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over a year ago
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My name is Ash, I am a 40 year old single male. I am new to swinging. I have had 3 experiences so far in 7 days with meets arranged for next week as well!!!
Something that has surprised me is the difference between members in the Midlands compared to the South East? I am being totally ignored in Kent but in Birmingham I have had so many people respond even just to say no thanks.
I am seriously thinking about moving up North....
I have no idea why, all I can think of is that I am myself and treat the couples and single females I contact with respect.
Thanks for reading.
I have a question - there was 1 couple and their profile was exactly what I want. They have read my message but not responded - how to follow up without offending or looking like a stalker?
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"Hi
My name is Ash, I am a 40 year old single male. I am new to swinging. I have had 3 experiences so far in 7 days with meets arranged for next week as well!!!
Something that has surprised me is the difference between members in the Midlands compared to the South East? I am being totally ignored in Kent but in Birmingham I have had so many people respond even just to say no thanks.
I am seriously thinking about moving up North....
I have no idea why, all I can think of is that I am myself and treat the couples and single females I contact with respect.
Thanks for reading.
I have a question - there was 1 couple and their profile was exactly what I want. They have read my message but not responded - how to follow up without offending or looking like a stalker?
Don't, if they were interested they would have replied...chance they may have been busy and just glanced, meaning to reply later. if you've not heard back within a couple of days...move on.
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"Hi
My name is Ash, I am a 40 year old single male. I am new to swinging. I have had 3 experiences so far in 7 days with meets arranged for next week as well!!!
Something that has surprised me is the difference between members in the Midlands compared to the South East? I am being totally ignored in Kent but in Birmingham I have had so many people respond even just to say no thanks.
I am seriously thinking about moving up North....
I have no idea why, all I can think of is that I am myself and treat the couples and single females I contact with respect.
Thanks for reading.
I have a question - there was 1 couple and their profile was exactly what I want. They have read my message but not responded - how to follow up without offending or looking like a stalker?
Don't, if they were interested they would have replied...chance they may have been busy and just glanced, meaning to reply later. if you've not heard back within a couple of days...move on.
Because they are what YOU want, doesnt mean are what THEY want!
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"Oooo ego crushed haha!!!"
You still don't know at this point - it's wise to act as if they're not interested, but be pleased if they do, at some later point. It's a bank holiday weekend, and people have plans etc, and some people don't arrange meets really quickly.
Keep your head up, and welcome to Fab. And many of us in the midlands do make an effort - as others do elsewhere too.  |
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Don't send another message, for me that's just plain desperate, if they are interested in you, they will reply; it may be that one has logged on and read your profile but wants to run it by the other half
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