I have played both roles but still love to be the sub with a proper dom and dom with women.
My experience was with a dom alot older and it was unbelievable
To be took to the brink of giving in and using my safe world was amazing
What is everyones preference |
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Jay is a Dom and Jade is a sub. We've enjoyed D/s for a few years now and been very experimental with things, impact, needles, electro-stim etc. Can't put the pics up here but they are in another more kink based platform |
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"There is so many areas of it I haven't looked into.
I just know that being controlled by a proper dom left me absolutely drained near emotional if that sounds right"
The intensity of a 'scene' can lead to a proper drop afterwards. Sub-drop is pretty well covered elsewhere online, there can be Dom-drop too although it tends to be less common or frequent and people that have never experienced either will tell you it's the same as after a great meet or session; I can see the similarity just not the height of intensity or depth of drop.
Aftercare is also covered pretty well elsewhere online but it is there primarily to try and help the person dropping feel safe afterwards.
'Scenes' can be cathartic but whether or not they are they should always be good fun. |
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I'm have been a Dom for several years now, and I wouldn't be able to sub.
Honestly, what I love the most about a D/s dynamic is the intensity it can reach, the level of trust is incredible, besides, there's always something to explore, always room to grow. |
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Good morning, I have time on this website, I registered, out of curiosity to try new things, to expand my mind.
I would like to test submission.
someone with experience and patience?
have a happy weekend |
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"I don’t find myself to be either sub or Dom . I find I’m quite adaptable to most situations and I’ll engage how it chooses me then . "
I hate labels when it comes to kink and the kink jurney is always long and complicated, but works well for the ones that take it slow and one step at the time. Opening Pandora's box it's a shock for many and the labels don't stick for too long for some. |
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Never really got to the stage of exploring it fully.
Probably Dom as I have a lot of things to try if the lady was restrained.
Always respecting the Safe word, obviously and after discussion before play |
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I'd sooner lie down on the m50 and wait for death than dom a man.
On the other hand, the older I get the more choosey I'm getting about who I'll sub to. But when I do find someone I wanna sub too, it's fucking magic. |
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"There is so many areas of it I haven't looked into.
I just know that being controlled by a proper dom left me absolutely drained near emotional if that sounds right"
That's called Sun Drop boo. It can be rough as hell. If you're gonna sub again, make sure you prep and line up any support you'll need x |
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