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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No I'd NEVER do that to a friend. But I have often thought " poor guy is getting no sex". Plus I've tried to encourage a friend or two to ACTUALLY have sex with their hubby/ bf!! |
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over a year ago
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"Who has secretly thought of fucking they're friends wife/husband. (even if you would never follow through with it but have thought of it)"
Theres a huge landscape in a question like that ..and even though people may NOT carry out the act l do think that they have definitely had the thought of doing it cross their mind.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wonder how many of those saying that they wouldn't act in this, would be fine with fucking someone they didnt knows wife or husband who was playing away. What's the difference?
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I still stand by I've said . |
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By *oo32Man
over a year ago
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"I wonder how many of those saying that they wouldn't act in this, would be fine with fucking someone they didnt knows wife or husband who was playing away. What's the difference?
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The quote you dont shit on your own doorstep comes to mind |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The hypocracy is stunning."
If thats in reference to me you should look elsewhere as I have my standards. I'll not defend myself to you or anyone else here in fab.The only one who I listen to or take advice from is my husband. These threads are turned by you into the same theme . I am sorry for you that your experiences have left you this bitter but just remember not all of us are in the same boat as you are. Have a good day . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wonder how many of those saying that they wouldn't act in this, would be fine with fucking someone they didnt knows wife or husband who was playing away. What's the difference?
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Suppose living with the potential devastating fallout is one difference if close to home . |
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I'm not talking about you personally... I'm talking about people who are saying they wouldn't dream of fucking their mates wife or husband behind his back, but are fine fucking someone else's wife and husband behind their partners back. You can see the hypocracy here right? |
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"I wonder how many of those saying that they wouldn't act in this, would be fine with fucking someone they didnt knows wife or husband who was playing away. What's the difference?
Suppose living with the potential devastating fallout is one difference if close to home ."
But there is still otential devastating fallout... it's just caused for someone unknown |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not talking about you personally... I'm talking about people who are saying they wouldn't dream of fucking their mates wife or husband behind his back, but are fine fucking someone else's wife and husband behind their partners back. You can see the hypocracy here right?"
It's easy to ignore the potential consequences if you won't have to bear them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I've thought hmmmm he's a bit hot but never would act on it... As for hypocrisy.... I think that lies with the men and women on here who happily fuck around and have their own partner at home who knows nothing of their lifestyle... Just my lil opinion  |
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"I'm not talking about you personally... I'm talking about people who are saying they wouldn't dream of fucking their mates wife or husband behind his back, but are fine fucking someone else's wife and husband behind their partners back. You can see the hypocracy here right?"
I am not here to sit as Judge and Jury for any other fab members. As what gives any of us the right to do that. I see hypocritical and bullying behaviour from some people here who I feel only come on the forums to argue and belittle others. I didn't join fab to be part of that negative society and I'm sure you didn't either. |
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I just prefer to see the reality and inject it where necessary. There are too many heads buried in the sand on subjects like this, and if they really considered there actions with their big head rather than their little head then they might act a little differently. |
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By *oo32Man
over a year ago
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"I just prefer to see the reality and inject it where necessary. There are too many heads buried in the sand on subjects like this, and if they really considered there actions with their big head rather than their little head then they might act a little differently."
So is it just the folks that have the little head that dont consider their actions.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wonder how many of those saying that they wouldn't act in this, would be fine with fucking someone they didnt knows wife or husband who was playing away. What's the difference?
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Are we not talking about people's close personal friends as opposed to contenting adults on Fab?! 
Zero hypocrisy  |
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"I wonder how many of those saying that they wouldn't act in this, would be fine with fucking someone they didnt knows wife or husband who was playing away. What's the difference?
Are we not talking about people's close personal friends as opposed to contenting adults on Fab?!
Zero hypocrisy "
You cant see the parallel? It's fine to fuck over a random hubby/wife you dont know, but it's not ok if you DO know them?
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I like your way of seeing it from different angles. Actually, such open mindedness is one of the reasons I'm here.
I wonder why is someone on swinging site, and saying I wouldn't have such idea, even when they're probably happy to have some way of swapping/swinging with someone elses partner?
In fact, I have had such thoughts many times, but acting upon it would be just a question of agreement from everyone involved and as long as I'm happy with my thought of my partner having the same experience with that friend  I still respect the relationship, so that's why I wouldn't do it secretly. |
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"I wonder how many of those saying that they wouldn't act in this, would be fine with fucking someone they didnt knows wife or husband who was playing away. What's the difference?
Are we not talking about people's close personal friends as opposed to contenting adults on Fab?!
Zero hypocrisy
You cant see the parallel? It's fine to fuck over a random hubby/wife you dont know, but it's not ok if you DO know them?
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The key word being "consent"
You're being argumentative just for the sake of it 
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I agree it's absolutely about consent. Where a husband/wife consents to their partner having sex with someone else then noone is being wronged. The concept is the same if it's a friend or a stranger. I dont think this is an argumentative concept as much as one about consistency. |
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"I agree it's absolutely about consent. Where a husband/wife consents to their partner having sex with someone else then noone is being wronged. The concept is the same if it's a friend or a stranger. I dont think this is an argumentative concept as much as one about consistency."
The OPs question included the word secret  |
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"Who has secretly thought of fucking they're friends wife/husband. (even if you would never follow through with it but have thought of it)"
100%, some of my pals have ridey husbands! Would never act on it though. |
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By *P_80Man
over a year ago
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I wouldn't knowingly knock about with a cheating married woman regardless if I knew the husband or not, but I think this thread is specifically talking about betraying a friend, so I don't see too much hypocrisy in someone saying they'd have sex with a strangers wife, but not their friend's.
As for me, while I admit to have fancied one of my friend's ex girlfriends, not a chance I would have ever acted on it. |
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"I agree it's absolutely about consent. Where a husband/wife consents to their partner having sex with someone else then noone is being wronged. The concept is the same if it's a friend or a stranger. I dont think this is an argumentative concept as much as one about consistency.
The OPs question included the word secret "
That's kinda my point. Everyone in the thread said they wouldn't go through with it. I was pointing to the difference between this thread and the quantity of people who said they have no problems fucking someone who is married on here. Anyhoo I think the point is well made at this point. |
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"I'm not talking about you personally... I'm talking about people who are saying they wouldn't dream of fucking their mates wife or husband behind his back, but are fine fucking someone else's wife and husband behind their partners back. You can see the hypocracy here right?"
I can see your point and from a morality position it’s hard to split the two situations. From a logistics and discretion and risk point of view however I can see a distinction.
So, have I thought about it, often
Have I done it, no
Have I fucked with someone else’s wife, guilty
We all make our own decisions and presumably are happy to live with the consequences, but you are not wrong x |
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"I agree it's absolutely about consent. Where a husband/wife consents to their partner having sex with someone else then noone is being wronged. The concept is the same if it's a friend or a stranger. I dont think this is an argumentative concept as much as one about consistency.
The OPs question included the word secret
That's kinda my point. Everyone in the thread said they wouldn't go through with it. I was pointing to the difference between this thread and the quantity of people who said they have no problems fucking someone who is married on here. Anyhoo I think the point is well made at this point."
Oh ho!
Kaizer may have gotten wires crossed  |
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"I'm not talking about you personally... I'm talking about people who are saying they wouldn't dream of fucking their mates wife or husband behind his back, but are fine fucking someone else's wife and husband behind their partners back. You can see the hypocracy here right?
I can see your point and from a morality position it’s hard to split the two situations. From a logistics and discretion and risk point of view however I can see a distinction.
So, have I thought about it, often
Have I done it, no
Have I fucked with someone else’s wife, guilty
We all make our own decisions and presumably are happy to live with the consequences, but you are not wrong x"
"I LIKE TO PUSH THE PRAM ALOT"
Sorry, Kaizer could not resist  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Who has secretly thought of fucking they're friends wife/husband. (even if you would never follow through with it but have thought of it)"
Oh yes i sure did lol  |
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