 |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
If you found yourself falling love and getting into a commited relationship would you tell your new partner about your swinging days? Would you have expectations to keep swinging with them?or do you think youd completely leave swinging life behind?
Just curious  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"What if you met that someone on a swinging site OP, then little would have to change"
Fair point but im thinking more if you met someone outside the swinging world |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"If you found yourself falling love and getting into a commited relationship would you tell your new partner about your swinging days? Would you have expectations to keep swinging with them?or do you think youd completely leave swinging life behind?
Just curious "
At 46 I don't think love is possible. But if I did I'd tell them about my time here, have some funny stories some shocking ones. But have made some amazing friends. Wouldn't bother me leaving as haven't done much swinging. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
I'd be straight uo from the start I'm not ashamed of being on here. I don't really meet outside of fab anyhow so it's not an issue but if it did happen they would know very early on. Plus I don't know if monogamy works anyhow I did before I joined here now I'm not convinced it does. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"I'd be straight uo from the start I'm not ashamed of being on here. I don't really meet outside of fab anyhow so it's not an issue but if it did happen they would know very early on. Plus I don't know if monogamy works anyhow I did before I joined here now I'm not convinced it does."
I think i would have a similar approach. Id like to think i would be that open anyways |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I've never done much swinging but I would be fairly open about my past sex life..if you can't disscuss what you enjoy with a new partner what's the point |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I've never done much swinging but I would be fairly open about my past sex life..if you can't disscuss what you enjoy with a new partner what's the point"
Very true it's all about building trust discretely. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I'd be straight uo from the start I'm not ashamed of being on here. I don't really meet outside of fab anyhow so it's not an issue but if it did happen they would know very early on. Plus I don't know if monogamy works anyhow I did before I joined here now I'm not convinced it does."
Totally agree about being honest. If life weren't so full of surprises we'd all be able to plan better |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"If you found yourself falling love and getting into a commited relationship would you tell your new partner about your swinging days? Would you have expectations to keep swinging with them?or do you think youd completely leave swinging life behind?
Just curious
At 46 I don't think love is possible. But if I did I'd tell them about my time here, have some funny stories some shocking ones. But have made some amazing friends. Wouldn't bother me leaving as haven't done much swinging. "
I'm pretty much in that same boat and I'm only 31 it wouldn't be by choice tho just the fact of my age and already have 4 kids puts most off so hence why I'm here have to go somewhere lol |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"If you found yourself falling love and getting into a commited relationship would you tell your new partner about your swinging days? Would you have expectations to keep swinging with them?or do you think youd completely leave swinging life behind?
Just curious "
I would most probably leave this place if someone was mad enough to get into a relationship with me just cheating isn't in me I know how it feels and it bloody hurts so inflicting that hurt on someone else would be such a dick move
But as for mentioning this lifestyle to her would be completely upto you I suppose being honest makes a healthy relationship and if she really loves and cares for you she would understand that was your past life so there shouldn't be an issue if it is then maybe she just isn't the one for you   |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I would inform about my previous sex life, partners, broad strokes not details, so ladies you can rest safely in your beds tonight. She's not a bunny boiler, well I hope not ???? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Ehhhh I'll be honest, i wouldn't be mentioning being on fab straight away.
Ive had the double standard of a guy saying he would have dated me if i hadn't been on fab.. Despite being on fab himself so it's an area I'd tread lightly on.. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Ehhhh I'll be honest, i wouldn't be mentioning being on fab straight away.
Ive had the double standard of a guy saying he would have dated me if i hadn't been on fab.. Despite being on fab himself so it's an area I'd tread lightly on.. "
How in the name of fab does that make sense so he would be happy to date someone that's not on here that wouldn't be open to this lifestyle and he continues to get his fun here too funny times indeed lol |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
