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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sending face pics to an unknown person is difficult, no trust previously established. Better to chat for a while and see if there is common ground like a bit of fun and craic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It happens. We just politely say they arent for us. But can understand people dont want that awkwardness and hence just block.
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I agree, if im not into someone I try to say politely Im not interested, but if they keep messaging then its a swift delete and block lol.  |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Chances are if people are blocked after sending a face pic then the recipients arent interested/dont find them attractive etc. Nothing really to get worked up over"
I understand that people don't reply to every message that lands in your inbox and no reply means not interested. But if you have come to the stage of face pics you really would expect a reply even if it's a simple no thanks one. I know it can be awkward but that's just simple and basic respect and courtesy imo. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Chances are if people are blocked after sending a face pic then the recipients arent interested/dont find them attractive etc. Nothing really to get worked up over
I understand that people don't reply to every message that lands in your inbox and no reply means not interested. But if you have come to the stage of face pics you really would expect a reply even if it's a simple no thanks one. I know it can be awkward but that's just simple and basic respect and courtesy imo."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Chances are if people are blocked after sending a face pic then the recipients arent interested/dont find them attractive etc. Nothing really to get worked up over
I understand that people don't reply to every message that lands in your inbox and no reply means not interested. But if you have come to the stage of face pics you really would expect a reply even if it's a simple no thanks one. I know it can be awkward but that's just simple and basic respect and courtesy imo."
Courtesy would suggest that a request for a pic is accompanied by one's own pic |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Chances are if people are blocked after sending a face pic then the recipients arent interested/dont find them attractive etc. Nothing really to get worked up over
I understand that people don't reply to every message that lands in your inbox and no reply means not interested. But if you have come to the stage of face pics you really would expect a reply even if it's a simple no thanks one. I know it can be awkward but that's just simple and basic respect and courtesy imo.
Courtesy would suggest that a request for a pic is accompanied by one's own pic"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People asking for face pics then when u send. The block button come on.... if you ask have the manners 2 return...... you are going 2 fuck it up for the good people of fab...
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I've realised people are assholes on here. It's not fab's fault tho as people are like that on Twitter, message boards etc. The internet pretty much.
Manners and courtesy take a backseat as there are no repercussions to someone's behaviour. Not everyone of course. But definitely a number of people.
The same happens on the road. People can quick to beep the horn, give the finger etc. They have the safety of their car. Should a confrontation arise they can drive off.
Guess it's human behaviour. Again, not all but alot.
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"Why would anyone reply with a facepic to someone they knew they aren't attracted to? "
Cause its called having good manners it's not so hard to say no thanks not my type and if you happen to receive abuse after that then by all means block but try use your manners first treat people how you would like to be treated |
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"Why would anyone reply with a facepic to someone they knew they aren't attracted to?
Cause its called having good manners it's not so hard to say no thanks not my type and if you happen to receive abuse after that then by all means block but try use your manners first treat people how you would like to be treated "
What I said is with regards replying with a facepic.. Not saying "no thanks".
Replying "no thanks" also often means men will begin the insults and rejection paranoia. It's easier to block. Don't take it personally as you didn't miss out on anything, they were never gonna have sex with you anyway. |
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"Why would anyone reply with a facepic to someone they knew they aren't attracted to?
Cause its called having good manners it's not so hard to say no thanks not my type and if you happen to receive abuse after that then by all means block but try use your manners first treat people how you would like to be treated
What I said is with regards replying with a facepic.. Not saying "no thanks".
Replying "no thanks" also often means men will begin the insults and rejection paranoia. It's easier to block. Don't take it personally as you didn't miss out on anything, they were never gonna have sex with you anyway. "
I disagree with that. Have the manners to say "no thanks" and if they can't take it as their answer, then and only then should you block them. |
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"Why would anyone reply with a facepic to someone they knew they aren't attracted to?
Cause its called having good manners it's not so hard to say no thanks not my type and if you happen to receive abuse after that then by all means block but try use your manners first treat people how you would like to be treated
What I said is with regards replying with a facepic.. Not saying "no thanks".
Replying "no thanks" also often means men will begin the insults and rejection paranoia. It's easier to block. Don't take it personally as you didn't miss out on anything, they were never gonna have sex with you anyway. "
Is that last part just aimed at me or men in general like I said if you get abuse then block by alll means but abuse comes both ways iv received abuse by women on here cause I wouldnt drop my plans because the became free all of a sudden also couples are just as bad or maybe even worth with it been double the trouble |
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"Why would anyone reply with a facepic to someone they knew they aren't attracted to?
Cause its called having good manners it's not so hard to say no thanks not my type and if you happen to receive abuse after that then by all means block but try use your manners first treat people how you would like to be treated
What I said is with regards replying with a facepic.. Not saying "no thanks".
Replying "no thanks" also often means men will begin the insults and rejection paranoia. It's easier to block. Don't take it personally as you didn't miss out on anything, they were never gonna have sex with you anyway.
Is that last part just aimed at me or men in general like I said if you get abuse then block by alll means but abuse comes both ways iv received abuse by women on here cause I wouldnt drop my plans because the became free all of a sudden also couples are just as bad or maybe even worth with it been double the trouble "
Just a comment in general.
Meh. If someone I didn't know on the Internet who wasn't going to have sex with me chose to block me then I wouldn't be on the Internet ranting about them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why would anyone reply with a facepic to someone they knew they aren't attracted to?
Cause its called having good manners it's not so hard to say no thanks not my type and if you happen to receive abuse after that then by all means block but try use your manners first treat people how you would like to be treated
What I said is with regards replying with a facepic.. Not saying "no thanks".
Replying "no thanks" also often means men will begin the insults and rejection paranoia. It's easier to block. Don't take it personally as you didn't miss out on anything, they were never gonna have sex with you anyway.
Is that last part just aimed at me or men in general like I said if you get abuse then block by alll means but abuse comes both ways iv received abuse by women on here cause I wouldnt drop my plans because the became free all of a sudden also couples are just as bad or maybe even worth with it been double the trouble
Just a comment in general.
Meh. If someone I didn't know on the Internet who wasn't going to have sex with me chose to block me then I wouldn't be on the Internet ranting about them. "
Essentially what you just said is to have no manners.
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I guess after you've had many many people being insulted by a polite "no" and getting nasty and personal.. then you realise that it's simpler to block and move on. If you want to judge people for that then go ahead that's your perogative.
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"I guess after you've had many many people being insulted by a polite "no" and getting nasty and personal.. then you realise that it's simpler to block and move on. If you want to judge people for that then go ahead that's your perogative.
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Most of the time it's a question how you phrase it, at least that's my experience, I haven't had any abuse in years.  |
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I do things alot diffrent on here I don't bother to serach for profiles to contact way easier just coming to the forums cause you kinda get a feeling of how there personality is like and there's alot of bad apples |
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Have given up sending messages here. Mainly because I would not send a face pic and generally the effort is not really worth it. Socials and parties seem to be the only way. Prefer to meet in person as typing and pics can be misleading |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I guess after you've had many many people being insulted by a polite "no" and getting nasty and personal.. then you realise that it's simpler to block and move on. If you want to judge people for that then go ahead that's your perogative.
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Ah yes. The whole "sure I only do that because others were rude to me" Reply.
I must remember to do that next time anyone calls me out on any I'll behaviour I may do. I will throw some reason why my behaviour is that way.
Maybe I'll follow it by if you want to judge me that's your perogative.
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"I guess after you've had many many people being insulted by a polite "no" and getting nasty and personal.. then you realise that it's simpler to block and move on. If you want to judge people for that then go ahead that's your perogative.
Ah yes. The whole "sure I only do that because others were rude to me" Reply.
I must remember to do that next time anyone calls me out on any I'll behaviour I may do. I will throw some reason why my behaviour is that way.
Maybe I'll follow it by if you want to judge me that's your perogative.
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*prerogative
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"I guess after you've had many many people being insulted by a polite "no" and getting nasty and personal.. then you realise that it's simpler to block and move on. If you want to judge people for that then go ahead that's your perogative.
Most of the time it's a question how you phrase it, at least that's my experience, I haven't had any abuse in years. "
Are you not reading my messages?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I guess after you've had many many people being insulted by a polite "no" and getting nasty and personal.. then you realise that it's simpler to block and move on. If you want to judge people for that then go ahead that's your perogative.
Ah yes. The whole "sure I only do that because others were rude to me" Reply.
I must remember to do that next time anyone calls me out on any I'll behaviour I may do. I will throw some reason why my behaviour is that way.
Maybe I'll follow it by if you want to judge me that's your perogative.
*prerogative
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Well that's your prerogative to call me out on the spelling of perogative.
However I (inserts bullshit reason as to why to justify) lol.
Am I doing it right FlithyNights? |
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"I guess after you've had many many people being insulted by a polite "no" and getting nasty and personal.. then you realise that it's simpler to block and move on. If you want to judge people for that then go ahead that's your perogative.
Most of the time it's a question how you phrase it, at least that's my experience, I haven't had any abuse in years. "
The common response I got to a "no thanks" is "why not" or "whats wrong wth me" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Boo hoo someone on the Internet blocked me, or didn't reply to me, or was horrible to me. Jaysus. And I get called a snowflake on here lol. "
Maybe we should all be like you. Lol.
So where do we start? Don't hold doors open for people? Push a granny out of the way? Lol.
I mean, manners come so easy to me. It's hard to shake off. How did you fight that urge?
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"Tbh, given the numbers around here, I'm not sure there's anything any woman can do that'll "spoil it for the good people". 
I'd like to see someone really try though. "
This. The fems call the shots around here and can pretty much do as they please. If you can't come to peace with that then maybe fab is not for you |
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"Boo hoo someone on the Internet blocked me, or didn't reply to me, or was horrible to me. Jaysus. And I get called a snowflake on here lol.
Maybe we should all be like you. Lol.
So where do we start? Don't hold doors open for people? Push a granny out of the way? Lol.
I mean, manners come so easy to me. It's hard to shake off. How did you fight that urge?
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Oh i started off here replying to nearly all the messages, and saying no politely over and over and over.. and telling then all the reasons we didnt want a meet, and massaging the hurt egos, and reassuring them that they arent horribly unattratice.. but it turned nasty so often.
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"I guess after you've had many many people being insulted by a polite "no" and getting nasty and personal.. then you realise that it's simpler to block and move on. If you want to judge people for that then go ahead that's your perogative.
Most of the time it's a question how you phrase it, at least that's my experience, I haven't had any abuse in years.
Are you not reading my messages? "
I love when you talk dirty to me.  |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"I guess after you've had many many people being insulted by a polite "no" and getting nasty and personal.. then you realise that it's simpler to block and move on. If you want to judge people for that then go ahead that's your perogative.
Most of the time it's a question how you phrase it, at least that's my experience, I haven't had any abuse in years.
The common response I got to a "no thanks" is "why not" or "whats wrong wth me""
Yeah I believe you straight away, I don't use the words 'no thanks'. |
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"I guess after you've had many many people being insulted by a polite "no" and getting nasty and personal.. then you realise that it's simpler to block and move on. If you want to judge people for that then go ahead that's your perogative.
Most of the time it's a question how you phrase it, at least that's my experience, I haven't had any abuse in years.
Are you not reading my messages?
I love when you talk dirty to me. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Chances are if people are blocked after sending a face pic then the recipients arent interested/dont find them attractive etc. Nothing really to get worked up over
I understand that people don't reply to every message that lands in your inbox and no reply means not interested. But if you have come to the stage of face pics you really would expect a reply even if it's a simple no thanks one. I know it can be awkward but that's just simple and basic respect and courtesy imo."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Chances are if people are blocked after sending a face pic then the recipients arent interested/dont find them attractive etc. Nothing really to get worked up over
I understand that people don't reply to every message that lands in your inbox and no reply means not interested. But if you have come to the stage of face pics you really would expect a reply even if it's a simple no thanks one. I know it can be awkward but that's just simple and basic respect and courtesy imo."
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By *oo32Man
over a year ago
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Theres messages and then messages with face pics attached...I think if someone asks for the pic...then they should at least have their own one sent with the message,if any of the folks here have asked someone for a face pic and they've sent it...have the common courtesy to acknowledge and reject or select  |
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I have got the block after sending a face pic, am sure most guys have, it is what it is and I understand women get abuse from some lads if they reply "sorry not for me" so avoid that and save wasting time. I always find a simple "thanks but no thanks" is a polite way of going about it, wish them well and move on....for me it's THE FEAR after a straight block from a face pic that's more concerning than the actual unexplained rejection, your left thinking maybe they knew me, maybe it was a relative or someone from work |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why would anyone reply with a facepic to someone they knew they aren't attracted to?
Cause its called having good manners it's not so hard to say no thanks not my type and if you happen to receive abuse after that then by all means block but try use your manners first treat people how you would like to be treated
What I said is with regards replying with a facepic.. Not saying "no thanks".
Replying "no thanks" also often means men will begin the insults and rejection paranoia. It's easier to block. Don't take it personally as you didn't miss out on anything, they were never gonna have sex with you anyway.
Is that last part just aimed at me or men in general like I said if you get abuse then block by alll means but abuse comes both ways iv received abuse by women on here cause I wouldnt drop my plans because the became free all of a sudden also couples are just as bad or maybe even worth with it been double the trouble
Just a comment in general.
Meh. If someone I didn't know on the Internet who wasn't going to have sex with me chose to block me then I wouldn't be on the Internet ranting about them. "
I guess you have yet to experience the instant block right after sending your pic. Maybe then you'll understand how frustrating this can be.
Then again, maybe you're just too hot to ever have to experience this |
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