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By *oxminx OP Couple
over a year ago
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More often of late we find a lot of people enjoy squirting.
Here's the thing, we don't particularly like it.
Mel has a fear of playing with a squirter and being caught out lol
Here's some questions:
To folk like us, does it put you off playing with squirters?
Would it put squirters off playing with us?
And if you do squirt, can you control the urge to do so during orgasm?
Is the enjoyment/satisfaction just not the same without squirting during orgasm?
Oh and to any of our friends here reading this, we still luv u all lots lol
Totally a simple discussion to help us all understand each other a little more
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mrs here. I can very occasionally control it but in doing so I'm compromising fully letting go. I very much wish I could switch it on and off like a light because it's a little inconvenient. We do warn potential playmates and if thats a barrier for them then there'd be no hard feelings. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In terms of enjoyment satisfaction with or without squirting it's not so much that one is more or less enjoyable than the other but if I'm concentrating on not squirting then I'm holding back and my mind will be focused on that rather than the pleasure which in itself robs a little something from my orgasm |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm very much like OP - squirting does put me off somewhat. Don't ruin a moment or complain when it happens, but if someone tells me they're a squirter - I will make sure I'll never play with that person.
As an occasional squirter myself (it happens very rarely in one very specific way, so no random waterfalls) - yes you can stop it but as above couple said - it takes something away from the orgasm.
That said - I much prefer clitoral orgasms anyway so it isn't a big loss. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm very much like OP - squirting does put me off somewhat. Don't ruin a moment or complain when it happens, but if someone tells me they're a squirter - I will make sure I'll never play with that person.
As an occasional squirter myself (it happens very rarely in one very specific way, so no random waterfalls) - yes you can stop it but as above couple said - it takes something away from the orgasm.
That said - I much prefer clitoral orgasms anyway so it isn't a big loss. "
For me it happens with clitoral orgasms |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would squirt 9 times out of 10.. Its an absolute nuisance and I'm forever buying bedsheets.
I would always mention it if i plan on being with someone.. |
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Can take it or leave it when meeting others. It's a bit inconvenient, and doesn't really aid pleasure in any way. It's also something that some men get fixated on and so becomes something of a parlour trick. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can take it or leave it when meeting others. It's a bit inconvenient, and doesn't really aid pleasure in any way. It's also something that some men get fixated on and so becomes something of a parlour trick. "
Definitely agree on the parlour trick. Too many just focus on the getting a woman to squirt. For myself I find that that focus takes away from the pleasure as most tend to hammer away to make it happen. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can take it or leave it when meeting others. It's a bit inconvenient, and doesn't really aid pleasure in any way. It's also something that some men get fixated on and so becomes something of a parlour trick.
Definitely agree on the parlour trick. Too many just focus on the getting a woman to squirt. For myself I find that that focus takes away from the pleasure as most tend to hammer away to make it happen. "
Yes, more than once I've ended up very sore from it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not something I can control.... If I'm letting go enough to cum.... I couldn't not squirt. Sometimes I think I'm def gonna and get towel down others I think nah and make a mess lol!! I don't find it off putting though not been with a squirter yet. But I love kissing it off a man's face and beard so think I'd be grand lol   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can take it or leave it when meeting others. It's a bit inconvenient, and doesn't really aid pleasure in any way. It's also something that some men get fixated on and so becomes something of a parlour trick.
Definitely agree on the parlour trick. Too many just focus on the getting a woman to squirt. For myself I find that that focus takes away from the pleasure as most tend to hammer away to make it happen. "
So true. And so many think that a good old finger blasting is the way to go. Like there's a "one size fits all" formula. |
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"Can take it or leave it when meeting others. It's a bit inconvenient, and doesn't really aid pleasure in any way. It's also something that some men get fixated on and so becomes something of a parlour trick.
Definitely agree on the parlour trick. Too many just focus on the getting a woman to squirt. For myself I find that that focus takes away from the pleasure as most tend to hammer away to make it happen.
So true. And so many think that a good old finger blasting is the way to go. Like there's a "one size fits all" formula. "
Nothing worse. Especially When you're dehydrated  |
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I've only found out last year that I can squirt. I need to be stimulated in a very particular way for it to happen and so far only one chap has been able to bring it out in me.
Whereas it makes for an intense orgasm, I find it quite messy too so I'm glad it doesn't happen habitually!!! I suppose I can consider myself to be one lucky woman to be able to experience 3 different types of physical orgasms - through clit stimulation, g spot stimulation and by squirting which happens when my g spot is stimulated in a very specific type of way...
I have to admit I'd also be put off by a squirter but that's possibly because I'm not half as orally inclined as other ways, sensory issues to an extent?!? I don't know... . I've never been with a woman so not sure how I'd fare in going down on a squirter... have no problems with blowjobs but for the longest time I wouldn't have been someone to swallow until I met my partner here actually 
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've been with a few squirters. The first time it happened I did not know how to react. The last time it happened I was very turned on apart by it apart from having to sleep on the wet patch-LOL |
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By *oxminx OP Couple
over a year ago
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Thanks guy's. So interesting to hear so many viewpoints.
We have noticed how so many guy's have become a wee bit fixated on it. Obvious signs of another added pressure for some.
We also had some pals tell us how bad a mattress had been left as a result of a party. Kinda puts us off having a party or three in the future. |
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"Can take it or leave it when meeting others. It's a bit inconvenient, and doesn't really aid pleasure in any way. It's also something that some men get fixated on and so becomes something of a parlour trick.
Definitely agree on the parlour trick. Too many just focus on the getting a woman to squirt. For myself I find that that focus takes away from the pleasure as most tend to hammer away to make it happen. "
As a squirter I find this happens more often than not 
I do like to pre warn any potential meets as the first few sexual partners I had weren't fans and made me feel quite paranoid about it. I'm still not 100% comfortable with the fact to be honest.
I tried for years to avoid doing it but when it happens it happens, I don't have any control over it
For me I rarely orgasm and squirt at the same time. If I do, I don't think it really affects the intensity. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks guy's. So interesting to hear so many viewpoints.
We have noticed how so many guy's have become a wee bit fixated on it. Obvious signs of another added pressure for some.
We also had some pals tell us how bad a mattress had been left as a result of a party. Kinda puts us off having a party or three in the future."
Picnic blankets, furry on one side, waterproof on the other, possibly the best thing to throw in a bed before any sort of session |
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Communication! Communication! Communication and towels.
Or as a previous poster said, picnic blanket.
As long as we don't have to pay for the hotel mattress, at ludicrous prices, all is good.
If you squirt, you squirt. Just tell the guy and make with the soakage  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As long as I know in advance and can have the waterproof sheets in place, not a problem..but please don't drown my mattress or settee.. "
You can't beat having the water proof covers down before the fun starts |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks guy's. So interesting to hear so many viewpoints.
We have noticed how so many guy's have become a wee bit fixated on it. Obvious signs of another added pressure for some.
We also had some pals tell us how bad a mattress had been left as a result of a party. Kinda puts us off having a party or three in the future.
Picnic blankets, furry on one side, waterproof on the other, possibly the best thing to throw in a bed before any sort of session "
Now how would you know that Mr Jay..... jade x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Squirting is only a recent thing for me I was kinda mortified and a bit teary the first time it happened. But it's something I enjoy now. But when a meet asked me not to squirt as it put him off all I could think about was not doing it and it just stopped me from enjoying the sex. I don't have a on and off switch to control it unfortunately. I can understand totally why people might not want to meet me because of it. We all have our likes and dislikes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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When I joined fab about 6yrs ago every other day there was threads about how amazing squirters are
I didn't at the time and had to google it after a while as every other message I got was "Are you a squirter" and it used to drive me mad, as it made me feel like there was something wrong with me because it didn't
Then
I meet someone from from fab and he flicked the on switch on
Now it won't switch off
And now
All you see is threads about how alot of people don't like it
Jeeeeeez a girl can't win  |
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By *oxminx OP Couple
over a year ago
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"When I joined fab about 6yrs ago every other day there was threads about how amazing squirters are
I didn't at the time and had to google it after a while as every other message I got was "Are you a squirter" and it used to drive me mad, as it made me feel like there was something wrong with me because it didn't
Then
I meet someone from from fab and he flicked the on switch on
Now it won't switch off
And now
All you see is threads about how alot of people don't like it
Jeeeeeez a girl can't win "
Have to say, this gave us a giggle  |
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Don't like It, been with some and it kills the mood, recks the bed, no matter how careful you are with towels, parlor trick is a good name for it, very difficult to have seconds when the bed is a swimming pool |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Parlour trick is a very judgemental way to describe someone's sexual response to simulation. May as well say circus freak and be done with it. "
And for my next trick here's my impression of the River Shannon |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I joined fab about 6yrs ago every other day there was threads about how amazing squirters are
I didn't at the time and had to google it after a while as every other message I got was "Are you a squirter" and it used to drive me mad, as it made me feel like there was something wrong with me because it didn't
Then
I meet someone from from fab and he flicked the on switch on
Now it won't switch off
And now
All you see is threads about how alot of people don't like it
Jeeeeeez a girl can't win
Have to say, this gave us a giggle "
And now the goal post have changed again
Every other message is would you pee on me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Love to squirt over and over ( not niagra falls now ).but love to get lost in the moment, hot sweaty soaked bodies..
How much enjoyment is there when your worrying about keeping the bed dry or even you hair for that matter... imagine trying to hold back to please your man ... let loose and enjoy yourselves ... |
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"Love to squirt over and over ( not niagra falls now ).but love to get lost in the moment, hot sweaty soaked bodies..
How much enjoyment is there when your worrying about keeping the bed dry or even you hair for that matter... imagine trying to hold back to please your man ... let loose and enjoy yourselves ... "
Guess it depends who's getting the bill for a new mattress
Still, I love the way you're thinking  |
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"Can take it or leave it when meeting others. It's a bit inconvenient, and doesn't really aid pleasure in any way. It's also something that some men get fixated on and so becomes something of a parlour trick. "
This almost sound like your talking about ribbed condoms and not a womans natural reaponse to pleasure?! Like come on, do we constantly have to shame women, can he not just let them ride in peace? I tell ya, if any man said my natural reactions were inconvenient he'd be spending the night with palm and her 5 friends. |
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"Can take it or leave it when meeting others. It's a bit inconvenient, and doesn't really aid pleasure in any way. It's also something that some men get fixated on and so becomes something of a parlour trick.
This almost sound like your talking about ribbed condoms and not a womans natural reaponse to pleasure?! Like come on, do we constantly have to shame women, can he not just let them ride in peace? I tell ya, if any man said my natural reactions were inconvenient he'd be spending the night with palm and her 5 friends. "
Agreed but I think the post was in respect to some who think it's a sign of an organisation and job done, or will fingerblast in an effort to make it happen. Neither of which is correct, usually, so should not be the end goal.
If it happens it does and if it doesn't, who cares?
You're there to enjoy each other. Whatever form that takes is OK.
As for the ribbed condoms, FFS I cum fast already! Using those just speeds me up!  |
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"Can take it or leave it when meeting others. It's a bit inconvenient, and doesn't really aid pleasure in any way. It's also something that some men get fixated on and so becomes something of a parlour trick.
This almost sound like your talking about ribbed condoms and not a womans natural reaponse to pleasure?! Like come on, do we constantly have to shame women, can he not just let them ride in peace? I tell ya, if any man said my natural reactions were inconvenient he'd be spending the night with palm and her 5 friends. "
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"Can take it or leave it when meeting others. It's a bit inconvenient, and doesn't really aid pleasure in any way. It's also something that some men get fixated on and so becomes something of a parlour trick.
This almost sound like your talking about ribbed condoms and not a womans natural reaponse to pleasure?! Like come on, do we constantly have to shame women, can he not just let them ride in peace? I tell ya, if any man said my natural reactions were inconvenient he'd be spending the night with palm and her 5 friends.
100% "
I totally agree.
A Knight should in no way embarrass you with a natural response from your body, whether it is achieved or not.
If She loves her, you must make an effort.
Communication and respect,
the end is mutual pleasure |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Personally I love it when a woman squirts mess or no mess, but I think for me it's more of a thing that I know my playmate is having just as much fun as me, that's the turn on point for me |
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