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By *eeMe31 OP Man
over a year ago
dalkey |
I understand that being a man on here is like shouting into the void sometimes, but I'm really starting to lose faith that this site can actually provide anything, which is a bit of a shame really.
I want a place to meet others who share my interests and who occasionally actually do want to chat (let alone meet up) yet I find myself sending out messages over and over again with nothing back
I don't want to sound critical of any woman on here, I know it's a very different experience for them, but is there something I'm missing here?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You need to stand out in a very big crowd mate, and unfortunately your profile is absolutely bog standard"
This, despite the skewed ratio of men to women, there are clearly men who have a high level of success, take a look at their profiles. You have to make an effort. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Jasussss. I’m having to chase them away with a big stichk , some of the females on here just won’t take no for an answer  "
u sure it was a stick u were chasing them with  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your profile says single and in dublin, if your only social outlet is fab get your ass on tinder,
If you can't find what you're looking for there I suggest you join the clergy
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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago
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"Any advice? Can't get verified without meeting and obviously don't want to have public face pics
Thanks for the feedback though"
Try cam to get verified, we haven't tried it but seen from others suggesting it, then obviously when things get better try going to a club |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I understand that being a man on here is like shouting into the void sometimes, but I'm really starting to lose faith that this site can actually provide anything, which is a bit of a shame really.
I want a place to meet others who share my interests and who occasionally actually do want to chat (let alone meet up) yet I find myself sending out messages over and over again with nothing back
I don't want to sound critical of any woman on here, I know it's a very different experience for them, but is there something I'm missing here?
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Maybe put a few more pics up, put more text on your profile of your interests etc. Take the time to make a profile that is unique and stands out. Maybe add a bit of wit or humour to it. Engage in the forums and give people a chance to get to know you. Maybe try attending a few socials to get verified. Best of luck |
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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago
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"Good idea! Thanks
Yeah tricky to go to meetups at the moment for obvious reasons, cam could be a good shout"
It took us a year before we got our 1st verification, we ended up organising a social with a male (we wasnt looking for single males at the time) and ended up having a great day |
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By *eeMe31 OP Man
over a year ago
dalkey |
Thanks everyone! Gonna re-do the profile and see how it goes, any feedback welcome
Also now I know how it must feel to be a woman on this site....
The amount of page views I've had from the forum post alone! Haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A profile pic would be a start a bit of effort into that could go a long.
If someone gets 20 messages and your little thumbnail picture catches attention its nore likely to get opened.
Interacting on the forums is also a big help |
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By *eeMe31 OP Man
over a year ago
dalkey |
"Having a silhouette as a profile pic isnt the best. Doesn't need to be a facepic, but SOMETHING to identify yourself"
Ha, I'm not that bad!
I just deleted my old one but forgot the new ones need to be approved first. Thanks for the reply though
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If your single guy in Dublin try getting invited to some parties or to a club night to network.
Obviously covid 19 is making all of the above hard.
As someone mentioned try Tinder.
Most single guys I know have great success on that app |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just be honest if you're going on tinder. Don't pretend you're looking for more than you are to get your hole. "
Pretty much this. I (Mr) use tinder more than here, 1 full length photo, no face picture and no name on the profile but I have it filled out stating I'm in an open relationship looking for Fwbs that I can meet up with every now and then. Even with that kind of bare profile I get a good few matches. Currently have 2 people I meet up with every so often |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's refreshing to see someone heed the advice they're given on threads like this as well as the amount of friendly Fabbers offering it 
Looking good, Ohpee! Have some 'Fabs' for the new pics |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's refreshing to see someone heed the advice they're given on threads like this as well as the amount of friendly Fabbers offering it
Looking good, Ohpee! Have some 'Fabs' for the new pics "
Ah here feck off with this positive shite |
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"Any advice? Can't get verified without meeting and obviously don't want to have public face pics
Thanks for the feedback though"
You can get Cam verified, if the green round sign is what you are after.
As for your profile, it looks good to me, maybe some women are not fond of full facial hair.
Some pics are very interesting, you look slim, can accommodate and in your early 30s, so at your peak sexualy speaking. You keep your cock pics private and it is a good thing.
I would say, you should have no problems meeting women, compared to some other men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"4 veris in 4 weeks.
So...yes.
No one likes a Show off 
4 have done so far! ??
Self praise is very unattractive.. "
Lol. Wasn't being too serious.
Mate, get a few decent pics. Flesh out the profile. Let your character jump out a bit more...use a bit of imagination...your profile is a bit 6/10 at the moment.
Then relax, chat, and enjoy yourself. I'm no stunner but a bit of wit and you're laughing
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"I understand that being a man on here is like shouting into the void sometimes, but I'm really starting to lose faith that this site can actually provide anything, which is a bit of a shame really.
I want a place to meet others who share my interests and who occasionally actually do want to chat (let alone meet up) yet I find myself sending out messages over and over again with nothing back
I don't want to sound critical of any woman on here, I know it's a very different experience for them, but is there something I'm missing here?
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I do OK pm me and I'll give ya a few pointers  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I understand that being a man on here is like shouting into the void sometimes, but I'm really starting to lose faith that this site can actually provide anything, which is a bit of a shame really.
I want a place to meet others who share my interests and who occasionally actually do want to chat (let alone meet up) yet I find myself sending out messages over and over again with nothing back
I don't want to sound critical of any woman on here, I know it's a very different experience for them, but is there something I'm missing here?
I do OK pm me and I'll give ya a few pointers "
Hardy Don’t forget to tell him about the sky remote!!! |
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"I understand that being a man on here is like shouting into the void sometimes, but I'm really starting to lose faith that this site can actually provide anything, which is a bit of a shame really.
I want a place to meet others who share my interests and who occasionally actually do want to chat (let alone meet up) yet I find myself sending out messages over and over again with nothing back
I don't want to sound critical of any woman on here, I know it's a very different experience for them, but is there something I'm missing here?
I do OK pm me and I'll give ya a few pointers
Hardy Don’t forget to tell him about the sky remote!!! "
naw the amazon firestick is the way ta go now |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I understand that being a man on here is like shouting into the void sometimes, but I'm really starting to lose faith that this site can actually provide anything, which is a bit of a shame really.
I want a place to meet others who share my interests and who occasionally actually do want to chat (let alone meet up) yet I find myself sending out messages over and over again with nothing back
I don't want to sound critical of any woman on here, I know it's a very different experience for them, but is there something I'm missing here?
I do OK pm me and I'll give ya a few pointers "
Lol.. Hardy the woman whisperer |
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"I understand that being a man on here is like shouting into the void sometimes, but I'm really starting to lose faith that this site can actually provide anything, which is a bit of a shame really.
I want a place to meet others who share my interests and who occasionally actually do want to chat (let alone meet up) yet I find myself sending out messages over and over again with nothing back
I don't want to sound critical of any woman on here, I know it's a very different experience for them, but is there something I'm missing here?
I do OK pm me and I'll give ya a few pointers
Lol.. Hardy the woman whisperer "
only if the hearing aids are switched on |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I understand that being a man on here is like shouting into the void sometimes, but I'm really starting to lose faith that this site can actually provide anything, which is a bit of a shame really.
I want a place to meet others who share my interests and who occasionally actually do want to chat (let alone meet up) yet I find myself sending out messages over and over again with nothing back
I don't want to sound critical of any woman on here, I know it's a very different experience for them, but is there something I'm missing here?
I do OK pm me and I'll give ya a few pointers
Lol.. Hardy the woman whisperer only if the hearing aids are switched on "
And their eyesight is going |
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