say you are meeting me not who I have met and I am meeting you not who you have met, I get on with different people differently as do most.
Whats worse when someone huffs and asks you to rewrite a verification which was ok in the first place and then blocks you and comes on a false profile and chats to you about themselves to try and get an ego boost. Some people really need to wise up. we are all here for the same thing hopefully, FUN !  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"sure we all get someones sloppy 2nd,s on here _ara lol
I'm no one's sloopy second! I'm a virgin 
Bought time you dropped that line beebee!!
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I stole it from you Chris lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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cause ive met to many guys apparently and in his words ive no values and not very selective ... "
Theres those who forget this place is for meeting for NSA sex.
Too many people on here judging others, if you want to shag half or even the whole of NI swingers then good on you.
Anyone on a swinging site judging others?? They should go find loved up and up me own arse dot com - this really isnt the place for them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Verifications, well I think its polite to veri and up to the individual wether to display or not but fuck me see all this shite about who meets who!
Its a swing site FFS.
I say you are meeting me not who I have met and I am meeting you not who you have met, I get on with different people differently as do most.
Whats worse when someone huffs and asks you to rewrite a verification which was ok in the first place and then blocks you and comes on a false profile and chats to you about themselves to try and get an ego boost. Some people really need to wise up. we are all here for the same thing hopefully, FUN ! "
I thought that was hilarious when she asked for a better verification and then came on as another person telling you how wonderful she was - (and yes she does post regular to the forums) lolololol.
As for those telling ya not to me me cos Im the biggest slag ever - well thank-you for being man enough to decide to do what you wanted to do. Your varis stand you good stead, lovely fella who takes everyone as you find em. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just stumbled across this message in the forum and wow, how low do you get? the dude in question sounds rude and frankly doesnt deserve a lady as sweet as you seem! dont feel too bad about it, might just be a case of block and move on! |
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By *cl2010Couple
over a year ago
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"I would always verify as I think it's polite, and would expect one in return, if I had no desire to meet someone again I would still verify, but obviously would have a much stronger vitrification for someone where we got on really well and wanted to meet again. Frankly he's attitude horrifies me, and is extremely bad form..
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you would turn them to glass? I hope thats autocorrect and not something you actually do to people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't take it personally did u ever think the guy might only be bi-curious, and was his profile gay or straight, he could have other pals on here that he might not want knowing that he's playing with men... Even certain females don't like it when u play with guys so don't take it personally |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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He's not worth the bother of worrying about Cat.
Ive met some couples on here who have visited my house played with me & others and then refused to verify says more about them than it does me. A lot of ego's on the scene in Ireland
Hold your head up high he's got no class.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Don't take it personally did u ever think the guy might only be bi-curious, and was his profile gay or straight, he could have other pals on here that he might not want knowing that he's playing with men... Even certain females don't like it when u play with guys so don't take it personally "
his reasoning is, im not selective enough in who i meet and have no values , and some girls told him if he met me they wouldnt meet him |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"He's not worth the bother of worrying about Cat.
Ive met some couples on here who have visited my house played with me & others and then refused to verify says more about them than it does me. A lot of ego's on the scene in Ireland
Hold your head up high he's got no class. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just stumbled across this message in the forum and wow, how low do you get? the dude in question sounds rude and frankly doesnt deserve a lady as sweet as you seem! dont feel too bad about it, might just be a case of block and move on!"
thanx babe xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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cause ive met to many guys apparently and in his words ive no values and not very selective ...
Theres those who forget this place is for meeting for NSA sex.
Too many people on here judging others, if you want to shag half or even the whole of NI swingers then good on you.
Anyone on a swinging site judging others?? They should go find loved up and up me own arse dot com - this really isnt the place for them"
well sed nippy lol xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't take it personally did u ever think the guy might only be bi-curious, and was his profile gay or straight, he could have other pals on here that he might not want knowing that he's playing with men... Even certain females don't like it when u play with guys so don't take it personally
his reasoning is, im not selective uenough in who i meet and have no values , and some girls told him if he met me they wouldnt meet him "
I've heard this said a few times the whole if you meet her i won't meet you etc. Had it said to me once and told the woman in question to feck off. Won't be dicated to who i will and won't meet. If the dude is that shallow tell him to shove his head up his ass if it ain't already there  |
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over a year ago
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"Verifications, well I think its polite to veri and up to the individual wether to display or not but fuck me see all this shite about who meets who!
Its a swing site FFS.
I say you are meeting me not who I have met and I am meeting you not who you have met, I get on with different people differently as do most.
Whats worse when someone huffs and asks you to rewrite a verification which was ok in the first place and then blocks you and comes on a false profile and chats to you about themselves to try and get an ego boost. Some people really need to wise up. we are all here for the same thing hopefully, FUN !
I thought that was hilarious when she asked for a better verification and then came on as another person telling you how wonderful she was - (and yes she does post regular to the forums) lolololol.
As for those telling ya not to me me cos Im the biggest slag ever - well thank-you for being man enough to decide to do what you wanted to do. Your varis stand you good stead, lovely fella who takes everyone as you find em. "
you a slagggggggggg nippy never lol thats awfull sad to do that wud,nt know how anyone would be bothered makin up fake profiles guess they have a lot of time on their hands lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would always verify as I think it's polite, and would expect one in return, if I had no desire to meet someone again I would still verify, but obviously would have a much stronger vitrification for someone where we got on really well and wanted to meet again. Frankly he's attitude horrifies me, and is extremely bad form..
you would turn them to glass? I hope thats autocorrect and not something you actually do to people "
Yup.... damn iPhone....
well spotted
Go to the front of the class
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if you are what you say you are in your profile when you meet then verify it not a badge of who you meet it just a system of trust for other to feel happy you are what you say why make it anymore then what it is ? |
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over a year ago
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"Verifications, well I think its polite to veri and up to the individual wether to display or not but fuck me see all this shite about who meets who!
Its a swing site FFS.
I say you are meeting me not who I have met and I am meeting you not who you have met, I get on with different people differently as do most.
Whats worse when someone huffs and asks you to rewrite a verification which was ok in the first place and then blocks you and comes on a false profile and chats to you about themselves to try and get an ego boost. Some people really need to wise up. we are all here for the same thing hopefully, FUN !
I thought that was hilarious when she asked for a better verification and then came on as another person telling you how wonderful she was - (and yes she does post regular to the forums) lolololol.
As for those telling ya not to me me cos Im the biggest slag ever - well thank-you for being man enough to decide to do what you wanted to do. Your varis stand you good stead, lovely fella who takes everyone as you find em.
you a slagggggggggg nippy never lol thats awfull sad to do that wud,nt know how anyone would be bothered makin up fake profiles guess they have a lot of time on their hands lol "
Pm me sometime as we are not allowed to name and shame but lets just say the chat room mafia and she who's so innocent make me look virginal lo |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not to condone this guys behavior but obviously the women who dictated his actions should be as culpable and frowned upon.
I wonder if any of the women who have such things on the profiles- i've seen a few that say as much - would defend themselves in this forum? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not to condone this guys behavior but obviously the women who dictated his actions should be as culpable and frowned upon.
I wonder if any of the women who have such things on the profiles- i've seen a few that say as much - would defend themselves in this forum?"
Can you try again in english ?
No distrepect but I cant understand a word |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One or two of them sit in the chatroom all day but saying that their no oil paintings so i do wonder where they get off dicating who meets who "
I think this has more to do with jealousy and not how someone looks like.
And no one is dictating anyone at all. If some people are not mature enough to make up their own mind and meet who they want, are these really the kind of people who want to meet? |
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"He's not worth the bother of worrying about Cat.
Ive met some couples on here who have visited my house played with me & others and then refused to verify says more about them than it does me. A lot of ego's on the scene in Ireland
Hold your head up high he's got no class. "
Well said that man, and the truest thing said yet here that I have read. There are a lot of egos on the scene in Ireland..... Say no more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not to condone this guys behavior but obviously the women who dictated his actions should be as culpable and frowned upon.
I wonder if any of the women who have such things on the profiles- i've seen a few that say as much - would defend themselves in this forum?"
I've never seen anyone's profile mentioning this... but maybe I don't look at many woman's profiles? What do they say? If you met xy I won't meet you? lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am up my own arse; my ego gets a boost by hurting other people's feelings; I am a dickhead; I apparently met a lady knowing it could ruin my reputation; I am a dipstick; I'm not nice and I am rude; I should only be on here looking for a wife!; I am a fecking t**t; i let other people dictate who i meet; i am an absolute wanker; i am not allowed to judge other people on here; i am shallow; i am not mature enough to make up my own mind; i am not aware that this site is for NSA sex, or that this is a swingers site.
Of the above i will admit that my actions were rude and not nice, for which i did apologise, but explained it was just my honest approach. I will accept that i can be a bit shallow too. I am not up my own arse or any of the other expletives, you may disagree, as you are entitled to. I know this is a swingers site, and for the most part of is for people to hook up for NSA sex. I'm also blatantly aware that swinging is a lifestyle choice, and you put in and take out what you want from it. If you swing you can still be selective, like every part of life there are choices to be made and criteria to be met, all at the individual's discretion. Im certainly not dictated to by others, merely faced with a choice. A choice i made freely and under my own steam. Should i meet somebody for fun knowing it might deter others, or should i abstain and maintain potential interest from other members. I chose the latter. That is my choice to make. What i said in a private email was said in an open and honest way, if anything i was being sincere and letting somebody know about a situation.
A few people have commented to say that we shouldnt care what others think, i agree. A sentiment the originator of the thread clearly doesnt share. If i was cynical i'd say that some people on this site thrive on attention, and that the supportive messages of others generated by this thread provides a nice ego massage. But i'm not cynical. I just a fecking t**t. Discuss. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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it's up to everyone themselves who they fuck and not lol
But I'm sure you already heard about their 'reputation' before you met them? So why even bother meeting up socially?
Anyway, this thread will probably be closed soon. Fair play to you though to reply publicly. I think you have every right to give your opinion too. Not that I fully agree with you or the OP... just good to see both sides. |
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By *abybellWoman
over a year ago
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"it's up to everyone themselves who they fuck and not lol
But I'm sure you already heard about their 'reputation' before you met them? So why even bother meeting up socially?
Anyway, this thread will probably be closed soon. Fair play to you though to reply publicly. I think you have every right to give your opinion too. Not that I fully agree with you or the OP... just good to see both sides. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"met a guy to say hi n see how it went , like i do with all guys.. i asked him to verify me and he sed he couldnt because other meets of his and potential meets of his wouldnt like that he met me .. i feel awful though know shouldnt be bothered by a guy like that "
the guy is a dick, thats why women think we are all dicks when some of us are not |
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you say you chose not to meet someone, based on their reputation, and how it may seem to potential future meets, which may or may not materialize, yet you already DID meet her, having already knew her reputation.
being a swinger is a lifestyle, being a hypocrite seems to come naturally.
as i have already stated, if people you want to meet want you exclusively, then they may fancy having a relationship with you, and may you have a long and happy life.
but people that wont meet you because you may, or may not have met others are shallow and small minded, and dont deserve your time.
BUT, if these are the kind of people you court, then all power to you, and enjoy. |
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"Not to condone this guys behavior but obviously the women who dictated his actions should be as culpable and frowned .....
I've never seen anyone's profile mentioning this... but maybe I don't look at many woman's profiles? What do they say? If you met xy I won't meet you? lol"
To paraphrase, I've seen it on profiles were it has been said that men need to be more selective were the stick their dicks if the want to get with me
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don't think of hiding your verifications as I will ask to see them.
You are obviously allowed to be as selective as you like and use any criteria you see fit to select your meets, I was just curious to see if this attitude/action was as frowned upon as that described in the op |
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"you say you chose not to meet someone, based on their reputation, and how it may seem to potential future meets, which may or may not materialize, yet you already DID meet her, having already knew her reputation."
when we met to say hi the issue was not there, and the choice had not presented itself |
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"Not to condone this guys behavior but obviously the women who dictated his actions should be as culpable and frowned .....
I've never seen anyone's profile mentioning this... but maybe I don't look at many woman's profiles? What do they say? If you met xy I won't meet you? lol
To paraphrase, I've seen it on profiles were it has been said that men need to be more selective were the stick their dicks if the want to get with me
and
don't think of hiding your verifications as I will ask to see them.
You are obviously allowed to be as selective as you like and use any criteria you see fit to select your meets, I was just curious to see if this attitude/action was as frowned upon as that described in the op "
I guess some say it out loud and some think it... don't know. Personally, I have made the decision not to meet someone because they met a woman who does I know does bareback. While others may have met her too and I don't know about it, all I can do is to make an informed decision.
But writing it in my profile? I wouldn't demand to see verifications. I think generally there are a lot of very negative profiles out there with 50 lines of DON'Ts. Not very charming in my eyes. But hey, everyone does it their own way lol
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" being a swinger is a lifestyle, being a hypocrite seems to come naturally.
as i have already stated, if people you want to meet want you exclusively, then they may fancy having a relationship with you, and may you have a long and happy life."
as far as i am aware its not about being exclusive, its about being selective. is it any different to a couple insisting on straight guys, or ladies who want an 8" cock? its just another criteria, which i chose to meet. The simplest criteria we all go by is whether or not we fancy someone, we are all selective in our actions, and i don't think i should be castigated because i tried to indulge a fellow member into something that had been said. Besides it was'nt aimed specifically at one member, it was a general thing. |
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"Not to condone this guys behavior but obviously the women who dictated his actions should be as culpable and frowned .....
I've never seen anyone's profile mentioning this... but maybe I don't look at many woman's profiles? What do they say? If you met xy I won't meet you? lol
To paraphrase, I've seen it on profiles were it has been said that men need to be more selective were the stick their dicks if the want to get with me
and
don't think of hiding your verifications as I will ask to see them.
You are obviously allowed to be as selective as you like and use any criteria you see fit to select your meets, I was just curious to see if this attitude/action was as frowned upon as that described in the op "
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"I am up my own arse; my ego gets a boost by hurting other people's feelings; I am a dickhead; I apparently met a lady knowing it could ruin my reputation; I am a dipstick; I'm not nice and I am rude; I should only be on here looking for a wife!; I am a fecking t**t; i let other people dictate who i meet; i am an absolute wanker; i am not allowed to judge other people on here; i am shallow; i am not mature enough to make up my own mind; i am not aware that this site is for NSA sex, or that this is a swingers site.
Of the above i will admit that my actions were rude and not nice, for which i did apologise, but explained it was just my honest approach. I will accept that i can be a bit shallow too. I am not up my own arse or any of the other expletives, you may disagree, as you are entitled to. I know this is a swingers site, and for the most part of is for people to hook up for NSA sex. I'm also blatantly aware that swinging is a lifestyle choice, and you put in and take out what you want from it. If you swing you can still be selective, like every part of life there are choices to be made and criteria to be met, all at the individual's discretion. Im certainly not dictated to by others, merely faced with a choice. A choice i made freely and under my own steam. Should i meet somebody for fun knowing it might deter others, or should i abstain and maintain potential interest from other members. I chose the latter. That is my choice to make. What i said in a private email was said in an open and honest way, if anything i was being sincere and letting somebody know about a situation.
A few people have commented to say that we shouldnt care what others think, i agree. A sentiment the originator of the thread clearly doesnt share. If i was cynical i'd say that some people on this site thrive on attention, and that the supportive messages of others generated by this thread provides a nice ego massage. But i'm not cynical. I just a fecking t**t. Discuss."
i didnt name u , and definately dont need the attention as u sed im getting to much as it is , i put it up to see if i was being to being to soft or stupid feeling the way i was after you sed wat u sed , i really didnt realise that there was a limit of meets u can have before ur being talked about as the site slut !! as in being selective i always meet to say hi first u know that from experience and verifications .. which i had before you mailed to meet , you can defend urself all u want it wouldnt have been an issue if i didnt ask for the verification. because u were set on meeting for fun u were just gona hide the fact !!
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" i didnt name u , and definately dont need the attention as u sed im getting to much as it is , i put it up to see if i was being to being to soft or stupid feeling the way i was after you sed wat u sed , i really didnt realise that there was a limit of meets u can have before ur being talked about as the site slut !! as in being selective i always meet to say hi first u know that from experience and verifications .. which i had before you mailed to meet , you can defend urself all u want it wouldnt have been an issue if i didnt ask for the verification. because u were set on meeting for fun u were just gona hide the fact !!
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i know you didnt, i chose to respond, thus 'outing' myself. You asked me to verify you once, and i said no, explained my reasons, and hurt your feelings. For which i apologised.
You asked me to verify you again a while after the first request, and again i said no, clarified my reasons a little more, and thus hurt you again.
I apologised, said i was being honest with you, and whilst the temptation to meet is there, its something i've decided not to do.
Not sure why you need a veri from me for a social call anyway. i have met lots of ladies for chats on not verified them. Its my choice. |
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because some people would liketo be veri'd for being a nice person, rather than just a good fuck, maybe, i dunno.
so you meet many women off here, just dont veri them all, and yet choose to not say you have met someone that does the exact same, but DOES veri them?
i think this belongs in the double standards thread lol |
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because some people would liketo be veri'd for being a nice person, rather than just a good fuck, maybe, i dunno.
so you meet many women off here, just dont veri them all, and yet choose to not say you have met someone that does the exact same, but DOES veri them?
i think this belongs in the double standards thread lol |
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" i didnt name u , and definately dont need the attention as u sed im getting to much as it is , i put it up to see if i was being to being to soft or stupid feeling the way i was after you sed wat u sed , i really didnt realise that there was a limit of meets u can have before ur being talked about as the site slut !! as in being selective i always meet to say hi first u know that from experience and verifications .. which i had before you mailed to meet , you can defend urself all u want it wouldnt have been an issue if i didnt ask for the verification. because u were set on meeting for fun u were just gona hide the fact !!
i know you didnt, i chose to respond, thus 'outing' myself. You asked me to verify you once, and i said no, explained my reasons, and hurt your feelings. For which i apologised.
You asked me to verify you again a while after the first request, and again i said no, clarified my reasons a little more, and thus hurt you again.
I apologised, said i was being honest with you, and whilst the temptation to meet is there, its something i've decided not to do.
Not sure why you need a veri from me for a social call anyway. i have met lots of ladies for chats on not verified them. Its my choice."
was your reasons that surprised me , but have learned a lesson got me eyes opened and ur rite deffo need to be more selective as to who i say hi too .. as to needing ur verification think its just polite and always leave them , but as you sed ur choice, was the reasoning you gave that was the issue |
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