plenty of foreplay, for both partners to be relaxed, lots and lots of lube. take it very slow (for the love of god dont just ram it in) for ladies i would recommend douching if possible beforehand and the lads wearing a condom |
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"plenty of foreplay, for both partners to be relaxed, lots and lots of lube. take it very slow (for the love of god dont just ram it in) for ladies i would recommend douching if possible beforehand and the lads wearing a condom "
Pretty much it, taking it slowly and making sure the woman is already very aroused is key  |
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Tips for 1st time anal (no matter what's your experience, your partners experience or the size of a penis).
Plan: spontaneous anal is a recipe for shit disaster (been there, done that, still red faced about the experience). 1-2 days before planned anal your partner should eat food high in fat and protein and low in starchy carbs. It will help solidify whatever is inside and stop it from ever getting messy.
This will always be a main put off for most women, so if and when they see the results of a "clean wipe" themselves they'll be less afraid to try out anal sex.
Seduce: Make sure you pay a lot of attention and effort to foreplay and make your partner extra aroused and relaxed. Play with their whole body, erogenous zones, tease and pleasure.
Position: Personal choice, but from chatting to a lot of girls about it- on the side- spooning position seems to be the least uncomfortable position to start with followed up by your partner laying flat on their front and you being on top from behind. Once your partner is well stretched out and used to sensation - you can switch to more positions. If you do it too early - it will hurt like a motherfucker.
Lubrication should be common sense hence I haven't mentioned it.
Good luck. |
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Oh and start with a lubed finger.. dont go straight in with a cock.
Also.. having a massive dick makes it a lot harder to find a female willing to give it a try.. so ideally dont be massively well endowed. |
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I've done it with a few girls. Some had practiced with toys before so it wasn't to bad. Others it was there first time and we took it super slow with lots of lube. Ya got to train your ass in a sense, lol!
Some girls I met preferred it over vaginal sex!
For guys it can be super tight, personally I like it but vaginal sex just feels better. |
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taking your time is key. If done right you don't even need lube.
But trust is a big part of it. never rush. i do suggest using a lube designed for it perhaps a cooling one also. water based so it doesn't degrade the condom.
but it's not a race. ease it it inch by in. stopping to allow her body to relax stopping if you need to. communication is definitely key. |
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"Oh and start with a lubed finger.. dont go straight in with a cock.
Also.. having a massive dick makes it a lot harder to find a female willing to give it a try.. so ideally dont be massively well endowed."
I have to disagree with both.
Fingers tend to be extremely unpleasant to me - nails and cuticles tend to cause way too much discomfort.
Also I've had a long term 4 inch partner who by all logic would be more ideal for anal play, but to be honest I've never enjoyed anal as much as I enjoy it with Dirk and he's very well endowed. |
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"I suggest trying it with a woman who has done it a number of times.
Do not do it with an amateur.
everyone starts somewhere. "
I'm aware. Best to start with someone who knows what they're doing than 2 amateurs who make a mess... |
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By *ndrew15Man
over a year ago
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Several occasions giving with both women and tvs , a smaller number receiving from tvs and women with a strap-on. Been to a few parties watching people really enjoying anal is a great turn on! |
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