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Just reply its only manners.

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Ok looking for advice been here a few weeks but can't get replies to my messages. Surly it can't be that difficult to reply with a simple hi or something along those lines.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan over a year ago

Lucan

Sorry about that. I'll reply to your next one.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Expecting someone to go out of their way to reply to you just because you happen to message them seems a touch entitled, you're a stranger with no claim on their time or energy.

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By *he SophisticatsCouple over a year ago

Casa Del Fun

"Expecting someone to go out of their way to reply to you just because you happen to message them seems a touch entitled, you're a stranger with no claim on their time or energy.

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I gone out of my way to make first move the very least they can do is acknowledged me.

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By *he English OneMan over a year ago

west

"Ok looking for advice been here a few weeks but can't get replies to my messages. Surly it can't be that difficult to reply with a simple hi or something along those lines. "

I've seen 1st hand how many messages women get on a daily basis and it's crazy do you honestly expect them to sit down and reply to every single one just know one thing no one owes you anything here

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I'm not sure how as a man you know what messages the ladies get.

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By *Belfast_FellaMan over a year ago

belfast

It's really not. Nobody owes you - or me - a reply if you - or I - choose to message them. Especially given the number of messages women and couples get on the site. Sure, it's a bit disappointing not to hear back, it's happened me plenty, but that's life.

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By *he English OneMan over a year ago

west

"I'm not sure how as a man you know what messages the ladies get."

Cos I'm a friend to a few here that's why did that not cross your mind

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Having seen a female friends inbox when she showed me, women get tons of messages per day. Even more if on days they happen to upload a new pic/video or update a status. I know if I had 50+ emails per day from here, I'd be looking for something to stand out (no, definitely not that!) in the first glance.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple over a year ago

East / North, Cork

What you maybe don't realise is I can log off, and log back in again 5 mins later and there are 10 messages sitting there. Would need some kind of secretary to reply to every single mail. Not gonna happen.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I didn't realize that ladies showed others messages they received.

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By *he English OneMan over a year ago

west

"Having seen a female friends inbox when she showed me, women get tons of messages per day. Even more if on days they happen to upload a new pic/video or update a status. I know if I had 50+ emails per day from here, I'd be looking for something to stand out (no, definitely not that!) in the first glance."

Exactly my point

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By *he English OneMan over a year ago

west

"What you maybe don't realise is I can log off, and log back in again 5 mins later and there are 10 messages sitting there. Would need some kind of secretary to reply to every single mail. Not gonna happen. "

Or a wizard

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By *ynchsimonMan over a year ago

North county Dublin Meath

Blank profile, no pictures and no interests??

Why would they reply??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I will say it took me ages to make contact, and that was actually a lovely woman responded to something I put in my status that day. We ended up chatting and down the line, meeting when I was in her neck of the woods. Get a green flag eventually (from cam even?) and a site-supporter badge. They are not guarantees, but at least goes someway to trying to reassure them you're not a timewaster.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Nonsense most of the ladies enjoy the ego boost they get from said messages.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I always send picture with message so don't see need of having picture on profile.

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By *he JiggliesCouple over a year ago

Athlone

No reply means not interested. Some women on here don’t have the time to go through every message and reply to it and if they do reply some guys automatically think “oh great I can get into her knickers now”. And if they do reply with a simple not interested they may receive abuse so sometimes it’s easier not to reply

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By *he English OneMan over a year ago

west

"I will say it took me ages to make contact, and that was actually a lovely woman responded to something I put in my status that day. We ended up chatting and down the line, meeting when I was in her neck of the woods. Get a green flag eventually (from cam even?) and a site-supporter badge. They are not guarantees, but at least goes someway to trying to reassure them you're not a timewaster."

You think having a site supporter badge automatically means your not a time waster do you know how easy it is to get them verifications and still be fake

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By *he English OneMan over a year ago

west

"Nonsense most of the ladies enjoy the ego boost they get from said messages."

You know nothing Jon snow lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

You my friend seem to have an answer for everything.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You think having a site supporter badge automatically means your not a time waster do you know how easy it is to get them verifications and still be fake "

Yeah, I know ... but it's better than none. Marginally maybe, but still better

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am more likely to respond to a message that's not from a blank profile that has a one line profile

Reason I don't reply to all of the messages is I don't feel obliged to answer obvious copy and paste messages. I don't reply to spam in my personal email so why should I reply to spam here

Another reason why I don't reply is I don't feel obliged to. Its in frequently asked question's that no reply means no interest

Another reason is I don't always know what response I get. Some people are very polite when I say no. Some people want a reason why I am not interested and some people give me a lot of abuse

My final reason is I don't have the time or patience to reply! If you did it just feels like you are doing a administrative job.

So make your profile and messages stand out and don't lay the blame on ladies for not responding

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By *he English OneMan over a year ago

west

"You my friend seem to have an answer for everything."

I just might i haven't been asked everything yet so who knows

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

that's life in the big city I guess

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is it me, or is there a whiff of Sligo in the air?

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By *he English OneMan over a year ago

west

You think having a site supporter badge automatically means your not a time waster do you know how easy it is to get them verifications and still be fake

Yeah, I know ... but it's better than none. Marginally maybe, but still better"

Perhaps but look at your profile and op would you reply to it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Ok my friend how many have you met of this site surely a smart man like yourself can answer that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it me, or is there a whiff of Sligo in the air?"

Actually you might be right there's a distinct smell from Sligo

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By *-4pleasureCouple over a year ago

Belfast

"Ok my friend how many have you met of this site surely a smart man like yourself can answer that. "

Why are you all indulging this troll ?

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By *etergemmaCouple over a year ago

South Dublin Area

Congrats!

You have won the 2020 Fab award for profile with the least amount of content.

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By *he English OneMan over a year ago

west

"Ok my friend how many have you met of this site surely a smart man like yourself can answer that. "

2 on here I believe in quality not quantity

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

For a man that gives so much advice I would have you down as having more experience.

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By *he English OneMan over a year ago

west

I did say 2 on here I do have a life outside of this bit quick on your assumptions there

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Sorry mate just seems you have answer for everything without the full knowledge.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok looking for advice been here a few weeks but can't get replies to my messages. Surly it can't be that difficult to reply with a simple hi or something along those lines. "

Your profile is non-existint, no pics, no bio, not even a profile pic

Females on here can receive 100s of msgs a day.

Are you serious with your post? It's very obvious why you aren't & won't receive a reply. You need to stand out on here when you're Male, ratio is approximately 100:1 Male:Female

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By *he English OneMan over a year ago

west

I just might but I haven't been asked everything

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Kaizer does his utmost to respond to all the mails received on a daily basis but it so difficult and unfortunately for some they do fall through the cracks

No one sets up to frustrate and annoy surely!

Make love not war

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I put the effort into the message. Profile isn't important just meaningless words.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I put the effort into the message. Profile isn't important just meaningless words. "

But the ultimate decision to reply or not is based on the judgement of what's read!

Hang in their OP

To the best of Kaizer's knowledge Rome was not built in a day

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I have a few questions for you but don't think they are appropriate for the forums.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have a few questions for you but don't think they are appropriate for the forums. "

Please forward any queries to info@thunderkissenterprises.com

P.S. Kaizer is here for the Ladies

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Sorry was the other guy was talking about.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sorry was the other guy was talking about. "

Hit reply and quote in future to avoid any confusion

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By *asterandhissparklesCouple over a year ago

tipperary

First thing we watch when we get an email is the profile. Blank Profile, No reply.

Second thing we look is verifications. No very No reply.

We put effort in our profile, pics, videos. If people don't do the same, clearly we are looking for different things.

If people are looking for easy/fast sex, the can look for services that provide such on other website...

If the hope is to find a cheap fuck, then they can go somewhere else.

This is how we see it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

How that work.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don’t think you as a man have any idea about the amount of messages women and couples get ....

I used to reply to Most messages but I have got fed up with replying to men who didn’t have photos Up and A ‘fill in later ‘profile

anyway why the fuck should I ?

And if you have photos up but you’re not my type I’m not going to bother either .....

Also got fed with my polite replies turning into what’s your favourite sex position , can I cum in your mouth , can you meet me now and other such pathetic messages .......

The amount of men on here that seem to think all they have to do is message a woman and get instant sex on tap is crazy

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Lots of you have time to reply on forums but not p.m.

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By *oxic1998Woman over a year ago

Belfast

Someone explained it very well and always stuck in my brain

If all the junk mail that came in your inbox a week and wanted replies would you do it.....no. you wouldnt have time....some ladies just get too much

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

But the same ladies can spend all day on the forums.

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By *aid backMan over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

Is that you Sligo ? It's been a long time how's your mother ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Lots of you have time to reply on forums but not p.m."

I don’t even know from your profile anything Other than you’re a 45 year Old 5,11 average build man

So not really standing out there enough for a PM

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By *adeiteWoman over a year ago

Staffordshire

"But the same ladies can spend all day on the forums."

Doesnt mean they wish to reply to every message though.

You scream entitlement.

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By *eminexWoman over a year ago

some where in outer space

Op , your question was looking for advice ?

I think most have tried to explain the reason why you probably won't get a reply , lack of pic no content gives no reason to reply ....

So there is your advice try it and who knows maybe u may get one in your box

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Would it not be just as easy for the ladies to spend the day replying to message as on the forums.

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By *he English OneMan over a year ago

west

"I have a few questions for you but don't think they are appropriate for the forums. "

I'm sorry but your not my type thanks for the suggestion tho

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

How do you know I'm not your type?

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By *ichael McCarthyMan over a year ago

Lucan

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By *he English OneMan over a year ago

west

Seen too many silhouettos for my liking

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

But I have hidden talents.

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By *ornyfireCouple over a year ago

Middle Earth

I used to reply a lovely thanks but no thanks, but many seen that as invition to continue messaging so now I just deleate it's easier.

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By *he English OneMan over a year ago

west

Same as anyone else then nothing special about you

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By *orguyMan over a year ago

Tuam

Fair play to you. You catch them out everytime you make a comeback

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Would it not be just as easy for the ladies to spend the day replying to message as on the forums. "

But on forums they do exactly same thing as in private messages- reply to things they find interesting.

Clearly OP your profile or messages aren't doing anything to make them interested enough to reply

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By *yesgreenMan over a year ago

north and south

"I used to reply a lovely thanks but no thanks, but many seen that as invition to continue messaging so now I just deleate it's easier.

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I Usually say no need to reply and they don’t and we need to realise that women get 10 times the amount the messages that are guys may get and they may only fancy one per cent, As us guys are more frivolous with our affections

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By *ubcouple35Couple over a year ago

North Dublin

We try to reply to all messages but sometimes it's just not possible and that's not being big headed we just get alot at once sometimes . If ppl put effort into their message they are more likely to get a reply even its it's just a polite no thanks but if it's just "Hi" or a 1 liner then we just ignore it .

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By *hoenix-risingMan over a year ago

Co.Down

"Seen too many silhouettos for my liking "

Your spelling is something to behold!! Use a spell checker at least if you have difficulties

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Ok looking for advice been here a few weeks but can't get replies to my messages. Surly it can't be that difficult to reply with a simple hi or something along those lines. "
Op do you reply to all the junk mail you get at home ? At a guess id say not so why should here be any different!

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By *ichael McCarthyMan over a year ago

Lucan

"Seen too many silhouettos for my liking

Your spelling is something to behold!! Use a spell checker at least if you have difficulties"

Jaysus, that's a bit judgy.

I'm quite sure you knew what he meant in any case so don't be lecturing others on their failings in your eyes.

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By *-4pleasureCouple over a year ago

Belfast

"Seen too many silhouettos for my liking "

Scaramouche Scaramouche will you do the fandango ?

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By *hoenix-risingMan over a year ago

Co.Down

"Seen too many silhouettos for my liking

Your spelling is something to behold!! Use a spell checker at least if you have difficulties

Jaysus, that's a bit judgy.

I'm quite sure you knew what he meant in any case so don't be lecturing others on their failings in your eyes.

Why? is that not what a forum's for? Debate ?Why are you so defensive of this guy,when he clearly antagonises others ..

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By *ichael McCarthyMan over a year ago

Lucan

"Seen too many silhouettos for my liking

Your spelling is something to behold!! Use a spell checker at least if you have difficulties

Jaysus, that's a bit judgy.

I'm quite sure you knew what he meant in any case so don't be lecturing others on their failings in your eyes.

Why? is that not what a forum's for? Debate ?Why are you so defensive of this guy,when he clearly antagonises others .."

He's clearly antagonised you at least, and only by miss spelling silhouette. Yeah, maybe we should have him barred for it. Cop yourself on ffs.

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By *rmrspumpCouple over a year ago

narnia

The incel is strong with this one..

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By *hoenix-risingMan over a year ago

Co.Down

"Seen too many silhouettos for my liking

Your spelling is something to behold!! Use a spell checker at least if you have difficulties

Jaysus, that's a bit judgy.

I'm quite sure you knew what he meant in any case so don't be lecturing others on their failings in your eyes.

Why? is that not what a forum's for? Debate ?Why are you so defensive of this guy,when he clearly antagonises others ..

He's clearly antagonised you at least, and only by miss spelling silhouette. Yeah, maybe we should have him barred for it. Cop yourself on ffs.

Barred for life sounds appropriate ,i'm starting my own thread but only for peeple with gud speeling..so ha !!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Seen too many silhouettos for my liking

Your spelling is something to behold!! Use a spell checker at least if you have difficulties"

Scaramouche Scaramouche, can you do the fandango?

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By *og-ManMan over a year ago

somewhere

"Ok looking for advice been here a few weeks but can't get replies to my messages. Surly it can't be that difficult to reply with a simple hi or something along those lines. "

Have to be honest op your profile is absolute shite

No picture,no description, nothing offered to make you stand out except for you to say Im looking for like minded people.

Like minded to what exactly

You have made zero effort so you get zero replies

Simple as .....not saying the above to slag you off but your sense of entitlement is incredible

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By *ots_2_LoveCouple over a year ago

Omagh, Tyrone

"Expecting someone to go out of their way to reply to you just because you happen to message them seems a touch entitled, you're a stranger with no claim on their time or energy.

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By *he SophisticatsCouple over a year ago

Casa Del Fun

Profiles like yours normally originate in ‘Sligo’

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By *ots_2_LoveCouple over a year ago

Omagh, Tyrone

"Ok looking for advice been here a few weeks but can't get replies to my messages. Surly it can't be that difficult to reply with a simple hi or something along those lines.

Have to be honest op your profile is absolute shite

No picture,no description, nothing offered to make you stand out except for you to say Im looking for like minded people.

Like minded to what exactly

You have made zero effort so you get zero replies

Simple as .....not saying the above to slag you off but your sense of entitlement is incredible "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I gone out of my way to make first move the very least they can do is acknowledged me."

Nope, the very least they can do is to open it, then comes reading it, then comes checking the profile to see who sent it, then checking veris /pics of sender, then maybe, just maybe replying with a no thanks if they think it will be taken in the manner it's meant, but really why risk the abuse?? Of course it is possible that they will want to reply, say hello, chat further but really that's up to them, if they want to. I have managed to get one whole reply in my length of time on fab and that was a no thanks but shucks, I'm not throwing my toys out and creating threads about it.

Jay

(Jade on the other hand gets inundated)

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By *aid backMan over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

"Profiles like yours normally originate in ‘Sligo’

Or Leitrim or Cavan

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok looking for advice been here a few weeks but can't get replies to my messages. Surly it can't be that difficult to reply with a simple hi or something along those lines. "

On this site no reply means no thanks.

That's the rules and just the way it is.

Turning that round, maybe you should ask yourself why you are not getting any replies.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Would it not be just as easy for the ladies to spend the day replying to message as on the forums.

But on forums they do exactly same thing as in private messages- reply to things they find interesting.

Clearly OP your profile or messages aren't doing anything to make them interested enough to reply

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But my forums post must interesting so maybe I should use that approach.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Ok looking for advice been here a few weeks but can't get replies to my messages. Surly it can't be that difficult to reply with a simple hi or something along those lines.

Have to be honest op your profile is absolute shite

No picture,no description, nothing offered to make you stand out except for you to say Im looking for like minded people.

Like minded to what exactly

You have made zero effort so you get zero replies

Simple as .....not saying the above to slag you off but your sense of entitlement is incredible "
But apart from that I'm doing ok you reckon.

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By *ireannCplCouple over a year ago

Suburbs

We never reply to a mail that reflects that the person has not read our profile, if they haven't gone to the effort for two mins to see what we are looking for, why would we go to the effort to reply..

EireCpl

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By *og-ManMan over a year ago

somewhere

"Ok looking for advice been here a few weeks but can't get replies to my messages. Surly it can't be that difficult to reply with a simple hi or something along those lines.

Have to be honest op your profile is absolute shite

No picture,no description, nothing offered to make you stand out except for you to say Im looking for like minded people.

Like minded to what exactly

You have made zero effort so you get zero replies

Simple as .....not saying the above to slag you off but your sense of entitlement is incredible But apart from that I'm doing ok you reckon."

Well you never mentioned you had a sense of humour

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We never reply to a mail that reflects that the person has not read our profile, if they haven't gone to the effort for two mins to see what we are looking for, why would we go to the effort to reply..

EireCpl "

Yeah i agree...

it ain’t always down to straight out rudeness !

Mostly it is haha but there’s other reasons for sure

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Ok looking for advice been here a few weeks but can't get replies to my messages. Surly it can't be that difficult to reply with a simple hi or something along those lines.

Have to be honest op your profile is absolute shite

No picture,no description, nothing offered to make you stand out except for you to say Im looking for like minded people.

Like minded to what exactly

You have made zero effort so you get zero replies

Simple as .....not saying the above to slag you off but your sense of entitlement is incredible But apart from that I'm doing ok you reckon.

Well you never mentioned you had a sense of humour "
Well isn't that obvious.

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By *rmrspumpCouple over a year ago

narnia

Don't feed the troll

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By *unsigntwoCouple over a year ago

athlone

"Blank profile, no pictures and no interests??

Why would they reply??"

So true ... I know we wouldn't reply

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By *he SophisticatsCouple over a year ago

Casa Del Fun

"Don't feed the troll "

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Don't feed the troll "
Not that old chestnut again can't you come up with something more original.

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By *rmrspumpCouple over a year ago

narnia

"Don't feed the troll Not that old chestnut again can't you come up with something more original. "

Yawn..

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Don't feed the troll Not that old chestnut again can't you come up with something more original.

Yawn.. "
Lol that's hilarious

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Don't feed the troll Not that old chestnut again can't you come up with something more original. "

Can I still use the word troll but elaborate on how I picture you ! Or no ? Just don’t wanna beat that old chestnut ! My advice bang a pic up people get very offended here wen there talking to no pics ! Trust me I got roasted ! Haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Don't feed the troll Not that old chestnut again can't you come up with something more original.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Don't feed the troll Not that old chestnut again can't you come up with something more original.

Na bro all about positive vibes unless you wer on here giving people shit I’ve no issue with you mate ! As I finished my message off with advice not disrespect

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By *ilthyNightsCouple over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Oh hai Sligo. Are you not getting bored yet

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I firmly believe that my future on fab is with couples as going by their reaction to my thread they find my quite a (catch).

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I firmly believe that my future on fab is with couples as going by their reaction to my thread they find my quite a (catch)."

Well your doing far better then me so ha crack on mate all the best

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I firmly believe that my future on fab is with couples as going by their reaction to my thread they find my quite a (catch).

Well your doing far better then me so ha crack on mate all the best "
It's just the vibes I'm getting from the couples on the forums. I think the future looks bright for me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I firmly believe that my future on fab is with couples as going by their reaction to my thread they find my quite a (catch).

Well your doing far better then me so ha crack on mate all the best It's just the vibes I'm getting from the couples on the forums. I think the future looks bright for me."

Yourself and Mary Ann should get a couple's profile finally you can share that big cock

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I firmly believe that my future on fab is with couples as going by their reaction to my thread they find my quite a (catch).

Well your doing far better then me so ha crack on mate all the best It's just the vibes I'm getting from the couples on the forums. I think the future looks bright for me.

Yourself and Mary Ann should get a couple's profile finally you can share that big cock

"
I'm always willing to share my big cock with anyone that appreciates it's beauty.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I firmly believe that my future on fab is with couples as going by their reaction to my thread they find my quite a (catch).

Well your doing far better then me so ha crack on mate all the best It's just the vibes I'm getting from the couples on the forums. I think the future looks bright for me.

Yourself and Mary Ann should get a couple's profile finally you can share that big cock

I'm alw willing to share my big cock with anyone that appreciates it's beauty. "

SLIGO

Also noted that you said share your cock with anyone that appreciates its beauty. Assume you meant any lady or has SLIGO embraced the old mantra; when the Raccoon is starving, it cares not what it eats.

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By *he English OneMan over a year ago

west

"Seen too many silhouettos for my liking

Your spelling is something to behold!! Use a spell checker at least if you have difficulties"

Oh I'm sorry I didn't know this was a spelling test but thanks for the heads up

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By *he English OneMan over a year ago

west

"Seen too many silhouettos for my liking

Scaramouche Scaramouche will you do the fandango ?"

Is that a request?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok looking for advice been here a few weeks but can't get replies to my messages. Surly it can't be that difficult to reply with a simple hi or something along those lines. "

It is that difficult, when you get 200+ messages in a day that have a simple "hi"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Get used to it OP. People arent being rude to you personally, its just ladies get so much mail. Its just the way it works on here. Keep trying though, you never know your luck.

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By *he English OneMan over a year ago

west

"Seen too many silhouettos for my liking

Your spelling is something to behold!! Use a spell checker at least if you have difficulties

Jaysus, that's a bit judgy.

I'm quite sure you knew what he meant in any case so don't be lecturing others on their failings in your eyes.

Why? is that not what a forum's for? Debate ?Why are you so defensive of this guy,when he clearly antagonises others .."

I don't Recall even addressing you so I don't know why your getting your knickers in a twist for (no offence ladies)

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By *o strings but a G-stringMan over a year ago

city

The only first move that counts here is having some type of photo. Without that you risk 100% of others considering your profile a dud. A simple photo shows you will put some effort in

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By *yesgreenMan over a year ago

north and south

"The only first move that counts here is having some type of photo. Without that you risk 100% of others considering your profile a dud. A simple photo shows you will put some effort in"
Am Dyslexic please Don’t ask me to spell it , It’s a new phone and can’t get spellcheck to work , Trust me am very Articulate talking but as you can see not through spelling , Thanks Michael McCarthy much appreciated , We are not here to run others down , Happy to buy you few pints when the pubs open in Dublin cheers again

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I firmly believe that my future on fab is with couples as going by their reaction to my thread they find my quite a (catch)."

You are sorely mistaken there.

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By *og-ManMan over a year ago

somewhere

"The only first move that counts here is having some type of photo. Without that you risk 100% of others considering your profile a dud. A simple photo shows you will put some effort inAm Dyslexic please Don’t ask me to spell it , It’s a new phone and can’t get spellcheck to work , Trust me am very Articulate talking but as you can see not through spelling , Thanks Michael McCarthy much appreciated , We are not here to run others down , Happy to buy you few pints when the pubs open in Dublin cheers again "

Mickey is like a gremlin...so dont buy him pints after midnight whatever you do

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By *ichael McCarthyMan over a year ago

Lucan

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By *ysteryman2009Man over a year ago

Ireland

What a load of BS OP, It's not surprising you don't get replies with an attitude like yours. Just consider self-praise is no praise. I suspect a lot of women or couples here reading your replies to comments here are very active with the block button.

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By *eebawMan over a year ago

Women get so much messages on here as the rest have said. Some women bulk delete mail cause they get so much and so much shit mail.

Try stand out from the crowd and put some content and pics into ur profile.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan over a year ago

Tipperary

It's a numbers issue. Tonnes of males not enough females. The owners of the site couldn't give a fuck though and that's the bottom line. I'd imagine every sex site, dating site etc is totally lobsided numbers wise. You'll get lucky eventually.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sleep well sligo

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok looking for advice been here a few weeks but can't get replies to my messages. Surly it can't be that difficult to reply with a simple hi or something along those lines. "

Honestly man, it's just something you have to accept! It's reality here. I know when I joined I thought the same way, but realised there was no point in getting upset about it. It is what it is. If you can't accept it, just leave Fab and move on

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By *Sparkie.Man over a year ago

Ratoath

You get out of something what you put into it, if your putting the same effort into your messages as you did your profile I dont expect you to get any replies.

Ladies and couples here are outnumbered greatly by single males.

Dont be foolish like most and start by banging off messages to any lady in the hot pics section as they've already got hundreds just like yours saying a polite "hi, what are you into"

You also havent been clever enough to realise if they havent read or replied they are not interested. Move on.

Also coming on here whinging wont increase your chances of getting a reply, the opposite in fact.

Back to the drawing board, sprinkle some miracle grow on your profile n.pics and go at it again.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"What a load of BS OP, It's not surprising you don't get replies with an attitude like yours. Just consider self-praise is no praise. I suspect a lot of women or couples here reading your replies to comments here are very active with the block button.

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I've been up all night answering pm from couples and the odd lady. I replied to all even the odd lady.

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By *etergemmaCouple over a year ago

South Dublin Area

"I put the effort into the message. Profile isn't important just meaningless words. "

If you don't put the effort into a profile then don't expect effort from anyone else.

Your profile is your meaningful part of this.

It also shows you're serious about this lifestyle and not just joining up out of boredom in lockdown. Which to be honest, your response here screams.

Wouldn't entice me to respond initially and I chat to everyone but happy fabbing and enjoy the lifestyle.

Gemma

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I put the effort into the message. Profile isn't important just meaningless words.

If you don't put the effort into a profile then don't expect effort from anyone else.

Your profile is your meaningful part of this.

It also shows you're serious about this lifestyle and not just joining up out of boredom in lockdown. Which to be honest, your response here screams.

Wouldn't entice me to respond initially and I chat to everyone but happy fabbing and enjoy the lifestyle.

Gemma "
You would be putty in my hands if you got a look at my bottom shelf.

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By *etergemmaCouple over a year ago

South Dublin Area

"I put the effort into the message. Profile isn't important just meaningless words.

If you don't put the effort into a profile then don't expect effort from anyone else.

Your profile is your meaningful part of this.

It also shows you're serious about this lifestyle and not just joining up out of boredom in lockdown. Which to be honest, your response here screams.

Wouldn't entice me to respond initially and I chat to everyone but happy fabbing and enjoy the lifestyle.

Gemma You would be putty in my hands if you got a look at my bottom shelf."

It's also not an enticing feature to respond to someone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I put the effort into the message. Profile isn't important just meaningless words.

If you don't put the effort into a profile then don't expect effort from anyone else.

Your profile is your meaningful part of this.

It also shows you're serious about this lifestyle and not just joining up out of boredom in lockdown. Which to be honest, your response here screams.

Wouldn't entice me to respond initially and I chat to everyone but happy fabbing and enjoy the lifestyle.

Gemma You would be putty in my hands if you got a look at my bottom shelf.

It's also not an enticing feature to respond to someone. "
Lol so you reckon I should keep that under wraps.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've been up all night answering pm from couples and the odd lady. I replied to all even the odd lady."

My god this feed got some mileage ! You started off struggling to get a response now your up all night cracking on to all of fab ! Job done mate ! Reading through these reply’s probably best to quit while ur ahead

gotta pick ur battles on here ! You got wat you needed

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By *etergemmaCouple over a year ago

South Dublin Area

I've been up all night answering pm from couples and the odd lady. I replied to all even the odd lady.

gotta pick ur battles on here ! You got wat you needed

I wish they'd give a clapping emoji.

Anyway, what this post says !

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Just a quick thanks to all the people for their p.m.I will do my best to meet you all at some stage but not possible at this minute.

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By *unnyfookMan over a year ago

Naas

"Blank profile, no pictures and no interests??

Why would they reply??"

he will get the message eventually

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just a quick thanks to all the people for their p.m.I will do my best to meet you all at some stage but not possible at this minute."

Go on.....tell us another one

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Blank profile, no pictures and no interests??

Why would they reply??

he will get the message eventually"
Sorry if I didn't respond to your message. But was quite busy last night if you want you can resend your message.

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By *rmrspumpCouple over a year ago

narnia

"Just a quick thanks to all the people for their p.m.I will do my best to meet you all at some stage but not possible at this minute."

Great story bro, needs more dragons..

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By *og-ManMan over a year ago

somewhere

You don't sell stocks and shares by any chance

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Just a quick thanks to all the people for their p.m.I will do my best to meet you all at some stage but not possible at this minute.

Great story bro, needs more dragons..

"
I'm sorry with restrictions at the moment it's not possible. But I will put you on my list at this moment your close to the bottom but things can change.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Blank profile, no pictures and no interests??

Why would they reply??

he will get the message eventually Sorry if I didn't respond to your message. But was quite busy last night if you want you can resend your message. "

I’m assuming that was for me yeah ? Fuck it I’ll take it !!!

Look I could say all sorts and be a right prick Here !!!! I wasn’t dogging you out there but anyway...,your first point was basically people are rude ! Bro you turned out to be the rudest lad I’ve seen on here tonight and I was having ur back ! I’m off to talk to bricks I’m done !!!!

delighted things panned out

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Blank profile, no pictures and no interests??

Why would they reply??

he will get the message eventually Sorry if I didn't respond to your message. But was quite busy last night if you want you can resend your message.

I’m assuming that was for me yeah ? Fuck it I’ll take it !!!

delighted things panned out "

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By *etergemmaCouple over a year ago

South Dublin Area

"Blank profile, no pictures and no interests??

Why would they reply??

he will get the message eventually Sorry if I didn't respond to your message. But was quite busy last night if you want you can resend your message.

I’m assuming that was for me yeah ? Fuck it I’ll take it !!!

delighted things panned out "

Which goes back to my point... screams you're here because you're bored and not one bit serious about the lifestyle.

Ciao

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Blank profile, no pictures and no interests??

Why would they reply??

he will get the message eventually Sorry if I didn't respond to your message. But was quite busy last night if you want you can resend your message.

I’m assuming that was for me yeah ? Fuck it I’ll take it !!!

delighted things panned out

Which goes back to my point... screams you're here because you're bored and not one bit serious about the lifestyle.

Ciao"
wer getting punked here if this bloke is truly for real I’m for once surprised on fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Blank profile, no pictures and no interests??

Why would they reply??

he will get the message eventually Sorry if I didn't respond to your message. But was quite busy last night if you want you can resend your message.

I’m assuming that was for me yeah ? Fuck it I’ll take it !!!

delighted things panned out "
Not sure how you came to that conclusion.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just a quick thanks to all the people for their p.m.I will do my best to meet you all at some stage but not possible at this minute.

Great story bro, needs more dragons..

I'm sorry with restrictions at the moment it's not possible. But I will put you on my list at this moment your close to the bottom but things can change. "

This thread is the funniest thing we have read for ages!

At least you got some attention OP.

People took a few seconds to read your profile!

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By *ilthyNightsCouple over a year ago

East / North, Cork

I've been up all night answering pm from couples and the odd lady. I replied to all even the odd lady.

gotta pick ur battles on here ! You got wat you needed

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Just a quick thanks to all the people for their p.m.I will do my best to meet you all at some stage but not possible at this minute.

Great story bro, needs more dragons..

I'm sorry with restrictions at the moment it's not possible. But I will put you on my list at this moment your close to the bottom but things can change.

This thread is the funniest thing we have read for ages!

At least you got some attention OP.

People took a few seconds to read your profile!"
I'm a charmer people can't resist my charm.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I've been up all night answering pm from couples and the odd lady. I replied to all even the odd lady.

gotta pick ur battles on here ! You got wat you needed

He will quit soon enough, these profiles of his don't tend to last that long.. but never despair he will be back with his immediately recognisable posting style (with occasional comedy accent) fairly swiftly again. "
I'm sorry I can't reply to all place don't take offence if I don't reply right away. I will eventually get to you.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Was SLIGHTLY amusing first time sligo, but using the same joke twice is kinda lame

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By *elfastDMan over a year ago

belfast

The fact that he’s replying to all messages saying he doesn’t have time to reply

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Was SLIGHTLY amusing first time sligo, but using the same joke twice is kinda lame"
Not sure what joke your talking about.Please don't get upset if I don't reply right away I promise I will get to you eventually.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

The fact that he’s replying to all messages saying he doesn’t have time to reply

"
I find it faster here on the forums to get my message across. But just reassuring people i will answer all p.m.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

The fact that he’s replying to all messages saying he doesn’t have time to reply

"
You do get irony in my posts or do you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The fact that he’s replying to all messages saying he doesn’t have time to reply

You do get irony in my posts or do you. "

Feel bad for you mate not even getting on ur case here....

no joke if this is the only source of enjoyment you have in ur life seriously????

Fuck Things must be bad I ain’t gonna dog on ye

all the best

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

The fact that he’s replying to all messages saying he doesn’t have time to reply

You do get irony in my posts or do you.

Feel bad for you mate not even getting on ur case here....

no joke if this is the only source of enjoyment you have in ur life seriously????

Fuck Things must be bad I ain’t gonna dog on ye

all the best

"
How many times now have you posted on this thread. Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nearly there, let's get this thread closed folks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

TBH you’re only here a few weeks, takes a looooong time to become established and if your profile was a bit more interesting you might get a few more replies.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple over a year ago

East / North, Cork

"TBH you’re only here a few weeks, takes a looooong time to become established and if your profile was a bit more interesting you might get a few more replies. "

Oh god no. This guy is here years he's our resident troll.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"TBH you’re only here a few weeks, takes a looooong time to become established and if your profile was a bit more interesting you might get a few more replies.

Oh god no. This guy is here years he's our resident troll. "
Takes one to know one.

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By *clownprincessxWoman over a year ago

Drogheda

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By *ohng69Man over a year ago

athenry

There's some village out there missing its idiot

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

17 more posts till it’s closed.....

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By *clownprincessxWoman over a year ago

Drogheda

I was gonna weigh in, then saw you guys totally had this.

Go team!

OP, save this post for when you’re ready to receive constructive feedback. You got A LOT of good advice here.

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By *og-ManMan over a year ago

somewhere

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I'm sure you wise people know the rules on fab.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple over a year ago

East / North, Cork

"TBH you’re only here a few weeks, takes a looooong time to become established and if your profile was a bit more interesting you might get a few more replies.

Oh god no. This guy is here years he's our resident troll. Takes one to know one. "

Wow I haven't heard that one since I was at school. Troll quality = -1

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"TBH you’re only here a few weeks, takes a looooong time to become established and if your profile was a bit more interesting you might get a few more replies.

Oh god no. This guy is here years he's our resident troll. Takes one to know one.

Wow I haven't heard that one since I was at school. Troll quality = -1"
That's not today or yesterday going by your pics.lol

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By *ohng69Man over a year ago

athenry

"TBH you’re only here a few weeks, takes a looooong time to become established and if your profile was a bit more interesting you might get a few more replies.

Oh god no. This guy is here years he's our resident troll. Takes one to know one.

Wow I haven't heard that one since I was at school. Troll quality = -1 That's not today or yesterday going by your pics.lol"
schools have been closed since March so top marks for observation

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"TBH you’re only here a few weeks, takes a looooong time to become established and if your profile was a bit more interesting you might get a few more replies.

Oh god no. This guy is here years he's our resident troll. Takes one to know one.

Wow I haven't heard that one since I was at school. Troll quality = -1 That's not today or yesterday going by your pics.lol schools have been closed since March so top marks for observation "
Lol no pulling the wool over your eyes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sligo can you at least be a little more deceiving on your next profile? Its becoming way to easy to spot you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just a quick thanks to all the people for their p.m.I will do my best to meet you all at some stage but not possible at this minute.

Great story bro, needs more dragons..

I'm sorry with restrictions at the moment it's not possible. But I will put you on my list at this moment your close to the bottom but things can change.

This thread is the funniest thing we have read for ages!

At least you got some attention OP.

People took a few seconds to read your profile! I'm a charmer people can't resist my charm."

Absolutely!

We just can't resist either!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Just a quick thanks to all the people for their p.m.I will do my best to meet you all at some stage but not possible at this minute.

Great story bro, needs more dragons..

I'm sorry with restrictions at the moment it's not possible. But I will put you on my list at this moment your close to the bottom but things can change.

This thread is the funniest thing we have read for ages!

At least you got some attention OP.

People took a few seconds to read your profile! I'm a charmer people can't resist my charm.

Absolutely!

We just can't resist either!!"
Join the queue.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"8"

You still been laughed at ha Worse fool me feeling sorry everyone giving you death made me feel bad cause your attempt at one line smart comments made me feel you needed back up ! Obviously you like hiding behind your lil Tesco smartphone!!!!!! cause wer all truly great full that’s one side of you we don’t get to see is ur face !!!!!!and your to much of a bitch to bang it up cause all you are is fucking nonce a fool pure washer !!!!Your still been laughed at ha ! I picture you sitting in some barn yard rocking out your big brother’s hand me down t jumpers and wrangler jeans you still have since your confirmation reeking of piss using ur local Super macs paper for boxers ! Oh and Trust me I’m sitting here with my misses breaking my bollox writing this shit so no I ain’t worked up your pure entertainment but until ur man enough to put that fucking mush up there ur nothing but a bitch !!!!!! I’m itching to hear your 4 word take on this ! Try make it two sentences if you can stretch ur bullshit one lines out that long ! Guwan you fool make it funny at least

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fair play to ya OP. Just read through all of thread. You are doing great job keeping all of us entertained.Looking forward to your next profile already

.About 5 left now thankfully

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No reply means not interested. Some women on here don’t have the time to go through every message and reply to it and if they do reply some guys automatically think “oh great I can get into her knickers now”. And if they do reply with a simple not interested they may receive abuse so sometimes it’s easier not to reply "

Any lady that replies to my mail gets a simple ,” Thank you for the reply and hopefully you will get what you are looking for here ! “ It’s only manners at the end of the day and no problem if I am not who they want , abuse certainly is not going to get anyone laid !!

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By * peas in a podCouple over a year ago

Youghal

No reply is a reply.

You made absolutely zero effort on your profile and expect for people to take you seriously.

If you had messaged us, it would have been deleted as I wouldn't bother with a profile with no pics, no verifications, and no effort.

This thread and your self entitled, rude attitude won't help your cause but I'm sure you helped plenty, including us, to use the block button.

Although, no doubt you'll be back next week with another profile and still bitching no one will reply to you.

Mrs. Pea

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By *oghunter33Woman over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Great thread, well done everyone, so many replies.

Stay safe

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