Most of them start out full of good intentions but very soon a clash of personality or someone new added who doesn't fit in straight away causes them to go off the rails.
Very few group chats last long because there will always be someone looking to dominate the conversation or jealousy kicks in almost as soon as the flirting does.
You may be extremely lucky and find one that has a good mix of people who just enjoy the craic and the cake and are relaxed enough to sustain.
It's impossible to maintain a group that is only interested in pic sharing or tales of their latest conquest.  |
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Can be fun and I've got to know some lovely people.
I did see one end in absolute carnage though and showed a really nasty side to some people you would otherwise think were nice folk  |
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Meh, not for me, haven't got the time to spend following every comment and they almost inevitably descend into gossip, which is presumably the appeal for some, I'll pass.
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I've been in a few, the ones set up for socials or MnG are good as gives you a chance to chat to other people going. They usually stop after the event.
Been in one or two which ended up in Carnage and it was like a competition on what pic the women could show next.
Thankfully in two now which have nice wee group that pop in and out and chat. No competition no bitchiness etc |
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"Most of them start out full of good intentions but very soon a clash of personality or someone new added who doesn't fit in straight away causes them to go off the rails.
Very few group chats last long because there will always be someone looking to dominate the conversation or jealousy kicks in almost as soon as the flirting does.
You may be extremely lucky and find one that has a good mix of people who just enjoy the craic and the cake and are relaxed enough to sustain.
It's impossible to maintain a group that is only interested in pic sharing or tales of their latest conquest. "
I am in a great Kik group for nearly a year. There's never being one bad word or argument in it. It's a great mix of sexy sound singles. Looking forward to to our next social when this is all over. I think it works as everyone had being recommended by another Fabber. |
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"Most of them start out full of good intentions but very soon a clash of personality or someone new added who doesn't fit in straight away causes them to go off the rails.
Very few group chats last long because there will always be someone looking to dominate the conversation or jealousy kicks in almost as soon as the flirting does.
You may be extremely lucky and find one that has a good mix of people who just enjoy the craic and the cake and are relaxed enough to sustain.
It's impossible to maintain a group that is only interested in pic sharing or tales of their latest conquest.
I am in a great Kik group for nearly a year. There's never being one bad word or argument in it. It's a great mix of sexy sound singles. Looking forward to to our next social when this is all over. I think it works as everyone had being recommended by another Fabber. "
Think that what helps to recommendations. Was a great wee group when was in it. |
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"Kaizer abhors them! 
Monotonous repetition 
Bit like fab at Moment 
Except life doesn't throw up unsolicited pictures
You be surprised lol"
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over a year ago
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I joined a few over the yrs on here looking for a bit of light chat and banter i never last long unfortunately....Ive seen people trying to be the centre of attention with constant chat and picture posting causing arguments and jealous streaks....I've seen people saying nasty horrible things about others then in the same breath come on here and be the best of friends  |
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I’ve been in a few and it’s generally the smaller groups that tend to work
When they get too big there’s generally one or two people who control it and they pick and chose the type of people they want in it rather than what works for the group
When they work, they work really well
When they don’t work, they’re a waste of time
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Definitely prefer small groups of people who are self aware.
In a general sense, what I've found here is that there are fingers pointing in all directions with something to say about everyone else. Those very people see nothing wrong with themselves and try to claim ownership as one of the "good ones".
But if you spend your time complaining about everyone else being bad, of course the false perception is that you're the "good" one.
Fortunately, astute people who see past the veil of others will be highlighted in these forums and so you will automatically be drawn to the those of authenticity. |
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"I joined a few over the yrs on here looking for a bit of light chat and banter i never last long unfortunately....Ive seen people trying to be the centre of attention with constant chat and picture posting causing arguments and jealous streaks....I've seen people saying nasty horrible
things about others then in the same breath come on here and be the best of friends "
Cant say I've run into this but have made some lovely friends from group chats |
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