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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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No I don't think most are looking for models at all. This is an excuse you see put up here all the times by guys but it's not true at all. Most women in fact most people on here know that this is a swingers site and most people on here are regular people. Some you will find attractive and some you won't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Quite a lot of the ladies profiles insist on a face photo with a message. A lot of them read the message, but don’t view or reply... I can only assume they are looking for ‘models’...  |
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You know what they say, first impressions last. We are by no means models but we are clued in enough to know that no one wants to get poked in the eye as soon as they see our profile photos.
Sometimes less is more and the same amount of effort applies to the real world as it does here. |
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"Quite a lot of the ladies profiles insist on a face photo with a message. A lot of them read the message, but don’t view or reply... I can only assume they are looking for ‘models’... "
Nobody insists that anyone sends them a message with a facepic. If you aren't happy then don't send it.
Also you're assuming because they don't want to have sex with you, then they must want models. That's clearly nonsense. Fancying someone is not the same as looking like a model. People are allowed to fancy people or not. |
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Looking at your profile.. Id say the pics are your problem. It's not about being a model, it's about having decent pics with good flatteeing angles and lighting. Ballbag shots aren't the most popular. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi first time posting. Is it me or are the ladys on this looking for models"
It’s been said loads of times Jimbo, pics of your cock or your ballsack, simply doesn’t cut the mustard on here. That and three lines to say you are an average bloke and likes boots. You’ve got to write a few paragraphs about yourself. Having said that, I’ve nearly a book written on mine and some say it’s like reading a novel but just add a little more about you and what makes you different from the other five million, six hundred and eighty four men here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As someone said, don't send face pic unless your comfortable and have built trust first. If a meet is then turned down politely then appreciate the honesty and move on without taking it personally.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Quite a lot of the ladies profiles insist on a face photo with a message. A lot of them read the message, but don’t view or reply... I can only assume they are looking for ‘models’...
Nobody insists that anyone sends them a message with a facepic. If you aren't happy then don't send it.
Also you're assuming because they don't want to have sex with you, then they must want models. That's clearly nonsense. Fancying someone is not the same as looking like a model. People are allowed to fancy people or not. "
I thought the smiley face might have indicated a touch of sarcasm... I probably should have mentioned a lot of these profiles seem to disappear not long afterwards... so who knows what they really wanted. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As that's desperate to hear sure I am in the same situation I have a face only a Mother could love. They keep deleting my unsolicited face and fanny pictures. They obviously only want to fuck the models here  |
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By *oo32Man
over a year ago
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"As that's desperate to hear sure I am in the same situation I have a face only a Mother could love. They keep deleting my unsolicited face and fanny pictures. They obviously only want to fuck the models here "
Try being me....I've a head like a bull dog licking piss off a nettle |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Beauty really is in the eye of the beholder. What one person finds hugely attractive would turn someone else totally off. That’s beauty of it all  "
100 % (thank God ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi first time posting. Is it me or are the ladys on this looking for models"
I know what you mean hun lol no offense intended to anyone but when you read some of the profiles you'd think they were the queen or something lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Beauty really is in the eye of the beholder. What one person finds hugely attractive would turn someone else totally off. That’s beauty of it all
100 % (thank God )"
Definitely agree. I mean you can look like Siena Miller but have the personality of Ted Bundy's shit lol sorry I know I have a way of putting things lol |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"Beauty really is in the eye of the beholder. What one person finds hugely attractive would turn someone else totally off. That’s beauty of it all
100 % (thank God )
Definitely agree. I mean you can look like Siena Miller but have the personality of Ted Bundy's shit lol sorry I know I have a way of putting things lol "
Jesus I'd hate to meet whoever she is |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Beauty really is in the eye of the beholder. What one person finds hugely attractive would turn someone else totally off. That’s beauty of it all
100 % (thank God )
Definitely agree. I mean you can look like Siena Miller but have the personality of Ted Bundy's shit lol sorry I know I have a way of putting things lol
Jesus I'd hate to meet whoever she is "
Hahaha yeah me too 
I meant I think a personality attraction is more important than a physical attraction lol |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"Beauty really is in the eye of the beholder. What one person finds hugely attractive would turn someone else totally off. That’s beauty of it all
100 % (thank God )
Definitely agree. I mean you can look like Siena Miller but have the personality of Ted Bundy's shit lol sorry I know I have a way of putting things lol
Jesus I'd hate to meet whoever she is
Hahaha yeah me too
I meant I think a personality attraction is more important than a physical attraction lol "
Agreed and thats possibly why it's so hard for some people at the moment
It can be hard to get a personality out just from typing messages but a photo is right there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Beauty really is in the eye of the beholder. What one person finds hugely attractive would turn someone else totally off. That’s beauty of it all
100 % (thank God )
Definitely agree. I mean you can look like Siena Miller but have the personality of Ted Bundy's shit lol sorry I know I have a way of putting things lol
Jesus I'd hate to meet whoever she is
Hahaha yeah me too
I meant I think a personality attraction is more important than a physical attraction lol
Agreed and thats possibly why it's so hard for some people at the moment
It can be hard to get a personality out just from typing messages but a photo is right there "
Hahaha that's true. Gotta find a way to have a "intellectual" conversation lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im looking for tom hardy or henry cavill. I wonder if they are on here incognito  that would actually be heavenly.
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I'm not interested in single men but in there case I'd make an exception  |
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"Im looking for tom hardy or henry cavill. I wonder if they are on here incognito that would actually be heavenly.
I'm not interested in single men but in there case I'd make an exception "
lol darn straight. yum yum |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would like to meet someone who has an attractive personality.
Even if Brad Pitt were in front of me,if he were an ass I would say no.
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Yeah that's what I mean lol |
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As a wheelchair user I’m really struggling here, and yes I suppose I can understand women’s apprehensions thinking perhaps I can’t have sex or I’m going to be more bother than its worth, but all I’m looking is a chance. I thought and hoping honestly would be the best policy even if it did hinder my chances. Meet up for a drink/coffee first see if we click and take things from there, but I can’t even get off the start line. Any advice people please feel free to message me I’d be very grateful. |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"As a wheelchair user I’m really struggling here, and yes I suppose I can understand women’s apprehensions thinking perhaps I can’t have sex or I’m going to be more bother than its worth, but all I’m looking is a chance. I thought and hoping honestly would be the best policy even if it did hinder my chances. Meet up for a drink/coffee first see if we click and take things from there, but I can’t even get off the start line. Any advice people please feel free to message me I’d be very grateful. "
Just to make some points and maybe help you
First of all there was a couple of recent threads in the uk forum about something similar
One from a female wheelchair user and one from a guy with an artificial leg...they might be worth looking at for help with your situation
I know a couple of the fears from people were as follows
Is it possible to have full sex.
Are you afraid of people just trying to fuck a wheelchair user as a bucket list ....would you care
If you want to sleep with someone do you need to be in a wheelchair friendly location but you can't accommodate so what happens
Not trying to be rude or offensive but I know the people that started the threads in the uk forum appreciated people being honest
Good luck with your quest |
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I'm an average Joe, the women here are like those in real life, you have to be capable of seducing a ladies mind, the body will follow.
This is like a virtual Night Club, you wouldnt walk up to a lady in a night club with your cock out so dont send cock pics, also your opening line has to be able to grab her attention, once you have it, make the effort to keep it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm an average Joe, the women here are like those in real life, you have to be capable of seducing a ladies mind, the body will follow.
This is like a virtual Night Club, you wouldnt walk up to a lady in a night club with your cock out so dont send cock pics, also your opening line has to be able to grab her attention, once you have it, make the effort to keep it. "
Omg finally a guy that's gets it. Even though I said this to a guy lately and he reckons he was in a nightclub and this did happen |
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"I'm an average Joe, the women here are like those in real life, you have to be capable of seducing a ladies mind, the body will follow.
This is like a virtual Night Club, you wouldnt walk up to a lady in a night club with your cock out so dont send cock pics, also your opening line has to be able to grab her attention, once you have it, make the effort to keep it.
Omg finally a guy that's gets it. Even though I said this to a guy lately and he reckons he was in a nightclub and this did happen "
What he walked up to her with his cock dangling out??  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm an average Joe, the women here are like those in real life, you have to be capable of seducing a ladies mind, the body will follow.
This is like a virtual Night Club, you wouldnt walk up to a lady in a night club with your cock out so dont send cock pics, also your opening line has to be able to grab her attention, once you have it, make the effort to keep it.
Omg finally a guy that's gets it. Even though I said this to a guy lately and he reckons he was in a nightclub and this did happen
What he walked up to her with his cock dangling out?? "
I said either on the forums or in a message regarding wanting to fuck someone just because I'd seen his dick, before we had chatted etc. I asked do you think women go out at night, line up the guys and say "pop your cocks out" and than decide to bring the cock they like home. Seemingly some women do |
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"It's very hard to try start a conversation because it's not like pof where you have your hobbies etc on it to help"
Thats because noone needs to know your hobbies to fuck you. As long as your hobby isn't eating babies or anything. |
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over a year ago
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"It's very hard to try start a conversation because it's not like pof where you have your hobbies etc on it to help
Thats because noone needs to know your hobbies to fuck you. As long as your hobby isn't eating babies or anything. "
I get where you are coming from but you can't just text someone and say I want to have sex with you, most women would just delete the message |
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"I'm an average Joe, the women here are like those in real life, you have to be capable of seducing a ladies mind, the body will follow.
This is like a virtual Night Club, you wouldnt walk up to a lady in a night club with your cock out so dont send cock pics, also your opening line has to be able to grab her attention, once you have it, make the effort to keep it. "
Hey..!!! Copyright infringement: I’M Average Joe...!! |
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