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By *NawtyCpl OP Couple
over a year ago
Around and about |
Im curious as to how you manage ur swing life and contraception. Do you rely solely on condoms or combine them with another contraceptive method?
Do u discuss prior to a meet and enquire with a female if she is on any birth control?
I dont fully trust condoms, sti's aside they at least can be dealt with thanks to antibiotics, nippers on the other hand is another matter!
What combination do you use for total peace of mind and for those who are not on birth control, are you happy relying on condoms?
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
"I've never been asked by anyone I've met here if I'm on birth control. And most men don't even mention condoms and show up 'hoping' you have some. "
I've been asked once only. I've had the odd guy show up with no condoms also but luckily I always have some. |
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Birth control and condoms here, I always have condoms with me, so many men turn up to meets/parties without them. One guy openly said it doesn't bring them ever, that its our responsibility lol. He got a land when I handed him one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always bring my own and ask a lady if that’s ok with her , I’d never expect a lady to supply them as I think that’s taking them for granted and disrespectful to think they should supply them
Lads have a bit of respect for yourselves and the lady or couple your meeting |
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Well im currently on 4 kids so I think at least a condom would be advised for me to use lol altho I don't like them and sometimes my cock just don't take to condoms and that pretty much ends my night lol |
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The middle Europe it's a common practice to allways use a condom but more importantly also pull out just in case the condom had burst in the last few moments of passion. This is something taught over there unlike this side of the world. |
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By *ornyfireCouple
over a year ago
Middle Earth |
So our situation is hubby had snip. So condoms with another would be a definite for us both but I think I'd still be a bit worried about getting pregnant, obviously I'm not on any contraception (pill never suited) as he has snip am I looking at getting morning after pill? |
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I would take it condoms are a given on the pill or not
Im afraid though there is nothing that is making my ass go in reveres when im coming it is physically impossable and if you think you are going to pull away thats when i dig the hands into your hips   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The middle Europe it's a common practice to allways use a condom but more importantly also pull out just in case the condom had burst in the last few moments of passion. This is something taught over there unlike this side of the world."
Money shots are the way to go!!!
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
by a lake with my rod out |
"I’ve never been asked if I was on birth control (always am) and always bring condoms but I have been seriously asked by two lads previously to have a baby for them "
Before or after we got married  |
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"I’ve never been asked if I was on birth control (always am) and always bring condoms but I have been seriously asked by two lads previously to have a baby for them
Before or after we got married "
Ehhhhh before, they were all before our marriage  |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
by a lake with my rod out |
"I’ve never been asked if I was on birth control (always am) and always bring condoms but I have been seriously asked by two lads previously to have a baby for them
Before or after we got married
Ehhhhh before, they were all before our marriage "
Oh yeah you ran away with another man on the night of our wedding.then you turn up out of the blue a few years later Hussy pmsl |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never been asked by anyone I've met here if I'm on birth control. And most men don't even mention condoms and show up 'hoping' you have some.
I've been asked once only. I've had the odd guy show up with no condoms also but luckily I always have some. "
Luckily for him |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Birth control and condoms here, I always have condoms with me, so many men turn up to meets/parties without them. One guy openly said it doesn't bring them ever, that its our responsibility lol. He got a land when I handed him one "
He’d get a more deserved land with the cold shoulder |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always bring rubbers, always. They may bring some too, but just in case.
I always think it's safer to use another contraception, anything can happen after all.
And if on the pill, great. But STD's are a thing.
Always been terrified of getting one, but I take precautions and so far so good |
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Have had my tubes removed and sent to the four corners of Ireland to be buried in unmarked plots NEVER again to be reunited. But I always use condoms. And I’m tested regularly.
Honestly, in post-repeal Ireland, pregnancy is far from the worst thing you can catch from unprotected sex.
Am still pretty astounded by the amount of guys who ask about going bareback... is that a thing? Do people do that with someone they’ve just met? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Birth control and condoms here, I always have condoms with me, so many men turn up to meets/parties without them. One guy openly said it doesn't bring them ever, that its our responsibility lol. He got a land when I handed him one "
That really does beggar belief......should shown him the door instead of a Johnny |
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By *ornyfireCouple
over a year ago
Middle Earth |
"Looks like most rely on the condoms (really they should be a given) but interesting that ladies double up with the pill or another method. "
Stop the taught of getting pregnant that ship has sailed here we are blessed with what have. Plus loads know he's had the snip  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm new, so no meets yet (boo hoo) but would it not be something to discuss ahead of time? I've noticed nobody is shy in asking and discussing their sexual preferences. The, "who's bringing the condoms?" should be a natural inquiry? |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
"Looks like most rely on the condoms (really they should be a given) but interesting that ladies double up with the pill or another method. "
I wouldn't ever rely on condoms just as a way to prevent pregnancy accidents can happen it's why I am on the pill and am meticulous about taking it as well. I've never had a pregnancy scare thank god and at this stage in my life can't think of anything worse than discovering I'm pregnant.
I use condoms to help prevent stis and regular testing as well for peace of mind.
I did have 2 guys who claimed they had the snip so therfore they didn't need to use condoms and would refuse to wear them. It's completely their choice but we didn't meet beyond a social. |
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