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Who’s s on the tinder or Bumble or similar
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By *eebaw OP Man
over a year ago
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On both find tinder has more active people on it ? Or maybe I’m in the wrong area for bumble. So who else is on them or other apps? Since lockdown I think there great for connecting since the social aspect of pubs clubs wasn't there and still wont be with social distancing |
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Never been on tinder, didnt like bumble, I’m on Pof - and afternoon rejoining here I see a lot of the same faces, some of whom would ignore me on Pof so interesting to see from there eyes that I’m ok for a quickie but not worth a drink and a chat! |
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"Never been on tinder, didnt like bumble, I’m on Pof - and afternoon rejoining here I see a lot of the same faces, some of whom would ignore me on Pof so interesting to see from there eyes that I’m ok for a quickie but not worth a drink and a chat!"
*after, not afternoon  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tried tinder for a week and got banned (, the reasons honestly elude me) and I think I'm better off. Never been on bumble but I'd imagine there is little to distinguish them from each other. |
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By *ohnFKMan
over a year ago
Where the Streets Have No Name |
Yeah I am on Tinder to be honest. (I was with my ex/married etc. for 10 years, so lived a fairly sheltered life.)
So post split I tried it for a while. It's okay. Like here, it's better to meet up for a coffee or whatever than endless chat for days (or weeks!!)
I don't really bother with Tinder now, but it is still there.
Sure I only found out about fab 2 months ago! From a Tinder date HAHA! (See!!...sheltered!!  ) |
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By *ohnFKMan
over a year ago
Where the Streets Have No Name |
But I did happen to come across 2 nice girls on Tinder that I recognised from here!
Their fab pics are a lot eh... 'riskier' than their Tinder pics.
But yes, I swiped right.
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
South Dublin Area |
I'm on Tinder. Have recruited some lovely guys to Fabs ... I should be on a commission!
It's clear why I'm there but the mere suggestion of meeting for a drink is absurd to some matches which is both rude AF and presumptuous
I do find however that in general the guys I match with on Tinder are far more reliable than some guys here.
#controversial
Happy swiping
Gemma x
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"Never been on tinder, didnt like bumble, I’m on Pof - and afternoon rejoining here I see a lot of the same faces, some of whom would ignore me on Pof so interesting to see from there eyes that I’m ok for a quickie but not worth a drink and a chat!"
Similar experience here |
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"Never been on tinder, didnt like bumble, I’m on Pof - and afternoon rejoining here I see a lot of the same faces, some of whom would ignore me on Pof so interesting to see from there eyes that I’m ok for a quickie but not worth a drink and a chat!"
Say when and where and I will take you out for a drink no problem  |
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By *cupxxxWoman
over a year ago
Gorey |
I gave up on Tinder and POF a long time ago. Trying Match.com now for 6 months but no one mails on it.
Here is so much better. I want the best of both worlds...swinging AND love. Is that possible? I live in hope.  |
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"I gave up on Tinder and POF a long time ago. Trying Match.com now for 6 months but no one mails on it.
Here is so much better. I want the best of both worlds...swinging AND love. Is that possible? I live in hope. "
Well there is swings just down the road from me that can have a go on and happy to give my heart to you in the same process I'm Chris please to meet you   |
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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago
north and south |
"I gave up on Tinder and POF a long time ago. Trying Match.com now for 6 months but no one mails on it.
Here is so much better. I want the best of both worlds...swinging AND love. Is that possible? I live in hope.
Rather have the drink and chat and take it from there , The rest could be the bonus
Well there is swings just down the road from me that can have a go on and happy to give my heart to you in the same process I'm Chris please to meet you "
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By *andytownMan
over a year ago
Gods Own Country |
"Never been on tinder, didnt like bumble, I’m on Pof - and afternoon rejoining here I see a lot of the same faces, some of whom would ignore me on Pof so interesting to see from there eyes that I’m ok for a quickie but not worth a drink and a chat!
Similar experience here "
I'm on both and would see a few familiar faces, but would tend to bypass the ones i recognise on here incase it compromises their identity somewhat, just a discretion thing with me.
I'm very popular in South East Asia though |
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I’m on Tinder and POF. Had some good dates and like socialising so turns out to be a good place for that. Apparently I’m a chatterbox as it’s said a lot to me. Don’t know if it’s a good or bad thing??  |
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"Never been on tinder, didnt like bumble, I’m on Pof - and afternoon rejoining here I see a lot of the same faces, some of whom would ignore me on Pof so interesting to see from there eyes that I’m ok for a quickie but not worth a drink and a chat!"
They're clearly blind or just plain stupid  |
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"Never been on tinder, didnt like bumble, I’m on Pof - and afternoon rejoining here I see a lot of the same faces, some of whom would ignore me on Pof so interesting to see from there eyes that I’m ok for a quickie but not worth a drink and a chat!"
Yep!!! Totally agree to this!!
I’m not looking for a forever relationship, just casual open dating with great sex within the swinging world.
Some men on here just want to fuck and be on their way! Not for me thanks!
If I see them here I make a point of it, block and move on lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Was on Tinder once before. Found it meh.
I find it like a lottery for men. Me and about 2000 lads swipe like on a girls profile and let's see who she likes back haha. |
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"Im on tinder..
You match with each other and you mail, but lots never mail back.
Talk to a few but not much more so far but who knows...
Hard to find and connect with the right lady.. "
I agree. I'm on it. Very few matches message or reply to one. There are also scam profiles. Good looking women will message and include an email as the only way of contact going forward where you then must click on a link(for their security!!!??) to proceed. I exchanged emails just once but didn't open the link. Three profiles had the exact same promiscuous text. SCAM. Hope no one got caught |
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I'm on both, I have better interactions here tbh as the guys on Tinder / Bumble are mostly just looking for the ride (with me at least) and aren't remotely tactful about it.
On Fab, guys are more polite and up for a conversation because the parameters are set in advance I guess.
In summary, the guys on Fab and don't wanna date (me) , and the guys on dating apps also don't wanna date (me) ... So I'm out of options and just winging it til I meet the right guy SOMEWHERE! |
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"Never been on tinder, didnt like bumble, I’m on Pof - and afternoon rejoining here I see a lot of the same faces, some of whom would ignore me on Pof so interesting to see from there eyes that I’m ok for a quickie but not worth a drink and a chat!"
anybody that would ignore you is a fool and it’s there loss |
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I use a few of the apps and have met 3 fellow fabbers on one of them over the past while!
Totally innocent matches to begin and then when chat turned a little naughty over the following days then admissions were made.
Seems to be a sizeable overlap |
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By *issme39Woman
over a year ago
kildare |
Im on tinder but I keep forgetting about it if im honest, pof is mostly loons ( well the ones who message me are) one is as bad as the other..actually scrap my reply as im not a great advocate for either lol
Best of luck x |
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I am on tinder ,,,, alot of fakes on it ,,, met a two ladies so far, very straight forward,...
..... but I will say again alot of fakes |
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"Im on tinder but I keep forgetting about it if im honest, pof is mostly loons ( well the ones who message me are) one is as bad as the other..actually scrap my reply as im not a great advocate for either lol
Best of luck x "
Stick with Fab we're nicer and definitely saner x |
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By *ol_ieMan
over a year ago
Dublin west |
Was on tinder.. a good few matches but a number of them don't message back when you mail them and a number of the ones i have met face to face never look like their pictures really because they all using filters or their pics are years old.
Dating during a pandemic has been challenging to say the least.
But if you not in you can't win. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was on tinder for some while met a few people from it but just felt after a couple of meets they weren't what was made out to be by there profile.. No matter what pictures you have uploaded it's all about conversation & personally!
I've always said you'd get to know someone alot better over a few drinks as they let go abit rather then a awkward dinner or somthing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Am on both, tinder is a bit more Craic, less active on bumble, the fact you have to make the first move is a bit unnerving, I feel for fellas in that instance. The dreaded fear of rejection.... online dating is a bit soul destroying. Some days I want to meet a fella for a relationship, some days I want to sit on faces and do my own thing. First world problem! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm on Tinder and Bumble. Bumble is very civilised, the ladies first rules probably s out a lot of the virtual cat-calling. Tinder is the middle ground mixing buttoned up Bumble and Fab filth"
Haha this is how I wanted to convey both, I lack the linguistic ability. What he said. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This year I matched with a guy on Tinder chatted on and off wasn't feeling it and told him. He was very polite and cool about it. Later on in the year a Fab friend warned me about a profile showed me his face picture. It was the exact same guy. Only this time around he didnt take the similar polite rejection so well. He showered her with abuse and called her a whore. Gave me a great insight how differently some people can treat us here. |
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"On tinder go through it every now and then but mich prefer here
At least here you can find like minded people. Cant be doing with all the txtn just to find out that you havnt the same interests "
It's a catch 22 - on here you have to build up a rapport with someone as well - otherwise you come off as rude or a bit of a creep. I sup pose the moral of the story is that its all about being respectful no matter what site you are on. |
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