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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok so just got blocked by someone who read my profile messaged me complimentary and said send me your. Face pic . Now I'm not comfortable with that after 1 message and laughingly said you must give to receive . Then he got a bit thick . I said listen enjoy your time I'm not a Messer . Then he completely lost the plot with a big thick message and blocked me .now while all it shows me is I was right not to give in to demands . Heads up guys chat and see if there is a connection but don't make demands. Am I wrong?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Def not wrong. Some guys send a face pic in first message than get stroppy when won't send one back. Too many messers, pic collectors , fake profiles, there are guys here collecting face pics and sharing them in Kik groups everyone needs to be that little bit more cautious |
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"Ok so just got blocked by someone who read my profile messaged me complimentary and said send me your. Face pic . Now I'm not comfortable with that after 1 message and laughingly said you must give to receive . Then he got a bit thick . I said listen enjoy your time I'm not a Messer . Then he completely lost the plot with a big thick message and blocked me .now while all it shows me is I was right not to give in to demands . Heads up guys chat and see if there is a connection but don't make demands. Am I wrong?
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Its all down to what you are comfortable with and dont change it to suit someone else. There are people who are going to be like that be it men, women and couples. There are a good few on here who dont send face pics at all. Think you dodged a bullet there anyway lol |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"Thanks I'm glad guys get it . I'm thinking of giving up on this as it's so difficult to meet someone genuine  "
Take a break but don't delete your account and come back when you're head is less wrecked by gobshites.
PS ....your pearl necklace pics are gorgeous....just saying |
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"Ok so just got blocked by someone who read my profile messaged me complimentary and said send me your. Face pic . Now I'm not comfortable with that after 1 message and laughingly said you must give to receive . Then he got a bit thick . I said listen enjoy your time I'm not a Messer . Then he completely lost the plot with a big thick message and blocked me .now while all it shows me is I was right not to give in to demands . Heads up guys chat and see if there is a connection but don't make demands. Am I wrong?
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Block them back and be glad you won't have to deal with them ever again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Def not wrong. Some guys send a face pic in first message than get stroppy when won't send one back. Too many messers, pic collectors , fake profiles, there are guys here collecting face pics and sharing them in Kik groups everyone needs to be that little bit more cautious"
You are absolutely right and EVERYONE should be very cautious with all the messers and fakes on here. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Strange thing is I had looked at his profile and whilst I'm not into veris (and now I'm definitely not into them)he had 10 glowing long ones saying how wonderful he was .... One in March of this year!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Strange thing is I had looked at his profile and whilst I'm not into veris (and now I'm definitely not into them)he had 10 glowing long ones saying how wonderful he was .... One in March of this year!! "
You must have hurt his ego  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Strange thing is I had looked at his profile and whilst I'm not into veris (and now I'm definitely not into them)he had 10 glowing long ones saying how wonderful he was .... One in March of this year!! "
Lots of utter wankers here with glowing veris (ourselves among them, some will no doubt say ). Trust your own judgement, don't let people pressure you into anything you're not comfortable with |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Strange thing is I had looked at his profile and whilst I'm not into veris (and now I'm definitely not into them)he had 10 glowing long ones saying how wonderful he was .... One in March of this year!! "
What you read may sometimes bot be reality I think it's harder for genuine people to connect just the nature with anonymity where you can experience unwelcomed situations.you seem a lovely person, caution needed here, take care.  |
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By *ubeMan
over a year ago
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"Ok so just got blocked by someone who read my profile messaged me complimentary and said send me your. Face pic . Now I'm not comfortable with that after 1 message and laughingly said you must give to receive . Then he got a bit thick . I said listen enjoy your time I'm not a Messer . Then he completely lost the plot with a big thick message and blocked me .now while all it shows me is I was right not to give in to demands . Heads up guys chat and see if there is a connection but don't make demands. Am I wrong?
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If you not comfortable sending a face pic to someone then dont send it, you done the right thing and if anyone is not willing to get to know someone without making demands, that just goes to show they not worth getting to know. If I'm sending a message to anyone on here that has the send a face pic on the first message, I just add the note I will send a face pic if we are getting along, if they dont like it that's fine as there is plenty of fish in the sea, like they say. |
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By *ynchsimonMan
over a year ago
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"Strange thing is I had looked at his profile and whilst I'm not into veris (and now I'm definitely not into them)he had 10 glowing long ones saying how wonderful he was .... One in March of this year!!
You must have hurt his ego "
Was it you with all your verifications ??
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This place is most definitely mad.
Abusive fabbers get away.
Fake profiles are not deleted.
And the real fabbers have to put up with it all.
I know of a good few fabbers who are on the brink of leaving,because of it all.
Mad place. |
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"This place is most definitely mad.
Abusive fabbers get away.
Fake profiles are not deleted.
And the real fabbers have to put up with it all.
I know of a good few fabbers who are on the brink of leaving,because of it all.
Mad place."
It's always been like this.. But the alternatives are shite |
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"This place is most definitely mad.
Abusive fabbers get away.
Fake profiles are not deleted.
And the real fabbers have to put up with it all.
I know of a good few fabbers who are on the brink of leaving,because of it all.
Mad place.
It's always been like this.. But the alternatives are shite"
Its gotten worse since the lockdown.
Admins and mods not doing much about it. |
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I'm happy to send my ugly mug to whoever wants it, however We don't send Lu's face pic to anyone, ever. And we will ask yo see a FP of potential meets. Double standards? Maybe.. Do we care? No we do not.. If you don't like it feel free to block us and move along. You see the thing is, if you're a guy no one is going to give a shit is you're on a swinger site (unless you're married ), you aren't going to be outed on Facebook, have your facepics passed around kik and WhatsApp groups, or have weirdos generally try and ruin your life! And, before you say I'm being a overly dramatic, I know first hand people, friends, that this has happened to, only a couple of months ago our profile pics popped up on CL offering Lu's services for a price! |
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"I'm happy to send my ugly mug to whoever wants it, however We don't send Lu's face pic to anyone, ever. And we will ask yo see a FP of potential meets. Double standards? Maybe.. Do we care? No we do not.. If you don't like it feel free to block us and move along. You see the thing is, if you're a guy no one is going to give a shit is you're on a swinger site (unless you're married ), you aren't going to be outed on Facebook, have your facepics passed around kik and WhatsApp groups, or have weirdos generally try and ruin your life! And, before you say I'm being a overly dramatic, I know first hand people, friends, that this has happened to, only a couple of months ago our profile pics popped up on CL offering Lu's services for a price! "
There will always be ones who try and ruin and give others a bad name.
Time to do a clear out i say.
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