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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So, Fab is one of them sites I'm not openly on.
Nobody knows I'm on it and that's how it's preferred. It's a private part of my life.
Sligo isn't a small town so to speak, but it is for Fab. I interact, communicate and sometimes meet from here. I often take a a while longer to suss people out to ensure my privacy. Sometimes it can be hard. Other times I go to another county for a meet.
When I go away for a weekend I'm at ease. It's less likely I know them, and so on. Now, even if I did happen to know them I would NEVER out them, thats horrible.
So my Question is. How do you manage your privacy? Especially in small towns where there's more a chance you'd know them? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To be honest OP I cant answer most of your questions but one thing I would say to you as a young man don't be ashamed or embarrassed to be on this website
You're not doing anything wrong
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Thanks man!
It's not much embarrassed it's just I'm a private guy ya know?
A lot of people are swingers or would love to try. But they don't know where to start. I think many people are more so concerned about what others think  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We are from a rural area, the first thing we establish if someone is from the same county is that they're not living within 20 miles of us.
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Well that's fairly handy then lol! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are from a rural area, the first thing we establish if someone is from the same county is that they're not living within 20 miles of us.
Well that's fairly handy then lol!"
Still doesn't mean you won't know them, Ireland being the country it is! |
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Nothing is foolproof. If you put yourself out there then you are opening yourself up for exposure.
A few basic steps you CAN take would be chatting with potential meets (on a dedicated playphone that'd used for nothing else). I find I can suss out messers on the phone, and it doesn't expose you in any way. NEVER send identifying nude/body pics. Always have a coffee meet first. Don't meet close to your house or work. Don't give out any personal details including your real name or social media info. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nothing is foolproof. If you put yourself out there then you are opening yourself up for exposure.
A few basic steps you CAN take would be chatting with potential meets (on a dedicated playphone that'd used for nothing else). I find I can suss out messers on the phone, and it doesn't expose you in any way. NEVER send identifying nude/body pics. Always have a coffee meet first. Don't meet close to your house or work. Don't give out any personal details including your real name or social media info. "
Great advice  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nothing is foolproof. If you put yourself out there then you are opening yourself up for exposure.
A few basic steps you CAN take would be chatting with potential meets (on a dedicated playphone that'd used for nothing else). I find I can suss out messers on the phone, and it doesn't expose you in any way. NEVER send identifying nude/body pics. Always have a coffee meet first. Don't meet close to your house or work. Don't give out any personal details including your real name or social media info. "
Good advice, although we've never seen the need for a dedicated phone or phone calls. |
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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago
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Living in Dublin where half the population of the country lives close by I do meet local both to work and where I live. Why not ? I’m discreet and would never approach a fellow fabber in company. Don’t get this small town mentality but realise the curtintwichers don’t have anything better to natter about. |
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"Living in Dublin where half the population of the country lives close by I do meet local both to work and where I live. Why not ? I’m discreet and would never approach a fellow fabber in company. Don’t get this small town mentality but realise the curtintwichers don’t have anything better to natter about."
For me, it's about the fact that I have a minor child attending school with their offspring |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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I live in a rural area and have I don't meet anyone who lives close by. Mainly because I don't want people thinking just because I live close they can call in whenever they feel like it. But then I only allow someone in my home once I know them well enough to know I can trust them. |
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I understand its not the same for everyone though
