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We have been on a while and have noticed that a lot of couples seem to only have eyes for girls, status updates off 'any fab ladies want a threesome' but those same couples also message other couples, are we the only ones who sit thinking, damn, the male half is going to be made welcome with that pair, or does it put others off to? |
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"We have been on a while and have noticed that a lot of couples seem to only have eyes for girls, status updates off 'any fab ladies want a threesome' but those same couples also message other couples, are we the only ones who sit thinking, damn, the male half is going to be made welcome with that pair, or does it put others off to? "
Thats one of the things that needs to be sorted out by the initial social meet. If they only really want a fem then it's easy enough to suss out. |
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"We have been on a while and have noticed that a lot of couples seem to only have eyes for girls, status updates off 'any fab ladies want a threesome' but those same couples also message other couples, are we the only ones who sit thinking, damn, the male half is going to be made welcome with that pair, or does it put others off to? "
Aren’t most couples looking for that elusive Unicorn? |
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"Aren’t most couples looking for that elusive Unicorn?"
No, I'd say when looking to chat to a couple we're interested in chatting with both and meeting both of them, getting a four way connection is much more elusive than a unicorn though |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I feel that some women are being used on here when it boils down to a MFF. I feel the only person benefiting is the male. Its like the single girls are just objects on here. Just my opinion on it. think about it most of the sites couples want a mff |
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The single girls are only objects if you treat them like objects. In the real world the ladies are the gatekeepers and they get to pick and choose.. so if anyone is the "object" it's the lads. The ladies say who, where, and what as they have the power. |
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"I feel that some women are being used on here when it boils down to a MFF. I feel the only person benefiting is the male. Its like the single girls are just objects on here. Just my opinion on it. think about it most of the sites couples want a mff "
Don't follow, in an MFF everyone plays with everyone, how then can one person be being used? The third person coming into the MFF can have as much fun as anyone else, they come in have fun and go. Much the same as a second guy coming into a MFM is there for fun. If it's good they can go back again, if it's not they don't. Simples |
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By *razy-CplCouple
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"Aren’t most couples looking for that elusive Unicorn?
No, I'd say when looking to chat to a couple we're interested in chatting with both and meeting both of them, getting a four way connection is much more elusive than a unicorn though"
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"The single girls are only objects if you treat them like objects. In the real world the ladies are the gatekeepers and they get to pick and choose.. so if anyone is the "object" it's the lads. The ladies say who, where, and what as they have the power."
Yip. The Single lady and Rae. I'm just delighted to be invited. Someone needs to boil the kettle for a cuppa, I guess?  Fred. |
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"The single girls are only objects if you treat them like objects. In the real world the ladies are the gatekeepers and they get to pick and choose.. so if anyone is the "object" it's the lads. The ladies say who, where, and what as they have the power.
Yip. The Single lady and Rae. I'm just delighted to be invited. Someone needs to boil the kettle for a cuppa, I guess? Fred. "
Haha yeah. I wouldn't be too quick to paint the guy as the only one who benefits. We have had quite a few FFMs and the ladies have always come away smiling. |
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"We have been on a while and have noticed that a lot of couples seem to only have eyes for girls, status updates off 'any fab ladies want a threesome' but those same couples also message other couples, are we the only ones who sit thinking, damn, the male half is going to be made welcome with that pair, or does it put others off to? "
We've had plenty of couples message us who say on there profile they are just looking for a lady to play and just ask does the missus play alone even though our profile says we never play alone I dont get it and find it very disrespectful to "P" .
If we are looking for a single lady/guy we go out of our way to make sure everyone is comfortable and everyone is having a good time and if we chat to and invite a couple to play then we make sure everyone is involved in the fun equally .
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"We've had plenty of couples message us who say on there profile they are just looking for a lady to play and just ask does the missus play alone even though our profile says we never play alone I dont get it and find it very disrespectful to "P" .
If we are looking for a single lady/guy we go out of our way to make sure everyone is comfortable and everyone is having a good time and if we chat to and invite a couple to play then we make sure everyone is involved in the fun equally .
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We get a fair bit too, along with the 'couple' where the guy wants to meet Jade alone. |
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"I feel that some women are being used on here when it boils down to a MFF. I feel the only person benefiting is the male. Its like the single girls are just objects on here. Just my opinion on it. think about it most of the sites couples want a mff
Don't follow, in an MFF everyone plays with everyone, how then can one person be being used? The third person coming into the MFF can have as much fun as anyone else, they come in have fun and go. Much the same as a second guy coming into a MFM is there for fun. If it's good they can go back again, if it's not they don't. Simples"
as I said it's my own opinion and experience that 3 different female friends that have mentioned it to me a few times so it does happen that some girls can like feel they are being used till its too late. I didn't say everyone of them I did say (some) |
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"The single girls are only objects if you treat them like objects. In the real world the ladies are the gatekeepers and they get to pick and choose.. so if anyone is the "object" it's the lads. The ladies say who, where, and what as they have the power.
Yip. The Single lady and Rae. I'm just delighted to be invited. Someone needs to boil the kettle for a cuppa, I guess? Fred.
Haha yeah. I wouldn't be too quick to paint the guy as the only one who benefits. We have had quite a few FFMs and the ladies have always come away smiling."
I'm pretty well spoiled, I sleep with the most stunning woman every night... But she likes pretty ladies too, so here we are
To be fair, we'd met a single lady recently, and she was quite open that I wasn't welcome, and she wanted Rae to herself....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I feel that some women are being used on here when it boils down to a MFF. I feel the only person benefiting is the male. Its like the single girls are just objects on here. Just my opinion on it. think about it most of the sites couples want a mff
Don't follow, in an MFF everyone plays with everyone, how then can one person be being used? The third person coming into the MFF can have as much fun as anyone else, they come in have fun and go. Much the same as a second guy coming into a MFM is there for fun. If it's good they can go back again, if it's not they don't. Simples as I said it's my own opinion and experience that 3 different female friends that have mentioned it to me a few times so it does happen that some girls can like feel they are being used till its too late. I didn't say everyone of them I did say (some)"
There's no denying that the experience could end with one or more parties feeling unfulfilled. I, Jay, was the one walking away unfulfilled following an mff in uni with my then partner and a friend but it was a failure in, or at least poor, communication all round that lead to that result.
Your experience and that of your friends is valid I just wouldn't write all couples wanting an MFF off as looking for a play object |
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