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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has anyone had a chat with someone pics exchaned then nothing back. Dont know what to think then?"
Unfortunately it happens, they may know you, or just not fancy you. Just move on as they say plenty more fish in the pond |
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By *B 4099Man
over a year ago
North West, Outer Letterkenny area |
"Has anyone had a chat with someone pics exchaned then nothing back. Dont know what to think then?"
As in chatting away, things going good, chat of meeting up at some point, pics exchanged, then they disappear? |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"Has anyone had a chat with someone pics exchaned then nothing back. Dont know what to think then?"
It just means they either didnt fancy you or pic collectors
Unfortunately you'll never know why so just move on
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"Yeah few messages things seem good and then nothing back"
have had this happen a couple of times in the last couple of weeks. Im just taking it they arent interested or maybe they feel there is no connection there. Either way im not taking it personally |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah few messages things seem good and then nothing back
have had this happen a couple of times in the last couple of weeks. Im just taking it they arent interested or maybe they feel there is no connection there. Either way im not taking it personally"
I've had one or two and Im guilty of stipping messaging as not sure why they message me when see their veris. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah few messages things seem good and then nothing back"
Do yourself a favour, put it behind you. 
You will never guess what reasons they have for doing it and let's face it, they were and still are strangers.
Not worth confusing yourself over in my humble opinion. |
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By *B 4099Man
over a year ago
North West, Outer Letterkenny area |
"Yeah few messages things seem good and then nothing back
have had this happen a couple of times in the last couple of weeks. Im just taking it they arent interested or maybe they feel there is no connection there. Either way im not taking it personally
I've had one or two and Im guilty of stipping messaging as not sure why they message me when see their veris."
Yeah its happened a few times, was slightly confusing. As you say knowing why would be nice. But its fine.
DD you stop messaging because of veris? Are the veris from men or ? |
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By *ornyfireCouple
over a year ago
Middle Earth |
I know it would be better to know the reason. But I don't like saying sorry I don't fancy you, I have tried to nicely say it to some but they get very shitty so block/ignore has become the easier option. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah few messages things seem good and then nothing back
have had this happen a couple of times in the last couple of weeks. Im just taking it they arent interested or maybe they feel there is no connection there. Either way im not taking it personally
I've had one or two and Im guilty of stipping messaging as not sure why they message me when see their veris.
Yeah its happened a few times, was slightly confusing. As you say knowing why would be nice. But its fine.
DD you stop messaging because of veris? Are the veris from men or ? "
No I look at the women they have met and wonder why they messaging me. |
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By *B 4099Man
over a year ago
North West, Outer Letterkenny area |
"Yeah few messages things seem good and then nothing back
have had this happen a couple of times in the last couple of weeks. Im just taking it they arent interested or maybe they feel there is no connection there. Either way im not taking it personally
I've had one or two and Im guilty of stipping messaging as not sure why they message me when see their veris.
Yeah its happened a few times, was slightly confusing. As you say knowing why would be nice. But its fine.
DD you stop messaging because of veris? Are the veris from men or ?
No I look at the women they have met and wonder why they messaging me. "
Everyone has their reasons, I'm sure they are messaging because the want to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah few messages things seem good and then nothing back
have had this happen a couple of times in the last couple of weeks. Im just taking it they arent interested or maybe they feel there is no connection there. Either way im not taking it personally
I've had one or two and Im guilty of stipping messaging as not sure why they message me when see their veris.
Yeah its happened a few times, was slightly confusing. As you say knowing why would be nice. But its fine.
DD you stop messaging because of veris? Are the veris from men or ?
No I look at the women they have met and wonder why they messaging me.
Everyone has their reasons, I'm sure they are messaging because the want to. "
Nope it's like when I'm out at night and my friends go to the bar and the hot guy in bar comes over to chat while his mates are having a laugh, only one reason he's over to make a smart comment and make a boliix out of me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeah few messages things seem good and then nothing back
have had this happen a couple of times in the last couple of weeks. Im just taking it they arent interested or maybe they feel there is no connection there. Either way im not taking it personally
I've had one or two and Im guilty of stipping messaging as not sure why they message me when see their veris.
Yeah its happened a few times, was slightly confusing. As you say knowing why would be nice. But its fine.
DD you stop messaging because of veris? Are the veris from men or ?
No I look at the women they have met and wonder why they messaging me.
Everyone has their reasons, I'm sure they are messaging because the want to.
Nope it's like when I'm out at night and my friends go to the bar and the hot guy in bar comes over to chat while his mates are having a laugh, only one reason he's over to make a smart comment and make a boliix out of me. "
Are you sure you're reading that situation right?
When I was younger, I used to be friends with a bunch of guys and we all thought we were superhereos in our own underpants... Anyway, someone would go over to a girl and try his luck. The laughter from the rest of the group would be because we would be mocking his chances and guessing which chat up lines he was trying. Was never aimed at the girl. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah few messages things seem good and then nothing back
have had this happen a couple of times in the last couple of weeks. Im just taking it they arent interested or maybe they feel there is no connection there. Either way im not taking it personally
I've had one or two and Im guilty of stipping messaging as not sure why they message me when see their veris.
Yeah its happened a few times, was slightly confusing. As you say knowing why would be nice. But its fine.
DD you stop messaging because of veris? Are the veris from men or ?
No I look at the women they have met and wonder why they messaging me.
Everyone has their reasons, I'm sure they are messaging because the want to.
Nope it's like when I'm out at night and my friends go to the bar and the hot guy in bar comes over to chat while his mates are having a laugh, only one reason he's over to make a smart comment and make a boliix out of me.
Are you sure you're reading that situation right?
When I was younger, I used to be friends with a bunch of guys and we all thought we were superhereos in our own underpants... Anyway, someone would go over to a girl and try his luck. The laughter from the rest of the group would be because we would be mocking his chances and guessing which chat up lines he was trying. Was never aimed at the girl."
Oh it was aimed directly at me. Won't repeat what he said but joys of been the fat girl in the group. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah few messages things seem good and then nothing back
have had this happen a couple of times in the last couple of weeks. Im just taking it they arent interested or maybe they feel there is no connection there. Either way im not taking it personally
I've had one or two and Im guilty of stipping messaging as not sure why they message me when see their veris.
Yeah its happened a few times, was slightly confusing. As you say knowing why would be nice. But its fine.
DD you stop messaging because of veris? Are the veris from men or ?
No I look at the women they have met and wonder why they messaging me.
Everyone has their reasons, I'm sure they are messaging because the want to.
Nope it's like when I'm out at night and my friends go to the bar and the hot guy in bar comes over to chat while his mates are having a laugh, only one reason he's over to make a smart comment and make a boliix out of me.
Are you sure you're reading that situation right?
When I was younger, I used to be friends with a bunch of guys and we all thought we were superhereos in our own underpants... Anyway, someone would go over to a girl and try his luck. The laughter from the rest of the group would be because we would be mocking his chances and guessing which chat up lines he was trying. Was never aimed at the girl.
Oh it was aimed directly at me. Won't repeat what he said but joys of been the fat girl in the group. "
Well sorry to hear it, not going to ask what he said.
I guess it just makes him the hot asshole in the bar. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Face pics and other pics 
I would never send other pics unless i knew them well. "
I would agree with you Building a rapport via pm and when your gut instinct tells you their is a sense of genuine trust a d discretion then a pic exchange should be comfortable. However a lot of females make it clear in their profile no pic no reply. I think its easier to get a vibe of a person at a social than the annomity of profiles. Have had lovely chats with people on a first meet basis in CJs when I was based nearby a few years ago. |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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I always assume that the person has died and with equal parts respect for the dead and my rational rear of zombies I block them. That way whenever I have a party or a meet and greet there will be no undead attending. |
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By *at3232Woman
over a year ago
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"I always assume that the person has died and with equal parts respect for the dead and my rational rear of zombies I block them. That way whenever I have a party or a meet and greet there will be no undead attending."
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"I always assume that the person has died and with equal parts respect for the dead and my rational rear of zombies I block them. That way whenever I have a party or a meet and greet there will be no undead attending."
Best way to do it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah few messages things seem good and then nothing back
have had this happen a couple of times in the last couple of weeks. Im just taking it they arent interested or maybe they feel there is no connection there. Either way im not taking it personally
I've had one or two and Im guilty of stipping messaging as not sure why they message me when see their veris.
Yeah its happened a few times, was slightly confusing. As you say knowing why would be nice. But its fine.
DD you stop messaging because of veris? Are the veris from men or ?
No I look at the women they have met and wonder why they messaging me.
Everyone has their reasons, I'm sure they are messaging because the want to.
Nope it's like when I'm out at night and my friends go to the bar and the hot guy in bar comes over to chat while his mates are having a laugh, only one reason he's over to make a smart comment and make a boliix out of me.
Are you sure you're reading that situation right?
When I was younger, I used to be friends with a bunch of guys and we all thought we were superhereos in our own underpants... Anyway, someone would go over to a girl and try his luck. The laughter from the rest of the group would be because we would be mocking his chances and guessing which chat up lines he was trying. Was never aimed at the girl.
Oh it was aimed directly at me. Won't repeat what he said but joys of been the fat girl in the group. "
That’s absolutely disgusting behaviour . Such nasty schoolboy mentality  |
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"I always assume that the person has died and with equal parts respect for the dead and my rational rear of zombies I block them. That way whenever I have a party or a meet and greet there will be no undead attending."
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"Yeah few messages things seem good and then nothing back
have had this happen a couple of times in the last couple of weeks. Im just taking it they arent interested or maybe they feel there is no connection there. Either way im not taking it personally
I've had one or two and Im guilty of stipping messaging as not sure why they message me when see their veris.
Yeah its happened a few times, was slightly confusing. As you say knowing why would be nice. But its fine.
DD you stop messaging because of veris? Are the veris from men or ?
No I look at the women they have met and wonder why they messaging me.
Everyone has their reasons, I'm sure they are messaging because the want to.
Nope it's like when I'm out at night and my friends go to the bar and the hot guy in bar comes over to chat while his mates are having a laugh, only one reason he's over to make a smart comment and make a boliix out of me.
Are you sure you're reading that situation right?
When I was younger, I used to be friends with a bunch of guys and we all thought we were superhereos in our own underpants... Anyway, someone would go over to a girl and try his luck. The laughter from the rest of the group would be because we would be mocking his chances and guessing which chat up lines he was trying. Was never aimed at the girl.
Oh it was aimed directly at me. Won't repeat what he said but joys of been the fat girl in the group.
That’s absolutely disgusting behaviour . Such nasty schoolboy mentality "
Proves most men and childish idiots. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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"I always assume that the person has died and with equal parts respect for the dead and my rational rear of zombies I block them. That way whenever I have a party or a meet and greet there will be no undead attending."
Good plan |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"I always assume that the person has died and with equal parts respect for the dead and my rational rear of zombies I block them. That way whenever I have a party or a meet and greet there will be no undead attending."
This is genius |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think for some people during the lockdown they aren't chatting as much as they know they can't meet for the considerable future. Also lot of the single parents here like myself have no one to take the kids so can't meet. It kind of puts a dampener on chatting if you know you can't meet. So don't take it personally |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Has anyone had a chat with someone pics exchaned then nothing back. Dont know what to think then?"
More than likely once they see a photo and if they're not physically attracted they just end the conversation or chat there and then ,they mightened even say the are not attracted or maybe you might get a " sorry not interested "....either way ..it's Game over with that person... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Has anyone had a chat with someone pics exchaned then nothing back. Dont know what to think then?"
Pretty much daily at the minute. Although we get shit for it, if we don't find someone attractive we'll say that and roll with the punches, but at least we'll reply (first time) |
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"Has anyone had a chat with someone pics exchaned then nothing back. Dont know what to think then?"
Put a note on the profile and move on.
Plenty of nice people left on Fab for you.
Make sure you remember how you felt and try your best and don't treat someone like that back, when you don't fancy them.
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By (user no longer on site)
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For me one of the biggest chat killers is if a person becomes repetitive: I.e. start every day with "how are you today" and carry on with polite chit chat which has been rehearsed to no end.
Or when a person keeps pushing dirty talk. No bigger turn off than telling someone to stall their horses and they keep going on about how horny this and that is.
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"For me one of the biggest chat killers is if a person becomes repetitive: I.e. start every day with "how are you today" and carry on with polite chit chat which has been rehearsed to no end.
Or when a person keeps pushing dirty talk. No bigger turn off than telling someone to stall their horses and they keep going on about how horny this and that is.
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"For me one of the biggest chat killers is if a person becomes repetitive: I.e. start every day with "how are you today" and carry on with polite chit chat which has been rehearsed to no end.
Or when a person keeps pushing dirty talk. No bigger turn off than telling someone to stall their horses and they keep going on about how horny this and that is.
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But isn’t a horny horse meant to be a Unicorn?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For me one of the biggest chat killers is if a person becomes repetitive: I.e. start every day with "how are you today" and carry on with polite chit chat which has been rehearsed to no end.
Or when a person keeps pushing dirty talk. No bigger turn off than telling someone to stall their horses and they keep going on about how horny this and that is.
But isn’t a horny horse meant to be a Unicorn? "
Depends where the "horn" is sticking out from I suppose |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For me one of the biggest chat killers is if a person becomes repetitive: I.e. start every day with "how are you today" and carry on with polite chit chat which has been rehearsed to no end.
Or when a person keeps pushing dirty talk. No bigger turn off than telling someone to stall their horses and they keep going on about how horny this and that is.
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Oh the minute they move to kik and open with "any naughty pictures" that's the chat killer for me. Yeah hang on and let me don some stockings and lingerie especially for your wank bank. Sure the kids can go hungry more importantly you have something to knock one off over |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For me one of the biggest chat killers is if a person becomes repetitive: I.e. start every day with "how are you today" and carry on with polite chit chat which has been rehearsed to no end.
Or when a person keeps pushing dirty talk. No bigger turn off than telling someone to stall their horses and they keep going on about how horny this and that is.
Oh the minute they move to kik and open with "any naughty pictures" that's the chat killer for me. Yeah hang on and let me don some stockings and lingerie especially for your wank bank. Sure the kids can go hungry more importantly you have something to knock one off over "
Why oh why can’t all women be like you  |
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"Yeah few messages things seem good and then nothing back"
Yeah this is your typical pic collector I'm afraid as mentioned above it happens don't take it to heart just move on and try again did you try Google reverse image to check if their pics are genuine |
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