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By *uanpac OP Man
over a year ago
Cork/Limerick/Dublin |
I've been in groups where people would slag a man they rode for cuming early or whatever..does this happen a lot..?? Is it really off putting to hear about it and turn you off meeting a fella..personally I dont think anyone should be spoke about in groups like that unless it's a warning of something negative or dangerous..anyways, I'm asking cause I'm more of a Usain Bolt than a Mo Farrah..not always like, I have my good and bad moments, could either be the best 2 mins of your life or the worst hour..have a great day you crazy kids..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well i can't complain about the few hours i spent with ya.. And neither can peaches.. I mean i fell asleep on the floor and you were still at it..
But yea people shouldn't talk about others negatively and if i heard someone saying that about someome else then i would be wary of trusting them again |
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By *uanpac OP Man
over a year ago
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"Well i can't complain about the few hours i spent with ya.. And neither can peaches.. I mean i fell asleep on the floor and you were still at it..
But yea people shouldn't talk about others negatively and if i heard someone saying that about someome else then i would be wary of trusting them again "
Jesus it must of been fairly septic if you decided to take a nap on he floor during it..  or were you just sulking due to lack of tayto on offer hahaha |
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By *issme39Woman
over a year ago
kildare |
I wouldn't like hearing any one talk like that about someone in group to be honest!!
For me sometimes hard and fast works for me and other times something a little longer il also enjoy...
As one of the other ladies said sometimes it goes on...to...damn..long... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I'm more put off by men who can fuck for hours. I think if it's taking you hours, you're doing it wrong!
The ideal breakdown of play in my opinion is
40% kissing, teaseing etc
40% foreplay and oral
20% fucking |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well i can't complain about the few hours i spent with ya.. And neither can peaches.. I mean i fell asleep on the floor and you were still at it..
But yea people shouldn't talk about others negatively and if i heard someone saying that about someome else then i would be wary of trusting them again
Jesus it must of been fairly septic if you decided to take a nap on he floor during it.. or were you just sulking due to lack of tayto on offer hahaha "
Nah you just wore me out.. Those gymnastics takes a toll on a girl lol and im still huffing about the tayto.. But you can make it up to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been in groups where people would slag a man they rode for cuming early or whatever..does this happen a lot..?? Is it really off putting to hear about it and turn you off meeting a fella..personally I dont think anyone should be spoke about in groups like that unless it's a warning of something negative or dangerous..anyways, I'm asking cause I'm more of a Usain Bolt than a Mo Farrah..not always like, I have my good and bad moments, could either be the best 2 mins of your life or the worst hour..have a great day you crazy kids.. "
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Haha there's more to shit sex than cummin too soon.
Clueless blow jobs and uncoordinated seizure like movement activity under the guise of sex. Luckily its easier for guys to be able to get themselves of regardless of how shit the woman is.
But slabbering about it afterwards merely shows a complete lack of class regardless. You need to stop hanging out with trash, problem solved!    |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I was gonna comment but after the shorter version of 'How to win friends and influence people' up there ^^ I'll beat a hasty retreat"
Good idea. Don't go having an opinion or anything crazy. Someone might get offended. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been in groups where people would slag a man they rode for cuming early or whatever..does this happen a lot..?? Is it really off putting to hear about it and turn you off meeting a fella..personally I dont think anyone should be spoke about in groups like that unless it's a warning of something negative or dangerous..anyways, I'm asking cause I'm more of a Usain Bolt than a Mo Farrah..not always like, I have my good and bad moments, could either be the best 2 mins of your life or the worst hour..have a great day you crazy kids.. .
Haha there's more to shit sex than cummin too soon.
Clueless blow jobs and uncoordinated seizure like movement activity under the guise of sex. Luckily its easier for guys to be able to get themselves of regardless of how shit the woman is.
But slabbering about it afterwards merely shows a complete lack of class regardless. You need to stop hanging out with trash, problem solved! "
Well, arent you a delight |
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By *ohnFKMan
over a year ago
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"Personally I'm more put off by men who can fuck for hours. I think if it's taking you hours, you're doing it wrong!
The ideal breakdown of play in my opinion is
40% kissing, teaseing etc
40% foreplay and oral
20% fucking "
Yes!! Finally
Maybe even 30% 55% 15% (I hope this adds up to 100  )
Fucking is the beginning of the end...and I never want it to be over  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally I'm more put off by men who can fuck for hours. I think if it's taking you hours, you're doing it wrong!
The ideal breakdown of play in my opinion is
40% kissing, teaseing etc
40% foreplay and oral
20% fucking
Yes!! Finally
Maybe even 30% 55% 15% (I hope this adds up to 100 )
Fucking is the beginning of the end...and I never want it to be over "
Must remember to bring a calculator to my next meet to work out the perfect %s |
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By *issme39Woman
over a year ago
kildare |
"Personally I'm more put off by men who can fuck for hours. I think if it's taking you hours, you're doing it wrong!
The ideal breakdown of play in my opinion is
40% kissing, teaseing etc
40% foreplay and oral
20% fucking
Yes!! Finally
Maybe even 30% 55% 15% (I hope this adds up to 100 )
Fucking is the beginning of the end...and I never want it to be over "
Fucking is the final act!
Soooo much more fun to be had before that.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally I'm more put off by men who can fuck for hours. I think if it's taking you hours, you're doing it wrong!
The ideal breakdown of play in my opinion is
40% kissing, teaseing etc
40% foreplay and oral
20% fucking
Yes!! Finally
Maybe even 30% 55% 15% (I hope this adds up to 100 )
Fucking is the beginning of the end...and I never want it to be over "
Maybe we should try both formulae and see who's is better?
Mine will be obvs because I always win. But I'm happy enough to take one for the team and fuck you twice in the name of science  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been in groups where people would slag a man they rode for cuming early or whatever..does this happen a lot..?? Is it really off putting to hear about it and turn you off meeting a fella..personally I dont think anyone should be spoke about in groups like that unless it's a warning of something negative or dangerous..anyways, I'm asking cause I'm more of a Usain Bolt than a Mo Farrah..not always like, I have my good and bad moments, could either be the best 2 mins of your life or the worst hour..have a great day you crazy kids.. .
Haha there's more to shit sex than cummin too soon.
Clueless blow jobs and uncoordinated seizure like movement activity under the guise of sex. Luckily its easier for guys to be able to get themselves of regardless of how shit the woman is.
But slabbering about it afterwards merely shows a complete lack of class regardless. You need to stop hanging out with trash, problem solved!
Well, arent you a delight "
For saying women can be responsible for shit sex too and for saying that only trashy people who lack class would go around mouthing about it afterwards? lots of delicate little sunflowers out in force tonight |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been in groups where people would slag a man they rode for cuming early or whatever..does this happen a lot..?? Is it really off putting to hear about it and turn you off meeting a fella..personally I dont think anyone should be spoke about in groups like that unless it's a warning of something negative or dangerous..anyways, I'm asking cause I'm more of a Usain Bolt than a Mo Farrah..not always like, I have my good and bad moments, could either be the best 2 mins of your life or the worst hour..have a great day you crazy kids.. .
Haha there's more to shit sex than cummin too soon.
Clueless blow jobs and uncoordinated seizure like movement activity under the guise of sex. Luckily its easier for guys to be able to get themselves of regardless of how shit the woman is.
But slabbering about it afterwards merely shows a complete lack of class regardless. You need to stop hanging out with trash, problem solved!
Well, arent you a delight
For saying women can be responsible for shit sex too and for saying that only trashy people who lack class would go around mouthing about it afterwards? lots of delicate little sunflowers out in force tonight "
Bahaha, i have never been referred to as delicate lol |
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By *issme39Woman
over a year ago
kildare |
"I've been in groups where people would slag a man they rode for cuming early or whatever..does this happen a lot..?? Is it really off putting to hear about it and turn you off meeting a fella..personally I dont think anyone should be spoke about in groups like that unless it's a warning of something negative or dangerous..anyways, I'm asking cause I'm more of a Usain Bolt than a Mo Farrah..not always like, I have my good and bad moments, could either be the best 2 mins of your life or the worst hour..have a great day you crazy kids.. .
Haha there's more to shit sex than cummin too soon.
Clueless blow jobs and uncoordinated seizure like movement activity under the guise of sex. Luckily its easier for guys to be able to get themselves of regardless of how shit the woman is.
But slabbering about it afterwards merely shows a complete lack of class regardless. You need to stop hanging out with trash, problem solved!
Well, arent you a delight
For saying women can be responsible for shit sex too and for saying that only trashy people who lack class would go around mouthing about it afterwards? lots of delicate little sunflowers out in force tonight
Bahaha, i have never been referred to as delicate lol "
Am i allowed call you my flowers lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To me it doesn't matter how long a guy can go for. I've had guys who went on for hours and guys who came within 2 minutes. All that matter is that he makes the effort to get me off as well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I was gonna comment but after the shorter version of 'How to win friends and influence people' up there ^^ I'll beat a hasty retreat
Good idea. Don't go having an opinion or anything crazy. Someone might get offended. "
I've plenty of opinions matey and voice them when needs be, I just don't drop to base level insults to do so.
It's nice to be nice and even moreso to those who don't deserve it; so good luck on your journey and I hope you find what you are looking for. |
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By *ohnFKMan
over a year ago
Where the Streets Have No Name |
"Personally I'm more put off by men who can fuck for hours. I think if it's taking you hours, you're doing it wrong!
The ideal breakdown of play in my opinion is
40% kissing, teaseing etc
40% foreplay and oral
20% fucking
Yes!! Finally
Maybe even 30% 55% 15% (I hope this adds up to 100 )
Fucking is the beginning of the end...and I never want it to be over
Maybe we should try both formulae and see who's is better?
Mine will be obvs because I always win. But I'm happy enough to take one for the team and fuck you twice in the name of science "
I am very okay with this
We are continually told to 'trust the science' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally I'm more put off by men who can fuck for hours. I think if it's taking you hours, you're doing it wrong!
The ideal breakdown of play in my opinion is
40% kissing, teaseing etc
40% foreplay and oral
20% fucking "
That’s quite rigid and scientific and surely everyone lines variety rather than something so formulaic and samey every time.
Also this whine credit of saying you’re doing it wrong is kind of shaming someone and not taking any personal responsibility. It takes at least two people to create the sexual dynamic so if a man is taking along time then you might think about the situation rather than jump to the immediate thought of he’s doing it wrong.
Food for thought maybe |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally I'm more put off by men who can fuck for hours. I think if it's taking you hours, you're doing it wrong!
The ideal breakdown of play in my opinion is
40% kissing, teaseing etc
40% foreplay and oral
20% fucking
That’s quite rigid and scientific and surely everyone likes variety rather than something so formulaic and samey every time.
Also this whole craic of saying you’re doing it wrong is kind of shaming someone and not taking any personal responsibility. It takes at least two people to create the sexual dynamic so if a man is taking a long time then you might think about the situation rather than jump to the immediate thought of he’s doing it wrong.
Food for thought maybe "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally I'm more put off by men who can fuck for hours. I think if it's taking you hours, you're doing it wrong!
The ideal breakdown of play in my opinion is
40% kissing, teaseing etc
40% foreplay and oral
20% fucking
That’s quite rigid and scientific and surely everyone lines variety rather than something so formulaic and samey every time.
Also this whine credit of saying you’re doing it wrong is kind of shaming someone and not taking any personal responsibility. It takes at least two people to create the sexual dynamic so if a man is taking along time then you might think about the situation rather than jump to the immediate thought of he’s doing it wrong.
Food for thought maybe "
I wasn't really being serious about doing it wrong. Or about exact percentages. 
But yes. Everyone's lines vary and I was just expressing what I like. I'm not suggesting a bill be passed in the Dáil that all sexual activity should follow that structure...
And, to be clear, I was not talking about instances where he is not able to cum for a long time. I was talking about the large number of guys on fab who think that the ability to fuck for hours on end is a badge of honour, and who would, in my opinion, be much better off pursuing the pleasure of their partner than the duration of their ability to fuck.
Food for thought maybe.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally I'm more put off by men who can fuck for hours. I think if it's taking you hours, you're doing it wrong!
The ideal breakdown of play in my opinion is
40% kissing, teaseing etc
40% foreplay and oral
20% fucking
Yes!! Finally
Maybe even 30% 55% 15% (I hope this adds up to 100 )
Fucking is the beginning of the end...and I never want it to be over
Maybe we should try both formulae and see who's is better?
Mine will be obvs because I always win. But I'm happy enough to take one for the team and fuck you twice in the name of science
I am very okay with this
We are continually told to 'trust the science' "
One day, far into the future, they'll call us pioneers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well I was gonna comment but after the shorter version of 'How to win friends and influence people' up there ^^ I'll beat a hasty retreat
Good idea. Don't go having an opinion or anything crazy. Someone might get offended.
I've plenty of opinions matey and voice them when needs be, I just don't drop to base level insults to do so.
It's nice to be nice and even moreso to those who don't deserve it; so good luck on your journey and I hope you find what you are looking for. "
I didn't insult anyone. I gave an opinion on those who openly try to shame someone for shit sex. This was NOT directed at the OP himself. He said he has been in groups where others have done this.
You however, didn't read or interpret my post correctly at all. Sure nice guys play to the crowd "matey" . Their motives fool no one on here. |
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By *ohnFKMan
over a year ago
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"Personally I'm more put off by men who can fuck for hours. I think if it's taking you hours, you're doing it wrong!
The ideal breakdown of play in my opinion is
40% kissing, teaseing etc
40% foreplay and oral
20% fucking
That’s quite rigid and scientific and surely everyone lines variety rather than something so formulaic and samey every time.
Also this whine credit of saying you’re doing it wrong is kind of shaming someone and not taking any personal responsibility. It takes at least two people to create the sexual dynamic so if a man is taking along time then you might think about the situation rather than jump to the immediate thought of he’s doing it wrong.
Food for thought maybe "
Silly.
As if the times spent at various stages of play would actually be measured? Come on.
The %s (which I assume were a bit of fun...as they were for me in a subsequent post) just give an indication as to the weight of importance given to each stage by the writer.
The post said "ideal...in my opinion"
Clearly this was just another expression of one's own preference (which I would have thought is to be welcomed here (& throughout fab)).
I did not read this as shaming anyone or telling anyone they're doing it wrong.
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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This is quite an eratic read with several topics.
Anyhow op you're not the first one mentioning groups where peeeps discuss their meets and performances. I do believe it's quite common but I doubt anyone would admit it on the forum. I get that the ladies try to keep each other safe and swap info and that's good so, but I'd imagine it can also easily turn into a full rated review a la fab-vago.
Myself I'm more the lonesome cowgirl type who loves going for the long ride with no % attached to it. Any highly skilled sword fighter with endurance will get my admiration and preference over the finger fiddler and the pussy licker. |
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I have a married friend and we’ve been at it for over 5 years, she gives me the most intense orgasm ever, my legs actually shake when I’ve cum, we have loads of oral play and touching but when I reach a specific spot in her pussy I cum like a horse, she is the only girl who has this effect on me, when my wife and I do it I last for a long time before I cum and it’s never as much as with my BFF |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally I'm more put off by men who can fuck for hours. I think if it's taking you hours, you're doing it wrong!
The ideal breakdown of play in my opinion is
40% kissing, teaseing etc
40% foreplay and oral
20% fucking "
Agreed.
It's all one big build up. It's not just about inserting it and bang away.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a married friend and we’ve been at it for over 5 years, she gives me the most intense orgasm ever, my legs actually shake when I’ve cum, we have loads of oral play and touching but when I reach a specific spot in her pussy I cum like a horse, she is the only girl who has this effect on me, when my wife and I do it I last for a long time before I cum and it’s never as much as with my BFF"
I can relate to that.
When I was 23 I had sex with a woman I met in her car.
She jerked me off for what felt like an hour. While I kiss her and play with her boobs. Talking dirty as well.
When it came down to jumping in the back seat, pulling her jeans off and seeing her clearly extremely wet pussy for the first time... I put on a condom and could only last seconds. It felt amazing.
The only woman that had that effect on me. Which also falls in line to what was said above of 20% sex, 40% oral and 40% kissing.
I was that worked up I couldn't even last 20% for sex.
Am sure she giggled on the inside of me not lasting haha however she did an amazing job. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally I'm more put off by men who can fuck for hours. I think if it's taking you hours, you're doing it wrong!
The ideal breakdown of play in my opinion is
40% kissing, teaseing etc
40% foreplay and oral
20% fucking
That’s quite rigid and scientific and surely everyone lines variety rather than something so formulaic and samey every time.
Also this whine credit of saying you’re doing it wrong is kind of shaming someone and not taking any personal responsibility. It takes at least two people to create the sexual dynamic so if a man is taking along time then you might think about the situation rather than jump to the immediate thought of he’s doing it wrong.
Food for thought maybe
Silly.
As if the times spent at various stages of play would actually be measured? Come on.
The %s (which I assume were a bit of fun...as they were for me in a subsequent post) just give an indication as to the weight of importance given to each stage by the writer.
The post said "ideal...in my opinion"
Clearly this was just another expression of one's own preference (which I would have thought is to be welcomed here (& throughout fab)).
I did not read this as shaming anyone or telling anyone they're doing it wrong.
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So it’s ok for you to call my post silly but not ok for me to have my opinion on hers? Hmm ok right
You assume percentages were fun. That’s fine for you. I can interpret them how I want too and I saw very little humour in her post. It just looked quite sad, rigid and dogmatic to me.
Also I stand by my previous point that having this as ideal suggests a lack of interest in variety. To me that shows lack of imagination |
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By (user no longer on site)
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So it’s ok for you to call my post silly but not ok for me to have my opinion on hers? Hmm ok right
You assume percentages were fun. That’s fine for you. I can interpret them how I want too and I saw very little humour in her post. It just looked quite sad, rigid and dogmatic to me.
Also I stand by my previous point that having this as ideal suggests a lack of interest in variety. To me that shows lack of imagination"
So, hang on a second. Are you telling me that you don't set timers for each part of your play to make sure you stick to the exact ratio of kissing:foreplay:fucking?
Jesus. Have I been doing it wrong this whole time? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The only woman that had that effect on me. Which also falls in line to what was said above of 20% sex, 40% oral and 40% kissing.
I was that worked up I couldn't even last 20% for sex.
Am sure she giggled on the inside of me not lasting haha however she did an amazing job. "
See I much prefer that, when the build up has been so intense that by the time you get around to fucking it's so fast and hard and primal that it only takes a few minutes before you're both cumming hard. That to me is waaaaaaay sexier than hours of drawn out sex that leaves your pussy dry as the Sahara with 3rd degree friction burns by the end.
But I have no imagination, so what do I know? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is quite an eratic read with several topics.
Anyhow op you're not the first one mentioning groups where peeeps discuss their meets and performances. I do believe it's quite common but I doubt anyone would admit it on the forum. I get that the ladies try to keep each other safe and swap info and that's good so, but I'd imagine it can also easily turn into a full rated review a la fab-vago.
Myself I'm more the lonesome cowgirl type who loves going for the long ride with no % attached to it. Any highly skilled sword fighter with endurance will get my admiration and preference over the finger fiddler and the pussy licker. "
I will happily admit to sharing details of my plays with my close friends. If the play isn't good, I won't be an asshole about the guy (unless he was an asshole to me in some way). Sometimes the chemistry just isn't right and it's nobody's fault. But I have yet to read anything that convince me that I shouldn't share my experiences with my friends, or why I should hide that I do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is quite an eratic read with several topics.
Anyhow op you're not the first one mentioning groups where peeeps discuss their meets and performances. I do believe it's quite common but I doubt anyone would admit it on the forum. I get that the ladies try to keep each other safe and swap info and that's good so, but I'd imagine it can also easily turn into a full rated review a la fab-vago.
Myself I'm more the lonesome cowgirl type who loves going for the long ride with no % attached to it. Any highly skilled sword fighter with endurance will get my admiration and preference over the finger fiddler and the pussy licker.
I will happily admit to sharing details of my plays with my close friends. If the play isn't good, I won't be an asshole about the guy (unless he was an asshole to me in some way). Sometimes the chemistry just isn't right and it's nobody's fault. But I have yet to read anything that convince me that I shouldn't share my experiences with my friends, or why I should hide that I do. "
I hear what you are saying but am just curious as to how you feel your performance being discussed with a group of guys ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I hear what you are saying but am just curious as to how you feel your performance being discussed with a group of guys ? "
Honestly I don't mind. Obviously it would be embarrassing to think that a guy I'd played with was saying I was shite in bed. But I honestly don't see that as something that would happen. I'm confident in my shagging skills and I know that if the play doesn't go well, it's not cos it's my fault. It's just the wrong chemistry. I'm not insecure about anything I do in bed. So I just don't really worry about it.
If anything I quite like the idea of my men talking about my skills |
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I hear what you are saying but am just curious as to how you feel your performance being discussed with a group of guys ?
Honestly I don't mind. Obviously it would be embarrassing to think that a guy I'd played with was saying I was shite in bed. But I honestly don't see that as something that would happen. I'm confident in my shagging skills and I know that if the play doesn't go well, it's not cos it's my fault. It's just the wrong chemistry. I'm not insecure about anything I do in bed. So I just don't really worry about it.
If anything I quite like the idea of my men talking about my skills "
I too am not insecure about my performances in bed , But I'd not like to be discussed or worse again to be discussed openly in a kik group . |
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I hear what you are saying but am just curious as to how you feel your performance being discussed with a group of guys ?
Honestly I don't mind. Obviously it would be embarrassing to think that a guy I'd played with was saying I was shite in bed. But I honestly don't see that as something that would happen. I'm confident in my shagging skills and I know that if the play doesn't go well, it's not cos it's my fault. It's just the wrong chemistry. I'm not insecure about anything I do in bed. So I just don't really worry about it.
If anything I quite like the idea of my men talking about my skills
I too am not insecure about my performances in bed , But I'd not like to be discussed or worse again to be discussed openly in a kik group ."
*shrug
I don't really have anything to say to that. Obvs everyone has their own preferences. But I still don't see why I shouldn't share my sex life with my close friends. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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I hear what you are saying but am just curious as to how you feel your performance being discussed with a group of guys ?
Honestly I don't mind. Obviously it would be embarrassing to think that a guy I'd played with was saying I was shite in bed. But I honestly don't see that as something that would happen. I'm confident in my shagging skills and I know that if the play doesn't go well, it's not cos it's my fault. It's just the wrong chemistry. I'm not insecure about anything I do in bed. So I just don't really worry about it.
If anything I quite like the idea of my men talking about my skills
I too am not insecure about my performances in bed , But I'd not like to be discussed or worse again to be discussed openly in a kik group ."
It's not just there it is discussed other apps are used as well. 
It's not just rating guys performances that are shared either which personally I find wrong anyhow. Personal amd private info and pics are quite often shared. Along with recommendations etc.
Then of course people in that group share the info with another group and so on. Nothing exactly discreet about it and sharing private info and pics is not something I will ever think is right.
Talking with best friends about things is one thing sharing in groups is completely another thing. |
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By *oo32Man
over a year ago
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I hear what you are saying but am just curious as to how you feel your performance being discussed with a group of guys ?
Honestly I don't mind. Obviously it would be embarrassing to think that a guy I'd played with was saying I was shite in bed. But I honestly don't see that as something that would happen. I'm confident in my shagging skills and I know that if the play doesn't go well, it's not cos it's my fault. It's just the wrong chemistry. I'm not insecure about anything I do in bed. So I just don't really worry about it.
If anything I quite like the idea of my men talking about my skills
I too am not insecure about my performances in bed , But I'd not like to be discussed or worse again to be discussed openly in a kik group .
It's not just there it is discussed other apps are used as well.
It's not just rating guys performances that are shared either which personally I find wrong anyhow. Personal amd private info and pics are quite often shared. Along with recommendations etc.
Then of course people in that group share the info with another group and so on. Nothing exactly discreet about it and sharing private info and pics is not something I will ever think is right.
Talking with best friends about things is one thing sharing in groups is completely another thing. "
So who's sharing what?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I hear what you are saying but am just curious as to how you feel your performance being discussed with a group of guys ?
Honestly I don't mind. Obviously it would be embarrassing to think that a guy I'd played with was saying I was shite in bed. But I honestly don't see that as something that would happen. I'm confident in my shagging skills and I know that if the play doesn't go well, it's not cos it's my fault. It's just the wrong chemistry. I'm not insecure about anything I do in bed. So I just don't really worry about it.
If anything I quite like the idea of my men talking about my skills
I too am not insecure about my performances in bed , But I'd not like to be discussed or worse again to be discussed openly in a kik group .
*shrug
I don't really have anything to say to that. Obvs everyone has their own preferences. But I still don't see why I shouldn't share my sex life with my close friends. "
Sharing with close friends is very different than Sharing with a random fab members group of whom we really know nothing about apart from their online image and the online personality they wish to be perceived by . |
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I hear what you are saying but am just curious as to how you feel your performance being discussed with a group of guys ?
Honestly I don't mind. Obviously it would be embarrassing to think that a guy I'd played with was saying I was shite in bed. But I honestly don't see that as something that would happen. I'm confident in my shagging skills and I know that if the play doesn't go well, it's not cos it's my fault. It's just the wrong chemistry. I'm not insecure about anything I do in bed. So I just don't really worry about it.
If anything I quite like the idea of my men talking about my skills
I too am not insecure about my performances in bed , But I'd not like to be discussed or worse again to be discussed openly in a kik group .
It's not just there it is discussed other apps are used as well.
It's not just rating guys performances that are shared either which personally I find wrong anyhow. Personal amd private info and pics are quite often shared. Along with recommendations etc.
Then of course people in that group share the info with another group and so on. Nothing exactly discreet about it and sharing private info and pics is not something I will ever think is right.
Talking with best friends about things is one thing sharing in groups is completely another thing. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hear what you are saying but am just curious as to how you feel your performance being discussed with a group of guys ?
Honestly I don't mind. Obviously it would be embarrassing to think that a guy I'd played with was saying I was shite in bed. But I honestly don't see that as something that would happen. I'm confident in my shagging skills and I know that if the play doesn't go well, it's not cos it's my fault. It's just the wrong chemistry. I'm not insecure about anything I do in bed. So I just don't really worry about it.
If anything I quite like the idea of my men talking about my skills
I too am not insecure about my performances in bed , But I'd not like to be discussed or worse again to be discussed openly in a kik group .
*shrug
I don't really have anything to say to that. Obvs everyone has their own preferences. But I still don't see why I shouldn't share my sex life with my close friends.
Sharing with close friends is very different than Sharing with a random fab members group of whom we really know nothing about apart from their online image and the online personality they wish to be perceived by . "
Yeah, but I'm only talking about sharing with my close friends group. Not wider groups of strangers. |
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By *P_80Man
over a year ago
Waterford |
While I'd rather it didn't happen, I don't worry about it if it was happening.
But anyone that thinks it's ok to discuss it on a public platform is just classless and not worth getting upset over.
Discussing between friends is totally acceptable however. |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
Two of my biggest fears when I joined here
It had been so long what would happen
If I was / am crap in bed as you can't teach an old dog new tricks would they think bad of me and discuss it in groups.
There's a huge difference between saying to a real friend...your man wasn't great ...and telling a kik group in my opinion.
I actually thought that the thread was started as a laugh because of the OP but having seen the thread a few weeks ago by a woman along the same lines I now understand the divisions it can cause
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
"Kik and other groups can destroy a person’s reputation on here "
I've a man sending private messages to women on here about me which is just as bad.....I'll say a quick feck off message to him here as he reads the forums |
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"Kik and other groups can destroy a person’s reputation on here
I've a man sending private messages to women on here about me which is just as bad.....I'll say a quick feck off message to him here as he reads the forums "
Sorry about that  |
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By *P_80Man
over a year ago
Waterford |
"Kik and other groups can destroy a person’s reputation on here
I've a man sending private messages to women on here about me which is just as bad.....I'll say a quick feck off message to him here as he reads the forums "
I have no doubt that this kind of thing goes on.
I'm pretty sure there are plenty on here who don't like me, and that's fine. Just like out in the real world we're not gonna be everyone's cup of tea. It's life.
But to stoop that low is one of the most pathetic things anyone can do. |
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"Kik and other groups can destroy a person’s reputation on here
I've a man sending private messages to women on here about me which is just as bad.....I'll say a quick feck off message to him here as he reads the forums "
ohh my days
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Kik and other groups can destroy a person’s reputation on here
I've a man sending private messages to women on here about me which is just as bad.....I'll say a quick feck off message to him here as he reads the forums "
In fairness, you're a terrible man. A deviant. A threat to us all.
The man in question is only trying to protect us from you. His words, not mine! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The only woman that had that effect on me. Which also falls in line to what was said above of 20% sex, 40% oral and 40% kissing.
I was that worked up I couldn't even last 20% for sex.
Am sure she giggled on the inside of me not lasting haha however she did an amazing job.
See I much prefer that, when the build up has been so intense that by the time you get around to fucking it's so fast and hard and primal that it only takes a few minutes before you're both cumming hard. That to me is waaaaaaay sexier than hours of drawn out sex that leaves your pussy dry as the Sahara with 3rd degree friction burns by the end.
But I have no imagination, so what do I know? "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Kik and other groups can destroy a person’s reputation on here
I've a man sending private messages to women on here about me which is just as bad.....I'll say a quick feck off message to him here as he reads the forums "
I feel left out he hasn't messaged me to stay away.. Am i not in with a chance with you BM? |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
"Kik and other groups can destroy a person’s reputation on here
I've a man sending private messages to women on here about me which is just as bad.....I'll say a quick feck off message to him here as he reads the forums
I feel left out he hasn't messaged me to stay away.. Am i not in with a chance with you BM? "
Funny you should say that...ive sent you a pm |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
"Kik and other groups can destroy a person’s reputation on here
I've a man sending private messages to women on here about me which is just as bad.....I'll say a quick feck off message to him here as he reads the forums
Sorry about that "
If only it was you mick...this fella wont show his arse on the forums...literally all mouth and no trousers |
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"Kik and other groups can destroy a person’s reputation on here
I've a man sending private messages to women on here about me which is just as bad.....I'll say a quick feck off message to him here as he reads the forums
Sorry about that
If only it was you mick...this fella wont show his arse on the forums...literally all mouth and no trousers "
I won't show my arse on it either although I've shown my mickey a few times, much to the delight of mná na hÉireann |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've blown a load in 30 seconds and blown a load after 30 minutes it happens, important thing is that If I cum I don't just get up and go, I always make sure the lady cums too |
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"I've blown a load in 30 seconds and blown a load after 30 minutes it happens, important thing is that If I cum I don't just get up and go, I always make sure the lady cums too"
So you get up and go and bring the lady with you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've blown a load in 30 seconds and blown a load after 30 minutes it happens, important thing is that If I cum I don't just get up and go, I always make sure the lady cums too
So you get up and go and bring the lady with you? "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've blown a load in 30 seconds and blown a load after 30 minutes it happens, important thing is that If I cum I don't just get up and go, I always make sure the lady cums too
So you get up and go and bring the lady with you? "
Exactly lol |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"Kik and other groups can destroy a person’s reputation on here
I've a man sending private messages to women on here about me which is just as bad.....I'll say a quick feck off message to him here as he reads the forums
Sorry about that
If only it was you mick...this fella wont show his arse on the forums...literally all mouth and no trousers
I won't show my arse on it either although I've shown my mickey a few times, much to the delight of mná na hÉireann "
Crap at Irish and for a second thought you flashing your mickey to The President of Ireland
Michael flashing his mickey to Mickey D would have got you locked up |
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"Kik and other groups can destroy a person’s reputation on here
I've a man sending private messages to women on here about me which is just as bad.....I'll say a quick feck off message to him here as he reads the forums
Sorry about that
If only it was you mick...this fella wont show his arse on the forums...literally all mouth and no trousers
I won't show my arse on it either although I've shown my mickey a few times, much to the delight of mná na hÉireann
Crap at Irish and for a second thought you flashing your mickey to The President of Ireland
Michael flashing his mickey to Mickey D would have got you locked up "
Mná na hÉireann - the wimmin of Ireland |
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"Kik and other groups can destroy a person’s reputation on here
I've a man sending private messages to women on here about me which is just as bad.....I'll say a quick feck off message to him here as he reads the forums
Sorry about that
If only it was you mick...this fella wont show his arse on the forums...literally all mouth and no trousers
I won't show my arse on it either although I've shown my mickey a few times, much to the delight of mná na hÉireann
Crap at Irish and for a second thought you flashing your mickey to The President of Ireland
Michael flashing his mickey to Mickey D would have got you locked up
Mná na hÉireann - the wimmin of Ireland "
As twink would say zip it up. |
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"Kik and other groups can destroy a person’s reputation on here
I've a man sending private messages to women on here about me which is just as bad.....I'll say a quick feck off message to him here as he reads the forums
Sorry about that
If only it was you mick...this fella wont show his arse on the forums...literally all mouth and no trousers
I won't show my arse on it either although I've shown my mickey a few times, much to the delight of mná na hÉireann
Crap at Irish and for a second thought you flashing your mickey to The President of Ireland
Michael flashing his mickey to Mickey D would have got you locked up
Mná na hÉireann - the wimmin of Ireland
As twink would say zip it up. "
She'd say it to her ex at least. |
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"Kik and other groups can destroy a person’s reputation on here
I've a man sending private messages to women on here about me which is just as bad.....I'll say a quick feck off message to him here as he reads the forums
Sorry about that
If only it was you mick...this fella wont show his arse on the forums...literally all mouth and no trousers
I won't show my arse on it either although I've shown my mickey a few times, much to the delight of mná na hÉireann
Crap at Irish and for a second thought you flashing your mickey to The President of Ireland
Michael flashing his mickey to Mickey D would have got you locked up
Mná na hÉireann - the wimmin of Ireland
As twink would say zip it up.
She'd say it to her ex at least. "
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For me, the fucking reeeeeeally is the main event. I enjoy foreplay and oral, but if I'm having a meet I want to be fucked for a good while... Cumming quickly doesn't really work for me in that sense, but as long as there's a round 2 it doesn't bother me at all.
If I've arranged a meet with a guy and it's all foreplay & oral with 5 mins of fucking and then he leaves... No thank you. Not for me. Would rather not bother tbh.
That's for meets though, where the sex is the whole point. In a relationship of course things are different, there's more ebb and flow because the potential for more sex is always there! |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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The problem with swapping information about meets is what is good for one might not be good for another. The few examples on the thread show that everyone expects something different from a meet and if you bring in chemistry this becomes even more accentuated. I prefer to make up my own mind rather than being influenced by someone else's experience.
From a moral point of view, where does tips and recommendations end and cockblocking/pussyblocking start? How much information can you share before there is a break in trust? When turns sharing experiences into gossip? I could go on with that questionnaire endlessly, but I save you the boredom.
For me it's about having respect for the people I meet/met to upkeep the integrity of the encounter, but also to saveguard your own memories.
Anyhow by the end of the day people will do what they like, just be aware that it sometimes has consequences you might not like. |
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"The problem with swapping information about meets is what is good for one might not be good for another. The few examples on the thread show that everyone expects something different from a meet and if you bring in chemistry this becomes even more accentuated. I prefer to make up my own mind rather than being influenced by someone else's experience.
From a moral point of view, where does tips and recommendations end and cockblocking/pussyblocking start? How much information can you share before there is a break in trust? When turns sharing experiences into gossip? I could go on with that questionnaire endlessly, but I save you the boredom.
For me it's about having respect for the people I meet/met to upkeep the integrity of the encounter, but also to saveguard your own memories.
Anyhow by the end of the day people will do what they like, just be aware that it sometimes has consequences you might not like. "
I have to agree |
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By *eminexWoman
over a year ago
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I don't think anyone should write in any group about a man who cums early and say his name !
Tbh if it only lasts two mins I would be kinda disappointed not gonna lie . .but if he tried again later I'd be happy  |
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There are very few days that go by without a quick roll of the eyes at something said on the fab forums.
Today however has been one of those days where they have rolled so much I need to check that when they stopped they were still pointing in the same direction
The level of hyperbole and hypocrisy is laughable and yes I know it's only my opinion but contrary to the belief of some on fab and on this thread, despite having a penis I'm still entitled to an opinion.
Self belief is to be admired but not all of us have been lucky enough to have had it throughout our lives and when we find it we should grasp it with both hands and hold on tight.
However some people tend to swing it like a baseball bat when they are challenged.
We all know about the group chats where nothing is off limits and performance and/or related issues are a hot topic.
We all know about other medium including broadcast where similar things are openly discussed and joked about and men rarely come out of those well either.
Self belief is a beautiful thing, beligerance is pure ugly.
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"There are very few days that go by without a quick roll of the eyes at something said on the fab forums.
Today however has been one of those days where they have rolled so much I need to check that when they stopped they were still pointing in the same direction
The level of hyperbole and hypocrisy is laughable and yes I know it's only my opinion but contrary to the belief of some on fab and on this thread, despite having a penis I'm still entitled to an opinion.
Self belief is to be admired but not all of us have been lucky enough to have had it throughout our lives and when we find it we should grasp it with both hands and hold on tight.
However some people tend to swing it like a baseball bat when they are challenged.
We all know about the group chats where nothing is off limits and performance and/or related issues are a hot topic.
We all know about other medium including broadcast where similar things are openly discussed and joked about and men rarely come out of those well either.
Self belief is a beautiful thing, beligerance is pure ugly.
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"The problem with swapping information about meets is what is good for one might not be good for another. The few examples on the thread show that everyone expects something different from a meet and if you bring in chemistry this becomes even more accentuated. I prefer to make up my own mind rather than being influenced by someone else's experience.
From a moral point of view, where does tips and recommendations end and cockblocking/pussyblocking start? How much information can you share before there is a break in trust? When turns sharing experiences into gossip? I could go on with that questionnaire endlessly, but I save you the boredom.
For me it's about having respect for the people I meet/met to upkeep the integrity of the encounter, but also to saveguard your own memories.
Anyhow by the end of the day people will do what they like, just be aware that it sometimes has consequences you might not like. "
Excellent post. |
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Ahh..Classic Fab post. Realitybites nailed it.
Anyway to the OP. Yep that would be bad.. I'd say talking to your best friend is okay but groups no..and the more we see in this world the less we can judge so I am sure what is discussed with the best friend would not usually be in a bad light.
Personally nothing is worse when you have a meet, but it's one of those meets that does not have a lot of time (no waiting a few minutes and go again). And you know you will be judged harshly based on it. You could be nervous/anxious/getting sick...or even a peice of falling masonry might do trick and you blow your beans too early. It's so horribe as that's the last thing you want.
(Warning "blow your beans" may of bean added for comedic effect)
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