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Any tips for a single Guy's profile ?
Im also part of a well verified couples profile and decided to Setup a single profile (with the knowledge of Wife) too see how id do,
Very Little Views and Zero messages in 3 months, I don't know how ye single guys stick it out ! ! .   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any tips for a single Guy's profile ?
Im also part of a well verified couples profile and decided to Setup a single profile (with the knowledge of Wife) too see how id do,
Very Little Views and Zero messages in 3 months, I don't know how ye single guys stick it out ! ! . "
Fab Game difficulty levels:
Easy mode - Female
Slightly less easy mode - couple
Hardcore super hell mode - Single male |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been swinging as a single male.. My policy is to be respectful and take time to read profiles and if you match their requirements its OK to fire off an opener. You will have to be patient. Try to get to meet and greets or parties. Don't let fab control you |
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By *ohng69Man
over a year ago
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"Any tips for a single Guy's profile ?
Im also part of a well verified couples profile and decided to Setup a single profile (with the knowledge of Wife) too see how id do,
Very Little Views and Zero messages in 3 months, I don't know how ye single guys stick it out ! ! . "
I would have thought you would be in a position to give advice rather than looking for it if you're "part of a well verified couples profile". |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its really not that hard as a single male.
I would if though coming from a well verified couple you would know how to approach this site.
But my point of view.
Mention your couple profile so people have an idea of your experience in the lifestyle and on here.
Other than that its really not that hard on here . Get to parties get involved on the forum take your time getting to know people |
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"Any tips for a single Guy's profile ?
Im also part of a well verified couples profile and decided to Setup a single profile (with the knowledge of Wife) too see how id do,
Very Little Views and Zero messages in 3 months, I don't know how ye single guys stick it out ! ! . "
Just had a peek, maybe I'm picking this up wrong but it you're only winking at women that'll get you nowhere, single women in Fab don't need to or want to reach out to men who've only winked them instead of sending a message. They'll be much more likely to simply respond to the two or three best messages from the best profiles in their inbox and delete the rest.
You have to graft for a meet as a single guy! It's a whole different world from having a couples profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any tips for a single Guy's profile ?
Im also part of a well verified couples profile and decided to Setup a single profile (with the knowledge of Wife) too see how id do,
Very Little Views and Zero messages in 3 months, I don't know how ye single guys stick it out ! ! .
Fab Game difficulty levels:
Easy mode - Female
Slightly less easy mode - couple
Hardcore super hell mode - Single male"
 Well said..
If some single guys look like chippendales you are not exactly representing the majority.. it is indeed tough being a single profile here.. and love the humble brag  |
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"Any tips for a single Guy's profile ?
Im also part of a well verified couples profile and decided to Setup a single profile (with the knowledge of Wife) too see how id do,
Very Little Views and Zero messages in 3 months, I don't know how ye single guys stick it out ! ! . "
Yeah man it can be a little demoralising when you realise how the odds are stacked against guys on swing and dating sites.
Not sure what tips I could offer other then just be yourself  nah man fuck that, hate it when people say that to me. As in the reason we ask is because being our-self clearly isn't doing it More like be yourself with a shit ton of flare haha
Most guys under-sell themselves, people say that to me all the time, so consider what you have to offer, skill sets or kinks, humour has got to be the winner ahead of everything else but hard to get that across sometimes on text.
I'm doing ok myself, having a laugh with some cool people but not sure why yet  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah man it can be a little demoralising when you realise how the odds are stacked against guys on swing and dating sites.
Not sure what tips I could offer other then just be yourself nah man fuck that, hate it when people say that to me. As in the reason we ask is because being our-self clearly isn't doing it More like be yourself with a shit ton of flare haha
Most guys under-sell themselves, people say that to me all the time, so consider what you have to offer, skill sets or kinks, humour has got to be the winner ahead of everything else but hard to get that across sometimes on text.
I'm doing ok myself, having a laugh with some cool people but not sure why yet "
What this guy said hahaha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing you can do op. Welcome to being a single guy on here.
Personally I think dating sites like pof are better than fab. Cause let's all be honest dating sites are hook up sites.
Sure you might have to put work in (couple of dates) hey, who knows meet up in a pub for the first meet and invite them home afterwards?
It would be time better spent than mailing on here.
Personally I don't mail anyone on here anymore. Only login to look at the forums and hot pics. All else is waste of time.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That explains a lot .I suspose im past my sell by date by now .dont seem to be getting the hits even on message,s read any more. Unless there incognito. Mostly now straight to delete. Never even get a no thank you. Never had a veri so thats no help.
Yes the forum is about the only out let.youll still get noticed there |
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Try and make your profile stand out a bit from the usual.
I had a generic name on here and the usual boring nonsense in my bio.
I changed the name to this as instead of getting no response you'll get someone every so often who is curious enough to ask what it means. You can take it from there. |
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Frankly, I am tempted to create a single guy profile myself just to see how difficult a life of a lone wolf is.
Myself, I would put a picture of myself in a nice suit from one of the weddings and a picture of myself with a contrast side light to make myself look more dramatic. Profile wise, a high flying professional with a busy schedule (lol, as if!), looking to spoil a girl with compliments and sensual talk. I would spend the first two weeks trying to get any positive verifications via chat/webcam or meet, even if it means asking my cousin to write me one. When contacting a potential meet, I would address her by name and tell something nice specifically about herself and tell her that I would like to meet or chat on a specific date and propose a choice of meeting places, either public or private, depending on what girl's profile indicate.
But then what would I know |
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By *uanpacMan
over a year ago
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It's only as difficult as you let it be...stay classy, stay original, be polite and be willing to accept rejection..the best version of yourself is better than a second rate version of anyone else.. we all get rejected, ignored and turned away every day, keep that chin up and move along politely.. |
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You should obviously know from having a couple's profile that this site is bursting at the seams with men who can't string a sentence or two together. Then there's the ones that contradict themselves in order portray the persona of someone with similar interests. And then there's the ones with fake info on their profile and they just spin off the lies like they are talking to a d*unk that can't recall what was said 5 minutes ago. This is a big part of the reason why fab is so hard for single guys.
Why don't you ask all the people you met as a couple to verify you mentioning that they met you with your partner? Surely that would help. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You should obviously know from having a couple's profile that this site is bursting at the seams with men who can't string a sentence or two together. Then there's the ones that contradict themselves in order portray the persona of someone with similar interests. And then there's the ones with fake info on their profile and they just spin off the lies like they are talking to a d*unk that can't recall what was said 5 minutes ago. This is a big part of the reason why fab is so hard for single guys.
Why don't you ask all the people you met as a couple to verify you mentioning that they met you with your partner? Surely that would help. "
Aren't you a single male so your also including yourself above. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's only as difficult as you let it be...stay classy, stay original, be polite and be willing to accept rejection..the best version of yourself is better than a second rate version of anyone else.. we all get rejected, ignored and turned away every day, keep that chin up and move along politely.. "
You should be a motivational speaker |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Single life on fab for males is pretty much a simple thing. You put in effort and you get noticed now getting noticed does not get you a meet just puts you on the radar. Some ladies might even view your profile at which point the effort will be in some cases worth it but it’s only a start. As a single male yes you have to show interest but not show desperation patience is key. You might even get a conversation or two going with some again that doesn’t mean the lady is about to lay down a shout give it to me every way you can.
As has been said respect so sending her multiple messages about how big you are how good you are how much you want to bury your head between her legs and spend hours there. Might work but remember no two ladies here are the same.
Basically it’s be active on forums in chat it will get you somewhere.
And before I get the wtf do you know I am first to admit I’ve not followed my own advice. But it’s what worked before when I was here |
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Also, y'all know you can turn off view visibility right? Like, I have mine turned off because if I view a guy's profile, he'll message me saying "saw you viewed my profile, not interested?!?" or worse.
So I have that function turned off, so that I can view profiles without being abused for looking at a profile and not wanting to fuck that guy (the audacity!) |
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"Also, y'all know you can turn off view visibility right? Like, I have mine turned off because if I view a guy's profile, he'll message me saying "saw you viewed my profile, not interested?!?" or worse.
So I have that function turned off, so that I can view profiles without being abused for looking at a profile and not wanting to fuck that guy (the audacity!) "
I didn’t know you could do this actually and I’ve yet to see who looks at me..
But in my short time here I have learned to chill and not try so hard to be all things to all women.. and the OP is right it’s difficult to have a single profile.. but tbh the few guys that have gym bods which most are conditioned to admire are not realistic to a lot of women so as long as us single guys make an effort physically and are not assholes there seems to be room for all of us here... |
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"Any tips for a single Guy's profile ?
Im also part of a well verified couples profile and decided to Setup a single profile (with the knowledge of Wife) too see how id do,
Very Little Views and Zero messages in 3 months, I don't know how ye single guys stick it out ! ! . "
get used to it  |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"Also, y'all know you can turn off view visibility right? Like, I have mine turned off because if I view a guy's profile, he'll message me saying "saw you viewed my profile, not interested?!?" or worse.
So I have that function turned off, so that I can view profiles without being abused for looking at a profile and not wanting to fuck that guy (the audacity!)
I didn’t know you could do this actually and I’ve yet to see who looks at me..
But in my short time here I have learned to chill and not try so hard to be all things to all women.. and the OP is right it’s difficult to have a single profile.. but tbh the few guys that have gym bods which most are conditioned to admire are not realistic to a lot of women so as long as us single guys make an effort physically and are not assholes there seems to be room for all of us here... "
You need to be a site supporter to use the function of see who looked at you |
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