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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Have some people got any particular little stories about an enlightening sexual revelation or realisation?
One of mine is that of seeing/making a woman gush or squirt through extended pussy play with mostly my hands and some oral. This actually only happened in the last 18 months for me at 35 years of age and up till then I was very dubious of the reality of women ejaculating. It was quite enlightening and of course in the typical male sense, very ego boosting I have to admit (selfish ego  )
In a more general sense (and maybe this is simply down to the women I have met) it seems to me that a significant amount of women love a guy who seems to make them feel safe and comfortable at first but who very quickly after that establishes a danger/excitement dynamic to some extent (a hinting of a risky rogue). In my younger days I believed guys should try to be nice all the time. I have since modified my beliefs  
I’d love to hear these different type reveals for other people and the effect it had on your sexual /dating/romantic lives |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Haha I only copped some would view it cynically after I had already posted it but too late to take back.
I hope that if you know me/us then you’d see it was genuinely not done for that reason
Otherwise why admit to it only being a recent thing lol
I honestly would love to hear little revelations people would have as I’ve more of an interest in juicy stuff and deeper (pun) things in terms of topics
And of course, continue to rock away  |
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"Haha I only copped some would view it cynically after I had already posted it but too late to take back.
I hope that if you know me/us then you’d see it was genuinely not done for that reason
Otherwise why admit to it only being a recent thing lol
I honestly would love to hear little revelations people would have as I’ve more of an interest in juicy stuff and deeper (pun) things in terms of topics
And of course, continue to rock away "
Haha it could be deemed as bragging, but I found your post interesting enough.
Likewise its only in my last few years as well that I've started to hone my skills of the devils trade
Each women has individual triggers, physical and emotional, figuring these out are key to pushing the sensual limits past the normal.
I love the idea of getting a woman to squirt, but biologically its not as easy for some women depending on sensitivity, thickness and general layout of the vagina, as well as some women get uncomfortable when the sensation of peeing overcomes the joy or orgasming.
Either way its not a measuring stick and I'd never expect it from someone but if she's a squirter then go for it as it just adds to the craic  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Haha I only copped some would view it cynically after I had already posted it but too late to take back.
I hope that if you know me/us then you’d see it was genuinely not done for that reason
Otherwise why admit to it only being a recent thing lol
I honestly would love to hear little revelations people would have as I’ve more of an interest in juicy stuff and deeper (pun) things in terms of topics
And of course, continue to rock away
Haha it could be deemed as bragging, but I found your post interesting enough.
Likewise its only in my last few years as well that I've started to hone my skills of the devils trade
Each women has individual triggers, physical and emotional, figuring these out are key to pushing the sensual limits past the normal.
I love the idea of getting a woman to squirt, but biologically its not as easy for some women depending on sensitivity, thickness and general layout of the vagina, as well as some women get uncomfortable when the sensation of peeing overcomes the joy or orgasming.
Either way its not a measuring stick and I'd never expect it from someone but if she's a squirter then go for it as it just adds to the craic "
Oh I completely agree and just to make it clear it has only happened a few women with me and I don’t try to use anything as a yardstick for mine or a woman’s pleasure. I just want to figure out our quirks and kinks as a connection between two or more people playing.
I was only using this as an example to get people talking about their own mice little things that they found educational or developmental or enlightening over the years. And felt that if I was asking a question I should give an experience of mine as it’s only fair. Hopefully people will have other things that they found out to be light bulb type moments over the years |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Learned how to squirt and also learned i dont like it. "
Thanks for joining in on this and it’s great to be comfortable in knowing what you like and don’t like |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Learned that in the last decade men have become obsessed with making women squirt. Excessive finger-blasting in dogged pursuit of this supposed elixir (yes folks, it's mostly urine) is uncomfortable and can cause UTIs and thrush. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Just my 2xcents worth ,dont know what the sex position is called .a lady i once knew got really turned on when i place her legs on my upper chest ,shoulders and enter her.seems she get very moist and her breathing quickens a lot faster and she cums .down side of this was she complained of a sore back after we played in this position a while |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Learned that in the last decade men have become obsessed with making women squirt. Excessive finger-blasting in dogged pursuit of this supposed elixir (yes folks, it's mostly urine) is uncomfortable and can cause UTIs and thrush."
Unfortunately most people seem to have taken me up wrong on this altogether 
My reveal was designed as my own example of something I thought was a myth being propagated by the porn industry.
I think you wrongly assume I have an obsession with it. I merely supplied a realisation to start the ball rolling to have a nice chat about some of theirs.
The topic was not meant as a discussion of squirting  
Agh well |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Learned that in the last decade men have become obsessed with making women squirt. Excessive finger-blasting in dogged pursuit of this supposed elixir (yes folks, it's mostly urine) is uncomfortable and can cause UTIs and thrush.
Unfortunately most people seem to have taken me up wrong on this altogether
My reveal was designed as my own example of something I thought was a myth being propagated by the porn industry.
I think you wrongly assume I have an obsession with it. I merely supplied a realisation to start the ball rolling to have a nice chat about some of theirs.
The topic was not meant as a discussion of squirting
Agh well "
I never said you had an obsession, what I said was that I have learned that many men do, that's the revelation that I have had. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Learned that in the last decade men have become obsessed with making women squirt. Excessive finger-blasting in dogged pursuit of this supposed elixir (yes folks, it's mostly urine) is uncomfortable and can cause UTIs and thrush.
Unfortunately most people seem to have taken me up wrong on this altogether
My reveal was designed as my own example of something I thought was a myth being propagated by the porn industry.
I think you wrongly assume I have an obsession with it. I merely supplied a realisation to start the ball rolling to have a nice chat about some of theirs.
The topic was not meant as a discussion of squirting
Agh well
I never said you had an obsession, what I said was that I have learned that many men do, that's the revelation that I have had. "
Oh I see. Thanks and yes that’s fair enough. Maybe I’m taking on the negative vibes of everyone else too much ha!
Nearly regretting the example I used now as it has completely derailed the point of me starting the thread  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Learned that in the last decade men have become obsessed with making women squirt. Excessive finger-blasting in dogged pursuit of this supposed elixir (yes folks, it's mostly urine) is uncomfortable and can cause UTIs and thrush."
Hmm why do you think it causes that? genuine interest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Squirting maybe a pleasant experience for the lady but do couples need to prepare beforehandin a hotelroom are bedroom with all the liquid flying around .Don't want to be stuck sleeping on the wet patch later on. Are is this a given ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just my 2xcents worth ,dont know what the sex position is called .a lady i once knew got really turned on when i place her legs on my upper chest ,shoulders and enter her.seems she get very moist and her breathing quickens a lot faster and she cums .down side of this was she complained of a sore back after we played in this position a while "
Yes I had this issue..it can very often depending on the ladies back strength and your weight+angle. You can really mess someone's back up.
If you go less vertically above them it will have less impact. Or support yourself if you do go over. Some ladies will not care. |
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By *unner4funMan
over a year ago
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I had a girl tied to the bed once, vibrator and fingers she was dripping then I put an Alka seltzer inside her
She was squealing, mostly with pleasure. She said it was one the kinkiest things she had ever did |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yeah. Came across that wan in the wank mag playboy wan year .think it was in a friends toilet ( wonder why that way ,never mind ) .the trick was to split the alka in to a quarter if that was possible .when the lady's juices started to flow the tab would activate. Wasn't recommended you use a hole tab ,she might get to used to it and not need you ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Learned that in the last decade men have become obsessed with making women squirt. Excessive finger-blasting in dogged pursuit of this supposed elixir (yes folks, it's mostly urine) is uncomfortable and can cause UTIs and thrush.
Hmm why do you think it causes that? genuine interest."
Because friction of delicate tissues creates tiny tears which allow access for pathogens. It's also very easy to introduce bacteria into the urethra. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just my 2xcents worth ,dont know what the sex position is called .a lady i once knew got really turned on when i place her legs on my upper chest ,shoulders and enter her.seems she get very moist and her breathing quickens a lot faster and she cums .down side of this was she complained of a sore back after we played in this position a while "
You are placing her spine at an unusual angle and then making it bear some of your weight as well as the additional force of the thrusting. It's hardly surprising that it might cause issues. |
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"Just my 2xcents worth ,dont know what the sex position is called .a lady i once knew got really turned on when i place her legs on my upper chest ,shoulders and enter her.seems she get very moist and her breathing quickens a lot faster and she cums .down side of this was she complained of a sore back after we played in this position a while
You are placing her spine at an unusual angle and then making it bear some of your weight as well as the additional force of the thrusting. It's hardly surprising that it might cause issues."
yep learned that the hard way |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Learned that in the last decade men have become obsessed with making women squirt. Excessive finger-blasting in dogged pursuit of this supposed elixir (yes folks, it's mostly urine) is uncomfortable and can cause UTIs and thrush.
Hmm why do you think it causes that? genuine interest.
Because friction of delicate tissues creates tiny tears which allow access for pathogens. It's also very easy to introduce bacteria into the urethra."
Yes if the hands are not cleaned big risk...possibly the reason for pubic hair as someone mentioned before. Thrush again possibly dirty fingers. Answer is very clean hands... Also do not go south of vagina town.
I find as well that there are ways to do it far from finger blasting...but there is yes a recent obsession with it. It's good if done right but not for everyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Revelation. First time I saw a couple have sex in front of me. Obviously I enjoyed porn but seeing a couple who are so connected making love in front of you...never expected that to be so cool. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Learned that in the last decade men have become obsessed with making women squirt. Excessive finger-blasting in dogged pursuit of this supposed elixir (yes folks, it's mostly urine) is uncomfortable and can cause UTIs and thrush.
Hmm why do you think it causes that? genuine interest.
Because friction of delicate tissues creates tiny tears which allow access for pathogens. It's also very easy to introduce bacteria into the urethra.
Yes if the hands are not cleaned big risk...possibly the reason for pubic hair as someone mentioned before. Thrush again possibly dirty fingers. Answer is very clean hands... Also do not go south of vagina town.
I find as well that there are ways to do it far from finger blasting...but there is yes a recent obsession with it. It's good if done right but not for everyone."
Even clean hands will have bacteria on them, bacteria which will not cause problems to healthy tissue can gain entry via tiny tears caused by rough handling |
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By *oandFroCouple
over a year ago
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"Have some people got any particular little stories about an enlightening sexual revelation or realisation?
One of mine is that of seeing/making a woman gush or squirt through extended pussy play with mostly my hands and some oral. This actually only happened in the last 18 months for me at 35 years of age and up till then I was very dubious of the reality of women ejaculating. It was quite enlightening and of course in the typical male sense, very ego boosting I have to admit (selfish ego )
In a more general sense (and maybe this is simply down to the women I have met) it seems to me that a significant amount of women love a guy who seems to make them feel safe and comfortable at first but who very quickly after that establishes a danger/excitement dynamic to some extent (a hinting of a risky rogue). In my younger days I believed guys should try to be nice all the time. I have since modified my beliefs
I’d love to hear these different type reveals for other people and the effect it had on your sexual /dating/romantic lives "
I think one of the more interesting topic posted and reads good how anyone else pics it up is on them.... I'll have to think on my response k x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Revelation. First time I saw a couple have sex in front of me. Obviously I enjoyed porn but seeing a couple who are so connected making love in front of you...never expected that to be so cool."
Thanks for that! And in particular for getting back on the intended topic 
Yea, I haven’t had that experience yet but we think we’re very close to making it happen. I think it’s going to be really cool seeing a couple deeply connected getting so intimate right there with us and also seeing my partner getting attended to in an intense sexual and sensual fashion by another man and woman.
Great addition to the thread thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Simply disturbing the normal vaginal flora can cause thrush"
I would like to keep discussing it but don't want to detail the thread. (Can't PM you as you have age filter) we could start a Sex Ed class
You can induce squirting without damaging tissue of the urethra (finger lasting is never good...mostly.).
If you wash hands before and after wash genitals before(male) pee after (for lady) it will be a big help.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Thanks for that! And in particular for getting back on the intended topic
Yea, I haven’t had that experience yet but we think we’re very close to making it happen. I think it’s going to be really cool seeing a couple deeply connected getting so intimate right there with us and also seeing my partner getting attended to in an intense sexual and sensual fashion by another man and woman.
Great addition to the thread thank you "
I am.sure you will have a lot to expireance ...and more than me haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Simply disturbing the normal vaginal flora can cause thrush
I would like to keep discussing it but don't want to detail the thread. (Can't PM you as you have age filter) we could start a Sex Ed class
You can induce squirting without damaging tissue of the urethra (finger lasting is never good...mostly.).
If you wash hands before and after wash genitals before(male) pee after (for lady) it will be a big help.
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I don't need the sex ed thanks, or the squirting tutorial either. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Simply disturbing the normal vaginal flora can cause thrush
I would like to keep discussing it but don't want to detail the thread. (Can't PM you as you have age filter) we could start a Sex Ed class
You can induce squirting without damaging tissue of the urethra (finger lasting is never good...mostly.).
If you wash hands before and after wash genitals before(male) pee after (for lady) it will be a big help.
I don't need the sex ed thanks, or the squirting tutorial either."
miaow |
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By *NawtyCplCouple
over a year ago
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I don't need the sex ed thanks, or the squirting tutorial either.
Sorry I meant de-rail* thread.
Now I look silly
2020 the year that keeps on giving"
No u dont u were just being flirty, thats how I read it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't need the sex ed thanks, or the squirting tutorial either.
Sorry I meant de-rail* thread.
Now I look silly
2020 the year that keeps on giving
No u dont u were just being flirty, thats how I read it. "
Cheers.
So any more revaluations they sound very cool. |
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By *oandFroCouple
over a year ago
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Fm here, mine might be a bit "meh" to the more experienced here but I grew up very insecure and always thought if my partner loved me he would want only me... and never look at another... now the idea of a another girl fully joining us really turns me on.... so I guess it's why we are here |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Fm here, mine might be a bit "meh" to the more experienced here but I grew up very insecure and always thought if my partner loved me he would want only me... and never look at another... now the idea of a another girl fully joining us really turns me on.... so I guess it's why we are here "
Thanks a lot for your post. There’s nothing too meh for here. That’s exactly why I started the topic. I enjoy people feeling they can share and get real and even show a vulnerable side. There’s too much posturing and bravado and people getting their backs up on this.
In the end of the day we’re all human with insecurities and desires and kinks and some inexperience. I can relate to yours too in that I would have feared seeing a guy chat up a partner or make her laugh or her being friends with exes. Thankfully I’ve moved past a lot of it if I feel someone is trustworthy. I think your post will resonate with a lot of people.
I would get a huge kick out of seeing D with another guy (from a couple, not a single guy. Our DMs are already taking a gut punching sorry) and him bringing her to ecstasy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I used to think I would feel threatened by seeing Lee with another woman, not only did I not, but my indifference to watching surprised me. Other than being happy for him that he was having a good time, it didn't affect me negatively or positively, I didn't find it erotic or a turn on. I don't have voyeuristic tendencies at all, it seems, or perhaps it's because I have no sexual interest in other women. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My sexual revelation is that eyes can turn a different shade, colour even, during sex. I know there will be loads of people maybe everyone who reads this who say, what a load of shit. But I've see it. Maybe it was only this one person that it happens too.
But i seen it. |
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By *NawtyCplCouple
over a year ago
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"Fm here, mine might be a bit "meh" to the more experienced here but I grew up very insecure and always thought if my partner loved me he would want only me... and never look at another... now the idea of a another girl fully joining us really turns me on.... so I guess it's why we are here "
Not 'meh' at all. Went through the same thought transformation ourselves from being jealous teens to wow thats hot |
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"My sexual revelation is that eyes can turn a different shade, colour even, during sex. I know there will be loads of people maybe everyone who reads this who say, what a load of shit. But I've see it. Maybe it was only this one person that it happens too.
But i seen it. "
My eyes used to change colour depending on my mood. I had ladies mesmerised at times and I didn’t have to do anything. And no it wasn’t from drug use! I think they still do but not to the same extent. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My sexual revelation is that eyes can turn a different shade, colour even, during sex. I know there will be loads of people maybe everyone who reads this who say, what a load of shit. But I've see it. Maybe it was only this one person that it happens too.
But i seen it.
My eyes used to change colour depending on my mood. I had ladies mesmerised at times and I didn’t have to do anything. And no it wasn’t from drug use! I think they still do but not to the same extent. "
My eyes too change colour from hazel to very Dark at times . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My 3cents
When women are ovulating their eyes will dilate when they encounter a man they are attracted to. But I would think in sex or other activities the pupils dilate and that would make the eye appear darker.
My eyes have been also said to change from grey/blue to green. This is mainly due to light. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I used to think I would feel threatened by seeing Lee with another woman, not only did I not, but my indifference to watching surprised me. Other than being happy for him that he was having a good time, it didn't affect me negatively or positively, I didn't find it erotic or a turn on. I don't have voyeuristic tendencies at all, it seems, or perhaps it's because I have no sexual interest in other women."
Nice post. Shows we can never know what to expect in some situations until it happens and everything contains a risk/reward payoff |
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By *oandFroCouple
over a year ago
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"I used to think I would feel threatened by seeing Lee with another woman, not only did I not, but my indifference to watching surprised me. Other than being happy for him that he was having a good time, it didn't affect me negatively or positively, I didn't find it erotic or a turn on. I don't have voyeuristic tendencies at all, it seems, or perhaps it's because I have no sexual interest in other women.
Nice post. Shows we can never know what to expect in some situations until it happens and everything contains a risk/reward payoff "
Exactly and I think in the right environment we are all probably a little a bit more intrigued by new scenarios... even if I do have to google some of the terms  |
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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
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"Squirting maybe a pleasant experience for the lady but do couples need to prepare beforehandin a hotelroom are bedroom with all the liquid flying around .Don't want to be stuck sleeping on the wet patch later on. Are is this a given ? "
Always book a room with 2 beds...one a practice pitch so to speak |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My sexual revelation is that eyes can turn a different shade, colour even, during sex. I know there will be loads of people maybe everyone who reads this who say, what a load of shit. But I've see it. Maybe it was only this one person that it happens too.
But i seen it.
My eyes used to change colour depending on my mood. I had ladies mesmerised at times and I didn’t have to do anything. And no it wasn’t from drug use! I think they still do but not to the same extent.
My eyes too change colour from hazel to very Dark at times . "
Change nothing your stunningly beautiful as you are. |
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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
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The realisation that sex is just that sex and has nothing to do with loving someone...i think being brought up believing you couldn't have sex just for enjoyment had big impact but thankfully I've thrown off those shackles unless there part of play that is... |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"The realisation that sex is just that sex and has nothing to do with loving someone...i think being brought up believing you couldn't have sex just for enjoyment had big impact but thankfully I've thrown off those shackles unless there part of play that is... "
I think I'm still learning that |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Link to another recent thread...
The realisation that the person im having repeat meets with is a better match for me in many ways than my partner...and that I'm falling in love with them. "
Wow, that must be very tricky |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had a girl tied to the bed once, vibrator and fingers she was dripping then I put an Alka seltzer inside her
She was squealing, mostly with pleasure. She said it was one the kinkiest things she had ever did"
A wee word of caution for the ladies. Like any drugs can be addictive. Alka salsa is no different. What ever the reason you might like to try a tab on your own be careful. For pleasure using tabs can make a womans body become accustomed to only that method. Sorry short term gain ,long term pain . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My sexual revelation is that eyes can turn a different shade, colour even, during sex. I know there will be loads of people maybe everyone who reads this who say, what a load of shit. But I've see it. Maybe it was only this one person that it happens too.
But i seen it.
My eyes used to change colour depending on my mood. I had ladies mesmerised at times and I didn’t have to do anything. And no it wasn’t from drug use! I think they still do but not to the same extent.
My eyes too change colour from hazel to very Dark at times . "
Maybe its a Hazel/Green eye thing, that turns to black during unbelievable sex.
Silly me thinking i had something to do with it. |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"Link to another recent thread...
The realisation that the person im having repeat meets with is a better match for me in many ways than my partner...and that I'm falling in love with them. "
Can I presume you mean the past and not the present |
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"Link to another recent thread...
The realisation that the person im having repeat meets with is a better match for me in many ways than my partner...and that I'm falling in love with them.
Can I presume you mean the past and not the present "
Yes.. A good few years back now. Ruined both of our lives for a while, but it is what it is unfortunately. |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"Link to another recent thread...
The realisation that the person im having repeat meets with is a better match for me in many ways than my partner...and that I'm falling in love with them.
Can I presume you mean the past and not the present
Yes.. A good few years back now. Ruined both of our lives for a while, but it is what it is unfortunately. "
Reading it the first time I thought to myself hope that's not happening at the present time |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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The realisation that the person im having repeat meets with is a better match for me in many ways than my partner...and that I'm falling in love with them.
Can I presume you mean the past and not the present
Yes.. A good few years back now. Ruined both of our lives for a while, but it is what it is unfortunately.
Reading it the first time I thought to myself hope that's not happening at the present time "
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By *og-ManMan
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"Link to another recent thread...
The realisation that the person im having repeat meets with is a better match for me in many ways than my partner...and that I'm falling in love with them.
Can I presume you mean the past and not the present
Yes.. A good few years back now. Ruined both of our lives for a while, but it is what it is unfortunately.
Reading it the first time I thought to myself hope that's not happening at the present time
That’s the way it looked to me "
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A very interesting post. Now that the squirting is out of the way... (I'm fascinated by how it looks, how I feel when it happens, and of course by the esoteric symbolism of "amrita", the nectar of the gods)... I love a connection with the woman in with, that is a heartfelt, openness. Trust, care, sense of safety. Without it sex is enjoyable, a bit mechanical, rutting,... So, when I'm feeling the intimacy of a warm loving connection with a lover, the synergy is more than just the two of us, it adds a whole world of pleasure, beyond the physical to what we're doing together. |
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"A very interesting post. Now that the squirting is out of the way... (I'm fascinated by how it looks, how I feel when it happens, and of course by the esoteric symbolism of "amrita", the nectar of the gods)... I love a connection with the woman in with, that is a heartfelt, openness. Trust, care, sense of safety. Without it sex is enjoyable, a bit mechanical, rutting,... So, when I'm feeling the intimacy of a warm loving connection with a lover, the synergy is more than just the two of us, it adds a whole world of pleasure, beyond the physical to what we're doing together. "
I would contend that it's the pituitary gland that releases dopamine (which is a hormone that creates pleasure) and oxytocin (which is the love hormone that creates bonding) during sex and particularly during orgasm. |
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