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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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If you’re giving a bj and want to make the guy cum, do you prefer them to cum quick or cum after quite a while?
How long is too long?
What thoughts go through your mind when it’s become boring?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Prefer to spend ages pleasuring the guy.. Give attention to the shaft and balls and that lovely spot just at the innermost thigh ..prefer them not to come ...I love to straddle and enjoy the ride!! Love a man that has endurance!
Some guys you know NOT to give bj or there'll be NO ride!! |
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"Prefer to spend ages pleasuring the guy.. Give attention to the shaft and balls and that lovely spot just at the innermost thigh ..prefer them not to come ...I love to straddle and enjoy the ride!! Love a man that has endurance!
Some guys you know NOT to give bj or there'll be NO ride!!"
Omg SO true! I had a meet once where he was "all about me"... It quickly (VERY quickly) became clear why  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A quick cum is a compliment as long as they are happy to return the compliment."
Always happy to return the compliment..... just do me one favour..... cum on my face while I'm down there... and after that, I'll keep going on you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Prefer to spend ages pleasuring the guy.. Give attention to the shaft and balls and that lovely spot just at the innermost thigh ..prefer them not to come ...I love to straddle and enjoy the ride!! Love a man that has endurance!
Some guys you know NOT to give bj or there'll be NO ride!!
Omg SO true! I had a meet once where he was "all about me"... It quickly (VERY quickly) became clear why "
What is it with guys???
A lady should always be teased then pleasured untill they are completely satisfied.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women should have their pussys worshiped and Adored!! The ONLY way you get QUALITY oral guys... Learn!"
Although some women just arent into giving oral...... I have came across that before. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Am .. NO . IF I was a man and I wanted NSA OR relationship .. No head equals feck off!"
I know many women that don't enjoy giving a blowjob, but we find otherwise to have fun & even though I give them "head" I don't mind if its not reciprocated...a woman has so many more holes to be enjoyed  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I prefer giving a bj without the intention that the guy will cum, as foreplay! Takes the pressure off.
This.. and many men cant cum from a BJ at all"
Totally agree with you there. I can honestly say I’ve only cum twice while getting a bj |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Prefer to spend ages pleasuring the guy.. Give attention to the shaft and balls and that lovely spot just at the innermost thigh ..prefer them not to come ...I love to straddle and enjoy the ride!! Love a man that has endurance!
Some guys you know NOT to give bj or there'll be NO ride!!"
Wow..this lady has all the right attitude and appetite..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I prefer giving a bj without the intention that the guy will cum, as foreplay! Takes the pressure off.
This.. and many men cant cum from a BJ at all"
That’s my experience.. normally it’s just great but wouldn’t cum.. only came once before from a BJ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women should have their pussys worshiped and Adored!! The ONLY way you get QUALITY oral guys... Learn!"
I do 100% fully agree .. worshipped and adored ..it's THE most beautiful item ..and a guy can eat all he wants of it and not one calorie.. |
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By *attooYouMan
over a year ago
just about northside |
One guy asks the other: hey, describe your worst blowjob.
Other says: Fucking brilliant...
Only one chick was able to make me come with a bj, all the rest ended up as foreplay. Hand jobs though, they're different, I love them, more kinky and can cum every time! |
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Dont mind if he cums quick. Means he is horny & you have done a good job.
Have given a bj for 15mins, given a bj to 5 guys at a party..taking them in turns.
Dont mind if MrD gets a bj & nothing for me. He will make up for it 
MsD |
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It all depends on the situation. If it’s a cheeky car meet or a long session, I love when a guy cums. Once I get warning and they sort me out too, it’s all good. Only ever had one meet that didn’t return any favour. He didn’t get a veri or a repeat meet. Total waste of time.
Once a lover can recover and go again soon I don’t mind. Usually the first time I give a new lover a BJ, he’ll cum. Maybe they’re a bit unsuspecting? I adore giving blowjobs, absolutely love it and I love figuring out what works for each man. Every man likes different things and it’s brilliant when you can get it exactly right after a few meets.
I miss cock. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Dont mind if he cums quick. Means he is horny & you have done a good job.
Have given a bj for 15mins, given a bj to 5 guys at a party..taking them in turns.
Dont mind if MrD gets a bj & nothing for me. He will make up for it
MsD"
Wow MsD 5 guys in a row.. hot |
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"I prefer giving a bj without the intention that the guy will cum, as foreplay! Takes the pressure off.
This.. and many men cant cum from a BJ at all"
I used to think that too. But, of its done right, trust me, he'll shoot all the way to the back of your throat! |
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"I prefer giving a bj without the intention that the guy will cum, as foreplay! Takes the pressure off.
This.. and many men cant cum from a BJ at all
I used to think that too. But, of its done right, trust me, he'll shoot all the way to the back of your throat!"
Ahh so those who dont cum from blowjobs just havent been fucking the right girls? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I prefer giving a bj without the intention that the guy will cum, as foreplay! Takes the pressure off.
This.. and many men cant cum from a BJ at all
I used to think that too. But, of its done right, trust me, he'll shoot all the way to the back of your throat!"
Yeah... there are blowjobs then there are BLOWJOBS |
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"I prefer giving a bj without the intention that the guy will cum, as foreplay! Takes the pressure off.
This.. and many men cant cum from a BJ at all
I used to think that too. But, of its done right, trust me, he'll shoot all the way to the back of your throat!
Yeah... there are blowjobs then there are BLOWJOBS "
Love this. |
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"Prefer to spend ages pleasuring the guy.. Give attention to the shaft and balls and that lovely spot just at the innermost thigh ..prefer them not to come ...I love to straddle and enjoy the ride!! Love a man that has endurance!
Some guys you know NOT to give bj or there'll be NO ride!!"
this without a doubt, mixed with a deep black kiss and some when they get tired they pull the trigger with their finger at the point G.
It should always be reciprocal.
I love facesitting and squirting on my face simply spectacular |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A quick cum is a compliment as long as they are happy to return the compliment."
I love going down on a woman There's nothing better than hearing her enjoyment of your tongue |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
I like to tease and to edge when I give a blow job.i especially like it when you start when a guy is soft and you feel them get rock hard and throb.
But sometimes it can go on too long just like a guy giving a female oral. I feel you have to mix it up with other things as well. |
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By *ltered EgoMan
over a year ago
not a million miles from the airport. |
"Prefer to spend ages pleasuring the guy.. Give attention to the shaft and balls and that lovely spot just at the innermost thigh ..prefer them not to come ...I love to straddle and enjoy the ride!! Love a man that has endurance!
Some guys you know NOT to give bj or there'll be NO ride!!"
Yes. Yes. Yes.
Mind you, sometimes I will cum quickly from a bj.
Just means its my turn to go down and enjoy the reciprocation.
By the time I'm ready to go again ... I can fuck for hours.
Win win. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive gotten some blowjobs and im just laying there hoping she would stop  .. i aint mean enough to tell them its s***e and dont want to cut them short so i just try and change things up a bit..
Ive also gotten some where im hanging on trying not to cum after 2 minutes..
It kind of depends on how good the giver is tbh, defo would not be a deal breaker for me if i werent getting one. I prefer to give rather than get |
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"Ive gotten some blowjobs and im just laying there hoping she would stop .. i aint mean enough to tell them its s***e and dont want to cut them short so i just try and change things up a bit..
Ive also gotten some where im hanging on trying not to cum after 2 minutes..
It kind of depends on how good the giver is tbh, defo would not be a deal breaker for me if i werent getting one. I prefer to give rather than get"
Seriously?! You're wasting her energy letting her work away doing a bad job. Poor girl. Communication is the key to good sex. If you can't even talk to her and tell her what you like then you shouldn't have your dick in her mouth |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ive gotten some blowjobs and im just laying there hoping she would stop .. i aint mean enough to tell them its s***e and dont want to cut them short so i just try and change things up a bit..
Ive also gotten some where im hanging on trying not to cum after 2 minutes..
It kind of depends on how good the giver is tbh, defo would not be a deal breaker for me if i werent getting one. I prefer to give rather than get
Seriously?! You're wasting her energy letting her work away doing a bad job. Poor girl. Communication is the key to good sex. If you can't even talk to her and tell her what you like then you shouldn't have your dick in her mouth"
Yeah, seriously! People aint just black and white. Id find it insulting and degrading to a girl if i told her to stop its not nice, do it this or that way. If it was your partner, then yes i would let her know after a while because thats completely different |
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Yeah, seriously! People aint just black and white. Id find it insulting and degrading to a girl if i told her to stop its not nice, do it this or that way. If it was your partner, then yes i would let her know after a while because thats completely different"
Actually I disagree. I’ve a new lover and he was quite vocal at the start about what he liked and didn’t like. It’s meant that sessions since then have been proper mind blowing. He wasn’t critical at all... more encouraging when I got it just right... and it worked both ways. There are ways of saying things. Figure it out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Prefer to spend ages pleasuring the guy.. Give attention to the shaft and balls and that lovely spot just at the innermost thigh ..prefer them not to come ...I love to straddle and enjoy the ride!! Love a man that has endurance!
Some guys you know NOT to give bj or there'll be NO ride!!
Yes. Yes. Yes.
Mind you, sometimes I will cum quickly from a bj.
Just means its my turn to go down and enjoy the reciprocation.
By the time I'm ready to go again ... I can fuck for hours.
Win win."
Wow...fair play..fuck for hours ..go you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lots and lots and lots of teasing...
Eye contact...
Enjoying watching his reaction...
Deep thrusting... deep throating...
And then the decision... spit or swallow.. |
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"Ive gotten some blowjobs and im just laying there hoping she would stop .. i aint mean enough to tell them its s***e and dont want to cut them short so i just try and change things up a bit..
Ive also gotten some where im hanging on trying not to cum after 2 minutes..
It kind of depends on how good the giver is tbh, defo would not be a deal breaker for me if i werent getting one. I prefer to give rather than get
Seriously?! You're wasting her energy letting her work away doing a bad job. Poor girl. Communication is the key to good sex. If you can't even talk to her and tell her what you like then you shouldn't have your dick in her mouth
Yeah, seriously! People aint just black and white. Id find it insulting and degrading to a girl if i told her to stop its not nice, do it this or that way. If it was your partner, then yes i would let her know after a while because thats completely different"
You don't have to say "stop it's not nice" you don't have to be insulting at all! There is literally nothing wrong with giving instructions during sex. I bet she will appreciate it a lot more. Its really sexy when someone is really enjoying what you are doing to them. Give her the chance to do a good job. You need to work on your communication.
Frame your instructions as positives. Instead of I don't like when you do that say I would love if you... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ive gotten some blowjobs and im just laying there hoping she would stop .. i aint mean enough to tell them its s***e and dont want to cut them short so i just try and change things up a bit..
Ive also gotten some where im hanging on trying not to cum after 2 minutes..
It kind of depends on how good the giver is tbh, defo would not be a deal breaker for me if i werent getting one. I prefer to give rather than get
Seriously?! You're wasting her energy letting her work away doing a bad job. Poor girl. Communication is the key to good sex. If you can't even talk to her and tell her what you like then you shouldn't have your dick in her mouth
Yeah, seriously! People aint just black and white. Id find it insulting and degrading to a girl if i told her to stop its not nice, do it this or that way. If it was your partner, then yes i would let her know after a while because thats completely different
You don't have to say "stop it's not nice" you don't have to be insulting at all! There is literally nothing wrong with giving instructions during sex. I bet she will appreciate it a lot more. Its really sexy when someone is really enjoying what you are doing to them. Give her the chance to do a good job. You need to work on your communication.
Frame your instructions as positives. Instead of I don't like when you do that say I would love if you... "
I understand fully what you are saying, and id agree with certain people that will work. But theres also others that it wont work with and they will still feel that what your telling them, sounds as if your saying they aint doing it good and that will effect their mood straight away.
Im sure theres loads on here that would agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I rarely cum from a blow job 
Of course i absolutely enjoy receiving them...but they are rarely enough to make me cum.....
Sounds like a challenge 
Hi Dizzie, do you fancy another challenge?"
No |
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"I rarely cum from a blow job
Of course i absolutely enjoy receiving them...but they are rarely enough to make me cum.....
Sounds like a challenge
Hi Dizzie, do you fancy another challenge?
No"
I was going to ask how many press-ups you could do in a minute |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I rarely cum from a blow job
Of course i absolutely enjoy receiving them...but they are rarely enough to make me cum.....
Sounds like a challenge
Hi Dizzie, do you fancy another challenge?
No
I was going to ask how many press-ups you could do in a minute "
Asking me how many i could do or challenging me to do some? You aren't being very clear |
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"I rarely cum from a blow job
Of course i absolutely enjoy receiving them...but they are rarely enough to make me cum.....
Sounds like a challenge
Hi Dizzie, do you fancy another challenge?
No
I was going to ask how many press-ups you could do in a minute
Asking me how many i could do or challenging me to do some? You aren't being very clear"
So sorry Dizzie for not being clear. I was going to challenge you to do 20 in a minute. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I rarely cum from a blow job
Of course i absolutely enjoy receiving them...but they are rarely enough to make me cum.....
Sounds like a challenge
Hi Dizzie, do you fancy another challenge?
No
I was going to ask how many press-ups you could do in a minute
Asking me how many i could do or challenging me to do some? You aren't being very clear
So sorry Dizzie for not being clear. I was going to challenge you to do 20 in a minute. "
Thats a hell no.. |
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By *onnieBMan
over a year ago
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True story.....I never came from a blow job till my mid-late 20's.
I was at a party and said this to a girl who bet me she cud make me cum from a bj..... She did and iv been able to cum from blowjobs since!! |
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"I rarely cum from a blow job
Of course i absolutely enjoy receiving them...but they are rarely enough to make me cum.....
Sounds like a challenge
Hi Dizzie, do you fancy another challenge?
No
I was going to ask how many press-ups you could do in a minute
Asking me how many i could do or challenging me to do some? You aren't being very clear
So sorry Dizzie for not being clear. I was going to challenge you to do 20 in a minute.
Thats a hell no.. "
How many can you do in a minute Dizzie? I’ll allow you just to go down till your nipples touch the floor. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I rarely cum from a blow job
Of course i absolutely enjoy receiving them...but they are rarely enough to make me cum.....
Sounds like a challenge
Hi Dizzie, do you fancy another challenge?
No
I was going to ask how many press-ups you could do in a minute
Asking me how many i could do or challenging me to do some? You aren't being very clear
So sorry Dizzie for not being clear. I was going to challenge you to do 20 in a minute.
Thats a hell no..
How many can you do in a minute Dizzie? I’ll allow you just to go down till your nipples touch the floor. "
15 in 40 seconds lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"God that's tragic! If a woman isn't into giving head...WALK . whether its NSA or a relationship
Is that not a bit harsh? Asking for a friend.... "
I feel the exact same if a guy isn’t able to make me cum with oral in NSA or in relationship it’s bye bye time |
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"I rarely cum from a blow job
Of course i absolutely enjoy receiving them...but they are rarely enough to make me cum.....
Sounds like a challenge
Hi Dizzie, do you fancy another challenge?
No
I was going to ask how many press-ups you could do in a minute
Asking me how many i could do or challenging me to do some? You aren't being very clear
So sorry Dizzie for not being clear. I was going to challenge you to do 20 in a minute.
Thats a hell no..
How many can you do in a minute Dizzie? I’ll allow you just to go down till your nipples touch the floor.
15 in 40 seconds lol"
Is that with clothes on or off Dizzie? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I rarely cum from a blow job
Of course i absolutely enjoy receiving them...but they are rarely enough to make me cum.....
Sounds like a challenge
Hi Dizzie, do you fancy another challenge?
No
I was going to ask how many press-ups you could do in a minute
Asking me how many i could do or challenging me to do some? You aren't being very clear
So sorry Dizzie for not being clear. I was going to challenge you to do 20 in a minute.
Thats a hell no..
How many can you do in a minute Dizzie? I’ll allow you just to go down till your nipples touch the floor.
15 in 40 seconds lol
Is that with clothes on or off Dizzie?"
Both.. |
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Unfortunately I've only ever came once from a bj ! 
I always feel that its being given to pleasure me ,rather then it being mutual.
As I love giving ladies oral,maybe I can feel it if a lady really isint enjoying giving  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I prefer giving a bj without the intention that the guy will cum, as foreplay! Takes the pressure off.
This.. and many men cant cum from a BJ at all
I used to think that too. But, of its done right, trust me, he'll shoot all the way to the back of your throat!
Ahh so those who dont cum from blowjobs just havent been fucking the right girls? "
Nice topic and experiences!
I have NEVER been able to cum from a BJ and I have had a fair few! It drives me mad thinking about it. Glad to see I am not the only one. Still looking for that first time! |
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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
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"Unfortunately I've only ever came once from a bj !
I always feel that its being given to pleasure me ,rather then it being mutual.
As I love giving ladies oral,maybe I can feel it if a lady really isint enjoying giving "
69 will satisfy both...that way both are getting pleasure |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Unfortunately I've only ever came once from a bj !
I always feel that its being given to pleasure me ,rather then it being mutual.
As I love giving ladies oral,maybe I can feel it if a lady really isint enjoying giving
69 will satisfy both...that way both are getting pleasure "
Not ALL ladies enjoy 69's some prefer to give then receive or receive then give, some find it hard to fully enjoy both giving and receiving at the same time...and how do l know that ?..Girls talk |
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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
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"Unfortunately I've only ever came once from a bj !
I always feel that its being given to pleasure me ,rather then it being mutual.
As I love giving ladies oral,maybe I can feel it if a lady really isint enjoying giving
69 will satisfy both...that way both are getting pleasure
Not ALL ladies enjoy 69's some prefer to give then receive or receive then give, some find it hard to fully enjoy both giving and receiving at the same time...and how do l know that ?..Girls talk"
Obviously the girls that told you were the ones that rather receive..  ...mrs d |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Unfortunately I've only ever came once from a bj !
I always feel that its being given to pleasure me ,rather then it being mutual.
As I love giving ladies oral,maybe I can feel it if a lady really isint enjoying giving
69 will satisfy both...that way both are getting pleasure
Not ALL ladies enjoy 69's some prefer to give then receive or receive then give, some find it hard to fully enjoy both giving and receiving at the same time...and how do l know that ?..Girls talk
Obviously the girls that told you were the ones that rather receive.. ...mrs d"
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Nope... absolutely totally amazing at giving it too.. .. |
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By *321funMan
over a year ago
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"Ive gotten some blowjobs and im just laying there hoping she would stop .. i aint mean enough to tell them its s***e and dont want to cut them short so i just try and change things up a bit..
Ive also gotten some where im hanging on trying not to cum after 2 minutes..
It kind of depends on how good the giver is tbh, defo would not be a deal breaker for me if i werent getting one. I prefer to give rather than get
Seriously?! You're wasting her energy letting her work away doing a bad job. Poor girl. Communication is the key to good sex. If you can't even talk to her and tell her what you like then you shouldn't have your dick in her mouth"
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't want him cuming too quickly but I don't want a sore jaw either. Its nice to put some effort in. Build up the orgasm and blow his mind literally and psychologically. |
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I've cum once from a blowjob in my life. Might have been the surroundings, but I haven't been back to the UCD library in ten years to find out!
On the rare occasion I find myself giving one, I like it to be relatively quick. |
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