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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's easier to start a conversation in real life, but once u have started talking, it's easier to trick them into thinking you are witty and attractive on Fab.
Once that step is accomplished, it's easier to pull and get them into bed in real life, but afterwards easier to hide your shame at underperforming on Fab by hiding your profile and blocking. Pros and cons to either side I guess. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I remember going back 10-15 years ago and it was so much easier to meet from online. From dating websites to "social networking sites" which was a fancy labeled term for the likes of Hi5 and Badoo (which were/are hook up / dating sites)
Things changed. It's a lot harder now. Maybe it's too the norm. More competition maybe?
As for hooking up in real life?
I have to say that's hard now too. Social life has taken a hit as most are married or whatnot. Most of me pulling came from randomly being introduced through various friends.
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I actually feel sorry for folks trying to meet people for dating these days. The apps mean everyone is always treading water while looking to see what else (or what better) is around. I think it makes real relationships harder to progress.
...but if your looking for a fuck then that's probably easier here. You just need to bring some game. I personally find that easier here than in real life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Where do u find it easier to pull?"
Online is a mixed bag. Fab for example is impossible for me. I haven’t met anyone at all in the years I’ve used it. I can barely get a conversation, and not for the want of trying.
Tinder/bumble etc I’ve pulled no bother. Got plenty of action there. NSA sex and relationships. Some proper good looking girls. I’ve even met girls through Snapchat and instagram!
Real life is just a lottery. I’ve pulled girls when I’ve least expected it, other times when you’re actually “out on the pull” (going back to my late teens/early 20s) I’ve went home with only a pizza for company lol
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I actually feel sorry for folks trying to meet people for dating these days. The apps mean everyone is always treading water while looking to see what else (or what better) is around. I think it makes real relationships harder to progress.
...but if your looking for a fuck then that's probably easier here. You just need to bring some game. I personally find that easier here than in real life."
Better yet, find someone on a sex site and have a relationship with them  |
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"I actually feel sorry for folks trying to meet people for dating these days. The apps mean everyone is always treading water while looking to see what else (or what better) is around. I think it makes real relationships harder to progress.
...but if your looking for a fuck then that's probably easier here. You just need to bring some game. I personally find that easier here than in real life.
Better yet, find someone on a sex site and have a relationship with them "
Yep did that lol. 2 kids later and we are very happy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I actually feel sorry for folks trying to meet people for dating these days. The apps mean everyone is always treading water while looking to see what else (or what better) is around. I think it makes real relationships harder to progress.
...but if your looking for a fuck then that's probably easier here. You just need to bring some game. I personally find that easier here than in real life.
Better yet, find someone on a sex site and have a relationship with them
Yep did that lol. 2 kids later and we are very happy."
We did too, without the kids part  |
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"I actually feel sorry for folks trying to meet people for dating these days. The apps mean everyone is always treading water while looking to see what else (or what better) is around. I think it makes real relationships harder to progress.
...but if your looking for a fuck then that's probably easier here. You just need to bring some game. I personally find that easier here than in real life.
Better yet, find someone on a sex site and have a relationship with them
Yep did that lol. 2 kids later and we are very happy.
We did too, without the kids part "
You had more sense   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I actually feel sorry for folks trying to meet people for dating these days. The apps mean everyone is always treading water while looking to see what else (or what better) is around. I think it makes real relationships harder to progress.
...but if your looking for a fuck then that's probably easier here. You just need to bring some game. I personally find that easier here than in real life.
Better yet, find someone on a sex site and have a relationship with them
Yep did that lol. 2 kids later and we are very happy.
We did too, without the kids part
You had more sense "
Only from previous experience and being too old  |
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"Where do u find it easier to pull?
Online is a mixed bag. Fab for example is impossible for me. I haven’t met anyone at all in the years I’ve used it. I can barely get a conversation, and not for the want of trying.
Tinder/bumble etc I’ve pulled no bother. Got plenty of action there. NSA sex and relationships. Some proper good looking girls. I’ve even met girls through Snapchat and instagram!
Real life is just a lottery. I’ve pulled girls when I’ve least expected it, other times when you’re actually “out on the pull” (going back to my late teens/early 20s) I’ve went home with only a pizza for company lol
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would be pretty similar but I still find the face to face approach in person the easiest. On here where u have a profile there is alot going through everything with a fine toothcomb before deciding will they reply or not. |
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Real life I guess. I don't think it counts though because it's still guys hitting on me and not me hitting on them but I do get interest on nights out and I prefer being hit on in person.
I do fine on tinder too. I definitely prefer tinder to here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It depends what I’m looking for, real life is easier for finding relationships etc but then they think you’re a sweet girl. Online is definitely better for finding exactly what you’re in the mood for - no strings fun with wonderful strangers |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Here. Specifically here.
I generally assume on this site it should be far more difficult simply due to the outrageous amount of males in comparison to females, then there's the problem of absolute bullshit profiles, wankers and cockwombles.
In addition there are quite a few very fit and muscular male types doing the rounds whom I simply pale in comparison to....
BUT....
I actually do far better here than I do on POF or Tinder or in real life.... Real life I find nearly impossible. I can never actually tell if a lady is flirting with me or not, and I never wanna be "that guy" who mistakes someone being polite or friendly with someone being flirtatious.
At least on here if a lady agrees to trade numbers or meet for coffee you can be fairly certain she finds you somewhat attractive or intriguing...
Real life is just a crap shoot man.
Not able for it!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Online....
I'm more comfortable texting someone than chatting in person at the start.
Being a bit shy in person doesn't help in social situations.
The strong silent type only works if you look like Tom Hardy |
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
The pub then supermacs ... |
Online here....i don't go out much and when i do its only to socialise.. Ive never been on tinder or any other dating sites simply because i don't want to date or have a relationship i get what im looking for here |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
Definitely online well on here as I don't do dating apps. I don't go out a lot so don't meet a lot of people out especially since I moved and as you get older it's harder to meet people I find anyhow in real life as such. So being on here is definitely easier. And I've met some great people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In real life. Its way better as things tend to happen more naturaly.
Online the attraction may be there with the pics you send or recieve but real hard to judge if their is going to be any chemistry through a pic.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Real life by a long shot, I'm quite a sociable guy which makes it easier, i can lose interest online especially if I'm not that interested.
I do find find if you go out without expectation success rates are always higher, a good wingman is key also  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In real life. Its way better as things tend to happen more naturaly.
Online the attraction may be there with the pics you send or recieve but real hard to judge if their is going to be any chemistry through a pic.
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Oh I bet you can pull,you sexy bastard ya You are at the top of my hotlist now and I’ll send you a message when “normality” resumes You’re delish!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In real life. Its way better as things tend to happen more naturaly.
Online the attraction may be there with the pics you send or recieve but real hard to judge if their is going to be any chemistry through a pic.
Oh I bet you can pull,you sexy bastard ya You are at the top of my hotlist now and I’ll send you a message when “normality” resumes You’re delish!! "
Feistyfox. Your making me blush 
But thank you for the compliment. Look forward to ur message
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Real life hands down ... it’s more interesting working for it and you can actually show your individuality... online has its uses, like choosing your kind of food.
You want a real dinner it’s real life |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Neither  find that very hard to believe 
It's the truth. Only here to post stories, giving up on trying to meet here. "
I think it's cause we're in Sligo. Smaller towns are hit and miss |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Neither find that very hard to believe
It's the truth. Only here to post stories, giving up on trying to meet here.
I think it's cause we're in Sligo. Smaller towns are hit and miss"
Nope Definitely not I've been out in plenty of other towns and no interest there either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Neither find that very hard to believe
It's the truth. Only here to post stories, giving up on trying to meet here.
I think it's cause we're in Sligo. Smaller towns are hit and miss
Nope Definitely not I've been out in plenty of other towns and no interest there either."
Must just be you so |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Neither find that very hard to believe
It's the truth. Only here to post stories, giving up on trying to meet here.
I think it's cause we're in Sligo. Smaller towns are hit and miss
Nope Definitely not I've been out in plenty of other towns and no interest there either."
Well I'm very surprised |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Online ....I don't go out often enough socially in the real world ...
As someone else said above its difficult as finding someone "better" is always only a click away now "
Click and have sex ... what a world we live in |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Neither find that very hard to believe
It's the truth. Only here to post stories, giving up on trying to meet here.
I think it's cause we're in Sligo. Smaller towns are hit and miss
Nope Definitely not I've been out in plenty of other towns and no interest there either.
Must just be you so "
Yep your not the first to tell me that on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I actually feel sorry for folks trying to meet people for dating these days. The apps mean everyone is always treading water while looking to see what else (or what better) is around. I think it makes real relationships harder to progress.
...but if your looking for a fuck then that's probably easier here. You just need to bring some game. I personally find that easier here than in real life.
Better yet, find someone on a sex site and have a relationship with them "
Now THATS the ULTIMATE !!! .. Nothin' compares or beats that ..pure 100% BLISS !!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Where do u find it easier to pull?"
Personally l find online as I'm stone useless at trying to chat up ladies in the real world but when online l can relax and be the guy l know l am ..in the real world l just fucking freeze ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I were single now,it wouldn't even occur to me to look anywhere but online, where I live isn't exactly brimming over with choice.
Online IS real life now, we are all people at the end of the day. For those who are shy,it can be much easier to approach and build a rapport with someone in that way, assuming you are going to be able to bite the bullet and turn up for real when it comes to it, can't hide behind a screen forever |
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Fab has worked pretty well for me so far, especially finding someone interested in SM play and sex.
Not looking just for casual sex with as many people as I can find, has made my Fab journey easier and leaves very few profiles that I would message and try to get in touch with. It cuts a lot on wasted time for myself and for the women I get in contact with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Online ....I don't go out often enough socially in the real world ...
As someone else said above its difficult as finding someone "better" is always only a click away now
Click and have sex ... what a world we live in "
please tell us where to click . Lol
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Online. I don't do too badly there but in real life I've never been the guy who walks into a bar and all the girls' heads turn."
I don't think many of us fall into the head-turner bracket, let's be realistic |
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"Online. I don't do too badly there but in real life I've never been the guy who walks into a bar and all the girls' heads turn.
I don't think many of us fall into the head-turner bracket, let's be realistic"
There's a couple of pics on your profile that do... |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Online. I don't do too badly there but in real life I've never been the guy who walks into a bar and all the girls' heads turn.
I don't think many of us fall into the head-turner bracket, let's be realistic
There's a couple of pics on your profile that do... "
I doubt that casey goes out in lingerie only. But yes it would certainly turn heads. |
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"Online. I don't do too badly there but in real life I've never been the guy who walks into a bar and all the girls' heads turn.
I don't think many of us fall into the head-turner bracket, let's be realistic
There's a couple of pics on your profile that do...
I doubt that casey goes out in lingerie only. But yes it would certainly turn heads. "
Most ladies I see out and about appear to me to be only wearing lingerie.
Oh yes, I'm a creep alright. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Online ....I don't go out often enough socially in the real world ...
As someone else said above its difficult as finding someone "better" is always only a click away now
Click and have sex ... what a world we live in please tell us where to click . Lol
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Depends on the size of your wallet, I know a place hahaha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Online for me ..it's the way of Rural living and I don't go out that much and when i do sometimes find real life challenging with the "is she flirting or what..?.lol!
Done all the real life social dating/relationships when younger but looking for NSA/FWB now.
But door ajar to a "one night stand gone wrong"
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By (user no longer on site)
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" I can never actually tell if a lady is flirting with me or not, and I never wanna be "that guy" who mistakes someone being polite or friendly with someone being flirtatious."
I can relate to this. I can't tell if a woman is interested in me.
Thought I could when I was younger but maybe I was wrong. But now not a chance.
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