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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok this is one for you fabbers so i would like to know peoples views on this it's probably been done before. So what do you think of pictures with face here do people think it's confidence? I am very much aware it's an individual thing and people can do as they wish. Is is lack of dignity? Do you like the suspense of not seeing the face on pictures? Be kind and considerate i'm just interested  |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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I think it's confidence and they don't mind that people know they are on here. It's a very individual thing. I don't show my face because I've always been a private person and I don't want to deal with the agro if work found out etc.
The only time I'd question seeing someone's face is on a usually I have to say a single males profile and there is pics of them having sex with a woman and her face is on show and yet there is not one single face pic of him. That always makes me wonder does that woman even know her pic has been used ans if I saw it the opposite way around I'd ask the same question. But as of yet its always the woman's face on show that I have seen. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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With a new profile it can be published in error. Always worth a gentle email just in case that it is one. After that it can be confidence, no fear of effects, bravery or even a fake profile! It's what we do as viewers is what matters, as in respect their privacy. That is what is expected from us as a minimum.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are protective of our own privacy and our families, our actions have the potential to affect those close to us, there are too many nutjobs and malicious individuals out there for me to be so careless in revealing my identity. I would assume that those showing their faces don't have such concerns. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"With a new profile it can be published in error. Always worth a gentle email just in case that it is one. After that it can be confidence, no fear of effects, bravery or even a fake profile! It's what we do as viewers is what matters, as in respect their privacy. That is what is expected from us as a minimum.
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I think this may have happened to me the very first time and possibly this time aswell for a short period ooops but fully clothed which i don't mind so much lol. The very first time about 3 years ago now got a mail to say it was on show . Got a face picture back and i knew the person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer not to see faces, a picture (often very posed and filtered) really gives me no indication as to whether I will find the person attractive in the flesh. We don't exchange picture at all and go straight to social meet. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think it's confidence and they don't mind that people know they are on here. It's a very individual thing. I don't show my face because I've always been a private person and I don't want to deal with the agro if work found out etc.
The only time I'd question seeing someone's face is on a usually I have to say a single males profile and there is pics of them having sex with a woman and her face is on show and yet there is not one single face pic of him. That always makes me wonder does that woman even know her pic has been used ans if I saw it the opposite way around I'd ask the same question. But as of yet its always the woman's face on show that I have seen. "
This is another reason why I dont like to do group meets i had a bad experience when i joined first a few years ago . I went to a meet with two guys mmf i was so excited for my first experience. I had said quite clearly no pictures or face pictures in the middle of the meet when things were really heating up he took out the phone. At this point i was really excited and naive really when i think about it . I asked him to stop i didn't want pictures but he kept doing it and said he can edit them. I couldn't relax after that as he kept doing it ever two seconds taking lots but i didn't know much about the new phone technology then. So after it i said can I see asked him to delete as i have tattoos showing aswell etc. He said look i can edit showed me blur feature etc but now I know the originals are still there. I had words with people after this incidence as I see him using one on me on his profile after without my permission. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think it's confidence and they don't mind that people know they are on here. It's a very individual thing. I don't show my face because I've always been a private person and I don't want to deal with the agro if work found out etc.
The only time I'd question seeing someone's face is on a usually I have to say a single males profile and there is pics of them having sex with a woman and her face is on show and yet there is not one single face pic of him. That always makes me wonder does that woman even know her pic has been used ans if I saw it the opposite way around I'd ask the same question. But as of yet its always the woman's face on show that I have seen.
This is another reason why I dont like to do group meets i had a bad experience when i joined first a few years ago . I went to a meet with two guys mmf i was so excited for my first experience. I had said quite clearly no pictures or face pictures in the middle of the meet when things were really heating up he took out the phone. At this point i was really excited and naive really when i think about it . I asked him to stop i didn't want pictures but he kept doing it and said he can edit them. I couldn't relax after that as he kept doing it ever two seconds taking lots but i didn't know much about the new phone technology then. So after it i said can I see asked him to delete as i have tattoos showing aswell etc. He said look i can edit showed me blur feature etc but now I know the originals are still there. I had words with people after this incidence as I see him using one on me on his profile after without my permission. "
We never allow people to take pics of us. We will take pics (if given permission) and then share them with that person after cropping out our own faces. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think it's confidence and they don't mind that people know they are on here. It's a very individual thing. I don't show my face because I've always been a private person and I don't want to deal with the agro if work found out etc.
The only time I'd question seeing someone's face is on a usually I have to say a single males profile and there is pics of them having sex with a woman and her face is on show and yet there is not one single face pic of him. That always makes me wonder does that woman even know her pic has been used ans if I saw it the opposite way around I'd ask the same question. But as of yet its always the woman's face on show that I have seen.
This is another reason why I dont like to do group meets i had a bad experience when i joined first a few years ago . I went to a meet with two guys mmf i was so excited for my first experience. I had said quite clearly no pictures or face pictures in the middle of the meet when things were really heating up he took out the phone. At this point i was really excited and naive really when i think about it . I asked him to stop i didn't want pictures but he kept doing it and said he can edit them. I couldn't relax after that as he kept doing it ever two seconds taking lots but i didn't know much about the new phone technology then. So after it i said can I see asked him to delete as i have tattoos showing aswell etc. He said look i can edit showed me blur feature etc but now I know the originals are still there. I had words with people after this incidence as I see him using one on me on his profile after without my permission.
We never allow people to take pics of us. We will take pics (if given permission) and then share them with that person after cropping out our own faces. "
Yes believe me i have learned a very valuable lesson from that experience. I must rather a relaxed atmosphere. |
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"I think it's confidence and they don't mind that people know they are on here. It's a very individual thing. I don't show my face because I've always been a private person and I don't want to deal with the agro if work found out etc.
The only time I'd question seeing someone's face is on a usually I have to say a single males profile and there is pics of them having sex with a woman and her face is on show and yet there is not one single face pic of him. That always makes me wonder does that woman even know her pic has been used ans if I saw it the opposite way around I'd ask the same question. But as of yet its always the woman's face on show that I have seen. "
I've seen a few male face pics on female profiles and often wondered if they had agreed to their pic being shared or if some would see it as a badge of honour that they had met a particular profile?
I've no problem with people putting up their own face pic if they feel comfortable with it but I'd balance than comment against previous threads where pic sharing was discussed and the inherent danger of strangers having access to face pics etc. |
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For me, it’s a privacy thing. Ireland is too small and with work it would be impossible if my face was in a public forum. I will share privately when I’m comfortable after chatting to someone. Parents, brothers, sisters, work or Kids at a guess is why I would say most people wouldn’t have a public profile face pic. Wouldn’t say it’s anything to do with dignity as anyone that I have met or chatted to is very dignified. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"For me, it’s a privacy thing. Ireland is too small and with work it would be impossible if my face was in a public forum. I will share privately when I’m comfortable after chatting to someone. Parents, brothers, sisters, work or Kids at a guess is why I would say most people wouldn’t have a public profile face pic. Wouldn’t say it’s anything to do with dignity as anyone that I have met or chatted to is very dignified. "
Yes but a self value going by what you say is your family is worthy of not seeing you yes. I actually prefer the suspense of not seeing when i look at hot pictures but like you say it's an individual thing. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think it's confidence and they don't mind that people know they are on here. It's a very individual thing. I don't show my face because I've always been a private person and I don't want to deal with the agro if work found out etc.
The only time I'd question seeing someone's face is on a usually I have to say a single males profile and there is pics of them having sex with a woman and her face is on show and yet there is not one single face pic of him. That always makes me wonder does that woman even know her pic has been used ans if I saw it the opposite way around I'd ask the same question. But as of yet its always the woman's face on show that I have seen.
I've seen a few male face pics on female profiles and often wondered if they had agreed to their pic being shared or if some would see it as a badge of honour that they had met a particular profile?
I've no problem with people putting up their own face pic if they feel comfortable with it but I'd balance than comment against previous threads where pic sharing was discussed and the inherent danger of strangers having access to face pics etc. "
Do you mean a face picture being shared clothed or non clothed? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't store face pictures privately uploaded to Fabs anymore. I send direct from phone. If account is compromised, no facepics available. Also, because they are not uploaded, there is no Fabs watermark added so when face picture is sent to recipient, it has no watermark added. It is a standard picture. This is a site supporter feature but the receiver of the email/picture does not have to be a site supporter to see picture. |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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I don't think it has much to do with confidence but simple attention seeking, bit of bravery maybe and/or naivety.
I cherish my privacy and safety too much to jeopardise it with face fab publications and I don't need unnecessary drama.
Each on their own. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't store face pictures privately uploaded to Fabs anymore. I send direct from phone. If account is compromised, no facepics available. Also, because they are not uploaded, there is no Fabs watermark added so when face picture is sent to recipient, it has no watermark added. It is a standard picture. This is a site supporter feature but the receiver of the email/picture does not have to be a site supporter to see picture. "
Great tip off thanks for that . I wonder now about the photo verification pictures then as they cannot be removed. What happens in this case if ones account was compromised i wonder. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Many people are very open about their swinging and their bodies so have nothing to hide. Others are a bit thick and havent thought it through. "
"Thick" is probably a bit harsh, I do have to wonder sometimes at how some people get to a certain age and can still be so naive. Or is it that they believe swinging to be some kind of caring community full of unicorns and butterflies who wouldn't harm a soul? |
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"For me, it’s a privacy thing. Ireland is too small and with work it would be impossible if my face was in a public forum. I will share privately when I’m comfortable after chatting to someone. Parents, brothers, sisters, work or Kids at a guess is why I would say most people wouldn’t have a public profile face pic. Wouldn’t say it’s anything to do with dignity as anyone that I have met or chatted to is very dignified.
Yes but a self value going by what you say is your family is worthy of not seeing you yes. I actually prefer the suspense of not seeing when i look at hot pictures but like you say it's an individual thing. "
I get the suspense element, but it wouldn’t be the initial driver for not having public face pics. The suspense domes when you start chatting with someone where you think there may be a connection. Then it comes down to trust and taking that blind leap of faith.  |
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By *eminexWoman
over a year ago
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I think ppl who use face pics here obviously don't mind anyone knowing them.....
For me I'd never put up a face pic , one as I like this side of my life to remain private .
Two I've Children and I'd hate someone to say I seen your mam on fab !
If I have any interest in meeting I will of course ask for a face pic ...other then tht it's not essential |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"For me, it’s a privacy thing. Ireland is too small and with work it would be impossible if my face was in a public forum. I will share privately when I’m comfortable after chatting to someone. Parents, brothers, sisters, work or Kids at a guess is why I would say most people wouldn’t have a public profile face pic. Wouldn’t say it’s anything to do with dignity as anyone that I have met or chatted to is very dignified.
Yes but a self value going by what you say is your family is worthy of not seeing you yes. I actually prefer the suspense of not seeing when i look at hot pictures but like you say it's an individual thing.
I get the suspense element, but it wouldn’t be the initial driver for not having public face pics. The suspense domes when you start chatting with someone where you think there may be a connection. Then it comes down to trust and taking that blind leap of faith. "
For me the suspense comes both from viewing the pictures and speaking to the person/persons for some time . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I often have face pictures up.
I don't think it has anything to do with a lack of dignity. If anything, I think it's probably more dignified to show your face and not hide, although I completely under why most people don't.
I also don't think it's to do with confidence. I'm very confident but that's not why I show my face. And I know lots of v confident people here who choose not to.
I mostly show my face because fuck it. Why not? I work for myself so I don't have an employer to worry about. I have f all information about my kinks etc on my profile. I keep my verifications private. And I don't show pics of my pussy etc.
The way I see it, if my cousin was on here and stumbled across my face, there's nothing on my profile I'd be embarrassed about. So who cares? |
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"I think ppl who use face pics here obviously don't mind anyone knowing them.....
For me I'd never put up a face pic , one as I like this side of my life to remain private .
Two I've Children and I'd hate someone to say I seen your mam on fab !
If I have any interest in meeting I will of course ask for a face pic ...other then tht it's not essential"
Agreed, each to their own and this is something very private and intimate and for sharing with the people you choose to share with and not everyone who some just come on here for a few weeks to see what they can get. It’s a lifestyle choice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" Great tip off thanks for that . I wonder now about the photo verification pictures then as they cannot be removed. What happens in this case if ones account was compromised i wonder. "
Get photo verified using the body and no face option holding the Fabs username in paper. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ireland is small, people talk and we have all been sent those WhatsApp videos. It's a alternative site and I don't want my family having to listen to comments from narrow minded bizzy bodies with nothing better to do. While I have nothing to hide or be guilty of, for me it is best to not show publicly. Also I don't want comments in work with colleagues and managers etc. Just not worth it.
Sometimes it pops into my head about the excitement of posting a public facepic.....but it quickly disappears. I have no problem sending privately.
Sorry to hear about your experience OP with those mm assholes. They should not be on here if they don't understand how important the word 'NO' is on here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok this is one for you fabbers so i would like to know peoples views on this it's probably been done before. So what do you think of pictures with face here do people think it's confidence? I am very much aware it's an individual thing and people can do as they wish. Is is lack of dignity? Do you like the suspense of not seeing the face on pictures? Be kind and considerate i'm just interested "
So I have a few face pics up for the first time this week, but only because it's Halloween and I'm wearing wigs etc and look nothing like normal boring me. I'm lucky though because even if someone I know does recognise me, it's not going to ruin my life because I'm very open about my lifestyle choices and its accepted by the people close to me.
Having said that I probably wouldn't put an everyday face pic up! I'm not usually one for the selfies unless I am in costume or looking particularly good. So hats off to people who post selfies on here, fair play to them x
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ireland is small, people talk and we have all been sent those WhatsApp videos. It's a alternative site and I don't want my family having to listen to comments from narrow minded bizzy bodies with nothing better to do. While I have nothing to hide or be guilty of, for me it is best to not show publicly. Also I don't want comments in work with colleagues and managers etc. Just not worth it.
Sometimes it pops into my head about the excitement of posting a public facepic.....but it quickly disappears. I have no problem sending privately.
Sorry to hear about your experience OP with those mm assholes. They should not be on here if they don't understand how important the word 'NO' is on here "
It was just one them the other was a quiet guy and he didn't say anything really. The same guy who one this may still be on fab very immature alnld disrespectul,he was sending videos in private aswell with womens face showing. I did have many words afterwards to him about his behaviour not just me others aswell. No means no like you said. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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"I think it's confidence and they don't mind that people know they are on here. It's a very individual thing. I don't show my face because I've always been a private person and I don't want to deal with the agro if work found out etc.
The only time I'd question seeing someone's face is on a usually I have to say a single males profile and there is pics of them having sex with a woman and her face is on show and yet there is not one single face pic of him. That always makes me wonder does that woman even know her pic has been used ans if I saw it the opposite way around I'd ask the same question. But as of yet its always the woman's face on show that I have seen.
I've seen a few male face pics on female profiles and often wondered if they had agreed to their pic being shared or if some would see it as a badge of honour that they had met a particular profile?
I've no problem with people putting up their own face pic if they feel comfortable with it but I'd balance than comment against previous threads where pic sharing was discussed and the inherent danger of strangers having access to face pics etc. "
Yes it should work both ways. No one should ever share another person's face pic without permission. Usually if both persons profile name is on the pic you know they have given permission. But a friend of mine had her pics used including her face pic and it's a horrible thing to happen . And I'd react the same if it was a guys pic being used.
It's also why I don't share face pics unless I get to know someone for quite a while first too many people on here sharing them to others. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I didnt read everything but I think it shows real confidence. I love seeing face pics and wouldn't meet someone without seeing a face pic from here (I would in a normal blind date set up ).
In saying that though for me personally i would never put a face pic up publicly and I dont send them out easily either. |
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I think it's not to do with confidence, more a feeling of security, in that they don't feel that someone knowing they are on the site is a threat to them in any way.
For me, I have mine hidden because I'd rather avoid any awkward convos with family, coworkers etc if possible! Also I've had some creepy interactions on here where guys would find me on insta or other dating apps... Not great! |
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By *andy KTV/TS
over a year ago
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I think it is confidence I must admit I didn’t show my face when I 1st joined this site ...but we only have 1 life and just do what is fun .. I like to see a face and body pics ..I understand not everyone is going to do that but at least have them in private |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think it is confidence I must admit I didn’t show my face when I 1st joined this site ...but we only have 1 life and just do what is fun .. I like to see a face and body pics ..I understand not everyone is going to do that but at least have them in private "
Yes i think confidence definitely plays a part in it as does people pleasing /attention perhaps for some. For me i feel there is enough judgment in this big bad world rather than add to . I do admire and think yeah fair play but then there is those who just use so much filters so what is the point. Yes in private is one thing and fair play to those who have complete integrity with family and friends. It is not a topic of conversation during Xmas dinner with family or out with vanillia friends i would imagine because it seems to be such a secretive lifestyle in general really. But how many actually do tell all family and friends about this lifestyle.
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I have my face up. I've been here for a couple of years now and only recently posted my face. I'm not embarrassed about being on fab. And I'm definitely not embarrassed by my body but I made my more revealing pictures private.
I have plenty of dignity too.
I don't edit my pictures, including my face. That's what I actually look like.
At least now I never have to feel the anxiety of sharing a face pic with someone. And it's a much nicer feeling for me to get a message about how beautiful someone thinks my eyes are rather than my tits.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have my face up. I've been here for a couple of years now and only recently posted my face. I'm not embarrassed about being on fab. And I'm definitely not embarrassed by my body but I made my more revealing pictures private.
I have plenty of dignity too.
I don't edit my pictures, including my face. That's what I actually look like.
At least now I never have to feel the anxiety of sharing a face pic with someone. And it's a much nicer feeling for me to get a message about how beautiful someone thinks my eyes are rather than my tits.
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Well what a pretty lady you are and if you are happy then that's al that matters. Do you not worry about family friends work colleagues judging your lifestyle choices? I know i wish it wasn't such a secretive lifestyle in general or something to feel ashamed of but it's how i feel vanillia/righteous people would view it. I saying that i have told a few friends and one family member knows. But I guess to avoid most contraversy is why most don't. |
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"I have my face up. I've been here for a couple of years now and only recently posted my face. I'm not embarrassed about being on fab. And I'm definitely not embarrassed by my body but I made my more revealing pictures private.
I have plenty of dignity too.
I don't edit my pictures, including my face. That's what I actually look like.
At least now I never have to feel the anxiety of sharing a face pic with someone. And it's a much nicer feeling for me to get a message about how beautiful someone thinks my eyes are rather than my tits.
Well what a pretty lady you are and if you are happy then that's al that matters. Do you not worry about family friends work colleagues judging your lifestyle choices? I know i wish it wasn't such a secretive lifestyle in general or something to feel ashamed of but it's how i feel vanillia/righteous people would view it. I saying that i have told a few friends and one family member knows. But I guess to avoid most contraversy is why most don't. "
I couldn't give a donkeys bollox who knows I'm here. My dad found my profile ages ago and that was the big fear I had. But when it came down to it I realised I didn't care. I'm an adult. I have sex. There's nothing for me to be ashamed or embarrassed about.
I'm proud of all of my pictures. My body looks great. I've always been someone who was very comfortable being naked around others. So having people see my nudes isn't a big deal to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had a face pic as my avatar before but I can't say I did it due to confidence or throwing caution to the wind. In a way I didn't see it as any different to choosing any other picture!
They're all of me, at the end of the day, and I just like to change it about every now and then.
I suppose it stops me wasting people's time by getting the unpleasantness out in the open early  |
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"I have my face up. I've been here for a couple of years now and only recently posted my face. I'm not embarrassed about being on fab. And I'm definitely not embarrassed by my body but I made my more revealing pictures private.
I have plenty of dignity too.
I don't edit my pictures, including my face. That's what I actually look like.
At least now I never have to feel the anxiety of sharing a face pic with someone. And it's a much nicer feeling for me to get a message about how beautiful someone thinks my eyes are rather than my tits.
Well what a pretty lady you are and if you are happy then that's al that matters. Do you not worry about family friends work colleagues judging your lifestyle choices? I know i wish it wasn't such a secretive lifestyle in general or something to feel ashamed of but it's how i feel vanillia/righteous people would view it. I saying that i have told a few friends and one family member knows. But I guess to avoid most contraversy is why most don't.
I couldn't give a donkeys bollox who knows I'm here. My dad found my profile ages ago and that was the big fear I had. But when it came down to it I realised I didn't care. I'm an adult. I have sex. There's nothing for me to be ashamed or embarrassed about.
I'm proud of all of my pictures. My body looks great. I've always been someone who was very comfortable being naked around others. So having people see my nudes isn't a big deal to me. "
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"I have two kids as well and certainly wouldn't want them to see me in here.
I'm not in any way ashamed of it but they would be too young to understand.
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If your young kids are on here you've got bigger problems than explaining why you're here.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have two kids as well and certainly wouldn't want them to see me in here.
I'm not in any way ashamed of it but they would be too young to understand.
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Yes and also most are here to see tits, ass, pussy, cock etc I have just noticed that face pictures getting top in hot photos all the tíme recently . I wonder is that what most think is sexy what a person looks like? . I don't know just speaking my mind here . |
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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago
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I've always posted face pics it's not an attention seeking or confidence thing for me and I've no problem in anyone knowing I'm on here my famill even know I am...I like that people know what they are getting stright away with me cause let's face it ya could be taking to someone and when they send a face pic and Ur not attracted to them then it just becomes akward .. I've nothing to hide a.d not ashamed of anything and if anyone said it to me on the Street or anywhere then I'd simply reply well obviously Ur on it as well if ya know I am.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've always posted face pics it's not an attention seeking or confidence thing for me and I've no problem in anyone knowing I'm on here my famill even know I am...I like that people know what they are getting stright away with me cause let's face it ya could be taking to someone and when they send a face pic and Ur not attracted to them then it just becomes akward .. I've nothing to hide a.d not ashamed of anything and if anyone said it to me on the Street or anywhere then I'd simply reply well obviously Ur on it as well if ya know I am.."
Very true but i must ask you out of curiosity if you don't mind do you get asked about it by people in public outside of who knows already? If you have kids do they know? |
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over a year ago
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"I have my face up. I've been here for a couple of years now and only recently posted my face. I'm not embarrassed about being on fab. And I'm definitely not embarrassed by my body but I made my more revealing pictures private.
I have plenty of dignity too.
I don't edit my pictures, including my face. That's what I actually look like.
At least now I never have to feel the anxiety of sharing a face pic with someone. And it's a much nicer feeling for me to get a message about how beautiful someone thinks my eyes are rather than my tits.
Well what a pretty lady you are and if you are happy then that's al that matters. Do you not worry about family friends work colleagues judging your lifestyle choices? I know i wish it wasn't such a secretive lifestyle in general or something to feel ashamed of but it's how i feel vanillia/righteous people would view it. I saying that i have told a few friends and one family member knows. But I guess to avoid most contraversy is why most don't.
I couldn't give a donkeys bollox who knows I'm here. My dad found my profile ages ago and that was the big fear I had. But when it came down to it I realised I didn't care. I'm an adult. I have sex. There's nothing for me to be ashamed or embarrassed about.
I'm proud of all of my pictures. My body looks great. I've always been someone who was very comfortable being naked around others. So having people see my nudes isn't a big deal to me. "
Exactly, as adults having sex with other adults in a responsible and healthy setting, shouldn't have to be embarrassing  |
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over a year ago
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"Kaizer is under strict instruction from ThunderkissEnterprises© to keep the money maker under wraps 
#toohandsome  "
Oh that is why i haven't seen you yet so lol.  |
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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago
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"I've always posted face pics it's not an attention seeking or confidence thing for me and I've no problem in anyone knowing I'm on here my famill even know I am...I like that people know what they are getting stright away with me cause let's face it ya could be taking to someone and when they send a face pic and Ur not attracted to them then it just becomes akward .. I've nothing to hide a.d not ashamed of anything and if anyone said it to me on the Street or anywhere then I'd simply reply well obviously Ur on it as well if ya know I am..
Very true but i must ask you out of curiosity if you don't mind do you get asked about it by people in public outside of who knows already? If you have kids do they know? "
In the years only one person said it to me and I e actually told people I e met about it and they joined..I also have a grown up daughter and she knows and she just said fair play to me and that's it's my time now as she is grown up to enjoy myself.. |
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over a year ago
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"They aren't young but not mature enough to understand the complexities or life and sexuality"
Shouldn't be this a good moment to help them understand then? I'm reffering to how hard is still now in 2020 to talk about sexuality with our own children. |
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"I've always posted face pics it's not an attention seeking or confidence thing for me and I've no problem in anyone knowing I'm on here my famill even know I am...I like that people know what they are getting stright away with me cause let's face it ya could be taking to someone and when they send a face pic and Ur not attracted to them then it just becomes akward .. I've nothing to hide a.d not ashamed of anything and if anyone said it to me on the Street or anywhere then I'd simply reply well obviously Ur on it as well if ya know I am..
Very true but i must ask you out of curiosity if you don't mind do you get asked about it by people in public outside of who knows already? If you have kids do they know?
In the years only one person said it to me and I e actually told people I e met about it and they joined..I also have a grown up daughter and she knows and she just said fair play to me and that's it's my time now as she is grown up to enjoy myself.."
Awe what a lovely response from her do you ever worry you would see her here lol? I mean in reality it's hard to hide things when one is trying to keep integrity in ones life. I often think like this i am who i am accept me or don't either way i am to bother. "what other people think of me is none if my business" kind of attitude I guess. |
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"They aren't young but not mature enough to understand the complexities or life and sexuality
Shouldn't be this a good moment to help them understand then? I'm reffering to how hard is still now in 2020 to talk about sexuality with our own children. "
I do talk to them and we have a very open and honest understanding...but in your late teens is not the time to hear that dad is on fab. |
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"Ok this is one for you fabbers so i would like to know peoples views on this it's probably been done before. So what do you think of pictures with face here do people think it's confidence? I am very much aware it's an individual thing and people can do as they wish. Is is lack of dignity? Do you like the suspense of not seeing the face on pictures? Be kind and considerate i'm just interested "
I'm not fussy about the face pic although it's nice when someone trusts you enough to send you one.
I like arse pics. Sometimes it's hard to tell the difference.  |
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For me personally,I wouldn't ever put a face pic up publicly! There have been threads before about people's details and pics being shared without the knowledge of the person in the photo! That clearly shows there are some on here with no concept of discretion and simply don't care about others wishes or feelings! I would have no problem sending a face pic privately but even then there's no guarantee it won't be made public by someone else! I admire those that show their faces here,you'd have to be fairly confident to do so. I live in a relatively small community and don't want to have to try explain to my kids or friends about my fab journey just because someone recognised me and blabbed about it! A perfect example of face pics not being wise for some...I was looking at couples profiles a few months back and lo and behold there's my brother,butt naked and posing!!! There are some things that can never be unseen!!! Now, clearly he didn't care who seen his face and that's his own business! But it's not a conversation I want to be having with ANY family member!! |
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"They aren't young but not mature enough to understand the complexities or life and sexuality
Shouldn't be this a good moment to help them understand then? I'm reffering to how hard is still now in 2020 to talk about sexuality with our own children. "
I don't have any issues discussing sexuality with my children, but I can assure you there are few things more cringe to teens/twenty somethings than a "liberated" parent who insists on oversharing about their own sex life |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ok this is one for you fabbers so i would like to know peoples views on this it's probably been done before. So what do you think of pictures with face here do people think it's confidence? I am very much aware it's an individual thing and people can do as they wish. Is is lack of dignity? Do you like the suspense of not seeing the face on pictures? Be kind and considerate i'm just interested
I'm not fussy about the face pic although it's nice when someone trusts you enough to send you one.
I like arse pics. Sometimes it's hard to tell the difference. "
Lol thanks for the little cheeky grin on my face after reading your comment xx |
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By *oo32Man
over a year ago
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"Ok this is one for you fabbers so i would like to know peoples views on this it's probably been done before. So what do you think of pictures with face here do people think it's confidence? I am very much aware it's an individual thing and people can do as they wish. Is is lack of dignity? Do you like the suspense of not seeing the face on pictures? Be kind and considerate i'm just interested "
A lot of the times in pm,its just a line of...send a face pic.. |
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