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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to meet unverified people a lot to help them get their first verifys over social coffee. The reasons I gave up was though even though a lot of men were respectful and knew it was just coffee others mistakenly thought coffee meant a blowjob in the car park after. One guy even brought his work van especially ffs. Another reason is I had a string of unverified men not turn up for the coffee that they begged for which annoys me so much as a single Mammy with no time. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I used to meet unverified people a lot to help them get their first verifys over social coffee. The reasons I gave up was though even though a lot of men were respectful and knew it was just coffee others mistakenly thought coffee meant a blowjob in the car park after. One guy even brought his work van especially ffs. Another reason is I had a string of unverified men not turn up for the coffee that they begged for which annoys me so much as a single Mammy with no time. "
Yes completely understand where your coming from. 1 bad apple spoils the barrel which makes it frustrating for the likes of me. I have tried hard but on the verge of calling it a day |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Keep an eye on the forums bud..when thins resume some sort of normality, sometimes people have coffee mornings etc..just stay pleasant and polite and always listen to the queen of the bog rosy red lips..  |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
"It's really hard to get verified if people won't interact or meet genuine unverified people....what are peoples thoughts"
Sam
You're only on the site 6 months of which 3 months we were all on lockdown.
You actually came across quite well on your post because men that cant get meets or even verification normally are moaning little feckers on here.
They blame everyone except themselves and you haven't but have looked for advice
Can I suggest you stick around longer,get involved in the forums and get your name out there so women can see what you are like
Best of luck to you but don't forget getting verified doesn't mean anything else will happen |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
"It's really hard to get verified if people won't interact or meet genuine unverified people....what are peoples thoughts
Sam
You're only on the site 6 months of which 3 months we were all on lockdown.
You actually came across quite well on your post because men that cant get meets or even verification normally are moaning little feckers on here.
They blame everyone except themselves and you haven't but have looked for advice
Can I suggest you stick around longer,get involved in the forums and get your name out there so women can see what you are like
Best of luck to you but don't forget getting verified doesn't mean anything else will happen "
Ye exactly this stick around the forums and let people get to know you. Some find that is an easier way to get veried or go into the chat room on cam some may veri you from there.
I've met a few people who were unveried but find a some are unreliable about actually turning up or constantly make excuses as to why they suddenly can't especially when they realise it wasn't going to be anything more than a quick coffee.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Keep an eye on the forums bud..when thins resume some sort of normality, sometimes people have coffee mornings etc..just stay pleasant and polite and always listen to the queen of the bog rosy red lips.. "
Ah next year I must run a boggers social. They can turn my turf and I will verify them over a flask of tea and sandwiches  |
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"Keep an eye on the forums bud..when thins resume some sort of normality, sometimes people have coffee mornings etc..just stay pleasant and polite and always listen to the queen of the bog rosy red lips..
Ah next year I must run a boggers social. They can turn my turf and I will verify them over a flask of tea and sandwiches "
rosy that brings back sum memories for me cant beat having tea and corned beef sambos in the bog  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Keep an eye on the forums bud..when thins resume some sort of normality, sometimes people have coffee mornings etc..just stay pleasant and polite and always listen to the queen of the bog rosy red lips..
Ah next year I must run a boggers social. They can turn my turf and I will verify them over a flask of tea and sandwiches "
Looking forward to it |
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Look buddy, Fab is positively darwinian, survival of the fittest, smartest, most tenacious.. Its brutal here for single guys, but if you are smart enough to learn the intricate dynamics, put in the time and effort, eventually you'll get results. Most guys join, make minimal effort for a few months, come on the forum with the inevitable rant about how shite it is and disappear.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Look buddy, Fab is positively darwinian, survival of the fittest, smartest, most tenacious.. Its brutal here for single guys, but if you are smart enough to learn the intricate dynamics, put in the time and effort, eventually you'll get results. Most guys join, make minimal effort for a few months, come on the forum with the inevitable rant about how shite it is and disappear.. "
I certainly understand where people are coming from & I don't want to make it sound like I'm ranting.I think it's a great site but just for me personally it's tough to get on the ladder, i have tried, done the cam thing, sent messages, interact as much as possible. thanks for the advice, ill stick it out a little while longer.... |
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I'm here over a year and I'm not verified yet. For me it's not the be all and end all...it'll happen sometime hopefully! I've been in great Kik groups from here with a load of well verified members but I wouldn't ask them to verify me and they haven't offered. I'm on fab looking for something quite specific so I don't expect a busload of offers. If a coffee meet for unverified is planned I'll ask for an invite but until then I'll continue to enjoy the forums and offer my humble opinions! Much like now!!! Stick around though,it's actually a bit of craic as long as you don't take it too seriously!! |
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I think the first thing it to verify yourself as a real person not a fake after that it can take a bit of time especially as a male to get a meet to get met verified. Patience and conversation should pay off eventually even for a social/coffee meet and a chat. |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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A verification isn't the magical key to getting more meets ask the 100s of guys on here that are verified. Yes it might help you get past the mail filters but it won't make people meet you. |
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"I used to meet unverified people a lot to help them get their first verifys over social coffee. The reasons I gave up was though even though a lot of men were respectful and knew it was just coffee others mistakenly thought coffee meant a blowjob in the car park after. One guy even brought his work van especially ffs. Another reason is I had a string of unverified men not turn up for the coffee that they begged for which annoys me so much as a single Mammy with no time. "
People have no respect for others time or effort.
Thats the reason I dont try and help newbies.
Being nice brought me nothing but people taking advantage.
No thanks. |
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By *P_80Man
over a year ago
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"It's really hard to get verified if people won't interact or meet genuine unverified people....what are peoples thoughts"
Patience is a virtue on here buddy.
Also you get what you put in to it. Success, or lack of, comes down to how much time and effort you're willing to put in.
Me, I'm just a lazy bastard when it comes to my activity on here so I accept that many will have far more success than I will and I'm good with that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to meet unverified people a lot to help them get their first verifys over social coffee. The reasons I gave up was though even though a lot of men were respectful and knew it was just coffee others mistakenly thought coffee meant a blowjob in the car park after"
I can see where you are coming from but most of the verified people who meet for a social are just saying that wanting to have sex and then using "it's just a social" as a cop-out if they don't like the vibe. if it really was "just a social" they wouldn't need to be so picky (or meet as a couple, or book a baby sitter) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Patience mate, maybe go on the webcam rooms , you might get a veri chatting on there, under the current situation it's gonna be a bit of a wait, just hang in there a while. |
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"I used to meet unverified people a lot to help them get their first verifys over social coffee. The reasons I gave up was though even though a lot of men were respectful and knew it was just coffee others mistakenly thought coffee meant a blowjob in the car park after
I can see where you are coming from but most of the verified people who meet for a social are just saying that wanting to have sex and then using "it's just a social" as a cop-out if they don't like the vibe. if it really was "just a social" they wouldn't need to be so picky (or meet as a couple, or book a baby sitter) "
We meet for a social coffee if its someone we have chatting to and a play meet may be on the cards. I dont do random social meets. I dont have the time nor do i have the inclination. We are a couple hence we meet as a couple. I met once for a social on my own and never again. And yes we will get a babysitter because i doubt any man, woman or couple would be thrilled if we brought our kids along to said social. As for being picky, ill be as picky as i want |
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"good for you be as picky as you want
OP has been on the site for six months, can't get verified as a real person and so id trapped in a viscous circle"
OP has been on a site and we have been on lockdown for over half of it. We were on this site few months before we got our first verification and another couple before we had a play meet. it what it is and OP needs to be patient like the rest of us |
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