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Swinging and Kink

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Just curious to see others views on this, do you think there is a direct correlation between the swinging scene and kink/bdsm scenes? Would you consider yourself a kinky individual or can the two areas be completely separated?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For us we enjoy the mix but Dee likes to separate the two more than me. For her she's bdsm first as for her it's a lifestyle not something for just meets. I just enjoy getting down and dirty

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I wonder would there be many here that would Introduce it straight away? Or would already being part of the swinging scene be an indicator that a person is “kinky” ? Especially to people on the outside looking in?

We all love the down and dirty but don’t we

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By *ireannCplCouple over a year ago

Suburbs

We don't have any interest in BDSM. In fact we have been on the swing scene for a good few years now and we've never incorperated the BDSM scene into our fun.

EireCpl

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By *ateniteCouple over a year ago

Youghal

"We don't have any interest in BDSM. In fact we have been on the swing scene for a good few years now and we've never incorperated the BDSM scene into our fun.

EireCpl "

Likewise. Never had an interest in BDSM scene. But we can see how it makes sense for others to mix the two.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Swinkster;)

Started off as swinger and slowly started experimenting with kink a few years ago...I believe a lot of people are put off by the idea they have about BDSM that its all seedy and dirty and dungeons are these horrible dark places...I think a lot of people would be well surprise to find out how much they would actually enjoy certain aspects of it if they only tried..

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By *ol_ieMan over a year ago

Dublin west

Some like one.

Some like the other.

Some like both...

That's what makes humans so special. Every one of them is diferent..

Be proud to be different..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We don't have any interest in BDSM. In fact we have been on the swing scene for a good few years now and we've never incorperated the BDSM scene into our fun.

EireCpl "

We would be the same, not that we think negatively of it, just no interest.

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By *og-ManMan over a year ago

somewhere

"Swinkster;)

If only someone opened up a place where you could act out your fantasies in a gorgeous setting...

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By *ilthyNightsCouple over a year ago

East / North, Cork

For us BDSM comes and goes with different phases of life.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Swinkster;)

If only someone opened up a place where you could act out your fantasies in a gorgeous setting...

Haha. If only..

But yeah..thats exactly the idea behind it.

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By *kcoupleCouple over a year ago

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By *kcoupleCouple over a year ago

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Strange one for us. Before we got into this lifestyle in anyway we had a female friend who spent her summers in LA working as a fetish model. I was way more interested in the visual/photography aspect of it than taking part. We both love fetish outfits but having dabbled a little in the sexual aspect we quickly learned that neither of us get a kick out of it. So it did trigger our journey here but will never really be a part of our play.

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By *asterandhissparklesCouple over a year ago

tipperary

Swing and BDSM scene are definitely 2 different things but, of course, the can co-exist.

There are places and events where kinks can be exploited but normally rules are very different from the swinging clubs and events.. there are clubs where there are BDSM/kinky rooms or areas but not every kinks will be allowed...

As usual is always about respect for everyone...

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By *asterandhissparklesCouple over a year ago

tipperary

"Swinkster;)

If only someone opened up a place where you could act out your fantasies in a gorgeous setting...

Haha. If only..

But yeah..thats exactly the idea behind it.

Those places exists in Dublin and in Cork

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Swinkster;)

If only someone opened up a place where you could act out your fantasies in a gorgeous setting...

Haha. If only..

But yeah..thats exactly the idea behind it.

Those places exists in Dublin and in Cork

Never said they didnt

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By *exysam and StuartCouple over a year ago

over the hills and far away

"Swinkster;)

If only someone opened up a place where you could act out your fantasies in a gorgeous setting...

Haha. If only..

But yeah..thats exactly the idea behind it.

Those places exists in Dublin and in Cork

Never said they didnt

And in Laois

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By *witchcarlosccsMan over a year ago

dublin

"Swinkster;)

If only someone opened up a place where you could act out your fantasies in a gorgeous setting...

Haha. If only..

But yeah..thats exactly the idea behind it.

Those places exists in Dublin and in Cork

Good morning, I would like to experience, know and share about these places.

I will be attentive for when they open their doors, interesting to know what there is in Dublin.

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By *j47Man over a year ago

limerick

"Swinkster;)

If only someone opened up a place where you could act out your fantasies in a gorgeous setting...

Haha. If only..

But yeah..thats exactly the idea behind it.

Those places exists in Dublin and in Cork

Never said they didnt

And in Laois

There's life outside Dublin and Cork

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We started with kink and then came to swinging. Kink for us tends to be more relationship based, due to the kinks we enjoy, and while we're not against the two mixing it is rarely something that happens inside swinging.

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By *ireannCplCouple over a year ago

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"We don't have any interest in BDSM. In fact we have been on the swing scene for a good few years now and we've never incorperated the BDSM scene into our fun.

EireCpl

We would be the same, not that we think negatively of it, just no interest. "

Yes that's right, we don't have any negative things to say about BDSM, but its something that doesn't "turn us on"

EireCpl

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Swinkster;)

Maybe this best describes my take on it, started off with an interest here and then went down the kinkier route, the link/bdsm scene is obviously a little more hidden than this though?? Especially in Ireland?

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