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By *iamo69 OP Man
over a year ago
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Anyone else completely love going down.
It's a must for me but 2 lads I pal around with say they hate going down on a girl. Now and again but if advoid they will.
And I'm like il go down as long as she wants when she wants ha
One lads I work with is same. Not a chance he will do it. What's wrong with people |
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There is some macho bullshit around men not wanting to appear submissive by doing this.. but many will do it anyway and pretend they don't. Some guys genuinely hate it, and that's OK. Same as some women don't like giving it either. |
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By *nicatorMan
over a year ago
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Absolutely love it. Nothing turns me on more than than a woman who's enjoying my tongue.
I've never thought of it as submissive - I'm sure it can be like just about any act. Having someone begging you not to stop seems far more the other end of the spectrum.
In my case I get a kick out of it but for those guys that don't and who won't it doesn't paint a picture of a fantastic meet. It shouldn't be all take take. Sometimes giving is own reward. |
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Just because it's a topic that interests me. Look at oral sex in the media. There is a reason Tarantino decided to put the big burly boxer Butch in a situation where his girlfriend asked him for oral pleasure... and does anyone remember the Sopranos and the fact that all the wiseguys pretended they didn't do down on their partners?
I know men and women obviously do enjoy oral sex with each other purely on an equal partners quid pro quo way.. but on some level putting your head and mouth down to the genitals of another human being can be interpreted as submissive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People are entitled to have sexual preferences. Unless I'm the one having sex with them, I don't really care, and tbh, nothing worse than someone doing something they find distasteful because they feel obliged. |
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"There is some macho bullshit around men not wanting to appear submissive by doing this.. but many will do it anyway and pretend they don't. Some guys genuinely hate it, and that's OK. Same as some women don't like giving it either. "
What a bullshit statement ?? Never once has a man ever thought going down on a lady is seen as being submissive.. The most stupidest thing I’ve ever heard on here, and there’s been some bullshit on here lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know men and women obviously do enjoy oral sex with each other purely on an equal partners quid pro quo way.. but on some level putting your head and mouth down to the genitals of another human being can be interpreted as submissive. "
That is an interesting perspective on oral and one i never gave too much consideration to.
I could see how the combination of looking up at someone (either looking up on a bed or kneeling below them) and the reciever physically asserting dominance during oral; grabbing hair, neck, back of head could potentially make the reciever feel more submissive, be it a male or female..
Up until this point, i always considered it an equal sharing of pleasure for both parties |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
on the hill NordWest of |
"That's fair. But is there women that don't enjoy it"
Yup based on my fab reasearch plenty find it gets boring quickly and the enjoyment is rather little, but others love it and can't get enough. Always remember every woman is different. So a one fits all sex routine won't make you a stallion. |
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"That's fair. But is there women that don't enjoy it
Yup based on my fab reasearch plenty find it gets boring quickly and the enjoyment is rather little, but others love it and can't get enough. Always remember every woman is different. So a one fits all sex routine won't make you a stallion. " very true and good point |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's fair. But is there women that don't enjoy it
Yup based on my fab reasearch plenty find it gets boring quickly and the enjoyment is rather little, but others love it and can't get enough. Always remember every woman is different. So a one fits all sex routine won't make you a stallion. "
Loving the image of you with a clip board and pen in hand with a high vis vest conducting offical fab research surveys |
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"That's fair. But is there women that don't enjoy it
Yup based on my fab reasearch plenty find it gets boring quickly and the enjoyment is rather little, but others love it and can't get enough. Always remember every woman is different. So a one fits all sex routine won't make you a stallion.
Loving the image of you with a clip board and pen in hand with a high vis vest conducting offical fab research surveys " |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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everyone is entitled to either like or not like oral sex or anything else for that matter
Would any man admit on here to not liking going down on a woman or getting a blowjob as easily as they'd admit to not liking rimming or watersports
I doubt it
However I dont understand a man saying he could go down on a woman for hours
If you have to do that to have a partner orgasm you're definitely doing something wrong in my opinion |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nah fuck that if she wants a lick she can get a dog....
Said no man on fab ever......"
No sure why, but the old Kia-Ora advert just popped into my mind there out of nowhere
"I'll be your dog!" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nah fuck that if she wants a lick she can get a dog....
Said no man on fab ever......
No sure why, but the old Kia-Ora advert just popped into my mind there out of nowhere
"I'll be your dog!""
Thats the trippiest ad |
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"everyone is entitled to either like or not like oral sex or anything else for that matter
Would any man admit on here to not liking going down on a woman or getting a blowjob as easily as they'd admit to not liking rimming or watersports
I doubt it
However I dont understand a man saying he could go down on a woman for hours
If you have to do that to have a partner orgasm you're definitely doing something wrong in my opinion "
Im salivating like Pavlov's dog just reading this. I love to give pleasure, whether with my hands or cock, or my tongue. My preference is to give a woman oral pleasure, as it gives me the most pleasure, so I'm taking my pleasure from giving her pleasure. If she doesn't like it, then there would be no fun in it for me. But, i would stay down between her legs for a long time, as I have the patience. And the goal for me is not necessarily to "give" her an orgasm, but to pleasure her. If she has an orgasm, great. |
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It's usually fairly obvious when a guy just goes down because he feels he has to. Like anything else you can tell when someone is enjoying themselves and is into it.
Not everyone enjoys giving oral and I respect that. What I don't like is men who just do it to tick a box per se. |
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I love going down on herself or any lady iv been with. For me it turns me on no end and as I'm doing it I can feel my dick getting harder,nothing better than her cumming on my face and tongue and it leads to a better fuck too after. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's a must for guys to go down on a girl. I don't get why guys don't because you can guarantee that they would be the very ones complaining if a girl didn't give them oral. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had one or two experiences where a woman has gone down on me so I went to return the compliment but they weren't into it, that was fine by me it's still their choice as much as yours what happens in the bed but generally I've found women love it but never had the word 'submissive' ever crossed my mind. Why would it be? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone else completely love going down.
It's a must for me but 2 lads I pal around with say they hate going down on a girl. Now and again but if advoid they will.
And I'm like il go down as long as she wants when she wants ha
One lads I work with is same. Not a chance he will do it. What's wrong with people "
Love going down on a girl... it’s so hot when she comes all over your face, and your driver her crazy!! |
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I've been with guys who just didn't enjoy it & like others have said, everyone has their preferences. I'd rather not receive from someone not into it, than them do it as a chore or favour.
In my experience the guys loudest about loving it & being "Oh so skilled" are often no good at listening to my reactions & adjusting accordingly, so I'm often wary.
On the submissive thing - I think any sex act can be played as dominant or submissive.
I've had doms who used oral for orgasm control & denial & I've had subs enjoy being forced to pleasure me while they are denied. I've given oral in both mindsets/scenarios. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a matter of taste, I like to kiss a woman from head to toe, I like to give them oral sex and rimming if they like it. Why Women Typically Avoid 69" the woman on top! Absolute winner |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is some macho bullshit around men not wanting to appear submissive by doing this.. but many will do it anyway and pretend they don't. Some guys genuinely hate it, and that's OK. Same as some women don't like giving it either. "
Exactly this.. you do it because you enjoy it and want to engage in it, and it is the same way for women who engage in it.
There are women who will engage in it and love it, but won't take the 'payload' and that is perfectly acceptable.
But you will get gobshites who will be offended because she won't take the hit. |
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"There is some macho bullshit around men not wanting to appear submissive by doing this.. but many will do it anyway and pretend they don't. Some guys genuinely hate it, and that's OK. Same as some women don't like giving it either.
What a bullshit statement ?? Never once has a man ever thought going down on a lady is seen as being submissive.. The most stupidest thing I’ve ever heard on here, and there’s been some bullshit on here lol "
Agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just because it's a topic that interests me. Look at oral sex in the media. There is a reason Tarantino decided to put the big burly boxer Butch in a situation where his girlfriend asked him for oral pleasure... and does anyone remember the Sopranos and the fact that all the wiseguys pretended they didn't do down on their partners?
I know men and women obviously do enjoy oral sex with each other purely on an equal partners quid pro quo way.. but on some level putting your head and mouth down to the genitals of another human being can be interpreted as submissive. "
Honestly it never crossed my mind..although I get it... love controlling a lady with my mouth though..love it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone else completely love going down.
It's a must for me but 2 lads I pal around with say they hate going down on a girl. Now and again but if advoid they will.
And I'm like il go down as long as she wants when she wants ha
One lads I work with is same. Not a chance he will do it. What's wrong with people "
Love it.
PhD in cunning linguistics
Nom nom |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's fair. But is there women that don't enjoy it"
I've net quite a few ladies throughout the years that don't enjoy it or even do it! One friend said she stopped doing that after they got married (11 years prior!! )
I've also met guys that don't like doing it or have to be "in the mood". It's cool. I obviously love to receive and I love sucking cock, I can go to town on a nice meaty cock |
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Not having sex without it.
Never have, never will.
Other than a quickie outside a nightclub/pub I have never had sex without going down.
I consider it an essential part of foreplay.
Woman doesn't need to have an orgasm from it but it makes her more relaxed and open for the penetrative section. Then perhaps go down again after, if she hasn't orgasmed, or just because I love being there |
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