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Ok does this opening message get replies or does a more constructive message is more prefered it feels like I'm stuck in confused land lol
now I'm not saying that I'm owed a response back or anything which I'm not I just thought hi How are you just simply wouldn't work for a guy like me 
My apologies for rambling on so what's your thoughts |
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over a year ago
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"Kaizer is fine thanks for asking Honk
And how are you?
Couldn't be better kaizer don't mind me just one of those days "
This will cheer you up 
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"To be honest it wouldn't work for me its a repetitive opening line...You need to stand out and think outside the box Mr Honk "
Oh no that's the thing I don't send them one liners I'm always thinking outside the box it's bloody getting into it is the trick |
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
The pub then supermacs ... |
"To be honest it wouldn't work for me its a repetitive opening line...You need to stand out and think outside the box Mr Honk
Oh no that's the thing I don't send them one liners I'm always thinking outside the box it's bloody getting into it is the trick "
Honk you Durty Dawwgg |
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"Kaizer is fine thanks for asking Honk
And how are you?
Couldn't be better kaizer don't mind me just one of those days
This will cheer you up
https://youtu.be/wUAmfJlgh9s"
Not sure if that helped but certainly something different lol |
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"To be honest it wouldn't work for me its a repetitive opening line...You need to stand out and think outside the box Mr Honk
Oh no that's the thing I don't send them one liners I'm always thinking outside the box it's bloody getting into it is the trick
Honk you Durty Dawwgg "
I literally had a shower 5 mins ago it's great how quick you can get dirty again oh well  |
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
The pub then supermacs ... |
"To be honest it wouldn't work for me its a repetitive opening line...You need to stand out and think outside the box Mr Honk
Oh no that's the thing I don't send them one liners I'm always thinking outside the box it's bloody getting into it is the trick
Honk you Durty Dawwgg
I literally had a shower 5 mins ago it's great how quick you can get dirty again oh well "
Well i just got the best open line there now in a message " im in Carlow now cum fuck me ye fat c*nt...now that's what ye call an opening line #takenotemrhonk |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"To be honest it wouldn't work for me its a repetitive opening line...You need to stand out and think outside the box Mr Honk
Oh no that's the thing I don't send them one liners I'm always thinking outside the box it's bloody getting into it is the trick
Honk you Durty Dawwgg
I literally had a shower 5 mins ago it's great how quick you can get dirty again oh well
Well i just got the best open line there now in a message " im in Carlow now cum fuck me ye fat c*nt...now that's what ye call an opening line #takenotemrhonk "
Sorry ...typo I said fit cunt ...won't happen again  |
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"To be honest it wouldn't work for me its a repetitive opening line...You need to stand out and think outside the box Mr Honk
Oh no that's the thing I don't send them one liners I'm always thinking outside the box it's bloody getting into it is the trick
Honk you Durty Dawwgg
I literally had a shower 5 mins ago it's great how quick you can get dirty again oh well
Well i just got the best open line there now in a message " im in Carlow now cum fuck me ye fat c*nt...now that's what ye call an opening line #takenotemrhonk "
Jaysus the guy was doing grand upto I'm in carlow then the rest just went off the rails notes being taken down lolly  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We always look at the profile first before deciding how or if to respond. If the profile is seemingly what we're looking for then we'd run with a "Hi how are you" opener and give conversation a chance to develop |
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By *ateniteCouple
over a year ago
Youghal |
"We always look at the profile first before deciding how or if to respond. If the profile is seemingly what we're looking for then we'd run with a "Hi how are you" opener and give conversation a chance to develop "
Same |
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"We always look at the profile first before deciding how or if to respond. If the profile is seemingly what we're looking for then we'd run with a "Hi how are you" opener and give conversation a chance to develop
Same"
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If I like the profile then it wouldnt matter what the message would be. To be honest i dont agree with the you gotta stand out and put more into a message it's not a job they are applying for. There shouldn't be so much pressure on a first message it's not always easy to send those long winded messages on a basis of profile. You either like that profile or you don't. I've had great meets that come from a hi how are you .
But that's just me  |
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"To be honest it wouldn't work for me its a repetitive opening line...You need to stand out and think outside the box Mr Honk
Oh no that's the thing I don't send them one liners I'm always thinking outside the box it's bloody getting into it is the trick
Honk you Durty Dawwgg
I literally had a shower 5 mins ago it's great how quick you can get dirty again oh well
Well i just got the best open line there now in a message " im in Carlow now cum fuck me ye fat c*nt...now that's what ye call an opening line #takenotemrhonk "
How could you possibly refuse an offer like that??? |
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
The pub then supermacs ... |
"To be honest it wouldn't work for me its a repetitive opening line...You need to stand out and think outside the box Mr Honk
Oh no that's the thing I don't send them one liners I'm always thinking outside the box it's bloody getting into it is the trick
Honk you Durty Dawwgg
I literally had a shower 5 mins ago it's great how quick you can get dirty again oh well
Well i just got the best open line there now in a message " im in Carlow now cum fuck me ye fat c*nt...now that's what ye call an opening line #takenotemrhonk
How could you possibly refuse an offer like that??? "
Who says i did |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
"If I like the profile then it wouldnt matter what the message would be. To be honest i dont agree with the you gotta stand out and put more into a message it's not a job they are applying for. There shouldn't be so much pressure on a first message it's not always easy to send those long winded messages on a basis of profile. You either like that profile or you don't. I've had great meets that come from a hi how are you .
But that's just me "
I agree as long as its not a faf message if they profile is good a hi how are you etc is grand. If the profile is meh then the message has to be really good. But having sent a few first messages they are not the easiest thing to write. |
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I would have thought the whole point of saying hello is to make the other person take note of you, have a look at your profile and decide if the would like to know more, and that’s when the effort and chat begins, In fact if their is chemistry you won’t need to make much of an effort.
Often makes me wonder about the person that expects a essay on the first contact, if I was to do that I’d have to give up the day job or say hello to someone once ever 3 months.
Just by dolls worth. Meant to be light hearted here and easy going......
hope the site police go easy on me now ?? |
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"We always look at the profile first before deciding how or if to respond. If the profile is seemingly what we're looking for then we'd run with a "Hi how are you" opener and give conversation a chance to develop "
Seems like a good start pretty much the same as what I do but something more than hi How are as I've been told no one reads the long messages then I would switch it to hi How are you then I get blocked list it's like a game of chess |
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"Straight in with a dick pic is the way to go ive heard, above the toilet for artistic bonus "
Ah here no wonder I was doing it all wrong should I include a sky remote just to give them a more mental image |
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Any good CV avoids the use of the word I and lots of details.
Always best to stick to bullet points.
An opening message should be an invitation to view what you believe to be your best possible profile and it's the effort you've put into that which determines if you'll get a positive response or not. |
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"If I like the profile then it wouldnt matter what the message would be. To be honest i dont agree with the you gotta stand out and put more into a message it's not a job they are applying for. There shouldn't be so much pressure on a first message it's not always easy to send those long winded messages on a basis of profile. You either like that profile or you don't. I've had great meets that come from a hi how are you .
But that's just me "
How are you anyway hope all is well  thought I'd try that approach see where it gets me if not all is lost lol |
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"To be honest it wouldn't work for me its a repetitive opening line...You need to stand out and think outside the box Mr Honk
Oh no that's the thing I don't send them one liners I'm always thinking outside the box it's bloody getting into it is the trick
Honk you Durty Dawwgg
I literally had a shower 5 mins ago it's great how quick you can get dirty again oh well
Well i just got the best open line there now in a message " im in Carlow now cum fuck me ye fat c*nt...now that's what ye call an opening line #takenotemrhonk
How could you possibly refuse an offer like that???
Who says i did "
Hon ya good ting |
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It really depends. I mean, it's not the most grabbing of introductions. But if the profile looks interesting and genuine, I'll reply.
But, as is often the case, it comes from a blank profile, who's just recently joined the site and is located nowhere near me, it gets deleted. |
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I for one when I get a message like to check the profile first. If the profile is interesting and gives me an insight to the sender then yes I'd respond to a hello how are you. It can't be easy sending out a first message and wondering what to say as guys here say they send out lots of messages with no response at all from women. So maybe concentrate on a good profile that tells something about who you are as a person. Good photos too help and a good profile photo is important as its often this that can catch a womans eye. |
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"To be honest it wouldn't work for me its a repetitive opening line...You need to stand out and think outside the box Mr Honk
Oh no that's the thing I don't send them one liners I'm always thinking outside the box it's bloody getting into it is the trick
Honk you Durty Dawwgg
I literally had a shower 5 mins ago it's great how quick you can get dirty again oh well
Well i just got the best open line there now in a message " im in Carlow now cum fuck me ye fat c*nt...now that's what ye call an opening line #takenotemrhonk "
But but.....You're on a "sex site". You're just to picky. |
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
The pub then supermacs ... |
"To be honest it wouldn't work for me its a repetitive opening line...You need to stand out and think outside the box Mr Honk
Oh no that's the thing I don't send them one liners I'm always thinking outside the box it's bloody getting into it is the trick
Honk you Durty Dawwgg
I literally had a shower 5 mins ago it's great how quick you can get dirty again oh well
Well i just got the best open line there now in a message " im in Carlow now cum fuck me ye fat c*nt...now that's what ye call an opening line #takenotemrhonk
But but.....You're on a "sex site". You're just to picky. "
It's my downfall Ms Dom |
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"I'm gonna just spam messages out with a full stop and see what happens
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You can't it's now rude to use a full stop. Keep up will ya.
Just read that online....feckin snowflakes"
The world's gone mad I tell ya. |
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"I'm gonna just spam messages out with a full stop and see what happens
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You can't it's now rude to use a full stop. Keep up will ya.
Just read that online....feckin snowflakes
The world's gone mad I tell ya."
Ah its a bit out of context.. it like someone asking me what I think when I see an ! In a work email and saying that it means I'm fucked... and a Study finding that 30somethings find ! too aggressive.
On a separate note I'm gonna Full stop the shot out of page 1 oh women online. I'll come back with results |
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"I'm gonna just spam messages out with a full stop and see what happens
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You can't it's now rude to use a full stop. Keep up will ya.
Just read that online....feckin snowflakes
The world's gone mad I tell ya.
Ah its a bit out of context.. it like someone asking me what I think when I see an ! In a work email and saying that it means I'm fucked... and a Study finding that 30somethings find ! too aggressive.
On a separate note I'm gonna Full stop the shot out of page 1 oh women online. I'll come back with results"
If nothing else, you certainly gave me a good laugh with your approach... probably would have replied too to a message with just a full stop...but, I've single men blocked both here and on my singles profile oh so sorry 
Kinky temptress |
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"I'm gonna just spam messages out with a full stop and see what happens
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You can't it's now rude to use a full stop. Keep up will ya.
Just read that online....feckin snowflakes
The world's gone mad I tell ya.
Ah its a bit out of context.. it like someone asking me what I think when I see an ! In a work email and saying that it means I'm fucked... and a Study finding that 30somethings find ! too aggressive.
On a separate note I'm gonna Full stop the shot out of page 1 oh women online. I'll come back with results
If nothing else, you certainly gave me a good laugh with your approach... probably would have replied too to a message with just a full stop...but, I've single men blocked both here and on my singles profile oh so sorry
Kinky temptress"
Someone send back an ! fucking lurkers |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm gonna just spam messages out with a full stop and see what happens
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You can't it's now rude to use a full stop. Keep up will ya.
Just read that online....feckin snowflakes
The world's gone mad I tell ya.
Ah its a bit out of context.. it like someone asking me what I think when I see an ! In a work email and saying that it means I'm fucked... and a Study finding that 30somethings find ! too aggressive.
On a separate note I'm gonna Full stop the shot out of page 1 oh women online. I'll come back with results
If nothing else, you certainly gave me a good laugh with your approach... probably would have replied too to a message with just a full stop...but, I've single men blocked both here and on my singles profile oh so sorry
Kinky temptress
Someone send back an ! fucking lurkers "
The absolute cheek!  |
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"It really depends. I mean, it's not the most grabbing of introductions. But if the profile looks interesting and genuine, I'll reply.
But, as is often the case, it comes from a blank profile, who's just recently joined the site and is located nowhere near me, it gets deleted."
We have an attitude similar to this
It doesn’t need to be an essay or clever. Just two to three sentences showing you can put some thoughts together and that you’re not just lazy and spamming. Fair enough the profile might be very well written and thought out so you might say they’ve the hard work done.
But In our opinion, effort shouldn’t just happen once at the setting up of your profile and if you want to meet us then yes something more than the easiest and lowest amount of effort is required.
Why? It shows an even small willingness to get ahead of others and a lack of laziness and also is nice to receive. Picture someone marking exam scripts. They could all be well and efficiently done but very very similar and following the same tried and trusted formula. And then one pops up with something random - not genius but just that small but different and enough to stand out. That script is going to make the examiner really happy - for just a small difference
Sometimes it’s those tiny differences Male all the difference - and we are very very sexually turned on be others mental abilities and ability to flirt, tease and converse.
If you either can’t or won’t make a tiny amount of effort in any opener then it’s unlikely you’ll stand out in connection in person either
With one HUGE caveat. And it is completely hypocritical and we accept backlash for this. If you’re way above our expectations in looks and are just amazing looking in your profile then we’ll respond. But if there’s poor chat we’ll still get bored most likely |
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"I'm gonna just spam messages out with a full stop and see what happens
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You can't it's now rude to use a full stop. Keep up will ya.
Just read that online....feckin snowflakes
The world's gone mad I tell ya.
Ah its a bit out of context.. it like someone asking me what I think when I see an ! In a work email and saying that it means I'm fucked... and a Study finding that 30somethings find ! too aggressive.
On a separate note I'm gonna Full stop the shot out of page 1 oh women online. I'll come back with results
If nothing else, you certainly gave me a good laugh with your approach... probably would have replied too to a message with just a full stop...but, I've single men blocked both here and on my singles profile oh so sorry
Kinky temptress
Someone send back an ! fucking lurkers "
Lurkers?! Who...where...?!? |
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
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"Wonder if i sent out a hi or hey or as Mr Boobs did with just a . message to say 10/15 how many replys would i get
I know I'd reply!"
Ah your just easy
But on a serious note can a woman just send random half ass messages and get a reply where a man has to sell his sole for a reply.... |
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"Wonder if i sent out a hi or hey or as Mr Boobs did with just a . message to say 10/15 how many replys would i get
I know I'd reply!
Ah your just easy
But on a serious note can a woman just send random half ass messages and get a reply where a man has to sell his sole for a reply...."
Only one way to find out
Kinky temptress |
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"Wonder if i sent out a hi or hey or as Mr Boobs did with just a . message to say 10/15 how many replys would i get
I know I'd reply!
Ah your just easy
But on a serious note can a woman just send random half ass messages and get a reply where a man has to sell his sole for a reply...."
If it’s to single men I’d say most will reply. If she sends half assed hi’s to couples I’d say the proportion of replies would drop significantly |
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I don't send or receive very many messages but most of those I do receive are from people who have read my profile and clearly made an effort in their message.
The ones that bug me are those that feel they've done all the hard work in that initial message and then it's up to me to go chasing after that.
For some reason every other message after that is a single word reply. How they think there will be any form of conversation I've no idea.
In my experience this happens mostly with couples and it's almost as if the initial message has been written by the female half and once I respond all further correspondence is with the male half.
The change in tone and structure is obvious.
I know this because once I draw their attention to it and say I won't be chatting any longer that's when the abuse starts and the timewaster comments start.
At the same time its a completely different experience where the female half continues to chat. |
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"Wonder if i sent out a hi or hey or as Mr Boobs did with just a . message to say 10/15 how many replys would i get
I know I'd reply!
Ah your just easy
But on a serious note can a woman just send random half ass messages and get a reply where a man has to sell his sole for a reply...."
40% reply rate is better than I expected I would say women would get a 90-100% reply rate most times |
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Hi How are you is fine if you have a detailed and interesting profile and good pics. If you have few / no public pics and your profile is blank or says "fill in later" then no, it's not remotely enough.
You have to show people the menu so they can decide if they want go eat at your restaurant! |
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"Hi How are you is fine if you have a detailed and interesting profile and good pics. If you have few / no public pics and your profile is blank or says "fill in later" then no, it's not remotely enough.
You have to show people the menu so they can decide if they want go eat at your restaurant! "
You will like eating in my restaurant I serve starters, main course and desserts so what would you like my treat of course |
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