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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Since meeting has been off the table, I've found a new way to have fun in choosing and gifting lingerie to some Fab friends. In return they've been sending me photos of themselves wearing the outfits, and in one case, I got to peek through their window as they showed it off for me 
Anyone else enjoy choosing and buying lingerie for people, or been doing something similar through lockdown? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well it's wonderful that you and your friends have found a way to have fun during the lockdown.
I personally buy my own lingerie as I have expensive taste in knickers |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Did that sound cute in your head as it came out a little creepy when you mentioned looking in the window lol  "
haha yes I was invited over for a socially distanced way to see it in person |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a friend who buys me heels in return for photos and a video of me walking In the heels . Videoed from the knee down
Definitely a win win situation |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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"Every day is a school day on here for me
How much can a pair of Knickers cost or is it one of those things that's not talked about.
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How long is a piece of string BM. They can greatly vary from 99p to over £100. Personally I'd never pay massive money for it. Even though some of the expensive lingerie is lovely I couldn't personally justify paying it lol |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"Every day is a school day on here for me
How much can a pair of Knickers cost or is it one of those things that's not talked about.
How long is a piece of string BM. They can greatly vary from 99p to over £100. Personally I'd never pay massive money for it. Even though some of the expensive lingerie is lovely I couldn't personally justify paying it lol "
Note to Self....dont rip any knickers off anyone unless I've checked the label |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
"Anyone else find this a bit creepy?"
Not creepy just not my thing. I wouldn't want someone I don't know intimately buying me lingerie. Even then it would want to be someone I know really well.
But different strokes for different folks it would be boring if we all thought alike. |
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"Anyone else find this a bit creepy?
Not creepy just not my thing. I wouldn't want someone I don't know intimately buying me lingerie. Even then it would want to be someone I know really well.
But different strokes for different folks it would be boring if we all thought alike. "
Definitely boring if we were all the same. Wouldn't like someone to choose my lingerie. But that's probably the control freak in me. Now diamonds....that's a different story. |
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"Not exactly creepy but just don't get buying complete strangers lingerie 
But he says they're friends as does Madhatter so not really strangers are they."
I have lots of Fab friends as the OP called them. Maybe it's a Monday thing. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
"Anyone else find this a bit creepy?
Not creepy just not my thing. I wouldn't want someone I don't know intimately buying me lingerie. Even then it would want to be someone I know really well.
But different strokes for different folks it would be boring if we all thought alike.
Definitely boring if we were all the same. Wouldn't like someone to choose my lingerie. But that's probably the control freak in me. Now diamonds....that's a different story."
Ye I like buying my own lingerie as well. You can never have too much I hope
Diamonds well I'd be too scared I'd lose them lol |
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OP sorry if I've come across as bitchy. Once the person knows your looking through their window I guess it as ok.
Ps..... make sure your fab friends are on the bottom floor if they live in an apartment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd a fuck buddy who used to buy me sexy dress up outfits on Love honey and he'd have them sent to my workplace. I'm sure the caretaker used to be dying to have xray vision does the guy with the shoe fetish happen to shop in Christian Louibiton by any chance??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd a fuck buddy who used to buy me sexy dress up outfits on Love honey and he'd have them sent to my workplace. I'm sure the caretaker used to be dying to have xray vision does the guy with the shoe fetish happen to shop in Christian Louibiton by any chance??? "
No ... Public desire Or dollskill mainly . Bad ass heels |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Every day is a school day on here for me
How much can a pair of Knickers cost or is it one of those things that's not talked about.
How long is a piece of string BM. They can greatly vary from 99p to over £100. Personally I'd never pay massive money for it. Even though some of the expensive lingerie is lovely I couldn't personally justify paying it lol
Note to Self....dont rip any knickers off anyone unless I've checked the label"
No problem having my Penny's knickers ripped off but not my beloved Honey Birdette ones |
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"Since meeting has been off the table, I've found a new way to have fun in choosing and gifting lingerie to some Fab friends. In return they've been sending me photos of themselves wearing the outfits, and in one case, I got to peek through their window as they showed it off for me
Anyone else enjoy choosing and buying lingerie for people, or been doing something similar through lockdown?"
I guess we all have our preferences great way to empty your bank account tho  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have over 4 boxes of lingerie thAt I have bought myself. Was recently gifted a beautiful camisole top by a friend from fab, and I thought it was a lovely gesture.
If I had the figure and could afford some of the beautiful stuff available online I'd have a few boxes of stuff. |
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"Have over 4 boxes of lingerie thAt I have bought myself. Was recently gifted a beautiful camisole top by a friend from fab, and I thought it was a lovely gesture.
If I had the figure and could afford some of the beautiful stuff available online I'd have a few boxes of stuff."
Your gorgeous Devine, love your lingerie |
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"Since meeting has been off the table, I've found a new way to have fun in choosing and gifting lingerie to some Fab friends. In return they've been sending me photos of themselves wearing the outfits, and in one case, I got to peek through their window as they showed it off for me
Anyone else enjoy choosing and buying lingerie for people, or been doing something similar through lockdown?"
Have done the love honey gift card with a fabber, they send the code and I picked something I liked and sent photos... win win |
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"Have over 4 boxes of lingerie thAt I have bought myself. Was recently gifted a beautiful camisole top by a friend from fab, and I thought it was a lovely gesture.
If I had the figure and could afford some of the beautiful stuff available online I'd have a few boxes of stuff."
oh stop the honey birdette stuff is amazing but im not buying anything from there till i skinny down
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have over 4 boxes of lingerie thAt I have bought myself. Was recently gifted a beautiful camisole top by a friend from fab, and I thought it was a lovely gesture.
If I had the figure and could afford some of the beautiful stuff available online I'd have a few boxes of stuff.
Your gorgeous Devine, love your lingerie "
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"If there's any wimin here willing to buy me jocks I'd gladly leave me curtains open while i sahay around me gaff if your lucky i might even take to rubbing that oil on me self u know so I glisten
Oh now CJ you're just teasing us all now
Is that u shaking the bushes out there
I thought I was well camouflaged "
Did you buy your lingerie in the army/ navy store? |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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"If there's any wimin here willing to buy me jocks I'd gladly leave me curtains open while i sahay around me gaff if your lucky i might even take to rubbing that oil on me self u know so I glisten
Oh now CJ you're just teasing us all now
Is that u shaking the bushes out there
I thought I was well camouflaged
Did you buy your lingerie in the army/ navy store? "
Well it has been known to do a disappearing act at times 
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"If there's any wimin here willing to buy me jocks I'd gladly leave me curtains open while i sahay around me gaff if your lucky i might even take to rubbing that oil on me self u know so I glisten
Oh now CJ you're just teasing us all now
Is that u shaking the bushes out there
I thought I was well camouflaged
Did you buy your lingerie in the army/ navy store?
Well it has been known to do a disappearing act at times
Smart ass "
Thank you. I must stop bending over |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If there's any wimin here willing to buy me jocks I'd gladly leave me curtains open while i sahay around me gaff if your lucky i might even take to rubbing that oil on me self u know so I glisten
Does wd40 shine or glisten? 
Jayus no WD40 is a release agent i was thinking that coconut oil sur I'd be smelling delicious as well as glistening "
Oh coconut oil could be dangerous , I hear some women like to lick it off men |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"If there's any wimin here willing to buy me jocks I'd gladly leave me curtains open while i sahay around me gaff if your lucky i might even take to rubbing that oil on me self u know so I glisten
Does wd40 shine or glisten?
Jayus no WD40 is a release agent i was thinking that coconut oil sur I'd be smelling delicious as well as glistening
Oh coconut oil could be dangerous , I hear some women like to lick it off men"
Takes note to keep a Bounty Bar in the car |
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By *1CorkCouple
over a year ago
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Late to this but must admit the thread isn’t at all what we were expecting.
We’ve received the odd mail in the past from men offering cash for used underwear (hers!) but didn’t think it in the spirit of mutual sexual enjoyment to enter into a monetary exchange for satisfying someone’s desires - just not what motivates us to be here. If the idea of someone getting off sniffing her knickers excited us, we’d be posting them for free.
Are we wrong to equate the above scenario with a man buying gifts (lingerie or shoes) for a woman in return for photos or videos? It seems a bit transactional to us, although more barter system based rather than monetary exchange. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Late to this but must admit the thread isn’t at all what we were expecting.
We’ve received the odd mail in the past from men offering cash for used underwear (hers!) but didn’t think it in the spirit of mutual sexual enjoyment to enter into a monetary exchange for satisfying someone’s desires - just not what motivates us to be here. If the idea of someone getting off sniffing her knickers excited us, we’d be posting them for free.
Are we wrong to equate the above scenario with a man buying gifts (lingerie or shoes) for a woman in return for photos or videos? It seems a bit transactional to us, although more barter system based rather than monetary exchange."
The pieces of underwear I were bought were a lovely gesture, no photos or any monetary gain , I had mentioned I had never been bought anything by a guy. And there was no ulterior motive in it.
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By *1CorkCouple
over a year ago
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"The pieces of underwear I were bought were a lovely gesture, no photos or any monetary gain , I had mentioned I had never been bought anything by a guy. And there was no ulterior motive in it.
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Obviously a myriad of different scenarios, the situation you described appears different to some of the other gift/photo exchange scenarios outlined, and we’re certainly not judging anyone for gifting or for any reciprocal titillation - everyone is, or you would assume, a responsible consenting adult*
* if not acquainted or familiar with the ‘giftee’ maybe a caution about obsession (addiction?) to this activity and not knowing the financial capacity of the individual to support the ‘habit’ or others (family members) who may be impacted by the financial outlay - lingerie and shoes can be quite expensive and who knows how many women may be receiving similar gifts from the same man. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Late to this but must admit the thread isn’t at all what we were expecting.
We’ve received the odd mail in the past from men offering cash for used underwear (hers!) but didn’t think it in the spirit of mutual sexual enjoyment to enter into a monetary exchange for satisfying someone’s desires - just not what motivates us to be here. If the idea of someone getting off sniffing her knickers excited us, we’d be posting them for free.
Are we wrong to equate the above scenario with a man buying gifts (lingerie or shoes) for a woman in return for photos or videos? It seems a bit transactional to us, although more barter system based rather than monetary exchange."
Mightn’t be mrs hatter that’s being gifted the heels lol
But it’s Consenting adults blah blah blah At the end of the day
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The pieces of underwear I were bought were a lovely gesture, no photos or any monetary gain , I had mentioned I had never been bought anything by a guy. And there was no ulterior motive in it.
Obviously a myriad of different scenarios, the situation you described appears different to some of the other gift/photo exchange scenarios outlined, and we’re certainly not judging anyone for gifting or for any reciprocal titillation - everyone is, or you would assume, a responsible consenting adult*
* if not acquainted or familiar with the ‘giftee’ maybe a caution about obsession (addiction?) to this activity and not knowing the financial capacity of the individual to support the ‘habit’ or others (family members) who may be impacted by the financial outlay - lingerie and shoes can be quite expensive and who knows how many women may be receiving similar gifts from the same man."
Crikey I was bought two pieces from the high street hardly broke the bank |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I purchased a nice red two piece French lace for a fab lady. The girls in the store were really nice to me. The lady who received the present was smiling |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Every day is a school day on here for me
How much can a pair of Knickers cost or is it one of those things that's not talked about.
How long is a piece of string BM. They can greatly vary from 99p to over £100. Personally I'd never pay massive money for it. Even though some of the expensive lingerie is lovely I couldn't personally justify paying it lol
Note to Self....dont rip any knickers off anyone unless I've checked the label"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Since meeting has been off the table, I've found a new way to have fun in choosing and gifting lingerie to some Fab friends. In return they've been sending me photos of themselves wearing the outfits, and in one case, I got to peek through their window as they showed it off for me
Anyone else enjoy choosing and buying lingerie for people, or been doing something similar through lockdown?"
I love buying lingerie for myself |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The pieces of underwear I were bought were a lovely gesture, no photos or any monetary gain , I had mentioned I had never been bought anything by a guy. And there was no ulterior motive in it.
Obviously a myriad of different scenarios, the situation you described appears different to some of the other gift/photo exchange scenarios outlined, and we’re certainly not judging anyone for gifting or for any reciprocal titillation - everyone is, or you would assume, a responsible consenting adult*
* if not acquainted or familiar with the ‘giftee’ maybe a caution about obsession (addiction?) to this activity and not knowing the financial capacity of the individual to support the ‘habit’ or others (family members) who may be impacted by the financial outlay - lingerie and shoes can be quite expensive and who knows how many women may be receiving similar gifts from the same man.
Crikey I was bought two pieces from the high street hardly broke the bank "
Think you missed the point.....if it is his thing, he could be buying for a few ladies at the same time |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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"The pieces of underwear I were bought were a lovely gesture, no photos or any monetary gain , I had mentioned I had never been bought anything by a guy. And there was no ulterior motive in it.
Obviously a myriad of different scenarios, the situation you described appears different to some of the other gift/photo exchange scenarios outlined, and we’re certainly not judging anyone for gifting or for any reciprocal titillation - everyone is, or you would assume, a responsible consenting adult*
* if not acquainted or familiar with the ‘giftee’ maybe a caution about obsession (addiction?) to this activity and not knowing the financial capacity of the individual to support the ‘habit’ or others (family members) who may be impacted by the financial outlay - lingerie and shoes can be quite expensive and who knows how many women may be receiving similar gifts from the same man.
Crikey I was bought two pieces from the high street hardly broke the bank
Think you missed the point.....if it is his thing, he could be buying for a few ladies at the same time "
Why is that her issue tho. That's his. I think she sees the point perfectly well. She is the person who was actually in contact with the guy. |
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By *1CorkCouple
over a year ago
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Our observations on the giving and receiving of gifts for sexual engagement of some sort aren’t based on any particular case raised in this thread and we acknowledge that factors such as the familiarity between parties, the affordability of the gift etc come into play.
We do think there is a responsibility (duty of care) on the woman receiving unsolicited gifts or soliciting particular gifts, as it’s obvious from the numbers on the site and cursory reading of the forums that women (single and in couples) are in powerful position. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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"Our observations on the giving and receiving of gifts for sexual engagement of some sort aren’t based on any particular case raised in this thread and we acknowledge that factors such as the familiarity between parties, the affordability of the gift etc come into play.
We do think there is a responsibility (duty of care) on the woman receiving unsolicited gifts or soliciting particular gifts, as it’s obvious from the numbers on the site and cursory reading of the forums that women (single and in couples) are in powerful position."
Not every gift is for some sort of sexual engagement
Everyone on here is an adult and should be responsible for their own actions without having to take responsibility for others as well. Yes there are women on here who ask for gifts etc and if guys want to buy them gifts that is their perogative. Just like their are guys on here who think offering gifts or money will get them somewhere. That is also entirely up to them.
And no I don't fall under either catagory. I personally buy my own lingerie. I will go halfs on hotels etc. Anyone sending me messages offering me gifts or money gets deleted and a note on their profile saying to avoid.
Women have more choice due to the ratio of men to women on here yes. But more power no. Someone can only have that if others allow them to. |
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By *1CorkCouple
over a year ago
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We’re in same category with regards to the non acceptance of gifts of a monetary value for any sexual engagement or none.
We differ on the age old question of personal responsibility as we believe there are vulnerable people that can be taken advantage of and people who simply lack self control. Just our view and we accept there are many others on this topic more generally.
To be a total killjoy about this activity, there is quite possibly predatory men on here who may use the enticement of a nice gift to secure addresses... just an addition to a long list of pitfalls that women need to be wary of when engaging with persons online. |
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By *B 4099Man
over a year ago
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I don't think I could buy lingerie for someone else, fir a few reasons, 1. I would get it all wrong. 2. I would feel like Homer when he buys Marge a bowling ball in the Simpsons. 3. Would still get it wrong.
I would if it were with someone and we were meeting regularly and we shopped for it together. Not out of any personal motivation, I personally an not a huge fan, (I prefer the naked body) but I understand it would be just a present no big deal. Could never buy anything for a stranger clothing wise. I have no judge of size and wouldn't want to offend. And wouldn't want to in general. |
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By *B 4099Man
over a year ago
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"Remind me never to accept a gift again from anyone cause obviously they aren't of a sound mind and I'm only taking advantage of them ffs.
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If its given in good spirit with good intentions isn't that the point of every gift? Wouldn't worry about it. |
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By *1CorkCouple
over a year ago
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"Remind me never to accept a gift again from anyone cause obviously they aren't of a sound mind and I'm only taking advantage of them ffs.
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Your choice if you want to miss the point and to use your particular arrangement to debunk any general points.... I occasionally bet on horses without trouble so there can’t be such a thing as a gambling addiction eh.
Personally speaking, the motivations, potential personality defects and financial capacity of men offering to buy gifts in return for sexual material or engagement isn’t at all the primary reason why we’d stay clear of these arrangements.
It’s a personal choice, but we’ll sustain our own lingerie drawer and will try and bring sexual satisfaction to our friends free of charge - just our choice and we’re comfortable with it, not asking you to agree, mock us away if you like. |
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"Remind me never to accept a gift again from anyone cause obviously they aren't of a sound mind and I'm only taking advantage of them ffs.
Your choice if you want to miss the point and to use your particular arrangement to debunk any general points.... I occasionally bet on horses without trouble so there can’t be such a thing as a gambling addiction eh.
Personally speaking, the motivations, potential personality defects and financial capacity of men offering to buy gifts in return for sexual material or engagement isn’t at all the primary reason why we’d stay clear of these arrangements.
It’s a personal choice, but we’ll sustain our own lingerie drawer and will try and bring sexual satisfaction to our friends free of charge - just our choice and we’re comfortable with it, not asking you to agree, mock us away if you like."
First off I don't think I mocked anyone on this thread or ever on the forums.
There was no arrangement or exchange for said gift. Sexual or otherwise.
And at 46 it is the only piece of lingerie any guy has EVER bought me, I never had a guy but me flowers either.
All lingerie, underwear or anything else I buy I have bought myself.
If I meet for a coffee I buy my own, any time I've stayed in a hotel I've paid for my half off same.
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By *1CorkCouple
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"Remind me never to accept a gift again from anyone cause obviously they aren't of a sound mind and I'm only taking advantage of them ffs.
Your choice if you want to miss the point and to use your particular arrangement to debunk any general points.... I occasionally bet on horses without trouble so there can’t be such a thing as a gambling addiction eh.
Personally speaking, the motivations, potential personality defects and financial capacity of men offering to buy gifts in return for sexual material or engagement isn’t at all the primary reason why we’d stay clear of these arrangements.
It’s a personal choice, but we’ll sustain our own lingerie drawer and will try and bring sexual satisfaction to our friends free of charge - just our choice and we’re comfortable with it, not asking you to agree, mock us away if you like.
First off I don't think I mocked anyone on this thread or ever on the forums.
There was no arrangement or exchange for said gift. Sexual or otherwise.
And at 46 it is the only piece of lingerie any guy has EVER bought me, I never had a guy but me flowers either.
All lingerie, underwear or anything else I buy I have bought myself.
If I meet for a coffee I buy my own, any time I've stayed in a hotel I've paid for my half off same.
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Apologies. You mocked our point rather than us. Happy to clarify.
Again, and sorry for repeating, we are not commenting on, or interested in, the specifics in your, or anyone else’s, particular case of giving or receiving gifts.
Just offering our two cents on the general principal of men buying gifts in return for sexual material or engagement. This is what we read as the topic of the thread. Are we reading it wrong? |
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"Remind me never to accept a gift again from anyone cause obviously they aren't of a sound mind and I'm only taking advantage of them ffs.
Your choice if you want to miss the point and to use your particular arrangement to debunk any general points.... I occasionally bet on horses without trouble so there can’t be such a thing as a gambling addiction eh.
Personally speaking, the motivations, potential personality defects and financial capacity of men offering to buy gifts in return for sexual material or engagement isn’t at all the primary reason why we’d stay clear of these arrangements.
It’s a personal choice, but we’ll sustain our own lingerie drawer and will try and bring sexual satisfaction to our friends free of charge - just our choice and we’re comfortable with it, not asking you to agree, mock us away if you like.
First off I don't think I mocked anyone on this thread or ever on the forums.
There was no arrangement or exchange for said gift. Sexual or otherwise.
And at 46 it is the only piece of lingerie any guy has EVER bought me, I never had a guy but me flowers either.
All lingerie, underwear or anything else I buy I have bought myself.
If I meet for a coffee I buy my own, any time I've stayed in a hotel I've paid for my half off same.
Apologies. You mocked our point rather than us. Happy to clarify.
Again, and sorry for repeating, we are not commenting on, or interested in, the specifics in your, or anyone else’s, particular case of giving or receiving gifts.
Just offering our two cents on the general principal of men buying gifts in return for sexual material or engagement. This is what we read as the topic of the thread. Are we reading it wrong?"
If your comment was in general than why comment under my post.and I didn't mock anyone's point. Way I see it everyone is here for different reasons, everyone uses fab differently and treats people differently.
Just because a guy buys a treat for a woman does there have to be a sexual reason behind it? I bought a female fab friend a pair of nipple tassles for no other reason than to make her laugh. |
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By *1CorkCouple
over a year ago
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"Remind me never to accept a gift again from anyone cause obviously they aren't of a sound mind and I'm only taking advantage of them ffs.
Your choice if you want to miss the point and to use your particular arrangement to debunk any general points.... I occasionally bet on horses without trouble so there can’t be such a thing as a gambling addiction eh.
Personally speaking, the motivations, potential personality defects and financial capacity of men offering to buy gifts in return for sexual material or engagement isn’t at all the primary reason why we’d stay clear of these arrangements.
It’s a personal choice, but we’ll sustain our own lingerie drawer and will try and bring sexual satisfaction to our friends free of charge - just our choice and we’re comfortable with it, not asking you to agree, mock us away if you like.
First off I don't think I mocked anyone on this thread or ever on the forums.
There was no arrangement or exchange for said gift. Sexual or otherwise.
And at 46 it is the only piece of lingerie any guy has EVER bought me, I never had a guy but me flowers either.
All lingerie, underwear or anything else I buy I have bought myself.
If I meet for a coffee I buy my own, any time I've stayed in a hotel I've paid for my half off same.
Apologies. You mocked our point rather than us. Happy to clarify.
Again, and sorry for repeating, we are not commenting on, or interested in, the specifics in your, or anyone else’s, particular case of giving or receiving gifts.
Just offering our two cents on the general principal of men buying gifts in return for sexual material or engagement. This is what we read as the topic of the thread. Are we reading it wrong?
If your comment was in general than why comment under my post.and I didn't mock anyone's point. Way I see it everyone is here for different reasons, everyone uses fab differently and treats people differently.
Just because a guy buys a treat for a woman does there have to be a sexual reason behind it? I bought a female fab friend a pair of nipple tassles for no other reason than to make her laugh."
Think you might want to re-read our response to you where you clarified that your gift was not in exchange for photos or videos as set out by others (and what appears to be the theme of the thread). If we incorrectly interpreted your sarcasm about “taking advantage” of men who “aren’t of sound mind”, then we apologise.
You are more than correct in that there doesn’t have to be a sexual reason for a man to treat a woman but it’s the offering and/or canvassing of gifts for a sexual reason that many posters referenced and we were commenting on. It’s also a sex website, so fair to assume there is a sexual dimension to gifts offered through this medium. Maybe we’re wrong in that assumption. |
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"Remind me never to accept a gift again from anyone cause obviously they aren't of a sound mind and I'm only taking advantage of them ffs.
Your choice if you want to miss the point and to use your particular arrangement to debunk any general points.... I occasionally bet on horses without trouble so there can’t be such a thing as a gambling addiction eh.
Personally speaking, the motivations, potential personality defects and financial capacity of men offering to buy gifts in return for sexual material or engagement isn’t at all the primary reason why we’d stay clear of these arrangements.
It’s a personal choice, but we’ll sustain our own lingerie drawer and will try and bring sexual satisfaction to our friends free of charge - just our choice and we’re comfortable with it, not asking you to agree, mock us away if you like.
First off I don't think I mocked anyone on this thread or ever on the forums.
There was no arrangement or exchange for said gift. Sexual or otherwise.
And at 46 it is the only piece of lingerie any guy has EVER bought me, I never had a guy but me flowers either.
All lingerie, underwear or anything else I buy I have bought myself.
If I meet for a coffee I buy my own, any time I've stayed in a hotel I've paid for my half off same.
Apologies. You mocked our point rather than us. Happy to clarify.
Again, and sorry for repeating, we are not commenting on, or interested in, the specifics in your, or anyone else’s, particular case of giving or receiving gifts.
Just offering our two cents on the general principal of men buying gifts in return for sexual material or engagement. This is what we read as the topic of the thread. Are we reading it wrong?
If your comment was in general than why comment under my post.and I didn't mock anyone's point. Way I see it everyone is here for different reasons, everyone uses fab differently and treats people differently.
Just because a guy buys a treat for a woman does there have to be a sexual reason behind it? I bought a female fab friend a pair of nipple tassles for no other reason than to make her laugh.
Think you might want to re-read our response to you where you clarified that your gift was not in exchange for photos or videos as set out by others (and what appears to be the theme of the thread). If we incorrectly interpreted your sarcasm about “taking advantage” of men who “aren’t of sound mind”, then we apologise.
You are more than correct in that there doesn’t have to be a sexual reason for a man to treat a woman but it’s the offering and/or canvassing of gifts for a sexual reason that many posters referenced and we were commenting on. It’s also a sex website, so fair to assume there is a sexual dimension to gifts offered through this medium. Maybe we’re wrong in that assumption."
My comment about "taking advantage" was more along the lines don't tar us all with the same brush and I made that comment as a flippant statement. Not been sarcastic or mocking.
Yes it's a sex site and I'm sure there is plenty of exchanged of gifts and cash etc
The point I tried to make was mine was a genuine gift with no reason other than a person been nice and as I have said before no-one has ever treated me to a gift like that in life.
And yes I'm sure plenty get gifts for sexual satisfaction etc and good luck to them.
Let's just leave it at that. I know personally the thought or gesture behind mine was a decent guy been nice. Which unfortunately is quite rare.
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"So it's quite rare for a guy to do something nice???
That's a poor reflection on your friend's and accomplices but don't tar us all with the same brush."
Accomplices?
My friends are all lovely  and have met some decent guys here but have also taken my fair share of abuse from guys too.
It's actually getting to the stage here where can't post anything but someone has to have a dig or point a flaw out. |
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By *orguyMan
over a year ago
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"So it's quite rare for a guy to do something nice???
That's a poor reflection on your friend's and accomplices but don't tar us all with the same brush.
Accomplices?
My friends are all lovely and have met some decent guys here but have also taken my fair share of abuse from guys too.
It's actually getting to the stage here where can't post anything but someone has to have a dig or point a flaw out. "
Well you're just after having a dig at men saying it's quite rare for them to do something nice. Maybe look at what you're posting instead of the replies.
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"So it's quite rare for a guy to do something nice???
That's a poor reflection on your friend's and accomplices but don't tar us all with the same brush.
Accomplices?
My friends are all lovely and have met some decent guys here but have also taken my fair share of abuse from guys too.
It's actually getting to the stage here where can't post anything but someone has to have a dig or point a flaw out.
Well you're just after having a dig at men saying it's quite rare for them to do something nice. Maybe look at what you're posting instead of the replies.
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By *orguyMan
over a year ago
Tuam |
"So it's quite rare for a guy to do something nice???
That's a poor reflection on your friend's and accomplices but don't tar us all with the same brush.
Accomplices?
My friends are all lovely and have met some decent guys here but have also taken my fair share of abuse from guys too.
It's actually getting to the stage here where can't post anything but someone has to have a dig or point a flaw out.
Well you're just after having a dig at men saying it's quite rare for them to do something nice. Maybe look at what you're posting instead of the replies.
Thanks for the advice. Will take on board "
No need to buy me anything in return for the advice |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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"So it's quite rare for a guy to do something nice???
That's a poor reflection on your friend's and accomplices but don't tar us all with the same brush.
Accomplices?
My friends are all lovely and have met some decent guys here but have also taken my fair share of abuse from guys too.
It's actually getting to the stage here where can't post anything but someone has to have a dig or point a flaw out.
Well you're just after having a dig at men saying it's quite rare for them to do something nice. Maybe look at what you're posting instead of the replies.
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And maybe that is DDs experience on here as well. She also said that the guy who sent her the gift was a decent guy.And that she has had some great meets.
And to be fair her comment on here seems to be the only one that people replied negative on. Even if it wasn't meant to be a direct reply to her. When all she said initially was that she had gotten one nice gift.  |
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By *orguyMan
over a year ago
Tuam |
"So it's quite rare for a guy to do something nice???
That's a poor reflection on your friend's and accomplices but don't tar us all with the same brush.
Accomplices?
My friends are all lovely and have met some decent guys here but have also taken my fair share of abuse from guys too.
It's actually getting to the stage here where can't post anything but someone has to have a dig or point a flaw out.
Well you're just after having a dig at men saying it's quite rare for them to do something nice. Maybe look at what you're posting instead of the replies.
And maybe that is DDs experience on here as well. She also said that the guy who sent her the gift was a decent guy.And that she has had some great meets.
And to be fair her comment on here seems to be the only one that people replied negative on. Even if it wasn't meant to be a direct reply to her. When all she said initially was that she had gotten one nice gift. "
We all have good and bad experiences on and off of Fab, but there's no need to tar all men with the one brush and be so negative. There are good and bad in both genders. |
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"So it's quite rare for a guy to do something nice???
That's a poor reflection on your friend's and accomplices but don't tar us all with the same brush.
Accomplices?
My friends are all lovely and have met some decent guys here but have also taken my fair share of abuse from guys too.
It's actually getting to the stage here where can't post anything but someone has to have a dig or point a flaw out.
Well you're just after having a dig at men saying it's quite rare for them to do something nice. Maybe look at what you're posting instead of the replies.
And maybe that is DDs experience on here as well. She also said that the guy who sent her the gift was a decent guy.And that she has had some great meets.
And to be fair her comment on here seems to be the only one that people replied negative on. Even if it wasn't meant to be a direct reply to her. When all she said initially was that she had gotten one nice gift.
We all have good and bad experiences on and off of Fab, but there's no need to tar all men with the one brush and be so negative. There are good and bad in both genders. "
And I did say take back my comment and said that I have met some lovely guys and gals here and thankfully have made some wonderful friends. Can we just leave it now. Been a shitty day for me as it is. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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"So it's quite rare for a guy to do something nice???
That's a poor reflection on your friend's and accomplices but don't tar us all with the same brush.
Accomplices?
My friends are all lovely and have met some decent guys here but have also taken my fair share of abuse from guys too.
It's actually getting to the stage here where can't post anything but someone has to have a dig or point a flaw out.
Well you're just after having a dig at men saying it's quite rare for them to do something nice. Maybe look at what you're posting instead of the replies.
And maybe that is DDs experience on here as well. She also said that the guy who sent her the gift was a decent guy.And that she has had some great meets.
And to be fair her comment on here seems to be the only one that people replied negative on. Even if it wasn't meant to be a direct reply to her. When all she said initially was that she had gotten one nice gift.
We all have good and bad experiences on and off of Fab, but there's no need to tar all men with the one brush and be so negative. There are good and bad in both genders. "
She didn't tho. In her experience she said it is rare. She also said she had good meets.
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By *orguyMan
over a year ago
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"So it's quite rare for a guy to do something nice???
That's a poor reflection on your friend's and accomplices but don't tar us all with the same brush.
Accomplices?
My friends are all lovely and have met some decent guys here but have also taken my fair share of abuse from guys too.
It's actually getting to the stage here where can't post anything but someone has to have a dig or point a flaw out.
Well you're just after having a dig at men saying it's quite rare for them to do something nice. Maybe look at what you're posting instead of the replies.
And maybe that is DDs experience on here as well. She also said that the guy who sent her the gift was a decent guy.And that she has had some great meets.
And to be fair her comment on here seems to be the only one that people replied negative on. Even if it wasn't meant to be a direct reply to her. When all she said initially was that she had gotten one nice gift.
We all have good and bad experiences on and off of Fab, but there's no need to tar all men with the one brush and be so negative. There are good and bad in both genders.
She didn't tho. In her experience she said it is rare. She also said she had good meets.
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"So it's quite rare for a guy to do something nice???
That's a poor reflection on your friend's and accomplices but don't tar us all with the same brush.
Accomplices?
My friends are all lovely and have met some decent guys here but have also taken my fair share of abuse from guys too.
It's actually getting to the stage here where can't post anything but someone has to have a dig or point a flaw out.
Well you're just after having a dig at men saying it's quite rare for them to do something nice. Maybe look at what you're posting instead of the replies.
And maybe that is DDs experience on here as well. She also said that the guy who sent her the gift was a decent guy.And that she has had some great meets.
And to be fair her comment on here seems to be the only one that people replied negative on. Even if it wasn't meant to be a direct reply to her. When all she said initially was that she had gotten one nice gift.
We all have good and bad experiences on and off of Fab, but there's no need to tar all men with the one brush and be so negative. There are good and bad in both genders.
She didn't tho. In her experience she said it is rare. She also said she had good meets.
You reap what you sow. "
Yep I totally deserve been called a fat cxxt, beached whale, a fake need I go on.
I have already said my apology to above profile who I mocked and I rea what I wow but I can't be accused of been fake or nasty or lie about people on here. Thanks for your advice as said taken under consideration but little bit of advice don't judge someone by someone else opinion of the person. |
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To get back to the original post, I have been looking at lingerie online with a fb during lockdown, it’s a great way of finding out what they like and for them to see what I like. I even sent them an item we both thought we’d enjoy, and it is very teasing to see them in it and not yet get to see it in real life. I can’t wait to get the opportunity when it arises in the near future. |
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