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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I never thought I would ask this ... But .. 4 months in and have good success rate with meets .. lots of socials and some very nice fun meets .. the problem is I don't get messages . The ones I get are all replies ( yes that's great ) what I would like to know Is there anything on my profile as to why I don't get messages .. this is not a gripe .just asking for opinions .

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Generally men don't get first messages here. There are exceptions.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan over a year ago

Aylesbury

We are mostly all in the same boat, however you should count your blessings as you get more than most.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There are probably 20 men to each woman on here. Replies are way better than nothing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is my 2nd time on fab.

I have never sent an initial message .

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By *r_Jake70Man over a year ago

London

Messages winks etc are far more likely to arrive if you engage respectfully in the forums. I usually get a few a week when I do, and very, very few when I don’t.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I couldn't say sorry, sometimes I do ok sometimes it's as dry as a desert but that's how it goes I guess? I've been on Fabguys too and it's more miss on that one for some reason.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Women on fab rarely have the time to go browsing profiles as they're usually too busy dealing with overflowing inboxes.

As most men on here wait between six months and a year to get their first meet, even with putting in huge amounts of effort, I'd say that you're doing extremely well

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have received a few first messages from some lovely women but on the whole I will message first.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS over a year ago

Cheshire

I get the messages when the ladies don't reply

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By *wink loverMan over a year ago

Newcastle

Your text is t particularly clear on what you are looking for. Sex or more?

And no offence but it sounds a bit creepy.

I'd also be thinking "49 and can't accommodate. Why? Married?"

Hope this helps and doesn't sound too arsey.

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