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Hey folk,
Hope you're all keeping well.
Learned today of another seemingly senseless suicide (but then you never really know what's going through a person's head or what they're going through).
It got me to thinking, mental health can be a very difficult thing for some people at the best of times.
With this Covid-19 situation and isolation it is surely making dark moods even worse for some of you.
If any of you, at any time at all, need to vent or unload please feel free to pm me at any time day or night.
We're all in this together. None of you are truly alone or need to be.
Enjoy your weekend folks. |
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"Hey folk,
Hope you're all keeping well.
Learned today of another seemingly senseless suicide (but then you never really know what's going through a person's head or what they're going through).
It got me to thinking, mental health can be a very difficult thing for some people at the best of times.
With this Covid-19 situation and isolation it is surely making dark moods even worse for some of you.
If any of you, at any time at all, need to vent or unload please feel free to pm me at any time day or night.
We're all in this together. None of you are truly alone or need to be.
Enjoy your weekend folks."
Fair play lad  |
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"Hey folk,
Hope you're all keeping well.
Learned today of another seemingly senseless suicide (but then you never really know what's going through a person's head or what they're going through).
It got me to thinking, mental health can be a very difficult thing for some people at the best of times.
With this Covid-19 situation and isolation it is surely making dark moods even worse for some of you.
If any of you, at any time at all, need to vent or unload please feel free to pm me at any time day or night.
We're all in this together. None of you are truly alone or need to be.
Enjoy your weekend folks."
very good of you we must say |
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"I am living alone and finding it hard too. Have to work from home so barely getting out for walks. Talk is important x"
After being in some long-term live in relationships with women during my half century on this planet, I'm absolutely loving the freedom peace and tranquility of living alone. I still appreciate female company, but only in small doses.
I do realise not everyone can cope with the prolonged isolation this pandemic has forced us to endure. Unfortunately suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem, and soon this corona virus will just be a bad memory. So I would urge anyone who is struggling with loneliness or depression, to seek out the services of a competent mental health professional. |
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Fairplay Justin to you. I know the feeling of trying to take your own life as I tried to do it couple of years back. What triggered it was finding my now ex wife with another man. Unfortunately I was to ashamed to speak to my family and friends of my situation cause of the embarrassment of it. So things got on top of me more and more and took me to a really dark place which resulted in me doing what I did. Thankfully I'm out the right side of it now. But we are a nation of keeping things to ourselves and that's not the way to work. You need to talk and lean on people. So I'm also on the same page as Justin if anyone wants to talk. |
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"Fairplay Justin to you. I know the feeling of trying to take your own life as I tried to do it couple of years back. What triggered it was finding my now ex wife with another man. Unfortunately I was to ashamed to speak to my family and friends of my situation cause of the embarrassment of it. So things got on top of me more and more and took me to a really dark place which resulted in me doing what I did. Thankfully I'm out the right side of it now. But we are a nation of keeping things to ourselves and that's not the way to work. You need to talk and lean on people. So I'm also on the same page as Justin if anyone wants to talk. "
No woman is worth killing yourself for. Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.
I had my first affair with a married woman when I was fifteen years old, so I learned from an early age that women don't have any agency whatsoever, ie they never take responsibility for their actions, they always blame someone or something else to rationalize their behavior.
I don't hate women, I just understand female nature better than most poor guys.  |
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No woman is worth killing yourself for. Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.
People don't kill themselves for a woman  they do it because of their feelings and desperation that lead to such dark despair where they see no way out only death. You're lucky to have the 'shake it off' mindset, wouldn't say you'd be a great counsellor tho |
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"Fairplay Justin to you. I know the feeling of trying to take your own life as I tried to do it couple of years back. What triggered it was finding my now ex wife with another man. Unfortunately I was to ashamed to speak to my family and friends of my situation cause of the embarrassment of it. So things got on top of me more and more and took me to a really dark place which resulted in me doing what I did. Thankfully I'm out the right side of it now. But we are a nation of keeping things to ourselves and that's not the way to work. You need to talk and lean on people. So I'm also on the same page as Justin if anyone wants to talk. "
Really glad you came through it , you'd be great at helping others as you have first hand experience of how it feels  |
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"No woman is worth killing yourself for. Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.
People don't kill themselves for a woman they do it because of their feelings and desperation that lead to such dark despair where they see no way out only death. You're lucky to have the 'shake it off' mindset, wouldn't say you'd be a great counsellor tho "
But don't worry, no matter what the situation, Juan can find a way to blame it on women, pretty ironic given his last comment. |
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"No woman is worth killing yourself for. Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.
People don't kill themselves for a woman they do it because of their feelings and desperation that lead to such dark despair where they see no way out only death. You're lucky to have the 'shake it off' mindset, wouldn't say you'd be a great counsellor tho
But don't worry, no matter what the situation, Juan can find a way to blame it on women, pretty ironic given his last comment. "
Indeed plus I see he enjoys fèmale company 'in small doses'  |
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"No woman is worth killing yourself for. Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.
People don't kill themselves for a woman they do it because of their feelings and desperation that lead to such dark despair where they see no way out only death. You're lucky to have the 'shake it off' mindset, wouldn't say you'd be a great counsellor tho
But don't worry, no matter what the situation, Juan can find a way to blame it on women, pretty ironic given his last comment.
Indeed plus I see he enjoys fèmale company 'in small doses' "
Now come on ladies......he knows how our minds work aswell  |
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Thanks for offering a listening ear, Justin. I'm on day 33? Of quarantine, and whole in usually in great form, I had a great phone chat with a like minded friend, and we had a good old rant about our lives, and frustrations. It made all the difference, and I feel lighter. Its always good to talk, good to listen, good to share the feelings. On this site, people are more free to talk about their sexual frustrations than even with many therapists. We're all in it together. |
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"I think we should just ignore him ladies and not derail the thread......there are men and women that are both struggling and as the op said if they need to talk then talk away
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Yes. You and I both know how dificult it is to get an appointment with mental health specialists....so it is often necessary to depend on family, friends and strangers for chat...competent professionals recommend it |
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I didn't try to kill myself over her behaving the way she did. I was doing it cause of the shame and humiliation I felt from it and due to my own stupidity I tried to deal with it myself and shut everyone out. It was nearly a very costly mistake on my behalf. I nearly left my parents without a son, my sister without a brother, my niece and nephew without an uncle and most importantly my 2 boys without a father. All because I didn't ask for help |
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"I didn't try to kill myself over her behaving the way she did. I was doing it cause of the shame and humiliation I felt from it and due to my own stupidity I tried to deal with it myself and shut everyone out. It was nearly a very costly mistake on my behalf. I nearly left my parents without a son, my sister without a brother, my niece and nephew without an uncle and most importantly my 2 boys without a father. All because I didn't ask for help"
Thankfully you're alive and telling your story rather than not be alive and someone else speculating why it happend good for you xx |
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"Thanks for offering a listening ear, Justin. I'm on day 33? Of quarantine, and whole in usually in great form, I had a great phone chat with a like minded friend, and we had a good old rant about our lives, and frustrations. It made all the difference, and I feel lighter. Its always good to talk, good to listen, good to share the feelings. On this site, people are more free to talk about their sexual frustrations than even with many therapists. We're all in it together. "
Or what's very good is get a diary start one off if you don't already have one. I wrote a few pages yesterday, some really deep stuff came up for me. I got it out on paper and i am not the best at writing but boy did it give me some relief. And also it's a fabulous reflection for the future. |
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