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By *NawtyCpl OP Couple
over a year ago
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so we all know the usual, bad breath, bossy or opinionated, no manners, ugly shoes, sports jerseys BUT what are your UNUSUAL turn offs. What instantly makes you go nope im out... no matter how hot they are.
Mr hates red nails especially long ones. Actually he hates all long painted nails but red is especially cringe worthy for him. Picture a lady of a certain vintage, wrinkled hands, liver spots and long pointed red nails... u get the picture.
What are your instant Get me outta here turn offs? |
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By *NawtyCpl OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Women who not only display a sense of entitlement but constantly remind everyone of how amazing they are and are full of self importance.
If you have to say " look at me" it's a complete no no. "
Not gender specific, definitely applies to both |
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over a year ago
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"Women who not only display a sense of entitlement but constantly remind everyone of how amazing they are and are full of self importance.
If you have to say " look at me" it's a complete no no. "
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I have 1 no go area, hate anyone going near my belly button but for some when I have to say that its like a challenge to them to mess with it. Like they think they are going to be the 1st 1 ever to poke a finger in there without driving me absolutely bonkers....wierd I know but it really does drive me crazy and has ruined the mood for me on a couple of occasions when they persist in trying "break me" or whatever they think they are trying to achieve |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's this pretty common perfume that I always recognize, but seem to associate with old people.
No idea what it's called, but for the life of me I cant understand why anyone would intentionally wear it. |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"There's this pretty common perfume that I always recognize, but seem to associate with old people.
No idea what it's called, but for the life of me I cant understand why anyone would intentionally wear it. "
Makes them smell like your granny  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There's this pretty common perfume that I always recognize, but seem to associate with old people.
No idea what it's called, but for the life of me I cant understand why anyone would intentionally wear it. "
Chanel No 5.
Awful stuff |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There's this pretty common perfume that I always recognize, but seem to associate with old people.
No idea what it's called, but for the life of me I cant understand why anyone would intentionally wear it.
Makes them smell like your granny "
Pretty much Haha. Not that I go around sniffing grannies or anything. ;-P |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When all fingers and toes are exactly the same length.  
This ive never even seen!
Oh yes it exists. The persons feet looked like a lego block just odd. "
Flashbacks of Kunte Kinte in Roots, if anyone gets that reference :/ |
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"When all fingers and toes are exactly the same length.
This ive never even seen!
Oh yes it exists. The persons feet looked like a lego block just odd.
Flashbacks of Kunte Kinte in Roots, if anyone gets that reference :/"
Ouch! He didn't run away again though after that!!!! Bit extreme,even in the fab world. Great show too btw |
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By *eminexWoman
over a year ago
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Think I'm ruled out of most of your turn offs .... I like red nails , tattoos and piercings .....
My turn offs would be someone who gunts or makes little noises thy don't realise ! .... Bad teeth , dirty nails ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There's this pretty common perfume that I always recognize, but seem to associate with old people.
No idea what it's called, but for the life of me I cant understand why anyone would intentionally wear it.
Chanel No 5.
Awful stuff"
My favourite...such a classic, iconic scent... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Coffee breath or the smell of smoke from someone's clothes or hands... yuck!!"
Or smokers breath, no matter what they think, ain't no hiding that with mouth fresheners |
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By *NawtyCpl OP Couple
over a year ago
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Love where this thread went
Its funny that something like lip fillers is a turn off when todays society is telling women, men want big dick sucking lips.
I also love how one persons turn off is another persons turn on. |
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By *NawtyCpl OP Couple
over a year ago
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"I have 1 no go area, hate anyone going near my belly button but for some when I have to say that its like a challenge to them to mess with it. Like they think they are going to be the 1st 1 ever to poke a finger in there without driving me absolutely bonkers....wierd I know but it really does drive me crazy and has ruined the mood for me on a couple of occasions when they persist in trying "break me" or whatever they think they are trying to achieve "
Seen this happen with himself, people threaten to wear red nails on purpose to test ya! Be awkard as feck when he tells them nah you can jog on now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Love where this thread went
Its funny that something like lip fillers is a turn off when todays society is telling women, men want big dick sucking lips.
I also love how one persons turn off is another persons turn on. "
I don't think society tells women that at all. I think women are to blame for this all on their own. It's women who notice lips on other women before guys do. |
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By *NawtyCpl OP Couple
over a year ago
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oh i have another one. This is very particular to me and not a slight on anyone else BUT i absolutely cannot handle a man carrying his mrs handbag. Like instant turn off nope go away dont care if u look like a Hemsworth brother.
The worst is when u see them trailing behind her in the shops carrying her bag. 
Also if ur a guy and its ur bag! Rock it ...im fine with that |
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By *NawtyCpl OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Love where this thread went
Its funny that something like lip fillers is a turn off when todays society is telling women, men want big dick sucking lips.
I also love how one persons turn off is another persons turn on.
I don't think society tells women that at all. I think women are to blame for this all on their own. It's women who notice lips on other women before guys do. "
I think society is made up of men and women, so as a broad term, both apply. There is a lot of brand and media focus on things like fillers for women. It's unavoidable and difficult not to compare your own with whats deemed attract I was simply commenting on how for some its a turn off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Love where this thread went
Its funny that something like lip fillers is a turn off when todays society is telling women, men want big dick sucking lips.
I also love how one persons turn off is another persons turn on.
I don't think society tells women that at all. I think women are to blame for this all on their own. It's women who notice lips on other women before guys do.
I think society is made up of men and women, so as a broad term, both apply. There is a lot of brand and media focus on things like fillers for women. It's unavoidable and difficult not to compare your own with whats deemed attract I was simply commenting on how for some its a turn off. "
I agree it's a turn off as you can visibly see the filler most of the time.
Regarding the other point, if it's driven almost exclusively by women themselves then I don't think it's society driven. |
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"Big fake lashes and lip filler. Gross"
Just to clarify I meant when these things are done in a distractingly noticeable WAY. I think most folks know the look I mean. I'm sure they CAN be done tastefully. |
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"I have 1 no go area, hate anyone going near my belly button but for some when I have to say that its like a challenge to them to mess with it. Like they think they are going to be the 1st 1 ever to poke a finger in there without driving me absolutely bonkers....wierd I know but it really does drive me crazy and has ruined the mood for me on a couple of occasions when they persist in trying "break me" or whatever they think they are trying to achieve "
Same ... bellybuttons are vile  |
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"I have 1 no go area, hate anyone going near my belly button but for some when I have to say that its like a challenge to them to mess with it. Like they think they are going to be the 1st 1 ever to poke a finger in there without driving me absolutely bonkers....wierd I know but it really does drive me crazy and has ruined the mood for me on a couple of occasions when they persist in trying "break me" or whatever they think they are trying to achieve
Same ... bellybuttons are vile "
Lol MrsF is the same. She HATES bellybuttons. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The bellybutton one is gas, and I feel it with every fibre of my being.
I'd like to add - bum spots. People never really know they have 'em, and they're rarely discussed. But they make me shudder. Sure look, you get over it too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Big fake lashes and lip filler. Gross
Just to clarify I meant when these things are done in a distractingly noticeable WAY. I think most folks know the look I mean. I'm sure they CAN be done tastefully. "
Yeah you mean the Geordie Shore look. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not a fan of Tattoo's. 1 or 2 small ones might be ok but definitely someone covered in tat's is a big turn off for me "
I find tattoos to be an odd turn on for people considering anyone can get them and the vast majority of the people I know who have them just got them on a whim. How can that make you horny ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Clicked with a girl in a bar, went back to hers only to find the house like a tip head. Im talking, buns overflowing, days old food plates on tables piles of clothes all over the place! Big turn off |
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"Not a fan of Tattoo's. 1 or 2 small ones might be ok but definitely someone covered in tat's is a big turn off for me
I find tattoos to be an odd turn on for people considering anyone can get them and the vast majority of the people I know who have them just got them on a whim. How can that make you horny ?"
its not just the tats its the body they are on. And some people put a lot of thought into their tattoos |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Arrogance is massive turn off.
And feet especially hairy toes or weird feet. 
Untrimmed or not shaved pubes is another.
Bilbo Baggins will be gutted "
No short men either! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would have to say no matter how sexy your are if you had dirty finger nails taxi"
Yes, utterly revolting, but I think that's a given for the vast majority |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Arrogance is massive turn off.
And feet especially hairy toes or weird feet.
Untrimmed or not shaved pubes is another.
Bilbo Baggins will be gutted
No short men either!
How about average men?  "
Or "exceptional"  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have 1 no go area, hate anyone going near my belly button but for some when I have to say that its like a challenge to them to mess with it. Like they think they are going to be the 1st 1 ever to poke a finger in there without driving me absolutely bonkers....wierd I know but it really does drive me crazy and has ruined the mood for me on a couple of occasions when they persist in trying "break me" or whatever they think they are trying to achieve "
Me too!! Makes me want to throw up. I can’t relax if I think I’m gonna get a poke (by a finger) in my bellybutton |
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I hate if someone doesn't call a spade a spade and the overflowing good manners and cuteness. Annoying things like 'would you do it with your tongue', 'please touch me down there', 'can you lick my bunny' and 'after this would you like me to lick your willie'... |
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For girls it's strange and personal to me.. I'm in no way shape or form a makeup artist but a turn off for me would be a girl who wore tonnes of makeup and/or applied it with their eyes closed! I'm not vain about others looks, and I know it can be creative but some people really don't know how to highlight their own features, clumpy mascara, panda eyes with eyeliner, over drawn lipliner or match foundation shades to their race even! I also hate hoop earrings so that's a massive no from me!
For fellas I don't like tracksuits, or at least full tracksuits! McKenzie or chavvy style just not my thing. Eyebrow piercing or that stupid line razored into them drive me mad! and blackheads! You might be a man but taking care of your skin with basic skincare routine isn't a massive investment of time or money! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Skinny jeans on a man
Shoes with no socks
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Any man residing in Ireland and not in the Mediterranean or on the continent of Africa should be shot for wearing shoes and no socks |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"Skinny jeans on a man
Shoes with no socks
Any man residing in Ireland and not in the Mediterranean or on the continent of Africa should be shot for wearing shoes and no socks "
Or for wearing socks with sandals |
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"oh i have another one. This is very particular to me and not a slight on anyone else BUT i absolutely cannot handle a man carrying his mrs handbag. Like instant turn off nope go away dont care if u look like a Hemsworth brother.
The worst is when u see them trailing behind her in the shops carrying her bag.
Also if ur a guy and its ur bag! Rock it ...im fine with that"
No going through a woman's bag either |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bad fake tan hands. You know the type were they look like theyve been digging in mud for hours"
definately this one for me, some of them look more like the have been “deep fried “ instead of fake tanned
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Skinny jeans on a man
Shoes with no socks
Any man residing in Ireland and not in the Mediterranean or on the continent of Africa should be shot for wearing shoes and no socks
Or for wearing socks with sandals "
Right now on Fab Forum Mozambique they're having the exact same debate only opposite!
"Check out those crazy Irish, they wear socks with shoes and sandals sometimes!"  |
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I can NOT handle wimpy hands. They have to be strong and a bit rough to the touch. Soft and gentle makes my skin crawl and I don’t want them touching me. The first thing I look for in photos is hands.
As a personality trait, any kind of rudeness. To bar staff or anyone we might encounter, especially homeless people. I’ve seen perfectly lovely intelligent men be rude to someone asking for spare change and it’s the biggest turn off. Ugh. Instant no. |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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As a personality trait, any kind of rudeness. To bar staff or anyone we might encounter, especially homeless people. I’ve seen perfectly lovely intelligent men be rude to someone asking for spare change and it’s the biggest turn off. Ugh. Instant no. "
It's horrible isn't it
I've never seen a woman doing it but loads of blokes usually trying to impress a woman that they're with. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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As a personality trait, any kind of rudeness. To bar staff or anyone we might encounter, especially homeless people. I’ve seen perfectly lovely intelligent men be rude to someone asking for spare change and it’s the biggest turn off. Ugh. Instant no.
It's horrible isn't it
I've never seen a woman doing it but loads of blokes usually trying to impress a woman that they're with."
Yep It's something I hate as well. I've seen women do it as well and it's horrible and rude and there is no need for it. |
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"Long funny looking painted finger nails
Bucket loads off makeup
Leopard print
Yup
Yup
And yup
well theres me off the list so. Ill show meself out. sniff. byeeeee
They meant on men "
oh well then (sidles back into the room) |
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By *NawtyCpl OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Long funny looking painted finger nails
Bucket loads off makeup
Leopard print
Yup
Yup
And yup
well theres me off the list so. Ill show meself out. sniff. byeeeee
They meant on men
oh well then (sidles back into the room)"
Get in here with ur long leopard print make up covered nails |
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"There's this pretty common perfume that I always recognize, but seem to associate with old people.
No idea what it's called, but for the life of me I cant understand why anyone would intentionally wear it.
Makes them smell like your granny
Pretty much Haha. Not that I go around sniffing grannies or anything. ;-P"
Oi I'm a grannie |
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"Long funny looking painted finger nails
Bucket loads off makeup
Leopard print
Yup
Yup
And yup
well theres me off the list so. Ill show meself out. sniff. byeeeee
They meant on men
oh well then (sidles back into the room)
Get in here with ur long leopard print make up covered nails "
jaysus alright keep your knickers on. or off. whichever floats ya boat |
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By (user no longer on site)
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A weird one, but ear wax! I once spent a whole date trying not to look at the massive ball of ear wax in the guys ear! When he made a mo e to kiss me, I almost vomited on him! Shame.. Because he was a lovely guy otherwise, but I just couldn't get past the ear wax issue so getting intimate was out if the question.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"so we all know the usual, bad breath, bossy or opinionated, no manners, ugly shoes, sports jerseys BUT what are your UNUSUAL turn offs. What instantly makes you go nope im out... no matter how hot they are.
Mr hates red nails especially long ones. Actually he hates all long painted nails but red is especially cringe worthy for him. Picture a lady of a certain vintage, wrinkled hands, liver spots and long pointed red nails... u get the picture.
What are your instant Get me outta here turn offs? "
If she eats nachos and cheese in the cinema! Actually anywhere |
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