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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Does anyone else on here feel uncomfortable sending face pics to a person they have never even messaged, I see some profiles saying if they don't get a face pic they won't open the messages. I just wouldn't be comfortable sending a pic to a person I have never chatted to before. What are peoples thoughts on this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I feel comfortable having my face pictures public (I often have them up) as I don't feel like I'm doing anything immoral or illegal.
If you don't feel comfortable by obliging ones preferences (be it face pic attached to first message or anything else) - you really don't have to message or in fact send them anything at all. I promise.
Face pic request or any other requests within anyone's profile will result in either a block, deleted message or message left unread.
Think of it in a way: someone tells you if you step in dogs poo you will not be welcome in their home as they are house proud and like to keep their home pristine. You step in a poo on purpose then complain how rude they were for not inviting you in. |
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over a year ago
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The person that asks for face pics should send one first. I was on this before and sent a few faces pics when asked and maybe 10% of the time I recieved and I've never asked for one. I do see it as necessary if you're thinking of meeting though but if you ask for one and even if you don't like it you should send one back. Why should one receive and the other not? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We wouldn't put them on our profile, but dont mind sending them to people we might potentially meet"
I don't mind sending a face pic after a bit of chatting and getting to know the person but sending it to a person you have never chatted to. I wouldn't expect a pic from a lady until we chatted and got to know each other first
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I never send a face pic you dont know what someone will do with it or where it will end up usually on another site as a faje profile plus there are far too many nosey people on here just want to see who is on and have no intention of ever meeting if someone wants to see what i look like they can at least come and meet me for a coffee and a chat that why we both get to see the real person as its not about looks for me personality is far more important |
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We never request one . Get plenty of face pics sent with messages in the hope we will return one but we never asked for their bloody photo so don’t send one back  |
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"Does anyone else on here feel uncomfortable sending face pics to a person they have never even messaged, I see some profiles saying if they don't get a face pic they won't open the messages. I just wouldn't be comfortable sending a pic to a person I have never chatted to before. What are peoples thoughts on this. "
right you are x
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"I never send a face pic you dont know what someone will do with it or where it will end up usually on another site as a faje profile plus there are far too many nosey people on here just want to see who is on and have no intention of ever meeting if someone wants to see what i look like they can at least come and meet me for a coffee and a chat that why we both get to see the real person as its not about looks for me personality is far more important "
agree with 100%
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"I never send a face pic you dont know what someone will do with it or where it will end up usually on another site as a faje profile plus there are far too many nosey people on here just want to see who is on and have no intention of ever meeting if someone wants to see what i look like they can at least come and meet me for a coffee and a chat that why we both get to see the real person as its not about looks for me personality is far more important agree with 100%"
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