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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why do the single guys on here kiss ass,when a woman/couple says anything on the forum you will have at least 10 guys agreeing to that opinion,but if a single guy says anything and women/couples disagrees then you will have the single guys disagreeing as well,lads grow a effing pair  |
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"Why do the single guys on here kiss ass,when a woman/couple says anything on the forum you will have at least 10 guys agreeing to that opinion,but if a single guy says anything and women/couples disagrees then you will have the single guys disagreeing as well,lads grow a effing pair "
Or... They actually agree with some of the points of view?? Shocking i know  |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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Honestly there's room for everyone on here
Its not a cockfight betweem men to get noticed but rather it's up to each man to get noticed on their own terms
Don't be a brown nose as you call them or be one of you want to ...the women on fab are not fuckin stupid to not notice what men say
PS Op its ok to agree with women (and men )if that's your honest opinion
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"Why do the single guys on here kiss ass,when a woman/couple says anything on the forum you will have at least 10 guys agreeing to that opinion,but if a single guy says anything and women/couples disagrees then you will have the single guys disagreeing as well,lads grow a effing pair "
Simple answer.. To gain a positive association in the heads of someone they want to fuck.
Who hasn't lied or exaggerated to impress someone they fancy after all |
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"Because it's the same few trolls with all there verifications, that makes them experts on every subject trying to get attention for themselves and brownie points!!!
#forums gone to shit!!!"
Wow imagine that - dudes with the ability to empathise and engage in a rational discussion instead of the usual rage fuelled misogyny touting posts usually get more meets....
What a novel concept! 
This bears more investigation! It's a conspiracy I tell ya! How dare those individuals be more popular than me with my penile issues and incelly attitude!   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Why do the single guys on here kiss ass,when a woman/couple says anything on the forum you will have at least 10 guys agreeing to that opinion,but if a single guy says anything and women/couples disagrees then you will have the single guys disagreeing as well,lads grow a effing pair
Simple answer.. To gain a positive association in the heads of someone they want to fuck.
Who hasn't lied or exaggerated to impress someone they fancy after all"
I see it as some sort of bullying on here by putting other guys down,lowering other guys self esteem, it hasn't happened to me (yet) |
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"I see it as some sort of bullying on here by putting other guys down,lowering other guys self esteem, it hasn't happened to me (yet) "
I would humbly like to disagree with your interpretation.
It's a forum, for discussion, on (apparently) a myriad of topics. People are free to agree or disagree with whomever they choose.
Quit often the posts that are mocked or jumped upon are made by single men and usually contain a whiney entitled sort of tone, parroting the same complaints over and over, "Why won't anyone meet me? Why won't anyone respond to my messages? Are we here to fuck or not? Why is everyone so mean?" etc.
We mock them because of their attitudes and because we've seen these posts over and over and over - if a woman or couple waltzed into the forum and repeated the same clichéd post over and over they'd be subjected to the same response.
It's a old tune friend, and when us old timers hear it, we tend to dance.  |
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"Why do the single guys on here kiss ass,when a woman/couple says anything on the forum you will have at least 10 guys agreeing to that opinion,but if a single guy says anything and women/couples disagrees then you will have the single guys disagreeing as well,lads grow a effing pair
Simple answer.. To gain a positive association in the heads of someone they want to fuck.
Who hasn't lied or exaggerated to impress someone they fancy after allI see it as some sort of bullying on here by putting other guys down,lowering other guys self esteem, it hasn't happened to me (yet) "
So if they do make a good point are we supposed to go against it regardless sorry I didn't read the rules when I came in lol |
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"Why do the single guys on here kiss ass,when a woman/couple says anything on the forum you will have at least 10 guys agreeing to that opinion,but if a single guy says anything and women/couples disagrees then you will have the single guys disagreeing as well,lads grow a effing pair
Simple answer.. To gain a positive association in the heads of someone they want to fuck.
Who hasn't lied or exaggerated to impress someone they fancy after allI see it as some sort of bullying on here by putting other guys down,lowering other guys self esteem, it hasn't happened to me (yet) "
You've got to have thick skin here as a single male. If you're self esteem is effected by a random man agreeing with a random girl on the Internet then this place probably isn't for you. |
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"Why do the single guys on here kiss ass,when a woman/couple says anything on the forum you will have at least 10 guys agreeing to that opinion,but if a single guy says anything and women/couples disagrees then you will have the single guys disagreeing as well,lads grow a effing pair
Simple answer.. To gain a positive association in the heads of someone they want to fuck.
Who hasn't lied or exaggerated to impress someone they fancy after allI see it as some sort of bullying on here by putting other guys down,lowering other guys self esteem, it hasn't happened to me (yet)
You've got to have thick skin here as a single male. If you're self esteem is effected by a random man agreeing with a random girl on the Internet then this place probably isn't for you. "
I completely 100% disagree with you there  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Why do the single guys on here kiss ass,when a woman/couple says anything on the forum you will have at least 10 guys agreeing to that opinion,but if a single guy says anything and women/couples disagrees then you will have the single guys disagreeing as well,lads grow a effing pair
Simple answer.. To gain a positive association in the heads of someone they want to fuck.
Who hasn't lied or exaggerated to impress someone they fancy after allI see it as some sort of bullying on here by putting other guys down,lowering other guys self esteem, it hasn't happened to me (yet)
You've got to have thick skin here as a single male. If you're self esteem is effected by a random man agreeing with a random girl on the Internet then this place probably isn't for you. "
honestly it hasn't happened to me I'm thick skinned but some guys migh not be, I just don't think it's nice bullying on here that's all,and you seem to be doing a lot it as well |
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"Why do the single guys on here kiss ass,when a woman/couple says anything on the forum you will have at least 10 guys agreeing to that opinion,but if a single guy says anything and women/couples disagrees then you will have the single guys disagreeing as well,lads grow a effing pair
Simple answer.. To gain a positive association in the heads of someone they want to fuck.
Who hasn't lied or exaggerated to impress someone they fancy after allI see it as some sort of bullying on here by putting other guys down,lowering other guys self esteem, it hasn't happened to me (yet)
So if they do make a good point are we supposed to go against it regardless sorry I didn't read the rules when I came in lol"
Just be yourself. If others choose to pretend then that's up to them. Women mostly see through that shit so don't worry.
Don't worry what the rest are doing and just concentrate on you own actions |
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"Why do the single guys on here kiss ass,when a woman/couple says anything on the forum you will have at least 10 guys agreeing to that opinion,but if a single guy says anything and women/couples disagrees then you will have the single guys disagreeing as well,lads grow a effing pair
Simple answer.. To gain a positive association in the heads of someone they want to fuck.
Who hasn't lied or exaggerated to impress someone they fancy after allI see it as some sort of bullying on here by putting other guys down,lowering other guys self esteem, it hasn't happened to me (yet)
You've got to have thick skin here as a single male. If you're self esteem is effected by a random man agreeing with a random girl on the Internet then this place probably isn't for you. honestly it hasn't happened to me I'm thick skinned but some guys migh not be, I just don't think it's nice bullying on here that's all,and you seem to be doing a lot it as well"
Bullying? I talk plainly. If you don't like it then that's just fine by me. |
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"A negative post will get a negative reaction and likewise a positive post will get a positive reaction. That's the way psychology works imo  "
If I'm being an asshole to someone that's probably because they were being an asshole. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"A negative post will get a negative reaction and likewise a positive post will get a positive reaction. That's the way psychology works imo
If I'm being an asshole to someone that's probably because they were being an asshole. "
I understand if someone was being an ass hole they deserve to be classed as an ass hole, but I do read the other topics and if a guys a fair reply on the comments he gets shot down straight away by some guys on here,
Some people on here think they own the Irish forum |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do the single guys on here kiss ass,when a woman/couple says anything on the forum you will have at least 10 guys agreeing to that opinion,but if a single guy says anything and women/couples disagrees then you will have the single guys disagreeing as well,lads grow a effing pair "
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"Why do the single guys on here kiss ass,when a woman/couple says anything on the forum you will have at least 10 guys agreeing to that opinion,but if a single guy says anything and women/couples disagrees then you will have the single guys disagreeing as well,lads grow a effing pair
Simple answer.. To gain a positive association in the heads of someone they want to fuck.
Who hasn't lied or exaggerated to impress someone they fancy after allI see it as some sort of bullying on here by putting other guys down,lowering other guys self esteem, it hasn't happened to me (yet)
So if they do make a good point are we supposed to go against it regardless sorry I didn't read the rules when I came in lol
Just be yourself. If others choose to pretend then that's up to them. Women mostly see through that shit so don't worry.
Don't worry what the rest are doing and just concentrate on you own actions "
I'm always myself despite my alter ego username |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Theres always going to be people that'll fold in half if it means they'll look better to women but like someone said earlier some men might actually just agree with the opinions of others. I dont like when people dont agree with me but accept it. |
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"A negative post will get a negative reaction and likewise a positive post will get a positive reaction. That's the way psychology works imo
If I'm being an asshole to someone that's probably because they were being an asshole. I understand if someone was being an ass hole they deserve to be classed as an ass hole, but I do read the other topics and if a guys a fair reply on the comments he gets shot down straight away by some guys on here,
Some people on here think they own the Irish forum "
You post a thread attacking a lot if the men on the forum, and then complain that anyone who disagrees with you is attacking you and a bully.. The hypocrisy is strong with this one  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"A negative post will get a negative reaction and likewise a positive post will get a positive reaction. That's the way psychology works imo
If I'm being an asshole to someone that's probably because they were being an asshole. I understand if someone was being an ass hole they deserve to be classed as an ass hole, but I do read the other topics and if a guys a fair reply on the comments he gets shot down straight away by some guys on here,
Some people on here think they own the Irish forum
You post a thread attacking a lot if the men on the forum, and then complain that anyone who disagrees with you is attacking you and a bully.. The hypocrisy is strong with this one "
honestly I'm not saying that if anyone disagrees with is attacking and bullying me but I see it happening to other guys and I think it's not fair on them,everyone deserves a chance on here not to shot down when comment on the forum,
I'm getting a load of pm saying that I'm right on what I have said on the forum |
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I must say it's great of you to do your bit for all guys who arent able to deal with all the men agreeing with women on the forums, and for all those who think the same as you but aren't strong enough to post here themselves. Well done. |
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"A negative post will get a negative reaction and likewise a positive post will get a positive reaction. That's the way psychology works imo
If I'm being an asshole to someone that's probably because they were being an asshole. I understand if someone was being an ass hole they deserve to be classed as an ass hole, but I do read the other topics and if a guys a fair reply on the comments he gets shot down straight away by some guys on here,
Some people on here think they own the Irish forum
You post a thread attacking a lot if the men on the forum, and then complain that anyone who disagrees with you is attacking you and a bully.. The hypocrisy is strong with this one honestly I'm not saying that if anyone disagrees with is attacking and bullying me but I see it happening to other guys and I think it's not fair on them,everyone deserves a chance on here not to shot down when comment on the forum,
I'm getting a load of pm saying that I'm right on what I have said on the forum "
Seriously?? You literally posted a thread slagging guys off, and then pretend to be this forum warrior standing up gor the guys who get sagged off!! Jesus fucking wept |
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"Have you found that example yet?
Only example I see on this thread is you all over it, another thread another comment "
You're saying my comments are an example of a man agreeing with a women in order to get her to have sex with him and bullying other men in the process? That's what you're saying? Makes sense. |
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"Have you found that example yet?
Only example I see on this thread is you all over it, another thread another comment
You're saying my comments are an example of a man agreeing with a women in order to get her to have sex with him and bullying other men in the process? That's what you're saying? Makes sense. "
Na just saying if there was an opening of an envelope u probably go to it  |
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"Have you found that example yet?
Only example I see on this thread is you all over it, another thread another comment
You're saying my comments are an example of a man agreeing with a women in order to get her to have sex with him and bullying other men in the process? That's what you're saying? Makes sense.
Na just saying if there was an opening of an envelope u probably go to it "
I've literally no idea what you mean by that.. but OK. |
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"I must say it's great of you to do your bit for all guys who arent able to deal with all the men agreeing with women on the forums, and for all those who think the same as you but aren't strong enough to post here themselves. Well done. "
I still need someone to hold my hand crossing the road so many distractions I blame it on |
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"Why do the single guys on here kiss ass,when a woman/couple says anything on the forum you will have at least 10 guys agreeing to that opinion,but if a single guy says anything and women/couples disagrees then you will have the single guys disagreeing as well,lads grow a effing pair "
Well said |
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"Why do the single guys on here kiss ass,when a woman/couple says anything on the forum you will have at least 10 guys agreeing to that opinion,but if a single guy says anything and women/couples disagrees then you will have the single guys disagreeing as well,lads grow a effing pair
Simple answer.. To gain a positive association in the heads of someone they want to fuck.
Who hasn't lied or exaggerated to impress someone they fancy after allI see it as some sort of bullying on here by putting other guys down,lowering other guys self esteem, it hasn't happened to me (yet)
You've got to have thick skin here as a single male. If you're self esteem is effected by a random man agreeing with a random girl on the Internet then this place probably isn't for you. honestly it hasn't happened to me I'm thick skinned but some guys migh not be, I just don't think it's nice bullying on here that's all,and you seem to be doing a lot it as well
Bullying? I talk plainly. If you don't like it then that's just fine by me. "
I must say, I have noticed some bullying on the forum recently. Not by you Filthy Nights, but by two profiles in particular that always seem to make fun of two or three specific profiles.
It’s never on one of these brown nosing/white knighting threads but it appears (to me anyway) that every time those profiles randomly comment on things, usually in an upbeat manner, they’re immediately followed up by a mean, unnecessary comment which is completely unwarranted in my opinion. They’re never rude enough to spark a big reaction but enough that when you put them all together they amount to targeting.
I don’t know why they’re doing it or whether there’s a history between the profiles but its not acceptable for people to undermine and make fun of someone here.
Lots of people here have lots of healthy debate and for the most part it’s interesting to follow but recently the shitty comments have become more common.
We’ve seen debate recently on here about why it’s the same people posting and why people lurk on here without commenting but I’d imagine the latter is for fear of being targeted for making an innocent comment, as it seems to be in the cases I mentioned. Both of those profiles that are targeted are single men and I wonder if two single women said the same things or made the same comments, would they be treated in the same manner? It’s obvious that men will agree with women here in order to help their cause, much as they do in the real world, but putting other profiles down for no apparent reason is completely wrong and unnecessary. It seems to me that the profiles responsible for it know exactly what they’re doing.
While I don’t 100% agree with how the OP has articulated his points, I notice he says he has witnessed bullying here and I agree, I’ve seen it too. |
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By *ornyfireCouple
over a year ago
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"Why do the single guys on here kiss ass,when a woman/couple says anything on the forum you will have at least 10 guys agreeing to that opinion,but if a single guy says anything and women/couples disagrees then you will have the single guys disagreeing as well,lads grow a effing pair "
Because "some" single guys will say anything if they think it's going to help them get a bit of action simple really! |
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By *orguyMan
over a year ago
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"Why do the single guys on here kiss ass,when a woman/couple says anything on the forum you will have at least 10 guys agreeing to that opinion,but if a single guy says anything and women/couples disagrees then you will have the single guys disagreeing as well,lads grow a effing pair
Simple answer.. To gain a positive association in the heads of someone they want to fuck.
Who hasn't lied or exaggerated to impress someone they fancy after allI see it as some sort of bullying on here by putting other guys down,lowering other guys self esteem, it hasn't happened to me (yet)
You've got to have thick skin here as a single male. If you're self esteem is effected by a random man agreeing with a random girl on the Internet then this place probably isn't for you. honestly it hasn't happened to me I'm thick skinned but some guys migh not be, I just don't think it's nice bullying on here that's all,and you seem to be doing a lot it as well
Bullying? I talk plainly. If you don't like it then that's just fine by me.
I must say, I have noticed some bullying on the forum recently. Not by you Filthy Nights, but by two profiles in particular that always seem to make fun of two or three specific profiles.
It’s never on one of these brown nosing/white knighting threads but it appears (to me anyway) that every time those profiles randomly comment on things, usually in an upbeat manner, they’re immediately followed up by a mean, unnecessary comment which is completely unwarranted in my opinion. They’re never rude enough to spark a big reaction but enough that when you put them all together they amount to targeting.
I don’t know why they’re doing it or whether there’s a history between the profiles but its not acceptable for people to undermine and make fun of someone here.
Lots of people here have lots of healthy debate and for the most part it’s interesting to follow but recently the shitty comments have become more common.
We’ve seen debate recently on here about why it’s the same people posting and why people lurk on here without commenting but I’d imagine the latter is for fear of being targeted for making an innocent comment, as it seems to be in the cases I mentioned. Both of those profiles that are targeted are single men and I wonder if two single women said the same things or made the same comments, would they be treated in the same manner? It’s obvious that men will agree with women here in order to help their cause, much as they do in the real world, but putting other profiles down for no apparent reason is completely wrong and unnecessary. It seems to me that the profiles responsible for it know exactly what they’re doing.
While I don’t 100% agree with how the OP has articulated his points, I notice he says he has witnessed bullying here and I agree, I’ve seen it too. "
I have to agree with you on all of the above. It's happening here everyday.
And may I also add that if this was posted on this thread by a single man there would be 3 or 4 of the usual profiles straight in to attack with all guns firing. |
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"Why do the single guys on here kiss ass,when a woman/couple says anything on the forum you will have at least 10 guys agreeing to that opinion,but if a single guy says anything and women/couples disagrees then you will have the single guys disagreeing as well,lads grow a effing pair
Simple answer.. To gain a positive association in the heads of someone they want to fuck.
Who hasn't lied or exaggerated to impress someone they fancy after allI see it as some sort of bullying on here by putting other guys down,lowering other guys self esteem, it hasn't happened to me (yet)
You've got to have thick skin here as a single male. If you're self esteem is effected by a random man agreeing with a random girl on the Internet then this place probably isn't for you. honestly it hasn't happened to me I'm thick skinned but some guys migh not be, I just don't think it's nice bullying on here that's all,and you seem to be doing a lot it as well
Bullying? I talk plainly. If you don't like it then that's just fine by me.
I must say, I have noticed some bullying on the forum recently. Not by you Filthy Nights, but by two profiles in particular that always seem to make fun of two or three specific profiles.
It’s never on one of these brown nosing/white knighting threads but it appears (to me anyway) that every time those profiles randomly comment on things, usually in an upbeat manner, they’re immediately followed up by a mean, unnecessary comment which is completely unwarranted in my opinion. They’re never rude enough to spark a big reaction but enough that when you put them all together they amount to targeting.
I don’t know why they’re doing it or whether there’s a history between the profiles but its not acceptable for people to undermine and make fun of someone here.
Lots of people here have lots of healthy debate and for the most part it’s interesting to follow but recently the shitty comments have become more common.
We’ve seen debate recently on here about why it’s the same people posting and why people lurk on here without commenting but I’d imagine the latter is for fear of being targeted for making an innocent comment, as it seems to be in the cases I mentioned. Both of those profiles that are targeted are single men and I wonder if two single women said the same things or made the same comments, would they be treated in the same manner? It’s obvious that men will agree with women here in order to help their cause, much as they do in the real world, but putting other profiles down for no apparent reason is completely wrong and unnecessary. It seems to me that the profiles responsible for it know exactly what they’re doing.
While I don’t 100% agree with how the OP has articulated his points, I notice he says he has witnessed bullying here and I agree, I’ve seen it too.
I have to agree with you on all of the above. It's happening here everyday.
And may I also add that if this was posted on this thread by a single man there would be 3 or 4 of the usual profiles straight in to attack with all guns firing."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Why do the single guys on here kiss ass,when a woman/couple says anything on the forum you will have at least 10 guys agreeing to that opinion,but if a single guy says anything and women/couples disagrees then you will have the single guys disagreeing as well,lads grow a effing pair
Simple answer.. To gain a positive association in the heads of someone they want to fuck.
Who hasn't lied or exaggerated to impress someone they fancy after allI see it as some sort of bullying on here by putting other guys down,lowering other guys self esteem, it hasn't happened to me (yet)
You've got to have thick skin here as a single male. If you're self esteem is effected by a random man agreeing with a random girl on the Internet then this place probably isn't for you. honestly it hasn't happened to me I'm thick skinned but some guys migh not be, I just don't think it's nice bullying on here that's all,and you seem to be doing a lot it as well
Bullying? I talk plainly. If you don't like it then that's just fine by me.
I must say, I have noticed some bullying on the forum recently. Not by you Filthy Nights, but by two profiles in particular that always seem to make fun of two or three specific profiles.
It’s never on one of these brown nosing/white knighting threads but it appears (to me anyway) that every time those profiles randomly comment on things, usually in an upbeat manner, they’re immediately followed up by a mean, unnecessary comment which is completely unwarranted in my opinion. They’re never rude enough to spark a big reaction but enough that when you put them all together they amount to targeting.
I don’t know why they’re doing it or whether there’s a history between the profiles but its not acceptable for people to undermine and make fun of someone here.
Lots of people here have lots of healthy debate and for the most part it’s interesting to follow but recently the shitty comments have become more common.
We’ve seen debate recently on here about why it’s the same people posting and why people lurk on here without commenting but I’d imagine the latter is for fear of being targeted for making an innocent comment, as it seems to be in the cases I mentioned. Both of those profiles that are targeted are single men and I wonder if two single women said the same things or made the same comments, would they be treated in the same manner? It’s obvious that men will agree with women here in order to help their cause, much as they do in the real world, but putting other profiles down for no apparent reason is completely wrong and unnecessary. It seems to me that the profiles responsible for it know exactly what they’re doing.
While I don’t 100% agree with how the OP has articulated his points, I notice he says he has witnessed bullying here and I agree, I’ve seen it too.
I have to agree with you on all of the above. It's happening here everyday.
And may I also add that if this was posted on this thread by a single man there would be 3 or 4 of the usual profiles straight in to attack with all guns firing.... Yep for sure "
I'm glad I'm not the only who has noticed it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Why do the single guys on here kiss ass,when a woman/couple says anything on the forum you will have at least 10 guys agreeing to that opinion,but if a single guy says anything and women/couples disagrees then you will have the single guys disagreeing as well,lads grow a effing pair
Simple answer.. To gain a positive association in the heads of someone they want to fuck.
Who hasn't lied or exaggerated to impress someone they fancy after allI see it as some sort of bullying on here by putting other guys down,lowering other guys self esteem, it hasn't happened to me (yet)
You've got to have thick skin here as a single male. If you're self esteem is effected by a random man agreeing with a random girl on the Internet then this place probably isn't for you. honestly it hasn't happened to me I'm thick skinned but some guys migh not be, I just don't think it's nice bullying on here that's all,and you seem to be doing a lot it as well
Bullying? I talk plainly. If you don't like it then that's just fine by me.
I must say, I have noticed some bullying on the forum recently. Not by you Filthy Nights, but by two profiles in particular that always seem to make fun of two or three specific profiles.
It’s never on one of these brown nosing/white knighting threads but it appears (to me anyway) that every time those profiles randomly comment on things, usually in an upbeat manner, they’re immediately followed up by a mean, unnecessary comment which is completely unwarranted in my opinion. They’re never rude enough to spark a big reaction but enough that when you put them all together they amount to targeting.
I don’t know why they’re doing it or whether there’s a history between the profiles but its not acceptable for people to undermine and make fun of someone here.
Lots of people here have lots of healthy debate and for the most part it’s interesting to follow but recently the shitty comments have become more common.
We’ve seen debate recently on here about why it’s the same people posting and why people lurk on here without commenting but I’d imagine the latter is for fear of being targeted for making an innocent comment, as it seems to be in the cases I mentioned. Both of those profiles that are targeted are single men and I wonder if two single women said the same things or made the same comments, would they be treated in the same manner? It’s obvious that men will agree with women here in order to help their cause, much as they do in the real world, but putting other profiles down for no apparent reason is completely wrong and unnecessary. It seems to me that the profiles responsible for it know exactly what they’re doing.
While I don’t 100% agree with how the OP has articulated his points, I notice he says he has witnessed bullying here and I agree, I’ve seen it too.
I have to agree with you on all of the above. It's happening here everyday.
And may I also add that if this was posted on this thread by a single man there would be 3 or 4 of the usual profiles straight in to attack with all guns firing.... Yep for sure I'm glad I'm not the only who has noticed it "
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over a year ago
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"Why do the single guys on here kiss ass,when a woman/couple says anything on the forum you will have at least 10 guys agreeing to that opinion,but if a single guy says anything and women/couples disagrees then you will have the single guys disagreeing as well,lads grow a effing pair
Simple answer.. To gain a positive association in the heads of someone they want to fuck.
Who hasn't lied or exaggerated to impress someone they fancy after allI see it as some sort of bullying on here by putting other guys down,lowering other guys self esteem, it hasn't happened to me (yet)
You've got to have thick skin here as a single male. If you're self esteem is effected by a random man agreeing with a random girl on the Internet then this place probably isn't for you. honestly it hasn't happened to me I'm thick skinned but some guys migh not be, I just don't think it's nice bullying on here that's all,and you seem to be doing a lot it as well
Bullying? I talk plainly. If you don't like it then that's just fine by me.
I must say, I have noticed some bullying on the forum recently. Not by you Filthy Nights, but by two profiles in particular that always seem to make fun of two or three specific profiles.
It’s never on one of these brown nosing/white knighting threads but it appears (to me anyway) that every time those profiles randomly comment on things, usually in an upbeat manner, they’re immediately followed up by a mean, unnecessary comment which is completely unwarranted in my opinion. They’re never rude enough to spark a big reaction but enough that when you put them all together they amount to targeting.
I don’t know why they’re doing it or whether there’s a history between the profiles but its not acceptable for people to undermine and make fun of someone here.
Lots of people here have lots of healthy debate and for the most part it’s interesting to follow but recently the shitty comments have become more common.
We’ve seen debate recently on here about why it’s the same people posting and why people lurk on here without commenting but I’d imagine the latter is for fear of being targeted for making an innocent comment, as it seems to be in the cases I mentioned. Both of those profiles that are targeted are single men and I wonder if two single women said the same things or made the same comments, would they be treated in the same manner? It’s obvious that men will agree with women here in order to help their cause, much as they do in the real world, but putting other profiles down for no apparent reason is completely wrong and unnecessary. It seems to me that the profiles responsible for it know exactly what they’re doing.
While I don’t 100% agree with how the OP has articulated his points, I notice he says he has witnessed bullying here and I agree, I’ve seen it too.
I have to agree with you on all of the above. It's happening here everyday.
And may I also add that if this was posted on this thread by a single man there would be 3 or 4 of the usual profiles straight in to attack with all guns firing.... Yep for sure "
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"Why do the single guys on here kiss ass,when a woman/couple says anything on the forum you will have at least 10 guys agreeing to that opinion,but if a single guy says anything and women/couples disagrees then you will have the single guys disagreeing as well,lads grow a effing pair "
OP - I had it on a recent thread but in fairness two or three girls / couples supported me. I suppose it’s more about how you come across. Nobody likes a vindictive person |
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Nothing wrong with having strong opinions on subjects you are passionate about but it's obvious that some people take pleasure in voicing an opinion on every topic when they pick up the scent of easy prey.
The vast majority of those targets are men but the snipers are from right across the board.
Some women and couples might pull the trigger but other men step forward as their spotters and help with reloads.
A few high profile women have rehashed their own threads having a go at single men and the sycophants tell them how amazing and funny they are even though it's the third or fourth time they've posted the same thing.
Similar threads by men go down in flames.
There are even a few men who like to start shouty threads and publicly admit that they are a cunt as if it's a redeeming feature but a cunt is a cunt.
Bullying takes many forms.
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"Nothing wrong with having strong opinions on subjects you are passionate about but it's obvious that some people take pleasure in voicing an opinion on every topic when they pick up the scent of easy prey.
The vast majority of those targets are men but the snipers are from right across the board.
Some women and couples might pull the trigger but other men step forward as their spotters and help with reloads.
A few high profile women have rehashed their own threads having a go at single men and the sycophants tell them how amazing and funny they are even though it's the third or fourth time they've posted the same thing.
Similar threads by men go down in flames.
There are even a few men who like to start shouty threads and publicly admit that they are a cunt as if it's a redeeming feature but a cunt is a cunt.
Bullying takes many forms.
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I agree RB, it does take many forms and it also affects people in very different ways. Where a comment may mean nothing to one person, it could have a big impact on someone else. It costs nothing to be kind. |
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"Nothing wrong with having strong opinions on subjects you are passionate about but it's obvious that some people take pleasure in voicing an opinion on every topic when they pick up the scent of easy prey.
The vast majority of those targets are men but the snipers are from right across the board.
Some women and couples might pull the trigger but other men step forward as their spotters and help with reloads.
A few high profile women have rehashed their own threads having a go at single men and the sycophants tell them how amazing and funny they are even though it's the third or fourth time they've posted the same thing.
Similar threads by men go down in flames.
There are even a few men who like to start shouty threads and publicly admit that they are a cunt as if it's a redeeming feature but a cunt is a cunt.
Bullying takes many forms.
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A very insightful and considered post. |
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"Have you found that example yet?
Only example I see on this thread is you all over it, another thread another comment
You're saying my comments are an example of a man agreeing with a women in order to get her to have sex with him and bullying other men in the process? That's what you're saying? Makes sense.
Na just saying if there was an opening of an envelope u probably go to it "
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"I can't say I've noticed bullying... but if anyone does then they should definitely report it. Admin do take action on that sort of thing. "
You're on here every day and on most forum posts and you haven't noticed any bullying?? Well isn't that very strange... Amazed at that comment as I see it a lot (mostly masked as sly sarcastic digs in fairness) maybe our concept of intimidation on the forums is vastly different. Don't always like to use the word bullying. |
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"I can't say I've noticed bullying... but if anyone does then they should definitely report it. Admin do take action on that sort of thing.
You're on here every day and on most forum posts and you haven't noticed any bullying?? Well isn't that very strange... Amazed at that comment as I see it a lot (mostly masked as sly sarcastic digs in fairness) maybe our concept of intimidation on the forums is vastly different. Don't always like to use the word bullying. "
It's not complicated. If you see bullying then report it. If action isn't taken then the site don't consider it to be bullying. Not rocket science. |
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People whos opinion flip flops depending on if the person they are talking to has tits or not is far from exclusive to fab... and really even though its a pet hate its harmless
Or course bullying happens on here.... it would be the only anonymous website in the world it didn't happen on if wasnt happening.
I dont think it happends nearly as often as some have portrayed on this thread though... |
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"I can't say I've noticed bullying... but if anyone does then they should definitely report it. Admin do take action on that sort of thing.
You're on here every day and on most forum posts and you haven't noticed any bullying?? Well isn't that very strange... Amazed at that comment as I see it a lot (mostly masked as sly sarcastic digs in fairness) maybe our concept of intimidation on the forums is vastly different. Don't always like to use the word bullying.
It's not complicated. If you see bullying then report it. If action isn't taken then the site don't consider it to be bullying. Not rocket science. "
But they're still here though,people are finally starting to see.
praise be the rocket and the science of our galaxy will take them far far away |
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Why do people assume that:
1. Women on here are some mouth breathers and automatically open their legs to anyone who agrees with their opinion in a public forum.
2. Men's opinion must. With no exceptions be a complete opposite of women say. If not - they must be hoping to have sex with women they stand up for.
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"OK.........
Why if a lady posts something.....another lady disagrees.... who da fook am I suppose to agree with?
Which ever one you think you've the best chance of getting the ride like "
The closer one... got it |
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"OK.........
Why if a lady posts something.....another lady disagrees.... who da fook am I suppose to agree with?
Which ever one you think you've the best chance of getting the ride like "
Let me guess they pm both ladies supporting their point of view and hope the 2 ladies don't find out |
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"OK.........
Why if a lady posts something.....another lady disagrees.... who da fook am I suppose to agree with?
Which ever one you think you've the best chance of getting the ride like
Let me guess they pm both ladies supporting their point of view and hope the 2 ladies don't find out "
Bog your fired thats way better |
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"OK.........
Why if a lady posts something.....another lady disagrees.... who da fook am I suppose to agree with?
Valid point  "
I'm not riding you just cause you agreed |
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"OK.........
Why if a lady posts something.....another lady disagrees.... who da fook am I suppose to agree with?
Which ever one you think you've the best chance of getting the ride like
Let me guess they pm both ladies supporting their point of view and hope the 2 ladies don't find out "
What I said |
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I for one find it more attractive in a guy who can stand his ground with me.A yes guy who always agrees with me just doesn't do it for me . I need to be challenged and kept on my toes or I just lose interest. Brown nosing and arse lickers need not apply. |
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"I for one find it more attractive in a guy who can stand his ground with me.A yes guy who always agrees with me just doesn't do it for me . I need to be challenged and kept on my toes or I just lose interest. Brown nosing and arse lickers need not apply. "
You can't handle the truth......  |
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"Honestly there's room for everyone on here
Its not a cockfight betweem men to get noticed but rather it's up to each man to get noticed on their own terms
Don't be a brown nose as you call them or be one of you want to ...the women on fab are not fuckin stupid to not notice what men say
PS Op its ok to agree with women (and men )if that's your honest opinion
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Why do you get so upset when anyone disagree with a woman on the forums even when they are clearly bullying others. |
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"I for one find it more attractive in a guy who can stand his ground with me.A yes guy who always agrees with me just doesn't do it for me . I need to be challenged and kept on my toes or I just lose interest. Brown nosing and arse lickers need not apply.
You can't handle the truth...... "
You'd be surprised at what I can handle |
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"I for one find it more attractive in a guy who can stand his ground with me.A yes guy who always agrees with me just doesn't do it for me . I need to be challenged and kept on my toes or I just lose interest. Brown nosing and arse lickers need not apply.
You can't handle the truth......
You'd be surprised at what I can handle "
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"Honestly there's room for everyone on here
Its not a cockfight betweem men to get noticed but rather it's up to each man to get noticed on their own terms
Don't be a brown nose as you call them or be one of you want to ...the women on fab are not fuckin stupid to not notice what men say
PS Op its ok to agree with women (and men )if that's your honest opinion
Why do you get so upset when anyone disagree with a woman on the forums even when they are clearly bullying others. "
Oh it's you Sligo, i wondered if you would hop on this bandwagon. Good to see you back. |
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"Honestly there's room for everyone on here
Its not a cockfight betweem men to get noticed but rather it's up to each man to get noticed on their own terms
Don't be a brown nose as you call them or be one of you want to ...the women on fab are not fuckin stupid to not notice what men say
PS Op its ok to agree with women (and men )if that's your honest opinion
Why do you get so upset when anyone disagree with a woman on the forums even when they are clearly bullying others.
Oh it's you Sligo, i wondered if you would hop on this bandwagon. Good to see you back. "
Well we can all clearly see there's not too many you don't hop on |
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"Honestly there's room for everyone on here
Its not a cockfight betweem men to get noticed but rather it's up to each man to get noticed on their own terms
Don't be a brown nose as you call them or be one of you want to ...the women on fab are not fuckin stupid to not notice what men say
PS Op its ok to agree with women (and men )if that's your honest opinion
Why do you get so upset when anyone disagree with a woman on the forums even when they are clearly bullying others.
Oh it's you Sligo, i wondered if you would hop on this bandwagon. Good to see you back.
Well we can all clearly see there's not too many you don't hop on "
Lol so predictable I would say. |
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"Methinks admin need to check the IP addresses for these 2 and see if they match. "
Jessica Fletcher on the case... Or is this the male half of the profile who always is active on the forums?? |
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"Methinks admin need to check the IP addresses for these 2 and see if they match.
Jessica Fletcher on the case... Or is this the male half of the profile who always is active on the forums?? "
That would certainly seem to be the case.... |
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"Methinks admin need to check the IP addresses for these 2 and see if they match. "
are you serious filthy when you get called out on something you try to turn the table on me lol |
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"Methinks admin need to check the IP addresses for these 2 and see if they match. are you serious filthy when you get called out on something you try to turn the table on me lol "
Dont think they ment you |
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"Methinks admin need to check the IP addresses for these 2 and see if they match. are you serious filthy when you get called out on something you try to turn the table on me lol "
I didn't mean you. I meant sligo and his most recent 2 profiles that he's been using to stir up the forums. |
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I really couldn't care less if you believe or don't. If you or anyone else chooses to disagree or agree with opinions I've given here then that's their absolute right. I'm not even one tiny bit concerned about being "called out" by you or anyone else and I will keep expressing opinion when invited on threads (created by others) which are specifically asking for opinion. |
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This is a fantastic forum post OP
The forum post calling out a profile by a single guy and how much they love that profile are cringe TBH. If you like the profile just mail them! |
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"Methinks admin need to check the IP addresses for these 2 and see if they match. are you serious filthy when you get called out on something you try to turn the table on me lol
I didn't mean you. I meant sligo and his most recent 2 profiles that he's been using to stir up the forums. "
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