This might be an interesting party idea for when all this settles down.
I came across this from a fetish site, obviously the rules could be tweaked for a more swing friendly crowd but I (the male half) thought this was quite tantalising
For anyone who doesn't understand the acronym CFNM is 'Clothed Female Nude Male'
A “CFNM” party.
The rules are simple:
The party is not a “sex party”. The main focus is that women are to relax and enjoy themselves.
The men are only there for the women’s enjoyment.
Men MUST be nude.
Women must NOT be nude.
Women have the freedom to ogle, touch, tease, pinch, slap, play with or ignore the men.
Women should not allow the men to have an orgasm, masturbate, or even touch themselves.
A man may not touch any woman without explicit consent from her.
Men and women should drink, laugh, chat, and have fun like they would at any other party
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over a year ago
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"But normally at a CFNM party the man gets humiliated and does get to cum
Obviously rules can be tweaked...
I know but would men attend if they thought that they wouldn't get to cum "
Don't you mean they wouldn't go if they couldn't cum.Haha |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"This might be an interesting party idea for when all this settles down.
I came across this from a fetish site, obviously the rules could be tweaked for a more swing friendly crowd but I (the male half) thought this was quite tantalising
For anyone who doesn't understand the acronym CFNM is 'Clothed Female Nude Male'
A “CFNM” party.
The rules are simple:
The party is not a “sex party”. The main focus is that women are to relax and enjoy themselves.
The men are only there for the women’s enjoyment.
Men MUST be nude.
Women must NOT be nude.
Women have the freedom to ogle, touch, tease, pinch, slap, play with or ignore the men.
Women should not allow the men to have an orgasm, masturbate, or even touch themselves.
A man may not touch any woman without explicit consent from her.
Men and women should drink, laugh, chat, and have fun like they would at any other party
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Might be easier to have a party and organise a few male strippers
Do irish male strippers take off everything |
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By *B 4099Man
over a year ago
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The ratio of men to women here is already quite large, and women complain about dick pics etc. (Its not a pretty appendage let's face it), so unless they have a great body and want to show it off, I can't see there being a queue of men wanting to go to a party naked for the night. I'm not sure what they would get from it bar the social aspect. But that could be done with either a fully naked party (no play) or a fully clothed party. |
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"This might be an interesting party idea for when all this settles down.
I came across this from a fetish site, obviously the rules could be tweaked for a more swing friendly crowd but I (the male half) thought this was quite tantalising
For anyone who doesn't understand the acronym CFNM is 'Clothed Female Nude Male'
A “CFNM” party.
The rules are simple:
The party is not a “sex party”. The main focus is that women are to relax and enjoy themselves.
The men are only there for the women’s enjoyment.
Men MUST be nude.
Women must NOT be nude.
Women have the freedom to ogle, touch, tease, pinch, slap, play with or ignore the men.
Women should not allow the men to have an orgasm, masturbate, or even touch themselves.
A man may not touch any woman without explicit consent from her.
Men and women should drink, laugh, chat, and have fun like they would at any other party
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This gets my vote  up to the men not being able to cum part. i think they should be allowed to cum if thats what the women attending want. Defo a big no to any degradation, i would not like to be a part of that. I quite like the idea of the party tho. Sick of going to parties where the women are expected to change into lingerie before fun starts. Ive suggested many times the men get into their undies first but theres never any takers!! |
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"Can't see too many self respecting males queuing up for this one 
These are great fun, I’ve done these before, and on the night the ladies make up their own rules!
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I confirm it is really a great fun, especially knowing that we ladies can setup a certain rules for every type of a man (straight, bisexual, etc) but all of men have no idea what to expect.
Im not talking about humiliation. 
Not my kink. |
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"Can't see too many self respecting males queuing up for this one
These are great fun, I’ve done these before, and on the night the ladies make up their own rules!
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Yeah, I'd imagine that's what would happen. Anyone talking about humiliation is taking the fetish way too seriously.
The onus is usually 90% on the females to strip down first at parties, so this would turn that on it's head and it would create a completely different power shift.
Also I (male half) am a total exhibitionist  so it appeals to me on that level.
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"Can't see too many self respecting males queuing up for this one
These are great fun, I’ve done these before, and on the night the ladies make up their own rules!
I confirm it is really a great fun, especially knowing that we ladies can setup a certain rules for every type of a man (straight, bisexual, etc) but all of men have no idea what to expect.
Im not talking about humiliation.
Not my kink."
Yeah, that sounds class. No humiliation whatsoever either |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do irish male strippers take off everything "
I've the number for a great painter and decorator that will strip everything in the room.
In terms of this party, I'm not sure how enjoyable or relaxing it would be when there are already a list of rules with people stating there will be even more rules on the night  Good luck with it though |
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By *-ManMan
over a year ago
Kark |
Leaving aside the humiliation side of things....I think this is hot on the denial side. The antisapation of not knowing who will do what to whom. Would the male ever get to cum or even forced to cum multiple times? Forced (albeit consensually) to do/wear/say things that don't normally come naturally to males, could be fun with the right people |
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Love idea & by amount of messages ill clean your house in nip & please you but you cant touch me offers ive had I can see lots of lads up for it. Self denial real turn on for loads Ive been talking to of recent.
Please count me in. |
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By *DSGCouple
over a year ago
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"Love idea & by amount of messages ill clean your house in nip & please you but you cant touch me offers ive had I can see lots of lads up for it. Self denial real turn on for loads Ive been talking to of recent.
Please count me in."
If she's going,I'm going
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It's kinda cool that there is a somewhat positive reaction to this, I thought I was one of the only guys to watch CFNM porn ha.
Again, I'm not interested in the humiliation side of things (I feel this needs to be emphasised)
it would be more about being objectified as a man, that's the real kick, for me anyway.
I'd consider organising a party but it wouldn't be until next year with all things considered, kids and vulnerable relatives and such means we are pretty cautious. |
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"This might be an interesting party idea for when all this settles down.
I came across this from a fetish site, obviously the rules could be tweaked for a more swing friendly crowd but I (the male half) thought this was quite tantalising
For anyone who doesn't understand the acronym CFNM is 'Clothed Female Nude Male'
A “CFNM” party.
The rules are simple:
The party is not a “sex party”. The main focus is that women are to relax and enjoy themselves.
The men are only there for the women’s enjoyment.
Men MUST be nude.
Women must NOT be nude.
Women have the freedom to ogle, touch, tease, pinch, slap, play with or ignore the men.
Women should not allow the men to have an orgasm, masturbate, or even touch themselves.
A man may not touch any woman without explicit consent from her.
Men and women should drink, laugh, chat, and have fun like they would at any other party
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When is this on then so |
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over a year ago
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Ohh hell yes that would be amazing even better with you guys.
I done it at a party years ago we where kinda nude butlers for the lady's. While they teased us.
And there was lots of play an the men did cum eventually. Ohh the memories of it |
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Rather than blindly saying you'd like to attend would it not be a better idea checking to see if you fall within the ops criteria?
You will only be able to attend if you are a couple and under the age of 35. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I was the naked butler at a women only party in malahide in Dublin two years. It was excellent fun. I was spanked whipped poked and prodded in between serving food and drinks. I played when the party was over with a fab girl that I had met previously. I really enjoyed it and serving drinks with an erection is fun |
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over a year ago
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"I kinda thought these were mostly faked/staged.. with Sub men as the target audience. "
I thought they were fake too. Do these sorts of meets actually happen? If they do, they could be v fun.
(When it's all safe again, of course.) |
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"I have been to a few cfnm parties, mainly hen parties or girly nights in.. so do eexist.. just very hard to find lol"
Those are more novelty/cringe events designed more to embarrass someone than anything else aren't they? |
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"I have been to a few cfnm parties, mainly hen parties or girly nights in.. so do eexist.. just very hard to find lol
Those are more novelty/cringe events designed more to embarrass someone than anything else aren't they? "
Generally they dont aim to embarrass.. the hen parties are more into a see a naked man whilst the girly night-in are more for the women too have control, as strip me naked and play at their whims. Great fun, you should come along ;p |
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This sounds like great fun! Sign me up you’ll definitely see me on the dance floor 
