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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Can anyone tell me why couples who swing together, in this open and free platform, feel the need to arrange meets behind their partners back?
Or why do people lead someone on? Spending so much time convincing someone to meet and when they do it’s radio silence?
What’s ur thoughts sexy people? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"You'll probably find that those types of "couples" profiles aren't actually a couple
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Very true, but some are genuine couples, boggles the mind sometimes |
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What we have discovered more than once is couples who also have singles profiles. She is doing really well, but he's not, so he uses the couples profile to get whatever he can, under the guise that the female is also involved in the conversation. When it comes to the crunch, she's not bothered about meeting. We could be wrong of course, but that it how it appears to us. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What we have discovered more than once is couples who also have singles profiles. She is doing really well, but he's not, so he uses the couples profile to get whatever he can, under the guise that the female is also involved in the conversation. When it comes to the crunch, she's not bothered about meeting. We could be wrong of course, but that it how it appears to us."
No I’d agree wholeheartedly with that, |
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By *andytownMan
over a year ago
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"Can anyone tell me why couples who swing together, in this open and free platform, feel the need to arrange meets behind their partners back?
Or why do people lead someone on? Spending so much time convincing someone to meet and when they do it’s radio silence?
What’s ur thoughts sexy people?"
Some folk are just nuts lol |
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
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"What we have discovered more than once is couples who also have singles profiles. She is doing really well, but he's not, so he uses the couples profile to get whatever he can, under the guise that the female is also involved in the conversation. When it comes to the crunch, she's not bothered about meeting. We could be wrong of course, but that it how it appears to us."
Gemma is guilty of this, shes always using me as ploy to meet couples, its infuriating  |
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
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"Can anyone tell me why couples who swing together, in this open and free platform, feel the need to arrange meets behind their partners back?
Or why do people lead someone on? Spending so much time convincing someone to meet and when they do it’s radio silence?
What’s ur thoughts sexy people?
Some folk are just nuts lol "
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"Can anyone tell me why couples who swing together, in this open and free platform, feel the need to arrange meets behind their partners back?
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The challenge of "can they still pull" themselves and also the thrill of doing it without their partner ever finding out is my guess  |
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"Can anyone tell me why couples who swing together, in this open and free platform, feel the need to arrange meets behind their partners back?
Or why do people lead someone on? Spending so much time convincing someone to meet and when they do it’s radio silence?
What’s ur thoughts sexy people?"
Because not everyone doing poly / open relationship is capable of or interested in doing it well or ethically. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What we have discovered more than once is couples who also have singles profiles. She is doing really well, but he's not, so he uses the couples profile to get whatever he can, under the guise that the female is also involved in the conversation. When it comes to the crunch, she's not bothered about meeting. We could be wrong of course, but that it how it appears to us."
It's because of this that I created this profile, I did not want anyone thinking I was using the couples account to either bypass filters or using a couples account to contact for solo meets.
It's also why on the couples account, if we are going to interact as a couple, we will suggest using a different messaging app where it can be clear that we are both talking and interested; frequently we find couples using a shared account or as I assume a fella using an account (until proved otherwise)
We choose to be brutally honest with each other, some not so much and because of that most seem not to believe that she knows who I speak to or what I do. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What we have discovered more than once is couples who also have singles profiles. She is doing really well, but he's not, so he uses the couples profile to get whatever he can, under the guise that the female is also involved in the conversation. When it comes to the crunch, she's not bothered about meeting. We could be wrong of course, but that it how it appears to us.
It's because of this that I created this profile, I did not want anyone thinking I was using the couples account to either bypass filters or using a couples account to contact for solo meets.
It's also why on the couples account, if we are going to interact as a couple, we will suggest using a different messaging app where it can be clear that we are both talking and interested; frequently we find couples using a shared account or as I assume a fella using an account (until proved otherwise)
We choose to be brutally honest with each other, some not so much and because of that most seem not to believe that she knows who I speak to or what I do. "
Well Jay kudos to u, I have been contacted by profiles that are real couples, yet the male is willing to meet behind his partners back without her ever knowing, it ruins fab for people and it’s just wrong, it’s supposed to be a site for people to be adults! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What we have discovered more than once is couples who also have singles profiles. She is doing really well, but he's not, so he uses the couples profile to get whatever he can, under the guise that the female is also involved in the conversation. When it comes to the crunch, she's not bothered about meeting. We could be wrong of course, but that it how it appears to us.
It's because of this that I created this profile, I did not want anyone thinking I was using the couples account to either bypass filters or using a couples account to contact for solo meets.
It's also why on the couples account, if we are going to interact as a couple, we will suggest using a different messaging app where it can be clear that we are both talking and interested; frequently we find couples using a shared account or as I assume a fella using an account (until proved otherwise)
We choose to be brutally honest with each other, some not so much and because of that most seem not to believe that she knows who I speak to or what I do.
Well Jay kudos to u, I have been contacted by profiles that are real couples, yet the male is willing to meet behind his partners back without her ever knowing, it ruins fab for people and it’s just wrong, it’s supposed to be a site for people to be adults!"
We've had it too and it's a quick way to get blocked no matter the couple. We don't want to get mixed up in someone else's drama |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can anyone tell me why couples who swing together, in this open and free platform, feel the need to arrange meets behind their partners back?
Or why do people lead someone on? Spending so much time convincing someone to meet and when they do it’s radio silence?
What’s ur thoughts sexy people?"
It's not just this platform, people who cheat will do it where ever whether it's here, tinder, pof etc. The same goes for ghosters, they're everywhere as well.
Neither of us have ever been stood up by anyone from here but I (Mr) had one woman from tinder who went radio silent. I text before I left to make sure it was still happening, she said it was all good so I drove 40 minutes and she was a no show. I called and text when I got there,no response. She text later that evening apologising saying she couldn't find her phone. She tried convincing me during the week to just book a hotel and not bother with the coffee.
If we arrange anything we expect people to turn up because we will. If they don't then there better be a very good reason. |
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