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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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After five months, on here to no avail. I have failed. to try meet and a female in my area (Glasgow)
Such a shame trying to prove myself that I'm Genuine in what my profile state's
Is there any point any more
I work shifts |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh no....not another "poor me" post?! 
This wont make the girls flock to ya buddy!  I OK reported for your post"
But he's right. Take it from me, your post won't do anything for you. You need to be positive at all times. On your profile, with your messages, and definitely on here. Whiney posts will only get you derision, and fems will avoid you like the plague. That's how it works on here. |
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Most guys on here are genuine decent blokes. That should be the baseline, not your main selling point.
If a woman gets 40 messages a day from decent genuine blokes, why would she choose you? That's the question you need to ask yourself - are you selling yourself well? You need to make a sales pitch as the market is flooded with decent genuine guys, so you need to stand out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not into clubs as they over charged
As for being here for a near five months with out no response. I'm in Glasgow its harder to meet"
If clubs get you your first verification and open the door, surely it’s worth it. Being in a city shouldn’t make it harder at all. Try living in a village. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm not into clubs as they over charged
As for being here for a near five months with out no response. I'm in Glasgow its harder to meet
If clubs get you your first verification and open the door, surely it’s worth it. Being in a city shouldn’t make it harder at all. Try living in a village. "
guys thank for the comments bit for me clubs is a no go or socials, I only want one v one
An it's tough for us singles toppers to get on this. Site please remnber mum from Glasgow an it's hard as |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All going to say is keep slugging on, but most swingers have more in their arsenal than this site. This is just one tool to be used. Being social and meeting is so so important in this world. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"All going to say is keep slugging on, but most swingers have more in their arsenal than this site. This is just one tool to be used. Being social and meeting is so so important in this world. "
that I do no. As waa n old member n. Got lucky on a few bit now I've nout
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being negative is not attractive and moany statuses only make the majority of us ladies block
Go to local organised social’s,
you might have to resort to a club, its great and fun atmosphere if you get a good club |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Being negative is not attractive and moany statuses only make the majority of us ladies block
Go to local organised social’s,
you might have to resort to a club, its great and fun atmosphere if you get a good club"
My only winge is about age restrictions lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Being negative is not attractive and moany statuses only make the majority of us ladies block
Go to local organised social’s,
you might have to resort to a club, its great and fun atmosphere if you get a good club"
going to a club it's not fir me as they over charge single males. |
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"Being negative is not attractive and moany statuses only make the majority of us ladies block
Go to local organised social’s,
you might have to resort to a club, its great and fun atmosphere if you get a good clubgoing to a club it's not fir me as they over charge single males. "
Its good to have principles but there is always a price for having them.
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"After five months, on here to no avail. I have failed. to try meet and a female in my area (Glasgow)
Such a shame trying to prove myself that I'm Genuine in what my profile state's
Is there any point any more
I work shifts "
From your profile it isn't clear what you're offering, it appears to be all about what you want. |
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"After five months, on here to no avail. I have failed. to try meet and a female in my area (Glasgow)
Such a shame trying to prove myself that I'm Genuine in what my profile state's
Is there any point any more
I work shifts
From your profile it isn't clear what you're offering, it appears to be all about what you want."
I was actually going to say the opposite... he says virtually nothing about what he wants. Only a “fun female”. Presumably with a pulse.
Aside from that it’s just factual neutral stuff.
No pics (makes me wonder if he really has no baggage, as claimed). No veris (despite having been verified). No effort (massive typo in title of the profile suggests he’s never actually read his own profile...).
And then saying he’s reported someone for a “oh no... another ‘poor me’ post”.
Seems to think he’s entitled to a woman by putting a profile up. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"After five months, on here to no avail. I have failed. to try meet and a female in my area (Glasgow)
Such a shame trying to prove myself that I'm Genuine in what my profile state's
Is there any point any more
I work shifts
From your profile it isn't clear what you're offering, it appears to be all about what you want.
I was actually going to say the opposite... he says virtually nothing about what he wants. Only a “fun female”. Presumably with a pulse.
Aside from that it’s just factual neutral stuff.
No pics (makes me wonder if he really has no baggage, as claimed). No veris (despite having been verified). No effort (massive typo in title of the profile suggests he’s never actually read his own profile...).
And then saying he’s reported someone for a “oh no... another ‘poor me’ post”.
Seems to think he’s entitled to a woman by putting a profile up. "
read the profile again as it cleary shows in what I want. I never eve. Ask for any help in the profile |
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By *lan157Man
over a year ago
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OP for many people spelling and grammar are important . It helps people understand your profile and react favourably. Perhaps you could read what others have said above and correct the misspelling of "know" as a starting point. Secondly whilst clubs are expensive for single men organised socials are not. They are often held in pubs for a small contribution. You will be able to chat to other swingers at a social which might be impossible in a club . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP for many people spelling and grammar are important . It helps people understand your profile and react favourably. Perhaps you could read what others have said above and correct the misspelling of "know" as a starting point. Secondly whilst clubs are expensive for single men organised socials are not. They are often held in pubs for a small contribution. You will be able to chat to other swingers at a social which might be impossible in a club . "
why comment on my post seriously  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh no....not another "poor me" post?!
This wont make the girls flock to ya buddy! I OK reported for your post"
Reported him for what?
"I OK reported for your post" don't you mean I reported your post?
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"After five months, on here to no avail. I have failed. to try meet and a female in my area (Glasgow)
Such a shame trying to prove myself that I'm Genuine in what my profile state's
Is there any point any more
I work shifts
From your profile it isn't clear what you're offering, it appears to be all about what you want.
I was actually going to say the opposite... he says virtually nothing about what he wants. Only a “fun female”. Presumably with a pulse.
Aside from that it’s just factual neutral stuff.
No pics (makes me wonder if he really has no baggage, as claimed). No veris (despite having been verified). No effort (massive typo in title of the profile suggests he’s never actually read his own profile...).
And then saying he’s reported someone for a “oh no... another ‘poor me’ post”.
Seems to think he’s entitled to a woman by putting a profile up. read the profile again as it cleary shows in what I want. I never eve. Ask for any help in the profile "
Read your own profile.... it says:
“I'm looking for one women only. To have some adult fun. I join this site to achieve my goal. I hope to find it on here. I'm looking for company on lonely days or nights”
There is nothing at all there to help any woman work out if she is going to float your boat or not. It’s all about what you want.
Even your age limit is set as 18-99.
Anyhow.... if you are so convinced the problem is living in Glasgow, and you’ve no baggage... why not move??  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not into clubs as they over charged
As for being here for a near five months with out no response. I'm in Glasgow its harder to meet"
But you have had a meet, so clearly you have had a response.
And it is not harder to meet because you are in Glasgow, I know plenty of guys in Glasgow who have meets. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm not into clubs as they over charged
As for being here for a near five months with out no response. I'm in Glasgow its harder to meet
But you have had a meet, so clearly you have had a response.
And it is not harder to meet because you are in Glasgow, I know plenty of guys in Glasgow who have meets. "
no I did not had a meet as I received a fake one in which the user got reported for. But still active on site |
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OP..... you’re coming across as very defensive and aggressive here.
You don’t seem to want anyone to respond to you. Other than maybe a “fun” woman to realise you’re the guy of her dreams....
What did you actually post for? To get help ot get sympathy?
You’ve had plenty of help.... but - understandably - no sympathy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP for many people spelling and grammar are important . It helps people understand your profile and react favourably. Perhaps you could read what others have said above and correct the misspelling of "know" as a starting point. Secondly whilst clubs are expensive for single men organised socials are not. They are often held in pubs for a small contribution. You will be able to chat to other swingers at a social which might be impossible in a club . why comment on my post seriously "
Because he is trying to help, you know what you asked for |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not into clubs as they over charged
As for being here for a near five months with out no response. I'm in Glasgow its harder to meet
But you have had a meet, so clearly you have had a response.
And it is not harder to meet because you are in Glasgow, I know plenty of guys in Glasgow who have meets. no I did not had a meet as I received a fake one in which the user got reported for. But still active on site "
You received a fake verification? Who would send out a random fake verification?
Now that is utter bollocks.
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"OP for many people spelling and grammar are important . It helps people understand your profile and react favourably. Perhaps you could read what others have said above and correct the misspelling of "know" as a starting point. Secondly whilst clubs are expensive for single men organised socials are not. They are often held in pubs for a small contribution. You will be able to chat to other swingers at a social which might be impossible in a club . why comment on my post seriously
Because he is trying to help, you know what you asked for "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP for many people spelling and grammar are important . It helps people understand your profile and react favourably. Perhaps you could read what others have said above and correct the misspelling of "know" as a starting point. Secondly whilst clubs are expensive for single men organised socials are not. They are often held in pubs for a small contribution. You will be able to chat to other swingers at a social which might be impossible in a club . why comment on my post seriously
Because he is trying to help, you know what you asked for
Exactly!! "
exactly when an were did I ask for your help |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP for many people spelling and grammar are important . It helps people understand your profile and react favourably. Perhaps you could read what others have said above and correct the misspelling of "know" as a starting point. Secondly whilst clubs are expensive for single men organised socials are not. They are often held in pubs for a small contribution. You will be able to chat to other swingers at a social which might be impossible in a club . why comment on my post seriously
Because he is trying to help, you know what you asked for
Exactly!! exactly when an were did I ask for your help "
Then why whinge about stuff saying that you have failed if you didn't want any help?
Or did you just write it to get attention? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP for many people spelling and grammar are important . It helps people understand your profile and react favourably. Perhaps you could read what others have said above and correct the misspelling of "know" as a starting point. Secondly whilst clubs are expensive for single men organised socials are not. They are often held in pubs for a small contribution. You will be able to chat to other swingers at a social which might be impossible in a club . why comment on my post seriously
Because he is trying to help, you know what you asked for
Exactly!! exactly when an were did I ask for your help
Then why whinge about stuff saying that you have failed if you didn't want any help?
Or did you just write it to get attention? "
why even post an you moan About it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP for many people spelling and grammar are important . It helps people understand your profile and react favourably. Perhaps you could read what others have said above and correct the misspelling of "know" as a starting point. Secondly whilst clubs are expensive for single men organised socials are not. They are often held in pubs for a small contribution. You will be able to chat to other swingers at a social which might be impossible in a club . why comment on my post seriously
Because he is trying to help, you know what you asked for
Exactly!! exactly when an were did I ask for your help
Then why whinge about stuff saying that you have failed if you didn't want any help?
Or did you just write it to get attention? why even post an you moan About it"
Could ask you the same question |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP for many people spelling and grammar are important . It helps people understand your profile and react favourably. Perhaps you could read what others have said above and correct the misspelling of "know" as a starting point. Secondly whilst clubs are expensive for single men organised socials are not. They are often held in pubs for a small contribution. You will be able to chat to other swingers at a social which might be impossible in a club . why comment on my post seriously
Because he is trying to help, you know what you asked for
Exactly!! exactly when an were did I ask for your help
Then why whinge about stuff saying that you have failed if you didn't want any help?
Or did you just write it to get attention? why even post an you moan About it
Could ask you the same question "
I have ask to remove entire thread
Are you happy  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Jeez..... some poor woman in Glasgow has really missed out on a top fella here...!! He’s a keeper for sure!
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why are you so rude
You have been reported |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP for many people spelling and grammar are important . It helps people understand your profile and react favourably. Perhaps you could read what others have said above and correct the misspelling of "know" as a starting point. Secondly whilst clubs are expensive for single men organised socials are not. They are often held in pubs for a small contribution. You will be able to chat to other swingers at a social which might be impossible in a club . why comment on my post seriously
Because he is trying to help, you know what you asked for
Exactly!! exactly when an were did I ask for your help
Then why whinge about stuff saying that you have failed if you didn't want any help?
Or did you just write it to get attention? why even post an you moan About it
Could ask you the same question I have ask to remove entire thread
Are you happy "
You clearly have issues. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP for many people spelling and grammar are important . It helps people understand your profile and react favourably. Perhaps you could read what others have said above and correct the misspelling of "know" as a starting point. Secondly whilst clubs are expensive for single men organised socials are not. They are often held in pubs for a small contribution. You will be able to chat to other swingers at a social which might be impossible in a club . why comment on my post seriously
Because he is trying to help, you know what you asked for
Exactly!! exactly when an were did I ask for your help
Then why whinge about stuff saying that you have failed if you didn't want any help?
Or did you just write it to get attention? why even post an you moan About it
Could ask you the same question I have ask to remove entire thread
Are you happy
You clearly have issues. "
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"Jeez..... some poor woman in Glasgow has really missed out on a top fella here...!! He’s a keeper for sure!
why are you so rude
You have been reported "
I’d imagine one of us might be leaving Fab soon... but I’m not worried.
I think you’ve shown us, in spades, why you’ve not had a great deal of luck on here. As a bloke of similar age to you, I’ve over 100 published veris. You’ve none. And I’ll tell you now, it’s nothing to do with the difference between Glasgow and Manchester.
Read this thread back and reflect. We’ve tried to help - albeit with a bit of “tough love” humour thrown in. And at every turn you’ve been blunt and aggressive.
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"Jeez..... some poor woman in Glasgow has really missed out on a top fella here...!! He’s a keeper for sure!
why are you so rude
You have been reported
I’d imagine one of us might be leaving Fab soon... but I’m not worried.
I think you’ve shown us, in spades, why you’ve not had a great deal of luck on here. As a bloke of similar age to you, I’ve over 100 published veris. You’ve none. And I’ll tell you now, it’s nothing to do with the difference between Glasgow and Manchester.
Read this thread back and reflect. We’ve tried to help - albeit with a bit of “tough love” humour thrown in. And at every turn you’ve been blunt and aggressive.
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only person I see is being aggressive is you
When I did not ask for your help but you continued to do so
I've ask admin to removed the entire thread
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"Jeez..... some poor woman in Glasgow has really missed out on a top fella here...!! He’s a keeper for sure!
why are you so rude
You have been reported
I’d imagine one of us might be leaving Fab soon... but I’m not worried.
I think you’ve shown us, in spades, why you’ve not had a great deal of luck on here. As a bloke of similar age to you, I’ve over 100 published veris. You’ve none. And I’ll tell you now, it’s nothing to do with the difference between Glasgow and Manchester.
Read this thread back and reflect. We’ve tried to help - albeit with a bit of “tough love” humour thrown in. And at every turn you’ve been blunt and aggressive.
only person I see is being aggressive is you
When I did not ask for your help but you continued to do so
I've ask admin to removed the entire thread
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Was going to message you.... but you block guys. Feel free to message me.
You CAN do better in terms of meeting people. Happy to help you on this if you wanted any help? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Jeez..... some poor woman in Glasgow has really missed out on a top fella here...!! He’s a keeper for sure!
why are you so rude
You have been reported
I’d imagine one of us might be leaving Fab soon... but I’m not worried.
I think you’ve shown us, in spades, why you’ve not had a great deal of luck on here. As a bloke of similar age to you, I’ve over 100 published veris. You’ve none. And I’ll tell you now, it’s nothing to do with the difference between Glasgow and Manchester.
Read this thread back and reflect. We’ve tried to help - albeit with a bit of “tough love” humour thrown in. And at every turn you’ve been blunt and aggressive.
only person I see is being aggressive is you
When I did not ask for your help but you continued to do so
I've ask admin to removed the entire thread
Was going to message you.... but you block guys. Feel free to message me.
You CAN do better in terms of meeting people. Happy to help you on this if you wanted any help? "
I've block them for a reason as I ant interested in them. I never ask for your help as I fine you rude
Hence why I've reported this to admin |
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"Jeez..... some poor woman in Glasgow has really missed out on a top fella here...!! He’s a keeper for sure!
why are you so rude
You have been reported
I’d imagine one of us might be leaving Fab soon... but I’m not worried.
I think you’ve shown us, in spades, why you’ve not had a great deal of luck on here. As a bloke of similar age to you, I’ve over 100 published veris. You’ve none. And I’ll tell you now, it’s nothing to do with the difference between Glasgow and Manchester.
Read this thread back and reflect. We’ve tried to help - albeit with a bit of “tough love” humour thrown in. And at every turn you’ve been blunt and aggressive.
only person I see is being aggressive is you
When I did not ask for your help but you continued to do so
I've ask admin to removed the entire thread
Was going to message you.... but you block guys. Feel free to message me.
You CAN do better in terms of meeting people. Happy to help you on this if you wanted any help? I've block them for a reason as I ant interested in them. I never ask for your help as I fine you rude
Hence why I've reported this to admin "
Your original post (apart from feeling sorry for yourself) asked if it was worth persevering. Our “help” was intended to answer that question.
Otherwise - what did you post for? I can’t see any other reason. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Jeez..... some poor woman in Glasgow has really missed out on a top fella here...!! He’s a keeper for sure!
why are you so rude
You have been reported
I’d imagine one of us might be leaving Fab soon... but I’m not worried.
I think you’ve shown us, in spades, why you’ve not had a great deal of luck on here. As a bloke of similar age to you, I’ve over 100 published veris. You’ve none. And I’ll tell you now, it’s nothing to do with the difference between Glasgow and Manchester.
Read this thread back and reflect. We’ve tried to help - albeit with a bit of “tough love” humour thrown in. And at every turn you’ve been blunt and aggressive.
only person I see is being aggressive is you
When I did not ask for your help but you continued to do so
I've ask admin to removed the entire thread
Was going to message you.... but you block guys. Feel free to message me.
You CAN do better in terms of meeting people. Happy to help you on this if you wanted any help? I've block them for a reason as I ant interested in them. I never ask for your help as I fine you rude
Hence why I've reported this to admin
Your original post (apart from feeling sorry for yourself) asked if it was worth persevering. Our “help” was intended to answer that question.
Otherwise - what did you post for? I can’t see any other reason. "
The reason he put it up is he is a an attention seeker |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Jeez..... some poor woman in Glasgow has really missed out on a top fella here...!! He’s a keeper for sure!
why are you so rude
You have been reported
I’d imagine one of us might be leaving Fab soon... but I’m not worried.
I think you’ve shown us, in spades, why you’ve not had a great deal of luck on here. As a bloke of similar age to you, I’ve over 100 published veris. You’ve none. And I’ll tell you now, it’s nothing to do with the difference between Glasgow and Manchester.
Read this thread back and reflect. We’ve tried to help - albeit with a bit of “tough love” humour thrown in. And at every turn you’ve been blunt and aggressive.
only person I see is being aggressive is you
When I did not ask for your help but you continued to do so
I've ask admin to removed the entire thread
Was going to message you.... but you block guys. Feel free to message me.
You CAN do better in terms of meeting people. Happy to help you on this if you wanted any help? I've block them for a reason as I ant interested in them. I never ask for your help as I fine you rude
Hence why I've reported this to admin
Your original post (apart from feeling sorry for yourself) asked if it was worth persevering. Our “help” was intended to answer that question.
Otherwise - what did you post for? I can’t see any other reason.
The reason he put it up is he is a an attention seeker"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"People are offering help and he’s rude and offensive in it. I’d say the reason he is getting no where is his personality. "
I never ask for any help
An how n why was I offensive
As said before I ask have admin to remove the thread |
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"After five months, on here to no avail. I have failed. to try meet and a female in my area (Glasgow)
Such a shame trying to prove myself that I'm Genuine in what my profile state's
Is there any point any more
I work shifts "
Its difficult time for everyone, i think meetw etc will decrease so just see if you can make friends online for when the current situation gets better |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I been on here for over 8 months and haven't achieved much so don't be hard on yourself. "
ty for the compliment
I appreciate that
Sadly a lot don't understand or read it properly
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most single men wait between 6 months and a year to get their first meet. Sure, there are some who fair better, but also others who are less fortunate.
Single men massively outnumber women and couples - the ratio is anywhere upwards of 100 to 1 - so, of course, women and couples can afford to be much more selective. Your profile is your shop window. Your once and only chance to make a first impression, and what people will look at before even thinking about opening any message you might send them, so you need to be sure that it is the best it can be.
As you haven't asked for profile advice, I am not permitted to give you any, but if you feel that your profile can not possibly be improved then leave it as it is.
You also need to consider that even if you find someone who YOU think you tick all of their boxes, ultimately they will still need to fancy you in order for you to get a meet with them.
I've recently returned to fab after a break, but have been using the site over the past 7 years and only had a handful of meets.
You need to ask yourself what your expectations of the site are |
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