I've read the other posts elsewhere in the forums, and this is partly based on what others have said, and partly my own take on it.
1. Rewrite your profile text
2. Ensure that your profile's clear and well punctuated
3. Include what will really make you stand out from others - sell yourself. It's highly competitive for single men - for every woman, there are 3.2 trillion single male members, just in Manchester.
4. Add a variety of photos - your body is what others will have sex with, so include some, so that we know what physical shape you're in. Don't have hats in all photos showing your face.
5. Check out other single guy's profiles, and critique what you do and don't think is good: then incorporate your ideas into your own.
If people read your messages, whether they respond will be partly based on message content and also on your profile - problems with one or both will deter you getting messages. You need to make it as easy as possible for others to get a grasp on who you are, what you're offering, how you look, what you're wanting sexually, your experience etc.
Remember this is a swinging site, rather than a relationship/dating site, so members will be more fixated on that.
Ultimately, there are going to be more people interested in some people, than there in others - this is just a fact of life, so no one can make anyone be magically interested in another. You're likely to find people who will be interested in you, but how you approach things, how you communicate will influence how successful things are for you.
We can't comment on the quality of your sent messages, unless we read some. Probably everyone getting a message, if it's created an initial interest, will click through to your profile, so that has to be made as great and accurate as possible.
There are social events, swinging clubs and events in Manchester and elsewhere. These also provide an opportunity to meet others, potentially in a friendly way, rather than as potential playmates. If you team up with other guys, then that could also provide an opportunity for MMMF etc action.
Good luck!! |
