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"This is mainly about male masterbation respectively abstinence but feel free to contribute anything similar from a woman's point of view. While we know there's benefit in masterbating such as stress relief, regeneration of sperm and risk reduction of prostate cancer. There's claims that masterbation abstinence for a period of time can be beneficial such as being more productive, feeling more confident and having more control over your libido and your cock! There's even a movement called NoFap that recommends a 3 month abstinence from masterbating but also from watching porn to fight the averse affects of porn (over)consumption. So my question has anyone tried to go without for a while? Did you experience benefits and what were these? Do you think it gave you more control over your sword of joy and did it help you to up your sexual skills and stamina? " short answer no. Think the longest I went was 5 days. | |||
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"This is mainly about male masterbation respectively abstinence but feel free to contribute anything similar from a woman's point of view. While we know there's benefit in masterbating such as stress relief, regeneration of sperm and risk reduction of prostate cancer. There's claims that masterbation abstinence for a period of time can be beneficial such as being more productive, feeling more confident and having more control over your libido and your cock! There's even a movement called NoFap that recommends a 3 month abstinence from masterbating but also from watching porn to fight the averse affects of porn (over)consumption. So my question has anyone tried to go without for a while? Did you experience benefits and what were these? Do you think it gave you more control over your sword of joy and did it help you to up your sexual skills and stamina? " i might go a week from time to time when I'm very busy with work but never really noticed a higher sex drive while busy it was when the pressure would ease....oh man horny isn't the word for how I would be | |||
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"Recently took a week off and to be honest the only real change i noticed was the obviously massive jump in sex drive. Dont think ive gone down on her that much in years "So you could argue she benefited by you being more attentive when you finally had sex again (assuming she likes oral). | |||
"If I abstain for a week it results in a crazy craving for sex and shooting a fairly big load... " Have you ever thought of experimenting a bit longer and gaining control over that crazy craving? | |||
"If I abstain for a week it results in a crazy craving for sex and shooting a fairly big load... Have you ever thought of experimenting a bit longer and gaining control over that crazy craving? " Surely the longer you abstain, the bigger the cravings will become and the less control over cravings you are likely to have? | |||
"If I abstain for a week it results in a crazy craving for sex and shooting a fairly big load... Have you ever thought of experimenting a bit longer and gaining control over that crazy craving? Surely the longer you abstain, the bigger the cravings will become and the less control over cravings you are likely to have?" Not sure if that's necessarily the case. The first week could be the hardest (no pun intended) and after that you get more and more used to having no sex/masterbation so it might get easier. | |||
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" Not sure if that's necessarily the case. The first week could be the hardest (no pun intended) and after that you get more and more used to having no sex/masterbation so it might get easier. " Yeah, i'm sure after 'masterbation cold turkey' of period of time it does become easier and less likely to have cravings for sex/masterbation but the next time you do have sex or masterbate you will be back to square one again re-cravings. I find it difficult to see where the benefits of abstaining would lay? Assuming current masterbation levels isn't leading to any situations below: 1. Over use and damaging yourself 2. Impacting the ability to hold down a job due you're cravings 3. Impacting any social or personal relationships due to you're cravings 4. Being evicted due to the repeatitive squeeky bed noises pissing off the next door neighbours | |||
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"If I abstain for a week it results in a crazy craving for sex and shooting a fairly big load... Have you ever thought of experimenting a bit longer and gaining control over that crazy craving? Surely the longer you abstain, the bigger the cravings will become and the less control over cravings you are likely to have? Not sure if that's necessarily the case. The first week could be the hardest (no pun intended) and after that you get more and more used to having no sex/masterbation so it might get easier. " on two occasions went 8 and 10 months without sex while single and it wasn't on my mind all day everyday but I did think about it occasionally, its only natural that you would think about it when your looking for someone to meet but as for going without it while in a relationship, I'm not sure about that, I've never abstained from it while with a partner | |||
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"Recently took a week off and to be honest the only real change i noticed was the obviously massive jump in sex drive. Dont think ive gone down on her that much in years
So you could argue she benefited by you being more attentive when you finally had sex again (assuming she likes oral)."No argument needed, she benefitted for sure 
To clarify, this was while i abstained. We still played, i just stopped before cumming | |||
"If I abstain for a week it results in a crazy craving for sex and shooting a fairly big load... Have you ever thought of experimenting a bit longer and gaining control over that crazy craving? " Once.. Didn't end well. When I did mastaubate the place looked like a cream pie fight had taken place | |||
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" Not sure if that's necessarily the case. The first week could be the hardest (no pun intended) and after that you get more and more used to having no sex/masterbation so it might get easier. Yeah, i'm sure after 'masterbation cold turkey' of period of time it does become easier and less likely to have cravings for sex/masterbation but the next time you do have sex or masterbate you will be back to square one again re-cravings. I find it difficult to see where the benefits of abstaining would lay? Assuming current masterbation levels isn't leading to any situations below: 1. Over use and damaging yourself 2. Impacting the ability to hold down a job due you're cravings 3. Impacting any social or personal relationships due to you're cravings 4. Being evicted due to the repeatitive squeeky bed noises pissing off the next door neighbours "What I've read there's a good amount of young man trying it when masterbating to porn gets out of hand and mental and maybe even physical desensitisation kicks or having problems with premature ejaculation (rush the wank before mum comes into the room syndrome) or ED in connection to porn consumption. I'm not saying this should be a regular thing but to explore your body fully and gain more control over your little lad it could be a interesting experiment. | |||
"This is mainly about male masterbation respectively abstinence but feel free to contribute anything similar from a woman's point of view. While we know there's benefit in masterbating such as stress relief, regeneration of sperm and risk reduction of prostate cancer. There's claims that masterbation abstinence for a period of time can be beneficial such as being more productive, feeling more confident and having more control over your libido and your cock! There's even a movement called NoFap that recommends a 3 month abstinence from masterbating but also from watching porn to fight the averse affects of porn (over)consumption. So my question has anyone tried to go without for a while? Did you experience benefits and what were these? Do you think it gave you more control over your sword of joy and did it help you to up your sexual skills and stamina? " From the female perspective: After having been separated and without a sexual encounter/relationship for 17 months, during which I went through phases of what I would consider healthy and unhealthy amounts of masturbation and watching porn, I met someone whom I had a relationship with for a number of months. Considering I was out of a 22 year committed relationship/marriage, the initial first "get together" with another man, though hot and horny, I couldn't/didn't orgasm with him... various reasons...I held off my first orgasm, which would have been mind blowing, as I a) wanted the pleasure to last but always knew if I hold off, then I can't cum, b) knew that I would be put off keeping going with the session as I had a thing in my head about feeling "dirty" after cumming (something that has been with me throughout my life, which I since have dealt with and no issues with anymore  ).
I kept masturbating while in this relationship, but had trouble in the first few weeks with my orgasm, which had absolutely nothing to do with the man I was with or the skills he had. Our encounters were hot and sexy, he knew exactly how and where to touch me but I just couldn't get out of my head to let go. And there was an element of desensitisation in me due to masturbation. He was obviously quite upset and initially took it personally too, thinking it was him. We talked things through and I decided that I would abstain from masturbation...which I did for 3 weeks (though he found that difficult to believe, given my sex drive lol)...and lo and behold, the first orgasm with him was absolutely mind blowing, with many more to come (excuse the pun lol), and a subsequent "healthier" amount of masturbation when in a relationship...my first experience being able to talk about my sexuality openly, without judgement from another, which in fact, led me here
I do have a tendency now to abstain from masturbating when I know I will be having sex as I do find it desensitizes me to a certain extent, and having gone without an orgasm for a few days, makes those even more intense when with my partner...
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" I'm not saying this should be a regular thing but to explore your body fully and gain more control over your little lad it could be a interesting experiment. " Desensitisation obviously could be the biggest drawback from over masterbating but I would assume that would require a seriously unhealthy amount of times per day to desenititise yourself like that. ( P.s.  @ at little lad comment slipped in there ) | |||
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"I’d love to wake up one morning and have a willy . I think I’d lie in bed all day playing with it. Then wander around waving it everywhere, twitching it for the camera, see what it’s like to wank. I think it sounds great fun. " Ahh having a willy for a single day is the easy bit, its the pressure and responsability associated with having one longterm thats the tough bit
** runs and hides  ** | |||
"I’d love to wake up one morning and have a willy . I think I’d lie in bed all day playing with it. Then wander around waving it everywhere, twitching it for the camera, see what it’s like to wank. I think it sounds great fun. " How long before you'd be sending cock pics to everyone om Fab? | |||
"I’d love to wake up one morning and have a willy . I think I’d lie in bed all day playing with it. Then wander around waving it everywhere, twitching it for the camera, see what it’s like to wank. I think it sounds great fun. " Then you'd have the dreaded manflu to deal with. Coronavirus is nothing compared with the manflu | |||
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"I’d love to wake up one morning and have a willy . I think I’d lie in bed all day playing with it. Then wander around waving it everywhere, twitching it for the camera, see what it’s like to wank. I think it sounds great fun. How long before you'd be sending cock pics to everyone om Fab? "I’d be so chuffed of my proud yet mediocre erection that I’d put A photo of it in my profile picture and rename myself “supercock6969suckit”. I’d send every woman the same badly spelt cut and paste message and be a total asshole to anyone that replied saying No Thanks Then I’ll change my update to “Im Horny, can accom, who wants to sit on my cock” and be confused yet furious when I get no requests. At that point my cock will be sore from wanking and my back will be sore from posing and I’ll crawl into bed hoping I wake up with my nice neat pussy back then next morning. | |||
"I’d love to wake up one morning and have a willy . I think I’d lie in bed all day playing with it. Then wander around waving it everywhere, twitching it for the camera, see what it’s like to wank. I think it sounds great fun. How long before you'd be sending cock pics to everyone om Fab?
I’d be so chuffed of my proud yet mediocre erection that I’d put A photo of it in my profile picture and rename myself “supercock6969suckit”. I’d send every woman the same badly spelt cut and paste message and be a total asshole to anyone that replied saying No Thanks Then I’ll change my update to “Im Horny, can accom, who wants to sit on my cock” and be confused yet furious when I get no requests. At that point my cock will be sore from wanking and my back will be sore from posing and I’ll crawl into bed hoping I wake up with my nice neat pussy back then next morning. "There's a difference between having a dick and being a dick  | |||
"I’d love to wake up one morning and have a willy . I think I’d lie in bed all day playing with it. Then wander around waving it everywhere, twitching it for the camera, see what it’s like to wank. I think it sounds great fun. How long before you'd be sending cock pics to everyone om Fab?
I’d be so chuffed of my proud yet mediocre erection that I’d put A photo of it in my profile picture and rename myself “supercock6969suckit”. I’d send every woman the same badly spelt cut and paste message and be a total asshole to anyone that replied saying No Thanks Then I’ll change my update to “Im Horny, can accom, who wants to sit on my cock” and be confused yet furious when I get no requests. At that point my cock will be sore from wanking and my back will be sore from posing and I’ll crawl into bed hoping I wake up with my nice neat pussy back then next morning.
There's a difference between having a dick and being a dick "LOL. So there is. | |||
"This is mainly about male masterbation respectively abstinence but feel free to contribute anything similar from a woman's point of view. While we know there's benefit in masterbating such as stress relief, regeneration of sperm and risk reduction of prostate cancer. There's claims that masterbation abstinence for a period of time can be beneficial such as being more productive, feeling more confident and having more control over your libido and your cock! There's even a movement called NoFap that recommends a 3 month abstinence from masterbating but also from watching porn to fight the averse affects of porn (over)consumption. So my question has anyone tried to go without for a while? Did you experience benefits and what were these? Do you think it gave you more control over your sword of joy and did it help you to up your sexual skills and stamina? From the female perspective: After having been separated and without a sexual encounter/relationship for 17 months, during which I went through phases of what I would consider healthy and unhealthy amounts of masturbation and watching porn, I met someone whom I had a relationship with for a number of months. Considering I was out of a 22 year committed relationship/marriage, the initial first "get together" with another man, though hot and horny, I couldn't/didn't orgasm with him... various reasons...I held off my first orgasm, which would have been mind blowing, as I a) wanted the pleasure to last but always knew if I hold off, then I can't cum, b) knew that I would be put off keeping going with the session as I had a thing in my head about feeling "dirty" after cumming (something that has been with me throughout my life, which I since have dealt with and no issues with anymore ).
I kept masturbating while in this relationship, but had trouble in the first few weeks with my orgasm, which had absolutely nothing to do with the man I was with or the skills he had. Our encounters were hot and sexy, he knew exactly how and where to touch me but I just couldn't get out of my head to let go. And there was an element of desensitisation in me due to masturbation. He was obviously quite upset and initially took it personally too, thinking it was him. We talked things through and I decided that I would abstain from masturbation...which I did for 3 weeks (though he found that difficult to believe, given my sex drive lol)...and lo and behold, the first orgasm with him was absolutely mind blowing, with many more to come (excuse the pun lol), and a subsequent "healthier" amount of masturbation when in a relationship...my first experience being able to talk about my sexuality openly, without judgement from another, which in fact, led me here
I do have a tendency now to abstain from masturbating when I know I will be having sex as I do find it desensitizes me to a certain extent, and having gone without an orgasm for a few days, makes those even more intense when with my partner...
Kinky"set up your own clinic lol | |||
"This is mainly about male masterbation respectively abstinence but feel free to contribute anything similar from a woman's point of view. While we know there's benefit in masterbating such as stress relief, regeneration of sperm and risk reduction of prostate cancer. There's claims that masterbation abstinence for a period of time can be beneficial such as being more productive, feeling more confident and having more control over your libido and your cock! There's even a movement called NoFap that recommends a 3 month abstinence from masterbating but also from watching porn to fight the averse affects of porn (over)consumption. So my question has anyone tried to go without for a while? Did you experience benefits and what were these? Do you think it gave you more control over your sword of joy and did it help you to up your sexual skills and stamina? " Why would u abstain  u wake up its there winking at u begging to be stroked why wouldn't u
Some bat shit crazy ideas being floated by Thrump id say | |||
"This is mainly about male masterbation respectively abstinence but feel free to contribute anything similar from a woman's point of view. While we know there's benefit in masterbating such as stress relief, regeneration of sperm and risk reduction of prostate cancer. There's claims that masterbation abstinence for a period of time can be beneficial such as being more productive, feeling more confident and having more control over your libido and your cock! There's even a movement called NoFap that recommends a 3 month abstinence from masterbating but also from watching porn to fight the averse affects of porn (over)consumption. So my question has anyone tried to go without for a while? Did you experience benefits and what were these? Do you think it gave you more control over your sword of joy and did it help you to up your sexual skills and stamina? Why would u abstain u wake up its there winking at u begging to be stroked why wouldn't u
Some bat shit crazy ideas being floated by Thrump id say "CJ. Word on the street is you can change hands without missing a stroke ...can you confirm this rumour?? | |||
"Why would u abstain u wake up its there winking at u begging to be stroked why wouldn't u
Some bat shit crazy ideas being floated by Thrump id say "I know, I know it's tricky for you to comprehend CJ, look it's more something for the younger ones. We understand at this stage of your life you're simply happy when you wake up in the morning and you're little fella is still alive and functioning. So to show him a bit of affection is only natural.  | |||
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"Yes and yes. I pretty much dont masturbate anymore. No particular reason just over a period of time I started to just not feel the need. I feel that sex is better for me and having not watched porn at all for about six months I can say that I have become aware of its affect on things I thought I liked while having sex and the things I am now begining to understand that really underpin my sexuality. I've gained confidence myself sexually and my understanding of what I like and where my boundaries are. I also had the snip last year and this has a profound effect on the way I orgasm. There's no little voice. No worry, just total abandon. I should qualify this by saying that I have an active and fulfilling sex life and so the status quo might very well change with time." Curious to know how no porn worked out for you. I've started to avoid watching/looking at it now, but always run into it on this site with the pics. | |||
" Curious to know how no porn worked out for you. I've started to avoid watching/looking at it now, but always run into it on this site with the pics. " For one thing I've found that I have a much broader appreciation of body types. Looking at profiles doesn't feel like looking at porn for me and I honestly feel like the range of people I am attracted to has increased by a wide margin. | |||
"I’d love to wake up one morning and have a willy . I think I’d lie in bed all day playing with it. Then wander around waving it everywhere, twitching it for the camera, see what it’s like to wank. I think it sounds great fun. " You can borrow mine... | |||
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"I’d love to wake up one morning and have a willy . I think I’d lie in bed all day playing with it. Then wander around waving it everywhere, twitching it for the camera, see what it’s like to wank. I think it sounds great fun. You can borrow mine..." Can you imagine the other way round
We would be going round sticking everything in there and dry humping all sorts | |||
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