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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So, your chatting to someone for a while. It all goes as well and they seem like a good candidate for a meet... But then they say or do something that ruins it all.
What was it someone did or said that ruined it for you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Chatting to someone recently. Then she announced "I'm used getting what I want, dont keep me waiting, I get bored easily".
OK princess, run along now.
Another inflated ego with female fab syndrome caused by guys on here constantly blowing smoke up her ass and the ratio of girls to guys stacked in her favour.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hassling to be sent more pics.
Constantly wanting to sext.
Being needy
This, this and this.
Hey trouble how’s you??
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Trouble? Surely you meant that for someone else! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Finding something they’ve said on forums that seems completely wack - like anti vaxxers and conspiracy theorists. Science deniers "
This!!! 100%
Looks dont trump stupidity |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hassling to be sent more pics.
Constantly wanting to sext.
Being needy
This, this and this.
Hey trouble how’s you??
Trouble? Surely you meant that for someone else! "
Not at all
You ARE trouble lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Trouble? Surely you meant that for someone else!
Not at all
You ARE trouble lol
Pfft. You definitely have me confused with someone else  "
Oh I definitely do no m’dear
You’ve told me stories
I KNOW you’re trouble lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Chatting for a long time, getting on really well and then radio silence... or starting to organise a meet and bam... radio silence  "
Is that not what Fab is all about???  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For us it's when talking to a couple and arrange a date and last minute the girl can't make it but sure himself is still good to meet us, happens too often |
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"As soon as they start replying in one or two word messages.
If they are doing that it's safe to say THEY aren't interested. "
Exactly so why do they get in touch in the first place? I don't contact them. They send a hello message to which I reply and everything after that is "yep" , "sure", etc etc.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Trouble? Surely you meant that for someone else!
Not at all
You ARE trouble lol
Pfft. You definitely have me confused with someone else
Oh I definitely do no m’dear
You’ve told me stories
I KNOW you’re trouble lol "
Well I forgot about that. Shit. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
Once you make arrangements to meet for coffee and all they can do us talk about sex from then on. Or constantly pushing for a meet or pics when you have only exchanged a have only exchanged a handful of messages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dick pics, requesting more pics, sending those copy and pasted fantasy messages. Crude vulgar one liners, abusive messages and sending me messages to tell me I’m not their type...ok pal I’ll try not to lose sleep. Overall I’m having serious Craic and the majority of my messages are not demented! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Instant turn offs:
As Bo said - once you agree to meet for a coffee or a drink - it all becomes " What are the chances of play", "Not even a little bit" "what if we like each other will We play". Instant turn right off.
Let me be your sub so You can both use me. Nope. We may be kinky, but paying dominatrix with random whiny boys or girls at that isn't something we're both looking for.
Nobody likes me, I don't know what I'm doing wrong. Women won't fuck me because they want a ripped hunk with a massive cock. Nope. Most women just want to be treated like human beings and not some town bikes not worthy a normal conversation or a coffee in public.
"This is a sex site". I slowly started blocking profiles that say that even if I never interacted with them before and only seen a passing comment. |
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We were really keen on a lad for Scarlett. Perfect look, great build, hung, seemed nice but a touch cocky, and only down the road.
Perfect boyfriend material... or so we thought until he posted a status updated that completely showed his true colours by having a nasty rant about the certain physical attributes of other fabbers.
So, we pulled the handbrake. Only confirmed his a-hole status by sending abusive messages before telling me (Rhett) that he was going to batter me when he saw me out and about. Needless to say, he got blocked and all for a prick status update. |
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A few have already mentioned it. They message you first, it's a short message but you like their profile so you respond. After that, the effort is one way (outbound) and all you get is short answers with no real interest in continuing the conversation. Very common with couples where the guy is messaging and thinks he doesn't have to make any effort. We usually just let the convo fizzle out, doesn't take long  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A couple telling us we don't know what we're missing out on because I don't play with women
The second they start gossiping about mutual meets or others on the forum
Pushing for sexting
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ooooh where does the Manbeast start 
Vulgarity
Inability to laugh at Kaizer's jokes
Diction
No self respect
Using pacific instead of specific
Racism
Unable to maintain eye contact
Shite kisser
An enlarged addams apple and/or hands
Wearing 3 different shades of the colour red at once
Rudeness
Shit taste in movies
Alcoholism.... In fact most isms
Bad breath
Dirty nail
Plaque
Littering
Poor parking skills
Eh.....
Explaining offside
Lies
Amateur or semi professional prostitution
Tone deafness
Narcolepsy
Not believing in Santa 
Believing in the Easter Bunny
Smelly
A criminal record
Claiming Game of thrones was really good
... Kaizer needs to give this more thought |
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"Ooooh where does the Manbeast start
Vulgarity
Inability to laugh at Kaizer's jokes
Diction
No self respect
Using pacific instead of specific
Racism
Unable to maintain eye contact
Shite kisser
An enlarged addams apple and/or hands
Wearing 3 different shades of the colour red at once
Rudeness
Shit taste in movies
Alcoholism.... In fact most isms
Bad breath
Dirty nail
Plaque
Littering
Poor parking skills
Eh.....
Explaining offside
Lies
Amateur or semi professional prostitution
Tone deafness
Narcolepsy
Not believing in Santa
Believing in the Easter Bunny
Smelly
A criminal record
Claiming Game of thrones was really good
... Kaizer needs to give this more thought "
Taste in movies is subjective! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ooooh where does the Manbeast start
Vulgarity
Inability to laugh at Kaizer's jokes
Diction
No self respect
Using pacific instead of specific
Racism
Unable to maintain eye contact
Shite kisser
An enlarged addams apple and/or hands
Wearing 3 different shades of the colour red at once
Rudeness
Shit taste in movies
Alcoholism.... In fact most isms
Bad breath
Dirty nail
Plaque
Littering
Poor parking skills
Eh.....
Explaining offside
Lies
Amateur or semi professional prostitution
Tone deafness
Narcolepsy
Not believing in Santa
Believing in the Easter Bunny
Smelly
A criminal record
Claiming Game of thrones was really good
... Kaizer needs to give this more thought
Taste in movies is subjective!"
And? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Good to see no one has been put off by puzzles yet 
Shit!
Puzzles 
Fuck it we were only going for a pint in Nobber anyway "
Sheep are banned from the Nobber area |
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"Ooooh where does the Manbeast start
Vulgarity
Inability to laugh at Kaizer's jokes
Diction
No self respect
Using pacific instead of specific
Racism
Unable to maintain eye contact
Shite kisser
An enlarged addams apple and/or hands
Wearing 3 different shades of the colour red at once
Rudeness
Shit taste in movies
Alcoholism.... In fact most isms
Bad breath
Dirty nail
Plaque
Littering
Poor parking skills
Eh.....
Explaining offside
Lies
Amateur or semi professional prostitution
Tone deafness
Narcolepsy
Not believing in Santa
Believing in the Easter Bunny
Smelly
A criminal record
Claiming Game of thrones was really good
... Kaizer needs to give this more thought "
I really think you need to be more pacific
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ooooh where does the Manbeast start
Vulgarity
Inability to laugh at Kaizer's jokes
Diction
No self respect
Using pacific instead of specific
Racism
Unable to maintain eye contact
Shite kisser
An enlarged addams apple and/or hands
Wearing 3 different shades of the colour red at once
Rudeness
Shit taste in movies
Alcoholism.... In fact most isms
Bad breath
Dirty nail
Plaque
Littering
Poor parking skills
Eh.....
Explaining offside
Lies
Amateur or semi professional prostitution
Tone deafness
Narcolepsy
Not believing in Santa
Believing in the Easter Bunny
Smelly
A criminal record
Claiming Game of thrones was really good
... Kaizer needs to give this more thought
I really think you need to be more pacific
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Poor taste in Football teams and/or managers |
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Not everyone is gifted in crafting message replies, so I normally try for the social meet to give the benefit of doubt, but if conversation is still difficult or we have little in common, then that's the end. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been expecting to meet a couple all going well then he tells me she can't make it but i can come on my own didn't go ahead with it "
I get that alot it's the males wanting to meet alone and using there partner to get your attention, there prob onfab without the other knowing to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ooooh where does the Manbeast start
Vulgarity
Inability to laugh at Kaizer's jokes
Diction
No self respect
Using pacific instead of specific
Racism
Unable to maintain eye contact
Shite kisser
An enlarged addams apple and/or hands
Wearing 3 different shades of the colour red at once
Rudeness
Shit taste in movies
Alcoholism.... In fact most isms
Bad breath
Dirty nail
Plaque
Littering
Poor parking skills
Eh.....
Explaining offside
Lies
Amateur or semi professional prostitution
Tone deafness
Narcolepsy
Not believing in Santa
Believing in the Easter Bunny
Smelly
A criminal record
Claiming Game of thrones was really good
... Kaizer needs to give this more thought "
What’s an addams apple or amateur prostitution?
That second one is an oxymoron. If there’s no consideration given then it’s not prostitution and therefore just a sexual encounter |
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The creeping and increasing feeling that a good percentage of female and couple accounts are actually owned by some dude called Gary who twiddles his neck beard whilst rubbin the nubbin to your lusty one liners  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dont think there is one thing in particular that stands out.
But taking that time to let someones inner asshat to shine through is always worth it "
Since when did it take time? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dont think there is one thing in particular that stands out.
But taking that time to let someones inner asshat to shine through is always worth it
Since when did it take time?"
It does with some.....
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Loving the replies so far. Many gave me some insight, the others made me laugh!
I feel like we've all been in one or the other positions mentioned and all we can do is laugh it off.
I've got a few private replies and I think they were accidental so I will not reply to them (I ain't being Too opportunistic), but if not thank you
Would love to hear more
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So, your chatting to someone for a while. It all goes as well and they seem like a good candidate for a meet... But then they say or do something that ruins it all.
What was it someone did or said that ruined it for you?"
They deny they ever said they'd meet after promising they would ...just stringalongers . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One or two line answers to absolutely everything
Messaged for a few days but I just stopped as i wasn't getting to know her at all "
This!!!!! Cannot deal with it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Oh god and don't get me started on the fem pics with visible cheesey smegma and warts."
I'll have the visible cheesey smegma warts footlong please with southwest sauce   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Over familiar use of the word babe and hun and using x at the end of sentences. Sure sign of a playa that cant be bothered to learn your name
Any naughty picture messages the minute you add them on kik. Ah hang on while I drop everything to don some stockings for your wank bank. Sure my kids dont need picking up from school
Tyre kickers that have zero intentions of ever meeting but want a sexy penpal to entertain them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Over familiar use of the word babe and hun and using x at the end of sentences. Sure sign of a playa that cant be bothered to learn your name
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This! I find it such a turn on when a man says my name, even just in messages. But 9/10 it's some pet name he invariably uses interchangeabley with whatever woman he's trying to get the leg over on. Most of them are gross and an absolute deal breaker.
Just say my name bitch! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Over familiar use of the word babe and hun and using x at the end of sentences. Sure sign of a playa that cant be bothered to learn your name
This! I find it such a turn on when a man says my name, even just in messages. But 9/10 it's some pet name he invariably uses interchangeabley with whatever woman he's trying to get the leg over on. Most of them are gross and an absolute deal breaker.
Just say my name bitch! "
Quack Quack |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Over familiar use of the word babe and hun and using x at the end of sentences. Sure sign of a playa that cant be bothered to learn your name
This! I find it such a turn on when a man says my name, even just in messages. But 9/10 it's some pet name he invariably uses interchangeabley with whatever woman he's trying to get the leg over on. Most of them are gross and an absolute deal breaker.
Just say my name bitch! "
"Heah babe any naughty pictures xx" is guaranteed to dry up my fanny like the Sahara |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Over familiar use of the word babe and hun and using x at the end of sentences. Sure sign of a playa that cant be bothered to learn your name
This! I find it such a turn on when a man says my name, even just in messages. But 9/10 it's some pet name he invariably uses interchangeabley with whatever woman he's trying to get the leg over on. Most of them are gross and an absolute deal breaker.
Just say my name bitch!
"Heah babe any naughty pictures xx" is guaranteed to dry up my fanny like the Sahara "
Lol best reply ever that's brilliant lol |
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"What are you doing?
Where are you at?
Can you meet now?
What you think of the 35 pics of my cock?
Wanking at home and come right over, sure those 35 pics have you horny as hell!"
Yeah sure they do,
Up there with what you want to do to me right now? Um fuck all your miles away, probably married and what part of I'm not interested dont you understand? |
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"Hassling to be sent more pics.
Constantly wanting to sext.
Being needy
This, this and this. "
+1 - if I'm not replying to your messages I'm probably busy. Continuing to message me is going to piss me off.
Casual misogyny dries my pussy instantly. 'Bitches be crazy' , 'my ex was a psycho' , 'she was so much drama', stories about how you fucked another woman over, 'you're not like most women' etc. Huge red flag for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hassling to be sent more pics.
Constantly wanting to sext.
Being needy
This, this and this.
+1 - if I'm not replying to your messages I'm probably busy. Continuing to message me is going to piss me off.
Casual misogyny dries my pussy instantly. 'Bitches be crazy' , 'my ex was a psycho' , 'she was so much drama', stories about how you fucked another woman over, 'you're not like most women' etc. Huge red flag for me. "
Oh yeah that reminds me you didn't reply  |
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