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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Literally anywhere but here... Top photo every week in Ireland is always a dude... Lol standard of women on here is awful "
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We all know there is beautiful women here. That's not what he is asking about.
Tbh OP outside of the gym I'm not sure there is a specific place for meeting muscular women. If you are a part of that lifestyle I'd imagine it would be a lot easier, right?
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over a year ago
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"Literally anywhere but here... Top photo every week in Ireland is always a dude... Lol standard of women on here is awful "
Oh I know I have to put a brown bag over my head for meets as I am so hideous looking  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We all know there is beautiful women here. That's not what he is asking about.
Tbh OP outside of the gym I'm not sure there is a specific place for meeting muscular women. If you are a part of that lifestyle I'd imagine it would be a lot easier, right?
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But fit/muscular what's considered fit? I can't to safe my life but can deadlift 70kg squat 50kg. So am I fit or strong?
Like most labels hard to pinpoint or describe sufficiently.
Why not ask where are the women who go to the gym or run marathons? Or do crossfit
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"We all know there is beautiful women here. That's not what he is asking about.
Tbh OP outside of the gym I'm not sure there is a specific place for meeting muscular women. If you are a part of that lifestyle I'd imagine it would be a lot easier, right?
But fit/muscular what's considered fit? I can't to safe my life but can deadlift 70kg squat 50kg. So am I fit or strong?
Like most labels hard to pinpoint or describe sufficiently.
Why not ask where are the women who go to the gym or run marathons? Or do crossfit
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Sounds to me like he is looking for a muscular aesthetic rather than someone who just works out to maintain health and fitness. More emphasis on muscles which is not a physique I've seen here often or at all really.
It's not an attack and it doesn't mean women on fab are less attractive. No need for anyone to take it like that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We all know there is beautiful women here. That's not what he is asking about.
Tbh OP outside of the gym I'm not sure there is a specific place for meeting muscular women. If you are a part of that lifestyle I'd imagine it would be a lot easier, right?
But fit/muscular what's considered fit? I can't to safe my life but can deadlift 70kg squat 50kg. So am I fit or strong?
Like most labels hard to pinpoint or describe sufficiently.
Why not ask where are the women who go to the gym or run marathons? Or do crossfit
Sounds to me like he is looking for a muscular aesthetic rather than someone who just works out to maintain health and fitness. More emphasis on muscles which is not a physique I've seen here often or at all really.
It's not an attack and it doesn't mean women on fab are less attractive. No need for anyone to take it like that. "
I didn't take it like that. |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"Literally anywhere but here... Top photo every week in Ireland is always a dude... Lol standard of women on here is awful "
Im sure the women who verified you are happy to read that and the ones who you want to meet are blocking you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A couple of the bodybuilding associations have Facebook pages you could join.
As someone said above getting into the scene is the best way to meet women that are into it, don't think its a big enough community here to have a dedicated dating/hook up site |
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"Literally anywhere but here... Top photo every week in Ireland is always a dude... Lol standard of women on here is awful "
I must have been half asleep that I didn't notice this lol your quite the character ain't ya who exactly in your opinion is not upto standard and what is the standard here didn't think there was any or have I missed something  |
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"Literally anywhere but here... Top photo every week in Ireland is always a dude... Lol standard of women on here is awful "
I'm sure some of the women think the same about the caliber of certain men  .
Personally the women on Fab are a hell of a lot better because, you can actually have a laugh with them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We all know there is beautiful women here. That's not what he is asking about.
Tbh OP outside of the gym I'm not sure there is a specific place for meeting muscular women. If you are a part of that lifestyle I'd imagine it would be a lot easier, right?
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Thank you for actually getting what I was asking. I know there are plenty of hot beautiful women on here. But you are correct. I am currently trying to meet a toned or muscular woman atm. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We all know there is beautiful women here. That's not what he is asking about.
Tbh OP outside of the gym I'm not sure there is a specific place for meeting muscular women. If you are a part of that lifestyle I'd imagine it would be a lot easier, right?
But fit/muscular what's considered fit? I can't to safe my life but can deadlift 70kg squat 50kg. So am I fit or strong?
Like most labels hard to pinpoint or describe sufficiently.
Why not ask where are the women who go to the gym or run marathons? Or do crossfit
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As someone else mentioned it muscular. Not gym to stay fit. Toned. 6 pk. Biceps. Etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Of a site etc where a guy can meet fit/muscular women?"
Building Sites would be your best bet I'm thinking. The site at St James hospital would be a good central place to start looking. More and more women are getting into construction these days, youd put on muscle middlin quick pouring and leveling all that concrete. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Literally anywhere but here... Top photo every week in Ireland is always a dude... Lol standard of women on here is awful "
I’m gonna assume those verifications are from two super models...
As for OP, try tinder. Half the girls there do CrossFit |
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Yeah man, all those fucking fat chicks everywhere on here!! Where are all the Instagram models.. oh yeah they are in the toilet purging their lunch. How dare this site be a representation of the general population. There should be a no fatties rule. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Of a site etc where a guy can meet fit/muscular women?"
I'm going to apologize because people have lost the ability to read due to lockdown
He would like to meet ladies with muscles not skinny not slim ie bodybuilding types good luck with your search op  |
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"Of a site etc where a guy can meet fit/muscular women?I'm going to apologize because people have lost the ability to read due to lockdown
He would like to meet ladies with muscles not skinny not slim ie bodybuilding types good luck with your search op "
Oh dont apologise on my behalf. I meant every word. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Of a site etc where a guy can meet fit/muscular women?I'm going to apologize because people have lost the ability to read due to lockdown
He would like to meet ladies with muscles not skinny not slim ie bodybuilding types good luck with your search op
Oh dont apologise on my behalf. I meant every word."
oh sorry op seemingly you can't have a type either just take what your given |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Seriously, sometimes I think people pick apart a post or come onto this site just to be offended. I see it as attention seeking tbh.
It was very obvious the OP was looking for aesthetically pleasing women in terms of body shape. Stop always assuming the worst of people.
OP a few people said good things above but I would still have a look here. A search of females 18 to 27 on here with pics and verified shows up a lot of women in great shape.
Younger people tend to be in better shape on here so you can't really go wrong if you're looking for someone your own age.
Anywhere you go you'll have to look through profiles so I'd say just use the search function here, I use it myself.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah man, all those fucking fat chicks everywhere on here!! Where are all the Instagram models.. oh yeah they are in the toilet purging their lunch. How dare this site be a representation of the general population. There should be a no fatties rule. "
Ya let's stand up for people who are different body types by saying one type all have eating disorders.....awesome |
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"Seriously, sometimes I think people pick apart a post or come onto this site just to be offended. I see it as attention seeking tbh.
It was very obvious the OP was looking for aesthetically pleasing women in terms of body shape. Stop always assuming the worst of people.
OP a few people said good things above but I would still have a look here. A search of females 18 to 27 on here with pics and verified shows up a lot of women in great shape.
Younger people tend to be in better shape on here so you can't really go wrong if you're looking for someone your own age.
Anywhere you go you'll have to look through profiles so I'd say just use the search function here, I use it myself. "
He was looking for "aesthetically pleasing" looking bodies only.. ahh not the fat ones then. |
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"Yeah man, all those fucking fat chicks everywhere on here!! Where are all the Instagram models.. oh yeah they are in the toilet purging their lunch. How dare this site be a representation of the general population. There should be a no fatties rule.
Ya let's stand up for people who are different body types by saying one type all have eating disorders.....awesome "
The point I was making was that body types that are sometimes seen as fit and healthy to the Instagram generation are often not what they seem and unhealthy and destructive habits are behind them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah man, all those fucking fat chicks everywhere on here!! Where are all the Instagram models.. oh yeah they are in the toilet purging their lunch. How dare this site be a representation of the general population. There should be a no fatties rule.
Ya let's stand up for people who are different body types by saying one type all have eating disorders.....awesome
The point I was making was that body types that are sometimes seen as fit and healthy to the Instagram generation are often not what they seem and unhealthy and destructive habits are behind them."
Ya but shaming one body type to promote more acceptance of another is a really bad way to do it.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seriously, sometimes I think people pick apart a post or come onto this site just to be offended. I see it as attention seeking tbh.
It was very obvious the OP was looking for aesthetically pleasing women in terms of body shape. Stop always assuming the worst of people.
OP a few people said good things above but I would still have a look here. A search of females 18 to 27 on here with pics and verified shows up a lot of women in great shape.
Younger people tend to be in better shape on here so you can't really go wrong if you're looking for someone your own age.
Anywhere you go you'll have to look through profiles so I'd say just use the search function here, I use it myself.
He was looking for "aesthetically pleasing" looking bodies only.. ahh not the fat ones then."
No not the fat ones. Should I be forced to accept someone I'm not attracted to? Why are you not with a 60 year old anorexic? Agist? Hate anorexic people?
Truth is, if the OP looked for curvy women you wouldn't bat an eye lid. It just shows the type of unreasonable person you are, forcing people to behave in a way that only you believe is appropriate. You have obviously felt some sort of insecurity or lack the necessary attention to keep you balanced. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe discuss the unhealthy and destructive habits of overweight people too if you want to sound fair.
However, the OP wasnt looking for a lecture. Your hijack worked, well done. |
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"Seriously, sometimes I think people pick apart a post or come onto this site just to be offended. I see it as attention seeking tbh.
It was very obvious the OP was looking for aesthetically pleasing women in terms of body shape. Stop always assuming the worst of people.
OP a few people said good things above but I would still have a look here. A search of females 18 to 27 on here with pics and verified shows up a lot of women in great shape.
Younger people tend to be in better shape on here so you can't really go wrong if you're looking for someone your own age.
Anywhere you go you'll have to look through profiles so I'd say just use the search function here, I use it myself.
He was looking for "aesthetically pleasing" looking bodies only.. ahh not the fat ones then.
No not the fat ones. Should I be forced to accept someone I'm not attracted to? Why are you not with a 60 year old anorexic? Agist? Hate anorexic people?
Truth is, if the OP looked for curvy women you wouldn't bat an eye lid. It just shows the type of unreasonable person you are, forcing people to behave in a way that only you believe is appropriate. You have obviously felt some sort of insecurity or lack the necessary attention to keep you balanced."
The reason I picked you up is that you said that there is a particular body type that is aesthetically pleasing. That's not correct. There are many different body types that are aesthetically pleasing. Not just 1 type. You seemingly spoke as the arbiter of what is aesthetically attractive. That's why I responded. |
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"Maybe discuss the unhealthy and destructive habits of overweight people too if you want to sound fair.
However, the OP wasnt looking for a lecture. Your hijack worked, well done."
I dont give a rats ass if you think I was trying to hijack. I could see where the thread was going with the poor quality of women here being brought up so I interjected. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You have a chip on your shoulder with anything I say tbh.
Sometimes I'm well aware you and others are watching so I'll purposely word it in a way knowing you cant control yourselves and will try take a dig at me personally.
Here was not one of those times. I am blunt and honest in general but if you wanted to make a reasonable point you could have made it without sounding so ridiculous. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Strange one. OP never actually mentioned attractiveness once. He asked about muscular people on Fab. It's the white knights coming to rescue who are the ones who actually thought fit/muscular = attractive, and so insinuated that OP was insulting women here. |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"Strange one. OP never actually mentioned attractiveness once. He asked about muscular people on Fab. It's the white knights coming to rescue who are the ones who actually thought fit/muscular = attractive, and so insinuated that OP was insulting women here. "
Body shaming
Fat shaming
When really it was preference shaming |
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"You have a chip on your shoulder with anything I say tbh.
Sometimes I'm well aware you and others are watching so I'll purposely word it in a way knowing you cant control yourselves and will try take a dig at me personally.
Here was not one of those times. I am blunt and honest in general but if you wanted to make a reasonable point you could have made it without sounding so ridiculous. "
I have no idea who you are. If I picked you up on something before then that's probably because you said something else I disagreed with. It's not personal. I rarely pay much attention to who is posting with a few notable exceptions. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You have a chip on your shoulder with anything I say tbh.
Sometimes I'm well aware you and others are watching so I'll purposely word it in a way knowing you cant control yourselves and will try take a dig at me personally.
Here was not one of those times. I am blunt and honest in general but if you wanted to make a reasonable point you could have made it without sounding so ridiculous.
I have no idea who you are. If I picked you up on something before then that's probably because you said something else I disagreed with. It's not personal. I rarely pay much attention to who is posting with a few notable exceptions. "
Practically every comment but whatever. You made a mess of your point anyway, your attitude overshadowed it completely. |
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"Strange one. OP never actually mentioned attractiveness once. He asked about muscular people on Fab. It's the white knights coming to rescue who are the ones who actually thought fit/muscular = attractive, and so insinuated that OP was insulting women here. "
most of it is not directed at the OP to be fair, but to the first response on this thread. |
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To be fair to OP. Most of my comments here are aimed at sabfwinger who posted the offensive stuff in response to OP. He took the thread in the unpleasant direction. There is nothing wrong with preferences. There is a lot wrong with labelling what is aesthetically pleasing or saying that the women here are of a poor standard. |
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"Strange one. OP never actually mentioned attractiveness once. He asked about muscular people on Fab. It's the white knights coming to rescue who are the ones who actually thought fit/muscular = attractive, and so insinuated that OP was insulting women here.
most of it is not directed at the OP to be fair, but to the first response on this thread. "
Exactly |
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By *orguyMan
over a year ago
Tuam |
"Strange one. OP never actually mentioned attractiveness once. He asked about muscular people on Fab. It's the white knights coming to rescue who are the ones who actually thought fit/muscular = attractive, and so insinuated that OP was insulting women here.
Body shaming
Fat shaming
When really it was preference shaming "
Is there a difference between Tayto and King crisps??
Or is a crisp a crisp??
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"Strange one. OP never actually mentioned attractiveness once. He asked about muscular people on Fab. It's the white knights coming to rescue who are the ones who actually thought fit/muscular = attractive, and so insinuated that OP was insulting women here.
Body shaming
Fat shaming
When really it was preference shaming
Is there a difference between Tayto and King crisps??
Or is a crisp a crisp??
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King use more onion salt.  |
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"Of a site etc where a guy can meet fit/muscular women?"
Sorry I fucked up your thread.
As far as I know there are no swingers sites specifically catering for particular body types here in Ireland. Fab is more or less all we have. From the sound of it you found people here before to meet as you mention it on your profile. Put yourself out there for socials and wait it out... either that or hang around the gym |
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"You have a chip on your shoulder with anything I say tbh.
Sometimes I'm well aware you and others are watching so I'll purposely word it in a way knowing you cant control yourselves and will try take a dig at me personally.
Here was not one of those times. I am blunt and honest in general but if you wanted to make a reasonable point you could have made it without sounding so ridiculous.
I have no idea who you are. If I picked you up on something before then that's probably because you said something else I disagreed with. It's not personal. I rarely pay much attention to who is posting with a few notable exceptions.
Practically every comment but whatever. You made a mess of your point anyway, your attitude overshadowed it completely. "
Lol you're the boss of posting style AND of what is aesthetically pleasing. You da man. |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"Strange one. OP never actually mentioned attractiveness once. He asked about muscular people on Fab. It's the white knights coming to rescue who are the ones who actually thought fit/muscular = attractive, and so insinuated that OP was insulting women here.
Body shaming
Fat shaming
When really it was preference shaming
Is there a difference between Tayto and King crisps??
Or is a crisp a crisp??
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Tayto og itchy plof tera neesy or is that britvic |
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By *orguyMan
over a year ago
Tuam |
"Strange one. OP never actually mentioned attractiveness once. He asked about muscular people on Fab. It's the white knights coming to rescue who are the ones who actually thought fit/muscular = attractive, and so insinuated that OP was insulting women here.
Body shaming
Fat shaming
When really it was preference shaming
Is there a difference between Tayto and King crisps??
Or is a crisp a crisp??
Tayto og itchy plof tera neesy or is that britvic "
That's Tayto 55 |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
"Strange one. OP never actually mentioned attractiveness once. He asked about muscular people on Fab. It's the white knights coming to rescue who are the ones who actually thought fit/muscular = attractive, and so insinuated that OP was insulting women here. "
I don't think anyone was attacking the op on here or white Knighting. Most comments have been directed to one of the first comments on the thread. The op didn't say anything wrong or insulting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Strange one. OP never actually mentioned attractiveness once. He asked about muscular people on Fab. It's the white knights coming to rescue who are the ones who actually thought fit/muscular = attractive, and so insinuated that OP was insulting women here.
most of it is not directed at the OP to be fair, but to the first response on this thread.
Exactly"
I call bs. Purposely not quoting the OP, allowing arguments to build and when enough people go against you, pull out and pretend that's not what you meant.
Fact is, the first response to your post referred to the OP and what he was looking for and your response was "...I meant every word."
You made it clear the OP was your issue to anyone reading it.
You only changed your mind when someone gave you a way out. So transparent. |
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"Strange one. OP never actually mentioned attractiveness once. He asked about muscular people on Fab. It's the white knights coming to rescue who are the ones who actually thought fit/muscular = attractive, and so insinuated that OP was insulting women here.
most of it is not directed at the OP to be fair, but to the first response on this thread.
Exactly
I call bs. Purposely not quoting the OP, allowing arguments to build and when enough people go against you, pull out and pretend that's not what you meant.
Fact is, the first response to your post referred to the OP and what he was looking for and your response was "...I meant every word."
You made it clear the OP was your issue to anyone reading it.
You only changed your mind when someone gave you a way out. So transparent. "
Lol grand you carry on incorrectly believing whatever you like. |
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"If you want to meet a fit girl, you have to be fit yourself. And I could see on your profile dad bod. I am not sure.
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Not necessarily, case in point: I'm not gym fit, but only because I know I dont need to put in any extra effort. When you have a jawline that was chiseled by the gods themselves, you can pretty much attract any lady you chose. |
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"If you want to meet a fit girl, you have to be fit yourself. And I could see on your profile dad bod. I am not sure.
Not necessarily, case in point: I'm not gym fit, but only because I know I dont need to put in any extra effort. When you have a jawline that was chiseled by the gods themselves, you can pretty much attract any lady you chose. "
I am only saying from my experience.
I know few woman competing in bodybuilding powerlifting and weightlifting in Ireland and UK and no for them your body is very important. Even with your Apollos face. But what is fit for you, doesn't mean it is fit for me. Having six pack when you weight 12 stone is not a problem at all. |
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